Events scheduled for 2009

NJ ARCH: Events Archives - 2009

JANUARY

Date:	January 6, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Domestic Infant Open Adoption Informational Meeting
Speaker(s):
Location:	Katz JCC, 1301 Springdale Road, Cherry Hill, NJ
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Thinking about adoption? We welcome you to attend our free information meetings to learn about our programs and meet the staff! Registration required at least 48 hours prior to all meetings. Call (267) 256-2053 to register or email info@openarmsadoption.net

Date:	January 7, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoption Options
Topic:	Domestic adoption - open infant and waiting child
Speaker(s):	Kerry Murphy
Location:	Lutheran Social ministries of NJ 6 Terri Lane, Suite 300, Burlington , NJ 08016
Contact(s):	Terry Dingle
Email:	tdingle@lsmnj.org
Web Site:	www.lsmnjadoption.org
Notes:	Please RSVP

Date:	January 8, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM - 8:30 PM
Sponsor:	JCCA Ametz Adoption Program
Topic:	Pre Adoption Support Group
Speaker(s):
Location:	JCC of Manhattan, 76th and Amsterdam Ave, New York, NY
Contact(s):	(212) 558-9949
Email:
Web Site:	www.jccany.org/ametz
Notes:	Adopting a child can be a challenging process that feels like an emotional roller coaster. Is there to help future parents navigate the waiting period in a warm and supportive environment with others struggling with similar challenges. The experienced group leader, and adoptive mother herself, really understands both the practical and psychological demands of adoption. Come share experiences and get answers with someone who not only knows that success is absolutely attainable, but can provide the guidance and support to make the wait easier.

Date:	January 10, 2009
Time:	10:15 AM - 12:15 PM
Sponsor:	New jersey Self-help Group Clearinghouse
Topic:	Developing an effective self-help group
Speaker(s):
Location:	Camden County Library, Bellmawr
Contact(s):	1 (800) 367-6274 or (973) 989-1122
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	This workshop is free but space is limited and pre-registration is required.

Date:	January 10, 2009
Time:	1:15 PM - 3:45 PM
Sponsor:	New jersey Self-help Group Clearinghouse
Topic:	Developing an effective self-help group
Speaker(s):
Location:	Camden County Library, Bellmawr
Contact(s):	1 (800) 367-6274 or (973) 989-1122
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	This workshop is free but space is limited and pre-registration is required.

Date:	January 10, 2009
Time:	9:30 AM - 3:30 PM
Sponsor:	New Jersey Parents Caucus
Topic:	Introduction to Professional Parent Advocacy Understanding Childhood Mental Health Challenges & the DSM IV How Knowledge of the Brain Influences Adult/Child Interaction
Speaker(s):	Dr. Helene Robbins, NJPC Advisory Board; Karen Helmstetter, Parent, Director of Special Education Advocacy, NJPC; Kathy Wright, Parent, Executive Director, NJPC; Consultant, National Technical Assistance Center for Children’s Mental Health, Georgetown University; Consulting Pool, National Cultural Competency Center, Georgetown University; Jill Seropian, Parent, NJPC Board Member, PPAT Graduate; Sarah McDougall, Parent, PPAT Graduate
Location:	The Hamilton Club, 32 Church Street, Paterson, NJ 07505
Contact(s):	Keishia DePew at (973) 989-8866
Email:	keishiad@njparentcaucus.org
Web Site:
Notes:	NJPC is offering a FREE five-week Professional Parent Advocacy Training program for parents, grandparents, foster parents, adoptive parents, and other caregivers. Parents and caregivers attending the training are given the opportunity to strengthen their knowledge of the systems that serve their families, their rights and responsibilities within those systems, and the advocacy, professional, and collaborative skills needed to successfully negotiate those systems. Parents will become better able to advocate for themselves and their communities, resulting in increased access to appropriate care and treatment for all children.

Date:	January 11, 2009
Time:
Sponsor:
Topic:	Because Kids Don't Come with Instructions: Post-adoptive Support Group
Speaker(s):
Location:	Congregation Beth Elohim, 247 Garfield Place Park Slope
Contact(s):	(212) 558-9949
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	This group is for adoptive parents and their children. Whether you're wondering how to develop successful and effective parenting skills, curious about discipline and setting limits, not sure you are doing all you can to nurture and support your child's social, emotional, and cognitive development, or trying to make a decision about returning to work or balancing other activities in your life-this group is for you. While the adults learn, laugh, and share the daily joys and challenges of being a parent through adoption, your children have a peer play group of their own. $12 per adult, $8 per child, per session.

Date:	January 12, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Adopting in the African American Community
Speaker(s):
Location:	Katz JCC, 1301 Springdale Road, Cherry Hill, NJ
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Thinking about adoption? We welcome you to attend our free information meetings to learn about our programs and meet the staff! Registration required at least 48 hours prior to all meetings. Call (267) 256-2053 to register or email info@openarmsadoption.net

Date:	January 13, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Children's Aid and Family Services
Topic:	Regular Foster Care / Medically Needy Orientation
Speaker(s):
Location:	240 Frisch Court - 1st Floor, Paramus, NJ 07652
Contact(s):	Charade: (201) 226-0300 ext. 247
Email:	adoption@cafsnj.org
Web Site:	www.cafsnj.org
Notes:	Learn more about rewarding experience of providing a child with a healthy start in life through infant / toddler foster services.

Date:	January 13, 2009
Time:	1:00 PM - 3:00 PM
Sponsor:	Children's Aid and Family Services
Topic:	Regular Foster Care / Medically Needy Orientation Infant / Toddler Foster Care
Speaker(s):
Location:	76 South Orange Avenue, Suite LL01, South Orange, NJ, 07079
Contact(s):	Eileen: (973) 762 - 5887 ext. 203
Email:	adoption@cafsnj.org
Web Site:	www.cafsnj.org
Notes:	Learn more about rewarding experience of providing a child with a healthy start in life through infant / toddler foster services.

Date:	January 14, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Domestic Adoption Law Night
Speaker(s):	Denise Bierly and Don Cofsky
Location:	2100 Arch Street, Philadelphia, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Join us to learn more about domestic adoption law in PA and NJ. Our presenters are well known in the field of adoption law and both are members of the American Academy of Adoption Attorneys. Registration required at least 48 hours prior to workshop. $25 fee for families who are not affiliated with Open Arms. To register, call (267) 256-2053 or email info@OpenArmsAdoption.net

Date:	January 16, 2009
Time:	7:30 PM
Sponsor:	Monmouth / Ocean County Adoptive Family Support Group
Topic:	Adult Adoptee
Speaker(s):	Mr. Kirby Watters
Location:	St Mary's Church, Colt Neck, NJ
Contact(s):	Danielle (732) 845-0791 or Liz (732) 743-9113
Email:
Web Site:	www.freewebs.com/mocafsg/
Notes:	Please join us for a candid and open discussion from an adult adoptee who has reunited with her birth family.

Date:	January 17, 2009
Time:	9:30 AM - 3:30 PM
Sponsor:	New Jersey Parents Caucus
Topic:	Empowering the Parent Voice: Motivation & Assertiveness Conflict Resolution Skills & The Power of Persuasion Empowering vs. Enabling Professionalism & Communication Skills
Speaker(s):	Dr. Helene Robbins, NJPC Advisory Board; Karen Helmstetter, Parent, Director of Special Education Advocacy, NJPC; Kathy Wright, Parent, Executive Director, NJPC; Consultant, National Technical Assistance Center for Children’s Mental Health, Georgetown University; Consulting Pool, National Cultural Competency Center, Georgetown University; Jill Seropian, Parent, NJPC Board Member, PPAT Graduate; Sarah McDougall, Parent, PPAT Graduate
Location:	The Hamilton Club, 32 Church Street, Paterson, NJ 07505
Contact(s):	Keishia DePew at (973) 989-8866
Email:	keishiad@njparentcaucus.org
Web Site:
Notes:	NJPC is offering a FREE five-week Professional Parent Advocacy Training program for parents, grandparents, foster parents, adoptive parents, and other caregivers. Parents and caregivers attending the training are given the opportunity to strengthen their knowledge of the systems that serve their families, their rights and responsibilities within those systems, and the advocacy, professional, and collaborative skills needed to successfully negotiate those systems. Parents will become better able to advocate for themselves and their communities, resulting in increased access to appropriate care and treatment for all children.

Date:	January 18, 2009
Time:	10:00 AM - 11:30 AM
Sponsor:	Infertility & Adoption Counseling Center
Topic:	Pre-Adoptive Parent Support Group: International Adoption
Speaker(s):
Location:	2 Tree Farm Road, Pennington, NJ
Contact(s):	Joni Mantell, LCSW
Email:	JMantellMSW@aol.com
Web Site:	www.iaccenter.com
Notes:	Members will discuss issues unique to pursuing international adoption and preparing for parenting. We are excited to announce a NEW MODEL in which our international pre-adopt groups will have the opportunity to meet with members of our First Year Home Group on occasion and be able to learn directly from them about some of the realities during the first year of adoptive parenting.

Date:	January 18, 2009
Time:	12:00 Noon - 1:30 PM
Sponsor:	Infertility & Adoption Counseling Center
Topic:	First Years Home: Post-Adoptive Parent Support Group
Speaker(s):
Location:	2 Tree Farm Road, Pennington, NJ
Contact(s):	Joni Mantell, LCSW
Email:	JMantellMSW@aol.com
Web Site:	www.iaccenter.com
Notes:	For new adoptive parents to discuss the adjustment to home life for both their child and themselves and to learn parenting strategies uniquely designed for children who have had foster and/or orphanage care. We would appreciate it if you would post these links on your website, send them to your clients by email, print and distribute the attached flyers, OR if you prefer we will mail flyers to you. Whatever works for you will work for us! As you know, all IAC Center workshops focus on the emotional and social aspects of adopting. We leave the adoption process to you. Please contact us with any questions or concerns.

Date:	January 20, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From The Heart
Topic:	Discover Domestic Adoption - Free information meeting at the Adoptions From The Heart office
Speaker(s):
Location:	451 Woodland Ave, Cherry Hill, NJ 08002
Contact(s):	Jennifer Bradley (856) 665-5655
Email:	jeniferb@afth.org
Web Site:	www.afth.org
Notes:	To register or for more info call (856) 665-5655 or e-mail jenniferb@afth.org

Date:	January 20, 2009
Time:	1:00 PM - 3:00 PM
Sponsor:	Children's Aid and Family Services
Topic:	Treatment Homes Orientation Therapeutic Foster Care Opportunities
Speaker(s):
Location:	76 South Orange Avenue, Suite LL01, South Orange, NJ, 07079
Contact(s):	Eileen: (973) 762 - 5887 ext. 203
Email:	adoption@cafsnj.org
Web Site:	www.cafsnj.org
Notes:	Discover how you can make a difference in school - aged child's life by becoming a therapeutic foster parent.

Date:	January 21, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Children's Aid and Family Services
Topic:	Treatment Homes Orientation Therapeutic Foster Care Opportunities
Speaker(s):
Location:	240 Frisch Court - 1st Floor, Paramus, NJ 07652
Contact(s):	Charade: (201) 226-0300 ext. 247
Email:	adoption@cafsnj.org
Web Site:	www.cafsnj.org
Notes:	Discover how you can make a difference in school - aged child's life by becoming a therapeutic foster parent.

Date:	January 23, 2009
Time:	10:30 AM - 12:30 PM
Sponsor:	New Jersey Division of Mental Health Services
Topic:	Mental Health and Religion
Speaker(s):	Kay Itzigsohn, MA International Institute of NJ, Cross Cultural Counseling Center
Location:	United Way Building/Mental Health Association in NJ at 60 South Fullerton Avenue, Suite 105 Montclair, NJ 07042
Contact(s):	Kay Itzigsohn at (201) 653-3888 x142
Email:	kayitzigsohn@gmail.com
Web Site:
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Date:	January 24, 2009
Time:	9:30 AM - 3:30 PM
Sponsor:	New Jersey Parents Caucus
Topic:	Navigating the Special Education System & the IEP Process Developing a Transitional Plan Zero Tolerance & IDEA – Individuals with Disabilities Education Act NCLB – No Child Left Behind Act
Speaker(s):	Dr. Helene Robbins, NJPC Advisory Board; Karen Helmstetter, Parent, Director of Special Education Advocacy, NJPC; Kathy Wright, Parent, Executive Director, NJPC; Consultant, National Technical Assistance Center for Children’s Mental Health, Georgetown University; Consulting Pool, National Cultural Competency Center, Georgetown University; Jill Seropian, Parent, NJPC Board Member, PPAT Graduate; Sarah McDougall, Parent, PPAT Graduate
Location:	The Hamilton Club, 32 Church Street, Paterson, NJ 07505
Contact(s):	Keishia DePew at (973) 989-8866
Email:	keishiad@njparentcaucus.org
Web Site:
Notes:	NJPC is offering a FREE five-week Professional Parent Advocacy Training program for parents, grandparents, foster parents, adoptive parents, and other caregivers. Parents and caregivers attending the training are given the opportunity to strengthen their knowledge of the systems that serve their families, their rights and responsibilities within those systems, and the advocacy, professional, and collaborative skills needed to successfully negotiate those systems. Parents will become better able to advocate for themselves and their communities, resulting in increased access to appropriate care and treatment for all children.

Date:	January 24, 2009
Time:	2:00 PM
Sponsor:
Topic:	Golden Pheonix Award Presentation Honoring Dr. Jane Aronson, Founder and CEO of the Worldwide Orphans Foundation.
Speaker(s):
Location:	South Orange Performing Arts Center One SOPAC Way, South Orange, NJ
Contact(s):
Email:
Web Site:	http://www.sopacnow.org/308/nai-ni-chen-dance-company-chinese-new-year-celebration
Notes:	Celebrating the 4707th Chinese New Year, Year of the Ox, the Nai-Ni Chen Dance Company will perform some of the most treasured traditional dances performed at the Chinese New Year—the Lion Dance and the Dragon Dance. Nai-Ni Chen will also premiere New Frontier—a contemporary dance inspired by the Silk Road, featuring live music performed by four-time Grammy Award-winning musician Glen Velez. Performance and Banquet: $95.00 per adult/ $39.00 per child Performance only: $35.00 per adult/ $19.00 per child

Date:	January 25,2009
Time:	1:00 PM - 5:00 PM
Sponsor:	NJFRUA
Topic:	NJFRUA Annual Holiday party
Speaker(s):
Location:	Russian Hall 4-6 Woodhull Avenue Little Falls, NJ 07424
Contact(s):	(973) 256-9634
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	Adults $15 per person, 6 to 9 Years old $8, 3 to 5 Years of $5, under 5 years old free. Prepayment required, no payment at the door accepted.

Date:	January 26, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Children's Aid and Family Services
Topic:	PATH to Adoption Orientation School-Aged Child Adoption
Speaker(s):
Location:	240 Frisch Court - 1st Floor, Paramus, NJ 07652
Contact(s):	Charade: (201) 226-0300 ext. 247
Email:	adoption@cafsnj.org
Web Site:	www.cafsnj.org
Notes:	Learn how you can transform a school-aged child's life by providing them stability through adoption.

Date:	January 26, 2009
Time:	7:15 PM
Sponsor:	CHATS
Topic:	Monica Walker – A Journey of Motivation and Determination
Speaker(s):
Location:	Watchung Avenue Presbyterian Church 170 Watchung Ave., North Plainfield, NJ
Contact(s):	(908) 755-2781
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	Raised by her biological parents until being placed in foster care at two years old, Monica Walker was adopted at four. At 20, she reunited with her birth father; the next year, her birth mother.

Date:	January 27, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Adoptive Parenting in the Gay and Lesbian Community
Speaker(s):
Location:	2100 Arch Street, Philadelphia, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Registration required at least 48 hours prior to workshop. $25 fee for families who are not affiliated with Open Arms. To register, call (267) 256-2053 or email info@OpenArmsAdoption.net

Date:	January 27, 2009
Time:	1:00 PM - 3:00 PM
Sponsor:	Children's Aid and Family Services
Topic:	PATH to Adoption Orientation School-Aged Children
Speaker(s):
Location:	76 South Orange Avenue, Suite LL01, South Orange, NJ, 07079
Contact(s):	Eileen: (973) 762 - 5887 ext. 203
Email:	adoption@cafsnj.org
Web Site:	www.cafsnj.org
Notes:	Discover how you can transform a school-aged child's life by providing them stability through adoption.

Date:	January 28, 2009
Time:	7:30 PM - 9:30 PM
Sponsor:	Concerned persons for Adoption (CPFA)
Topic:	Adoptive Parents Book Discussion Group Featured Book: Girls Who Went Away: The Hidden History of Woman who Surrendered Children for Adoption in the Decades Before Roe vs Wade by Ann Fessler.
Speaker(s):
Location:	First Presbyterian Church of Whippany 494 Route 10 West, at Whippany Road, Whippany
Contact(s):
Email:	Cpfanj_pres@yahoo.com
Web Site:
Notes:	Please join us for a very interesting discussion on this important book. For a review that a gives insight into this book please log onto: http://www.powells.com/review/2008_02_17.html

Date:	January 28, 2009
Time:	7:30 PM - 8:30 PM
Sponsor:
Topic:	Estate Planning for Families with Special Needs Children
Speaker(s):	Lori I. Wolf, Esq. Cole, Schotz, Meisel, Forman & Leonard, P.A.
Location:	Webinar
Contact(s):	Registration https://www1.gotomeeting.com/register/989603309
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	At the seminar Ms. Wolf will discuss the importance of having a Will, the unique issues that must be considered by the parents of a special needs child in putting together an estate plan, the importance of the coordination of assets with the estate plan, guardianship issues and the importance of considering the appropriate funding of a special needs trust.

Date:	January 28, 2009
Time:	9:00 AM - 12:00 PM
Sponsor:	Center For Family Connections
Topic:	Understanding Trauma and it's Role in Attachment Disorders
Speaker(s):	Dr. Joyce Maguire Pavao, CFFC Staff Clinicians
Location:	Center For Family Connections 350 Cambridge Street Cambridge, MA - 02141
Contact(s):	(617) 547.0909
Email:	cffc@kinnect.org
Web Site:	www.kinnect.org
Notes:	This is a workshop to help workers and parents to understand why children have the behaviors that they do and what kinds of treatments might be best considered. This is necessary for anyone working or living with children who have suffered trauma. Pre-payment and pre-registration required. Training: $55/person An additional $35 for CEUS for LICSW, LCSW, LMHC and LMFT

Date:	January 29, 2009
Time:	10:30 AM - 12:30 PM
Sponsor:	New Jersey Division of Mental Health Services
Topic:	Quality Improvement and Cultural Competency
Speaker(s):	Alan Lightfood, Ph.D Kean University, Graduate Program Coordinator and Assistant Professor
Location:	United Way Building/Mental Health Association in NJ at 60 South Fullerton Avenue, Suite 105 Montclair, NJ 07042
Contact(s):	Kay Itzigsohn at (201) 653-3888 x142
Email:	kayitzigsohn@gmail.com
Web Site:
Notes:

Date:	January 31, 2009
Time:	9:30 AM - 3:30 PM
Sponsor:	New Jersey Parents Caucus
Topic:	Understanding the Child Welfare System & Family Involvement in DYFS Strengthening the Juvenile Justice System through Family Involvement Cultural Competency & Diversity in the Child-Serving Community Collaborating with Agencies Dedicated to Children & Families
Speaker(s):	Dr. Helene Robbins, NJPC Advisory Board; Karen Helmstetter, Parent, Director of Special Education Advocacy, NJPC; Kathy Wright, Parent, Executive Director, NJPC; Consultant, National Technical Assistance Center for Children’s Mental Health, Georgetown University; Consulting Pool, National Cultural Competency Center, Georgetown University; Jill Seropian, Parent, NJPC Board Member, PPAT Graduate; Sarah McDougall, Parent, PPAT Graduate
Location:	The Hamilton Club, 32 Church Street, Paterson, NJ 07505
Contact(s):	Keishia DePew at (973) 989-8866
Email:	keishiad@njparentcaucus.org
Web Site:
Notes:	NJPC is offering a FREE five-week Professional Parent Advocacy Training program for parents, grandparents, foster parents, adoptive parents, and other caregivers. Parents and caregivers attending the training are given the opportunity to strengthen their knowledge of the systems that serve their families, their rights and responsibilities within those systems, and the advocacy, professional, and collaborative skills needed to successfully negotiate those systems. Parents will become better able to advocate for themselves and their communities, resulting in increased access to appropriate care and treatment for all children.

Date:	January 31, 2009
Time:	8:45 AM - 1:30 PM
Sponsor:	Infertility & Adoption Counseling Center
Topic:	Crossing the Bridge from Infertility to Adoption
Speaker(s):
Location:	Princeton Hyatt, 102 Carnegie Center, Princeton, NJ 08540
Contact(s):	Joni Mantell, LCSW
Email:	workhops@iaccenter.com
Web Site:	http://iaccenter.com/workshop_inftoado.asp
Notes:	An excellent workshop for people considering, beginning or waiting to adopt that will help them deal with the emotional and practical realities of becoming a parent through adoption. Speakers include psychologists, adoptive parents, birth parents and adults who were adopted.

FEBRUARY

Date:	February 4, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoption Options
Topic:	Domestic Adoption - open infant and waiting child programs
Speaker(s):	Donna Kochoa and Kerry Murphy
Location:	Lutheran Social Ministries of NJ, 6 Terri Lane, Suite 300, Burlington, NJ 08016
Contact(s):	Terry Dingle
Email:	tdingle@lsmnj.org
Web Site:	www.lsmnjadoption.org
Notes:	Free informational meeting to learn about domestic adoption and the programs we offer. Our staff will also answer any questions you may have.

Date:	February 5, 2009
Time:	7:30 PM - 9:30 PM
Sponsor:	Spence-Chapin's Adoption Center
Topic:	Get Ready for the teen Years
Speaker(s):
Location:	Calvary Episcopal Church 31Woodland Avenue, Summit, NJ
Contact(s):	Allison (973) 744-0364
Email:	Allison.ganci.aiello@gmail.com
Web Site:	www.spence-chapin.org
Notes:

Date:	February 6, 2009
Time:	9:00 AM - 12:00 Noon
Sponsor:	Ametz Adoption Program of JCCA
Topic:	Beyond Culture Camp: Promoting Healthy Identity Formation in Adoption
Speaker(s):	Hollee A. McGinnis, Policy & Operations Director, Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute
Location:	JCCA, 120 Wall Street 12th Floor, NYC
Contact(s):	(212) 558-9949
Email:	www.jccany.org/ametz
Web Site:
Notes:	The Institut ' s fifth year offerings are geared for professionals working with pre-adoptive and adoptive families. Each 3-hour course includes a didactic presentation and time for interactive discussion. NASW CEU certificates issued at the end of each course. $45 per session, $200 for 5-session series Pre-registration required and space is limited.

Date:	February 6, 2009
Time:	10:30 AM - 12:30 PM
Sponsor:	New Jersey Division of Mental Health Services
Topic:	Working with Interpreters
Speaker(s):	Sophia Rossovsky International Institute of NJ, Interpreter Service Director
Location:	United Way Building/Mental Health Association in NJ at 60 South Fullerton Avenue, Suite 105 Montclair, NJ 07042
Contact(s):	Kay Itzigsohn at (201) 653-3888 x142
Email:	kayitzigsohn@gmail.com
Web Site:
Notes:

Date:	February 7, 2009
Time:	9:30 AM - 3:30 PM
Sponsor:	New Jersey Parents Caucus
Topic:	Empowering the Parent Trainer-Train the Trainer
Speaker(s):	Dr. Helene Robbins, NJPC Advisory Board; Karen Helmstetter, Parent, Director of Special Education Advocacy, NJPC; Kathy Wright, Parent, Executive Director, NJPC; Consultant, National Technical Assistance Center for Children’s Mental Health, Georgetown University; Consulting Pool, National Cultural Competency Center, Georgetown University; Jill Seropian, Parent, NJPC Board Member, PPAT Graduate; Sarah McDougall, Parent, PPAT Graduate
Location:	The Hamilton Club, 32 Church Street, Paterson, NJ 07505
Contact(s):	Keishia DePew at (973) 989-8866
Email:	keishiad@njparentcaucus.org
Web Site:
Notes:	NJPC is offering a FREE five-week Professional Parent Advocacy Training program for parents, grandparents, foster parents, adoptive parents, and other caregivers. Parents and caregivers attending the training are given the opportunity to strengthen their knowledge of the systems that serve their families, their rights and responsibilities within those systems, and the advocacy, professional, and collaborative skills needed to successfully negotiate those systems. Parents will become better able to advocate for themselves and their communities, resulting in increased access to appropriate care and treatment for all children.

Date:	February 7, 2009
Time:	10:00 AM - 12:30 PM
Sponsor:	Infertility & Adoption Counseling Center
Topic:	Baby Care for Adoptive Parents
Speaker(s):
Location:	2 Tree Farm Road, Pennington, NJ
Contact(s):	Joni Mantell, LCSW
Email:	workhops@iaccenter.com
Web Site:	http://iaccenter.com/workshop_inftoado.asp
Notes:	This workshop is for you if you are waiting to adopt and would like to learn about baby care. In addition, some adoption agencies will accept this workshop as partial fulfillment of your home study requirements (certificates will be issued).

Date:	February 8, 2009
Time:
Sponsor:
Topic:	Because Kids Don't Come with Instructions: Post-adoptive Support Group
Speaker(s):
Location:	Congregation Beth Elohim, 247 Garfield Place Park Slope
Contact(s):	(212) 558-9949
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	This group is for adoptive parents and their children. Whether you're wondering how to develop successful and effective parenting skills, curious about discipline and setting limits, not sure you are doing all you can to nurture and support your child's social, emotional, and cognitive development, or trying to make a decision about returning to work or balancing other activities in your life-this group is for you. While the adults learn, laugh, and share the daily joys and challenges of being a parent through adoption, your children have a peer play group of their own. $12 per adult, $8 per child, per session.

Date:	February 8, 2009
Time:	10:00 AM - 12:30 PM
Sponsor:	Infertility & Adoption Counseling Center
Topic:	Baby Care for International Adoptive Parents
Speaker(s):
Location:	2 Tree Farm Road, Pennington, NJ
Contact(s):	Joni Mantell, LCSW
Email:	workhops@iaccenter.com
Web Site:	http://iaccenter.com/workshop_inftoado.asp
Notes:	This workshop is for you if you are waiting to adopt internationally and would like to learn about baby/child care and adjustment in a comfortable setting with other prospective international adoptive parents. In addition, some adoption agencies will accept this workshop as partial fulfillment of your home study requirements (certificates will be issued).

Date:	February 9, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Domestic Infant Open Adoption Informational Meeting
Speaker(s):
Location:	Katz JCC, 1301 Springdale Road, Cherry Hill, NJ
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Thinking about adoption? We welcome you to attend our free information meetings to learn about our programs and meet the staff! Registration required at least 48 hours prior to all meetings. Call (267) 256-2053 to register or email info@openarmsadoption.net

Date:	February 10, 2009
Time:	10:00 AM - 12:00 PM
Sponsor:	Children's Aid and Family Services
Topic:	Regular Foster Care / Medically Needy Orientation Infant / Toddler Foster Care
Speaker(s):	Eileen Jones
Location:	76 South Orange Avenue, Suite LL01, South Orange, NJ, 07079
Contact(s):	Eileen: (973) 762 - 5887 ext. 203
Email:	adoption@cafsnj.org
Web Site:	www.cafsnj.org
Notes:	Learn more about the rewarding experience of providing a child with a healthy start in life through infant / toddler foster services.

Date:	February 10, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From the Heart
Topic:	Online Webinar -Focusing on African American and African American / Biracial program
Speaker(s):	AFTH Social Worker
Location:	Your home computer
Contact(s):	(610) 642 - 7200
Email:	kristy@afth.org
Web Site:	www.afth.org
Notes:	Free! Log on from the comfort of your home and learn about adoption !

Date:	February 11, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Breastfeeding your Adopted Baby
Speaker(s):
Location:	10125 Verree Road, Philadelphia, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Registration required at least 48 hours prior to workshop. $25 fee for families who are not affiliated with Open Arms. To register, call (267)256-2053 or email info@OpenArmsAdoption.net

Date:	February 11, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Children's Aid and Family Services
Topic:	Regular Foster Care / Medically Needy Orientation Infant / Toddler Foster Care
Speaker(s):	Charade Collier
Location:	240 Frisch Court - 1st Floor, Paramus, NJ 07652
Contact(s):	Charade Collier: (201) 226-0300 ext. 247
Email:	adoption@cafsnj.org
Web Site:	www.cafsnj.org
Notes:	Learn more about the rewarding experience of providing a child with a healthy start in life through infant / toddler foster services.

Date:	February 12, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM - 8:30 PM
Sponsor:	JCCA Ametz Adoption Program
Topic:	Pre Adoption Support Group
Speaker(s):
Location:	JCC of Manhattan, 76th and Amsterdam Ave, New York, NY
Contact(s):	(212) 558-9949
Email:
Web Site:	www.jccany.org/ametz
Notes:	Adopting a child can be a challenging process that feels like an emotional roller coaster. Is there to help future parents navigate the waiting period in a warm and supportive environment with others struggling with similar challenges. The experienced group leader, and adoptive mother herself, really understands both the practical and psychological demands of adoption. Come share experiences and get answers with someone who not only knows that success is absolutely attainable, but can provide the guidance and support to make the wait easier.

Date:	February 12, 2009
Time:	8:30 AM Registration 9 AM - 4:00 PM Training
Sponsor:	Culturally Competent Mental Health NJ
Topic:	Domestic Violence in a Cultural Context
Speaker(s):	Rupa M. Khetarpal, Director of the Cross Cultural Counseling Center at International Institute of New Jersey
Location:	Caldwell College, The Academic Building 6 120 Bloomfield Ave, Caldwell, NJ 07006
Contact(s):	To register please click http://www.culturallycompetentmentalhealthnj.org/calendar.php
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	Fee $10

Date:	February 17, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions Form The Heart
Topic:	Domestic Adoption
Speaker(s):
Location:	451 Woodland Ave, Cherry Hill, NJ 08002
Contact(s):	Jennifer Bradley (856) 665-5655
Email:	jenniferb@afth.org
Web Site:	www.afth.org
Notes:

Date:	February 17, 2009
Time:	1:00 PM - 3:00 PM
Sponsor:	Children's Aid and Family Services
Topic:	Treatment Home Orientation Therapeutic Foster Care Opportunities
Speaker(s):	Eileen Jones
Location:	76 South Orange Avenue, Suite LL01, South Orange, NJ, 07079
Contact(s):	Eileen: (973) 762 - 5887 ext. 203
Email:	adoption@cafsnj.org
Web Site:	www.cafsnj.org
Notes:	Discover how you can make a difference in school-aged child's life by becoming a therapeutic foster parent.

Date:	February 18, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Children's Aid and Family Services
Topic:	PATH to Adoption Orientation School-Aged Child Adoption
Speaker(s):	Charade Collier
Location:	240 Frisch Court - 1st Floor, Paramus, NJ 07652
Contact(s):	Charade Collier: (201) 226-0300 ext. 247
Email:	adoption@cafsnj.org
Web Site:	www.cafsnj.org
Notes:	Discover how you can transform a school-aged child's life by providing them stability through adoption .

Date:	February 19, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:30 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Transracial Adoption: Becoming a Multi-Racial Family
Speaker(s):	Abby Ruder, MFT
Location:	10125 Verree Road, Philadelphia, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	This workshop will be an opportunity to explore and prepare for the experience of transracial adoption—its joys, challenges, and richness. Topics discussed will include: the unique parenting tasks in transracial adoption; building interracial family identity; supporting healthy racial identity development for children of color; issues of race and racism interracial families formed by adoption face; choosing diversity over convenience; creating cultural competence and building bridges to our children's heritage of origin. Registration required at least 48 hours prior to workshop. $25 fee for families who are not affiliated with Open Arms. To register, call (267) 256-2053 or email info@OpenArmsAdoption.net

Date:	February 20, 2009
Time:	7:30 PM
Sponsor:	Monmouth / Ocean County Adoptive Families Support Group
Topic:	Open Discussion Meeting
Speaker(s):	Bring your own topics
Location:	St Mary's Church, Colts Neck
Contact(s):	Danielle (732) 845- 0791or Liz (732) 473- 9113
Email:
Web Site:	www.freewebs.com/mocafsg
Notes:	Bring a great topic for a friendly and honest discussion

Date:	February 21, 2009
Time:	9:30 AM - 3:30 PM
Sponsor:	New Jersey Self-Help Group Clearinghouse
Topic:	Advanced Facilitation Skills for Self-Help Support Group Leaders workshop
Speaker(s):
Location:	West Orange Public Library 46 Mount Pleasant Ave, West Orange, NJ
Contact(s):	1(800) 367-6274 or (973) 989-1122
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:

Date:	February 23 - 25, 2009
Time:
Sponsor:	Center For Family Connections
Topic:	4th International Conference on Post-Adoption Services
Speaker(s):
Location:	Hotel Marlowe Cambridge, MA
Contact(s):
Email:	LarisaK@kinnect.org
Web Site:
Notes:

Date:	February 24, 2009
Time:	1:00 PM - 3:00 PM
Sponsor:	Children's Aid and Family Services
Topic:	PATH to Adoption Orientation School-Aged Children
Speaker(s):	Eileen Jones
Location:	76 South Orange Avenue, Suite LL01, South Orange, NJ, 07079
Contact(s):	Eileen: (973) 762 - 5887 ext. 203
Email:	adoption@cafsnj.org
Web Site:	www.cafsnj.org
Notes:	Discover how you can transform a school-aged child's life by providing them stability through adoption.

Date:	February 24, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Children's Aid and Family Services
Topic:	Treatment Homes Orientation Therapeutic Foster Care opportunities
Speaker(s):	Charade Collier
Location:	240 Frisch Court - 1st Floor, Paramus, NJ 07652
Contact(s):	Charade Collier: (201) 226-0300 ext. 247
Email:	adoption@cafsnj.org
Web Site:	www.cafsnj.org
Notes:	Discover how you can make a difference in school-aged child's life by becoming a therapeutic foster parent.

Date:	February 26, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	The Hospital Experience: Meeting the Needs of Both Birth and Adoptive Families
Speaker(s):	Meredith Rose, MSW, MPH
Location:	10125 Verree Road, Philadelphia, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Registration required at least 48 hours prior to workshop. $25 fee for families who are not affiliated with Open Arms. To register, call (267)256-2053 or email info@OpenArmsAdoption.net

Date:	February 27, 2009
Time:	7:30 PM - 9:30 PM
Sponsor:
Topic:	An Evening of Dreams & Theater: Psychic Loss and Adopted Women
Speaker(s):
Location:	CMPS is located at 16 West 10th Street, New York, NY 10011
Contact(s):	RSVP: (212) 260-7050
Email:
Web Site:	http://www.cmps.edu/pdf/AdoptionCircleFlyer.pdf
Notes:	Adoption research and theater are joined in a presentation of the findings from Dr. Barbara D'Amato's (2008) doctoral research. Dr. D'Amato's powerpoint presentation of the study's findings will set the stage for a theatrical rendition of the dream data and research subjects' narratives to be performed by three professional actresses well known to the CMPS community. Material is edited and directed by Sam Schacht. Admission: Regular Fee: $10 Student Fee: $7

Date:	February 28, 2009
Time:	10:30 AM - 2:30 PM
Sponsor:	Infertility & Adoption Counseling Center
Topic:	W.I.S.E. Up !
Speaker(s):
Location:	Princeton Friends School
Contact(s):	Joni Mantell, LCSW
Email:	workhops@iaccenter.com
Web Site:	http://iaccenter.com/workshop_inftoado.asp
Notes:	In this nationally recognized workshop, parents and children will learn specific tools and strategies for handling comments and questions about adoption, and deciding about the most comfortable ways for children to communicate their adoption story with others. For adoptive parents and children ages 5-12.

MARCH

Date:	March 3, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Domestic Infant Open Adoption Informational Meeting
Speaker(s):
Location:	Katz JCC, 1301 Springdale Road, Cherry Hill, NJ
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Thinking about adoption? We welcome you to attend our free information meetings to learn about our programs and meet the staff! Registration required at least 48 hours prior to all meetings. Call (267) 256-2053 to register or email info@openarmsadoption.net

Date:	March 3, 2009 through 4/7/2009
Time:	7:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	West Bergen Mental Healthcare
Topic:	Siblings Workshops
Speaker(s):	Rachel Ostrowski, M.A., Ed.S.
Location:
Contact(s):	Kelly Doyle (201) 934-1160 x 7231
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	For siblings of children with Asperger’s Disorder, HFA, PDD, NOS and Nonverbal Learning Disabilities. This workshop will cover a range of topics, such as tolerance, coping strategies, focusing on your sibling’s strengths, disclosure, fairness, creating quality time, and finding common ground. Fee: $250.00

Date:

March 8, 2009

Time:

3:00 PM - 5:00PM

Sponsor:

South Orange Library & South Mountain Families with Children from China

Topic:

This is the first program in a series of three about international adoption, co-sponsored by South Mountain Families with Children from China.

Speaker(s):

Movie showing of "Adopted" and first segment of "We Can Do Better."

Location:

South Orange Public Library
65 Scotland Rd
South Orange, NJ 07079

Contact(s):

973-762-0230

Email:

librarian@sopl.org

Web Site:

www.sopl.org

Notes:

Showing of the movie ADOPTED along with first educational segment; “Parenting the Adopted Child”. Refreshments will be served. There is no cost for this event.

Date:	March 11, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From The Heart
Topic:	Education Series: Meeting your Child's Birthmother Learn guidelines for what to share at this very important meeting
Speaker(s):	AFTH social worker
Location:	AFTH Cherry Hill Office
Contact(s):	(856) 665-5655
Email:	JenniferB@afth.org
Web Site:	www.afth.org
Notes:	Please join us ! $5 per person

Date:	March 11, 2009
Time:	7:30 PM - 9:30 PM
Sponsor:
Topic:	Full Circle Triad Post-Adoption Support Group
Speaker(s):
Location:	Community Room at Panera Bread, Rt. 4 West (Kohl's Shopping Center) Paramus, NJ
Contact(s):
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	Join us for an evening of sharing and spirited discussion.

Date:	March 12, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:30 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	How to Talk to Your Child About Their Adoption Story
Speaker(s):	Abby Ruder, MFT
Location:	10125 Verree Road, Philadelphia, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Registration required at least 48 hours prior to workshop. $25 fee for families who are not affiliated with Open Arms. To register, call (267)256-2053 or email info@OpenArmsAdoption.net

Date:	March 12, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 9:00 PM
Sponsor:	Ametz Adoption Program/JCCA
Topic:	Yes, You Can Still Adopt: International Adoption Options Meeting
Speaker(s):
Location:	JCCA Main Office 120 Wall Street, NY
Contact(s):	(212) 558-9949
Email:
Web Site:	www.jccany.org/ametz_internationalmeeting
Notes:	Join JCCA's Ametz Adoption Program staff and the Children's Home Society and Family Services, Adoption Hope International and Homeland Adoption Services as we explore many OPEN INTERNATIONAL PROGRAMS, including Russia, China, Ethiopia, Estonia, Ukraine, India, Colombia, Uzbekistan, Thailand, Ecuador ands newly-opened adoption programs in Nicaragua and Madagascar.

Date:	March 17, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	West Bergen Mental Healthcare
Topic:	Coping for Parents of Children with Asperger’s and Similar Disorders
Speaker(s):	Eve Thaler, LPC Jen Riley, M.A.
Location:	West Bergen’s Center for Children and Youth, One Cherry Lane, Ramsey, NJ 07446
Contact(s):	Kelly Doyle at (201) 934-1160 x 7231
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	Interactive workshop focusing on the joys and stress of living with a child with Asperger’s Syndrome and related disorders. Facilitators will focus on topics related to emotional regulation, handling changes in routines, parenting concerns through the child’s lifespan, sibling issues, advocacy, and parental support systems. Participants will be encouraged to share their concerns, as well as strategies, in coping effectively with their AS child. Fee: $25

Date:	March 20, 2009
Time:	7:30 PM
Sponsor:	Monmouth / Ocean County Adoptive Families Support Group
Topic:	What adoptive children want to know about their adoptions and what they want their adoptive parents to know.
Speaker(s):	Beverly Andres, MSW
Location:	St Mary's Church, Colts Neck
Contact(s):	Danielle (732) 845- 0791or Liz (732) 473- 9113
Email:	mocafsg_nj@yahoo.com
Web Site:	www.freewebs.com/mocafsg
Notes:	Please join us for a group topic to be led by an adult adoptee (reunited) who is also counselor.

Date:	March 20, 2009
Time:	7:30 - 9:00 PM
Sponsor:	Families with Children from China
Topic:	Jane Brown Playshops for adoptive children and their families Parent Workshop
Speaker(s):
Location:	South Mountain YMCA 13 Jefferson Avenue Maplewood, NJ 07040
Contact(s):	Alan Levine (973) 275-0734
Email:	alevine.mustang@verizon.net
Web Site:
Notes:	Friday evening, March 20, 2009 (Mandatory) Jane Brown asks that all parents of children participating in the Playshops or Adoption Shop attend a parents-only program on Friday evening (7:30 - 9:00 p.m.) for a session discussing current adoptions of concern to parents. This is a parents-only event.

Date:	March 21 - 22, 2009
Time:
Sponsor:	Families with Children from China
Topic:	Jane Brown Playshops for adoptive children and their families Children Playshops
Speaker(s):
Location:	South Mountain YMCA 13 Jefferson Avenue Maplewood, NJ 07040
Contact(s):	Alan Levine (973) 275-0734
Email:	alevine.mustang@verizon.net
Web Site:
Notes:	Playshops are appropriate for adopted children 5 years of age and older, and for new as well as previous participants. The Playshop sessions are comprised of multi-sensory activities. Participants engage in creative movement, plays, drawing, writing, talking, and tug-o-wars. Cost: $85 per child to attend the Playshops or AdoptionShop. This fee includes the cost of one or more parents attending the Parent Workshop. For each additional child attending the Playshops or AdoptionShop, the cost is $60.

Date:	March 21, 2009
Time:
Sponsor:	Families with Children from China
Topic:	Jane Brown Playshops for adoptive children and their families Pre-teen / Teen AdoptinShop
Speaker(s):
Location:	South Mountain YMCA 13 Jefferson Avenue Maplewood, NJ 07040
Contact(s):	Alan Levine (973) 275-0734
Email:	alevine.mustang@verizon.net
Web Site:
Notes:	Children 10 yrs and above should sign up for the Pre-Teen/Teen AdoptionShop...limited to 25 participants. Cost: $85 per child to attend the Playshops or AdoptionShop. This fee includes the cost of one or more parents attending the Parent Workshop. For each additional child attending the Playshops or AdoptionShop, the cost is $60.

Date:	March 21, 2009
Time:	12 Noon - 6:00 PM
Sponsor:	Monmouth / Ocean County Adoptive Families Support Group
Topic:	3rd Annual Adoption Expo
Speaker(s):	Many speakers, vendors and adoption professionals
Location:	St Mary's Church Spiritual Center Route 34 and Phalanx Road Colts Neck, NJ
Contact(s):	Emily (848) 203-2791
Email:	escali@aol.com
Web Site:	www.freewebs.com/mocafsg
Notes:	This is a great opportunity for all to attend mini seminars on various adoption topics, visit vendors and meet other families, ideal for pre and post adoptive families as well as those thinking about adopting. Registration Fee is $10.00 per person or $15.00 per couple for pre-registration by March 14th. Registration at the door will be $15.00 per person in the form of cash or check only.

Date:

March 25, 2009

Time:

7:45 PM - 9:30 PM (New Members Orientation, 7:30 PM)

Sponsor:

Concerned Persons for Adoption (CPFA)

Topic:

Winter Program: Changes in International Adoption and the Implications of the Hague Treaty/ Panel of Birth Parents / General Adoption Chat

Speaker(s):

Location:

First Presbyterian Church of Whippany
494 Route 10 West, at Whippany Road, Whippany

Contact(s):

Email:

Questions: e-mail
Cpfanj_pres@yahoo.com

Web Site:

www.cpfsnj.org

Notes:

Free program: three program sessions offered at same time.

Date:	March 28, 2009
Time:	9:00 AM - 3:00 PM
Sponsor:	Infertility & Adoption Counseling Center
Topic:	Family Stories: Talking to Kids about Adoption and Donor Origins
Speaker(s):	Joni Mantell LCSW; Judy Kottick LCSW; panels of adoption triad members; donor parents and children
Location:	Robert Wood Johnson Center for Health & Wellness, Hamilton NJ
Contact(s):	Joni Mantell, LCSW
Email:	workshops@iaccenter.com
Web Site:	http://www.iaccenter.com/workshop_stories.asp
Notes:	This workshop is for parents, parents-to-be and professionals who would like to learn how to talk to children at the various ages and stages in their lives to understand their family origins. Three separate tracks offered to learn about adoption, donor origin issues and a track for kids as well. CEU credits are available.

Date:	March 29,2009
Time:	3:00- 5:00 PM
Sponsor:	South Orange Library & South Mountain Families with Children from China
Topic:	This is the second program in a series of three about international adoption, co-sponsored by South Mountain Families with Children from China.
Speaker(s):	Discussion on the below two educational segments of "We Can Do Better."
Location:	South Orange Public Library 65 Scotland Rd South Orange, NJ 07079 (973) 762-0230
Contact(s):	973-762-0230
Email:	librarian@sopl.org
Web Site:	www.sopl.org
Notes:	Two educational segments "Intentions in Adoption" and "Multiracial Adoption" Refreshments will be served. There is no cost for this event.

Date:	March 29,2009
Time:	4:00 PM
Sponsor:
Topic:	"Roots Unknown: The lifelong impact of Adoption " a film by Zara Phillips
Speaker(s):
Location:	Unitarian Universalist Congregation at Montclair • 67 Church Street • Montclair, NJ 07042
Contact(s):
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:

APRIL

Date:	April 1, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
Sponsor:
Topic:	Carol Barbieri Adoption Search Presentation / Performance "One Adoptee's Search"
Speaker(s):
Location:	Atlantic Highlands Borough Hall
Contact(s):
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	To see more details and RSVP, follow the link below: http://www.facebook.com/n/?event.php&eid= 58101308249&mid= 28df22G233139e1G1e17f8aG7

Date:	April 2, 2009
Time:	9:00 AM - 12:00 Noon
Sponsor:	Ametz Adoption Program of JCCA
Topic:	Clinical Treatment with Members of the Adoption Community: Modalities and Intervention
Speaker(s):	Michael Colberg, JD, LCSW, MFT
Location:	JCCA, 120 Wall Street, NYC
Contact(s):	(212) 558-9949
Email:	www.jccany.org/ametz
Web Site:
Notes:	The Institute ' s fifth year offerings are geared for professionals working with pre-adoptive and adoptive families. Each 3-hour course includes a didactic presentation and time for interactive discussion. NASW CEU certificates issued at the end of each course. $45 per session, $200 for 5-session series Pre-registration required as space is limited.

Date:	April 5,2009
Time:	3:00- 5:00PM
Sponsor:	South Orange Library & South Mountain Families with Children from China
Topic:	This is the final program in a series of three about international adoption, co-sponsored by South Mountain Families with Children from China.
Speaker(s):	Discussion on the below two educational segments of "We Can Do Better."
Location:	South Orange Public Library
Contact(s):	973-762-0230
Email:	librarian@sopl.org
Web Site:	www.sopl.org
Notes:	Two educational segments "Identity and Trans-racial Adoption" and "Tough Questions" Refreshments will be served. There is no cost for this event.

Date:	April 14, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From The Heart
Topic:	African-American &African-American / Biracial Domestic Adoption
Speaker(s):	An AFTH Social Worker
Location:	Online
Contact(s):	(610) 642-7200
Email:	Kristy@afth.org
Web Site:	www.afth.org
Notes:	Join us for a free webinar from the comfort of your own computer. Log on and learn about adoption

Date:	April 15, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 9:00 PM
Sponsor:	New Jersey Parents Caucus
Topic:	Closing the Achievement Gap In Urban Schools
Speaker(s):	Bernard Gassaway, author of "Reflections of an Urban High School Principal" & "Education Denied: Children, Challenges & Choices"
Location:
Contact(s):	Jessica at (973) 989-8866
Email:	jessicaa@njparentcaucus.org
Web Site:	www.newjerseyparentscaucus.org
Notes:	Bernard Gassaway will discuss the purpose of education and address the need for a new paradigm in urban communities. The workshop will explore strategies for closing the achievement gap in urban school systems and the role of families and community stakeholders. Workshop Fee: Participants are asked to make a donation to the NJPC Union County Chapter.

Date:

April 18, 2009

Time:

12:00 PM - 3:00 PM

Sponsor:

Concerned Persons for Adoption (CPFA)

Topic:

Annual Heritage Festival

Speaker(s):

Location:

First Presbyterian Church of Whippany
494 Route 10 West, at Whippany Road, Whippany

Contact(s):

Email:

shaunalcanter@yahoo.com

Web Site:

www.cpfsnj.org

Notes:

RSVP by April 10^th via www.cpfanj.org or e-mail with name, # of adults, # of children, member or non-member to shaunalcanter@yahoo.com . Please being a dish from your or your child’s heritage to share.

Date:	April 19, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptive Parents Committee
Topic:	An Update on International Adoption
Speaker(s):	Sam Pitkowsky, co-president of the N.Y.C. chapter of APC
Location:	Panera Bread (Community Room) Kohl’s Shopping Center; 165 Route 4 West; Paramus, NJ
Contact(s):
Email:	apcconf2003@msn.com
Web Site:	www.adoptiveparents.org
Notes:	Sam will discuss what is new in the international adoption arena. The talk will include what countries are presently open for Americans interested in adopting abroad, how the Hague convention is impacting international adoption, the paperwork involved with the INS, and the overall ins and outs of adopting abroad. Following the topic, you may share in our roundtable discussion covering pre-adopt or post-adopt topics of concern.

Date:	April 19, 2009
Time:	10:00 AM - 4:30 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Join us for a full day exploration of open adoption. Topics presented include preparing to adopt, the nuts and bolts of the adoption process, and the benefits of maintaining a life-long healthy open adoption. Interwoven throughout the day, birth and adoptive families will share their open adoption experience.
Speaker(s):	Meredith Rose, MSW, MPH
Location:	Lower Moreland Township Community Room; 625 Red Lion Road, Huntingdon Valley, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Registration required at least 48 hours prior to event. $50 for families unaffiliated with Open Arms.

Date:	April 20, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
Sponsor:	NJARCH
Topic:	Telling Your Child Difficult History
Speaker(s):	Barbara Rall
Location:	Harmony Presbyterian Church, 2727 Belvidere Road, Phillipsburg, NJ
Contact(s):	*(908) 454-7574.*
Email:	tammi568@ptd.net
Web Site:
Notes:	Sharing painful information about a child's history or birth family can be challenging for adoptive parents. This workshop will help you develop the skills to competently tell your children difficult information and help them process it.) Please RSVP to Tammi if you plan on attending this county-based training. Please Note: No children will be allowed to attend this meeting.

Date:	April 20, 2009
Time:	10:00 AM - 11:30 AM
Sponsor:	West Bergen Mental Healthcare
Topic:	Planning a Playdate for Children with Special Needs
Speaker(s):	Katherine Kandravy, LSW Jane Watson, LSW
Location:	West Bergen’s Center for Children and Youth, One Cherry Lane, Ramsey, NJ 07446
Contact(s):	Kelly Doyle at (201) 934-1160 x 7231
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	This workshop focuses on helping the parent to plan and structure play dates for their elementary aged child. Techniques and strategies designed to optimize successful social interaction while in your home or the community will be presented. Fee: $25

Date:	April 21, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From The Heart
Topic:	Learn All About Adoption !
Speaker(s):	AFTH social worker
Location:	AFTH Cherry Hill Office
Contact(s):	(856) 665-5655
Email:	jenniferb@afth.org
Web Site:	Free Meeting! Please join us and have all your questions about adoption answered!
Notes:

Date:	April 23, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Adoptive parents often become parents after experiencing complex losses and emotions prior to and during the adoption process. Explore how the parents' journey can influence initial adjustments, on-going parenting and the concurrent issues parents and children experience in relation to the ages and stages of children's understanding of adoption. Learn how a systems view of the family can elicit strengths in both children and parents, and serve to create an optimal family environment.
Speaker(s):	Joni Mantell, LCSW
Location:	2100 Arch Street, Philadelphia, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Registration required at least 48 hours prior to event. $50 for families unaffiliated with Open Arms.

Date:	April 25, 2009
Time:	10:00 AM - 12:30 PM
Sponsor:	Infertility and Adoption Counseling Center
Topic:	Baby Care for Adoptive Parents
Speaker(s):	Jennifer Gamper Meenan, RN, BSN, MSW, LCSW
Location:	IAC Center, 2 Tree Farm Road, Suite A200, Pennington N.J., 08534
Contact(s):	(609) 737-8750
Email:	JMantellMSW@iaccenter.com
Web Site:
Notes:	This workshop is for you if you are waiting to adopt and would like to learn about baby care. In addition, some adoption agencies will accept this workshop as partial fulfillment of your home study requirements (certificates will be issued). To download the flyer please click here.

Date:	April 30, 2009
Time:	7:30 PM - 9:30 PM
Sponsor:	Spence-Chapin's Adoption Resource Center
Topic:	Transracial / Transcultural Adoption: Differences may not mater to you, but they may to your child.
Speaker(s):
Location:	Unitarian Church of Montclair, 67 Church Street, Montclair, NJ
Contact(s):	Alison (973) 744-0364
Email:	Alison.ganci.aiello@gmail.com
Web Site:	www.spence-chapin.org
Notes:	Transracially adopted children often face challenges with looking "different" from the rest of their family. Learn how to help your child be proud of his/her cultural heritage and develop a positive racial/ethnic identity in a a world that doesn't always value differences. Advance registration required. There is a program fee of $20.

MAY

Date:	May 5, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Adopting in the African American Community Thinking about adoption? We welcome you to attend our FREE information meeting to learn about our program and meet the staff
Speaker(s):	Erica Davis, MSW
Location:	1301 Springdale Road, Cherry Hill, NJ
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:

Date:	May 6, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:30 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Baby Care Basics This 2.5 hour class is designed to help build your confidence as a new parent by learning safe and comfortable ways to care for, diaper, swaddle and bathe your baby. We will also learn about newborn appearance and characteristics, choosing a pediatrician, crib and car seat safety.
Speaker(s):	Susan Slear, RN, CCE, CHBE, IBCLC
Location:	2100 Arch Street, Philadelphia, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Registration required at least 48 hours prior to event. $50 for families unaffiliated with Open Arms.

Date:	May 11, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From The Heart
Topic:	Adoption Webinar Free online information meeting on adoption
Speaker(s):	An AFTH Social Worker
Location:	From the comfort of your computer
Contact(s):	(610) 642-7200
Email:	KristyG@afth.org
Web Site:	www.afth.org
Notes:	Because of the GREAT need for families in this program, the webinar will focus on our African-American domestic program.

Date:	May 12, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Domestic Infant Open Adoption Information Meeting Thinking about adoption? We welcome you to attend our FREE information meeting to learn about our program and meet the staff.
Speaker(s):	Michelle Figueroa
Location:	1301 Springdale Road, Cherry Hill, NJ
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:

Date:	May 13, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Domestic Adoption Law Night Join us to learn more about domestic adoption law in PA and NJ. Our presenters are well known in the field of adoption law and both are members of the American Academy of Adoption Attorneys.
Speaker(s):	Denise Bierly, Esq., licensed in Pennsylvania; and Donald Cofsky, Esq., licensed in New Jersey
Location:	2100 Arch Street, Philadelphia, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Registration required at least 48 hours prior to event. $50 for families unaffiliated with Open Arms.

Date:	May 13, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM - 8:30 PM
Sponsor:	West Bergen Mental Healthcare
Topic:	Evaluation and Treatment of Adults with Asperger’s and Similar Disorders
Speaker(s):	Jeanne Marron, Ph.D. Eve Thaler, LPC Jen Riley, M.A.
Location:	West Bergen Mental Healthcare, 120 Chestnut Street, Ridgewood, NJ 07450.
Contact(s):	Kelly Doyle at (201) 934-1160 x 7231
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	This workshop focuses on assessing the adult with Asperger’s Syndrome and optimizing psychosocial interventions to address the varied additional needs of this population, their family members, and those that play a significant role in their development and welfare. An understanding of specific techniques and tools, as well as the importance of considering the impact of the increased social complexity and social demands in adulthood will be presented. Fee: $25

Date:	May 13, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 9:00 PM
Sponsor:	Family Support Organization of Bergen County
Topic:	Keeping Kids Healthy... Mental Health Challenges for Children, Youth and Families
Speaker(s):	Joan Badin, Ph.D., Senior Clinical Supervisor, Bergen County Department of Human Services Lorrie Baumann, Coordinator, Educating the Educators Program, National Alliance on Mental Health, Nadezhda Robinson, Ph.D., Director, Division of Child Behavioral Health, NJ Department of Children and Families, Emma Shelby, Mental Health Educator, Mental Health Association in New Jersey, Tom Toronto, President, Bergen County’s United Way Andy Garlick, President, Board of Trustees, Family Support Organization of Bergen County: The Family Perspective Moderator: Tom Davis, Senior Writer, The Record
Location:	Wilson Auditorium Fairleigh Dickinson University, Hackensack, NJ
Contact(s):	(201) 646-4255
Email:	NIE@northjersey.com
Web Site:
Notes:	The Record and the Family Support Organization of Bergen County are partnering for a special public program in recognition of National Children’s Mental Health Awareness Week. Strengthen your family’s mental health and wellness by attending this forum and learning about strategies and resources in our North Jersey area. Find out about stress reduction techniques, how to increase communication within the family and hear suggestions about the challenges facing our children and youth today. A question and answer period will follow the presentations.

Date:	May 14, 2009
Time:	8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Grandparents.com
Topic:	Family Communication 101: Get the Message
Speaker(s):
Location:
Contact(s):
Email:
Web Site:	http://www2.gotomeeting.com/register/544722659
Notes:	Learn to be a better communicator! Communication is the key to all positive family interactions. But how do you know if you're communicating effectively? Join the experts at Grandparents.com for a live online seminar (a webinar!). This interactive event will show you how to: - Identify your communication style - Discover new ways to resolve family conflict - Learn valuable listening skills - Understand how others perceive you It's FREE — all you need is a computer and a telephone. Register now!

Date:	May 15, 2009
Time:	7:30 PM
Sponsor:
Topic:	"Attachment and the Adoptive Family": A Two Way Street
Speaker(s):	Joni Mantell, LCSW, Director of IAC Center
Location:	St. Mary's Church Colts Neck, NJ
Contact(s):
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	Starting with the journey to parenthood and the child's early experiences, explore initial adjustments and the parallel process of parents and children throughout the ages and stages of personal and family development. Learn how to elicit strengths in both children and parents to create an optimal family environment.

Date:	May 16, 2009
Time:	9:30 AM - 12:00 Noon
Sponsor:	Infertility and Adoption Counseling Center
Topic:	Domestic Adoption: Communicating with Birth Parents
Speaker(s):	Lindsay Conover, MSW, an IAC Center Counselor with significant experience working with birth parents.
Location:	IACCenter, 2 Tree Farm Road, Suite A200, Pennington N.J., 08534
Contact(s):	(609) 737-8750
Email:	JMantellMSW@iaccenter.com
Web Site:
Notes:	This workshop is for anyone adopting domestically, even if you are already working with an attorney or an adoption agency. Agencies and attorneys focus on completing adoptions successfully, which is precisely what you want them to focus on. But they may not have the time or counseling experience to focus on training you to really connect with birthparents. This workshop will teach you to feel more confident and to gain the skills necessary for making an adoption situation work not just for now, but for the long term. To download a flyer for this event please click here.

Date:	May 17, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:45 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptive Parents Committee
Topic:	Straight talk: Talking to Kids about the Toughest Topics.
Speaker(s):	Maris H. Blechner, M.Ed, LCSW will be our featured speaker for the evening. She is the Executive Director of Family Focus Adoption Services and presented at the recent APC conference in New York City.
Location:	Panera Bread (Community Room) Kohl’s Shopping Center; 165 Route 4 West; Paramus, NJ
Contact(s):
Email:	apcconf2003@msn.com
Web Site:	www.adoptiveparents.org
Notes:

Date:	May 27, 2009
Time:	7:45 PM - 9:30 PM
Sponsor:	Concerned Persons for Adoption (CPFA)
Topic:	Spring Workshops – three simultaneous workshops - Financing Your Adoption - Parenting - "Talking to your Child about Difficult History" - General Adoption Chat
Speaker(s):	Barbara A. Rall, LCSW, sponsored by the NJ Adoption Resource Clearing House.
Location:	First Presbyterian Church of Whippany 494 Route 10 West, at Whippany Road, Whippany
Contact(s):
Email:	Cpfanj_pres@yahoo.com
Web Site:	www.cpfanj.org
Notes:	Program is free; light refreshments will be served.

Date:	May 28, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Parent Train
Topic:	Workshop: Family Harmony and Positive Discipline
Speaker(s):	Dr. Maria Salvanto
Location:	Parsippany Library 449 Halsey Rd, Parsippany, NJ
Contact(s):	(973) 588-4486
Email:
Web Site:	www.parenttrain.com
Notes:	Topics to be addressed: Tools for promoting family harmony. New ways to communicate with children. Positive discipline ideas. Behavior modifications. Fee $10 per person.

JUNE

Date:	June 2, 2009
Time:	9:00 AM - 12:00 Noon
Sponsor:	Ametz Adoption Program of JCCA
Topic:	Ethics: Implications on Individual and Practice
Speaker(s):	Madelyn Freundlich, Legislation and Policy Director, Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute
Location:	JCCA, 120 Wall Street, NYC
Contact(s):	(212) 558-9949
Email:	www.jccany.org/ametz
Web Site:
Notes:	The Institute ' s fifth year offerings are geared for professionals working with pre-adoptive and adoptive families. Each 3-hour course includes a didactic presentation and time for interactive discussion. NASW CEU certificates issued at the end of each course. $45 per session, $200 for 5-session series Pre-registration required as space is limited.

Date:	June 4, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:30 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Transracial Adoption: Becoming a Multi-Racial Family This workshop will be an opportunity to explore and prepare for the experience of transracial adoption— its joys, challenges, and richness. Topics discussed will include: the unique parenting tasks in transracial adoption; building interracial family identity; supporting healthy racial identity development for children of color; issues of race and racism interracial families formed by adoption face; choosing diversity over convenience; creating cultural competence and building bridges to our children's heritage of origin.
Speaker(s):	Abby Ruder, MFT
Location:	2100 Arch Street, Philadelphia, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Registration required at least 48 hours prior to event. $50 for families unaffiliated with Open Arms.

Date:	June 5 - 7, 2009
Time:
Sponsor:
Topic:	Adoptive Families Camping Weekend
Speaker(s):
Location:	Camp Sloane YMCA, Lakeville, CT
Contact(s):	Mary Lee Cimiello, Lori Ziliotto
Email:	adoptivefamiliescampingweekend@gmail.com
Web Site:	www.adoptivefamiliesweekend.com
Notes:	Camping made easy, platform tents, bathhouse, buffet meals provided.

Date:	June 7, 2009
Time:	10:00 AM - 12:30 PM
Sponsor:	Infertility and Adoption Counseling Center
Topic:	Baby Care for International Adoptive Parents
Speaker(s):	Jane Cramer, MSW
Location:	IACCenter, 2 Tree Farm Road, Suite A200, Pennington N.J., 08534
Contact(s):	(609) 737-8750
Email:	JMantellMSW@iaccenter.com
Web Site:
Notes:	This workshop is for you if you are waiting to adopt internationally and would like to learn about baby/child adjustment and care in a comfortable setting with other prospective international adoptive parents. In addition, some adoption agencies will accept this workshop as partial fulfillment of your home study requirements (certificates will be issued).

Date:	June 8, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Domestic Infant Open Adoption Information Meeting Thinking about adoption? We welcome you to attend our FREE information meeting to learn about our program and meet the staff.
Speaker(s):	Meredith Rose, MSW, MPH
Location:	1301 Springdale Road, Cherry Hill, NJ
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:

Date:	June 10, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From The heart
Topic:	African-American and Biracial Domestic Adoption
Speaker(s):	An AFTH social worker
Location:	Online: https://www1.gotomeeting.com/register/715328536
Contact(s):	(610) 642-7200
Email:	KristyG@afth.org
Web Site:	https://www1.gotomeeting.com/register/715328536
Notes:	Learn about adoption from the comfort of your own computer. Join us for a free online webinar focusing on the need for adoptive parents in our African-American and biracial domestic program.

Date:	June 11, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From The Heart
Topic:	Discover the Joys of Domestic Adoptions!
Speaker(s):	An AFTH Social Worker
Location:	Lancaster, PA
Contact(s):	(717) 399-7766
Email:	amandak@afth.org
Web Site:	www.afth.org
Notes:	Start building your family today! Join us for a free information meeting and have all your questions about adoption answered!

Date:	June 12 - 14, 2009
Time:	All Weekend
Sponsor:	Adoption Connection at JFS of Greenwich and NJ Y Camps
Topic:	Jewish summer camp programming for the entire family along with adoption-specific workshops such as WISE Up, Identity Issues in B'nai Mitzvah Planning and much more!
Speaker(s):	Workshop facilitators are Jewish adoption professionals who are also parents by adoption
Location:	Camp Nah-Jee-Wah, Milford, PA
Contact(s):	Debbie Schwartz
Email:	dschwartz@jfsgreenwich.org
Web Site:	http://njycamps.org/families/html/forever_families.html
Notes:	First Annual Forever Families Weekend - designed for Jewish Families Touched by Adoption

Date:	June 13, 2009
Time:	9:30 AM – 3:30 PM
Sponsor:	New Jersey Self-Help Group Clearinghouse
Topic:	Advanced Facilitation Skills for Self-Help Group Leaders
Speaker(s):
Location:	Ocean County Family Support Organization Toms River, NJ 08753
Contact(s):	1-800-367-6274
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	This free workshop was designed for persons who are currently leading a self-help support group for any issue. It is designed for lay persons, but professionals are welcomed. The goal of the workshop is to enhance group facilitation skills. This interactive workshop will incorporate group discussion, role playing, group exercises, and a problem-solving session. The workshop is free; however, space is strictly limited and pre-registration is required. To register, call the Clearinghouse. A $10 refundable check is needed for registration. The check will be returned at the workshop. For more information, contact the Clearinghouse.

Date:	June 16, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:30 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Exploring Children's Developmental Understanding of Adoption In this workshop we will anticipate your child’s questions about being adopted, what children need to know at different ages and stages about their origins and their stories. We’ll explore how children feel about adoption, what's on their minds and in their hearts. Our conversation will include building a healthy identity based on honoring your child’s dual heritage (birth and adoptive) and the unique emotional landscape of loss that is a normal part of the adoption experience and integral to the search for self.
Speaker(s):	Abby Ruder, MFT
Location:	2100 Arch Street, Philadelphia, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Registration required at least 48 hours prior to event. $50 for families unaffiliated with Open Arms.

Date:	June 16, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From The Heart
Topic:	Discover the Joys of Domestic Adoptions!
Speaker(s):	An AFTH Social Worker
Location:	AFTH Wynnewood, PA Office
Contact(s):	(610) 642-7200
Email:	marthac@afth.org
Web Site:	www.afth.org
Notes:	Start building your family today! Join us for a free information meeting and have all your questions about adoption answered!

Date:	June 16, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From The Heart
Topic:	Discover the Joys of Domestic Adoptions!
Speaker(s):	An AFTH Social Worker
Location:	AFTH Cherry Hill, NJ Office
Contact(s):	(856) 665-5655
Email:	jenniferb@afth.org
Web Site:	www.afth.org
Notes:	Free Information meeting! Join us for a free information meeting and have all your questions about adoption answered!

Date:	June 18, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From The Heart
Topic:	Learn All About Adoption!
Speaker(s):	An AFTH Social Worker
Location:	Carlisle, PA, Bosler Memorial Library
Contact(s):	(717) 232-1787
Email:	amandak@afth.org
Web Site:	www.afth.org
Notes:	Start building your family today! Join us for a free information meeting and have all your questions about adoption answered!

Date:	June 19, 2009
Time:	7:30 PM
Sponsor:	Monmouth / Ocean County Adoptive Family Support Group
Topic:	Open Discussion
Speaker(s):
Location:	St Mary's Church, Colt Neck, NJ
Contact(s):	Danielle (732) 845-0791 or Liz (732) 743-9113
Email:
Web Site:	www.freewebs.com/mocafsg/
Notes:	This is an Open Discussion. Perfect for couples just getting started to come and ask questions or for those who have adopted to bring up subjects they are dealing with.

JULY

Date:	July 01, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:30 PM
Sponsor:	Adoption Options rogram of Lutheran Social Ministries of NJ
Topic:	FREE - domestic adoption Information meeting Meet our adoption counselors and learn about our Open Infant and Waiting Child Programs
Speaker(s):	Donna Kochoa, Adoption Counselor
Location:	Lutheran Social Ministries of NJ 6 Terri Lane, Suite 300 Burlington, NJ 08016
Contact(s):	Terry Dingle (609) 699-4110
Email:	tdingle@lsmnj.org
Web Site:	www.lsmnjadoption.org
Notes:	Please RSVP

Date:	July 10, 2009
Time:	10:00 AM - 3:00 PM
Sponsor:	Statewide Parent Advocacy Network
Topic:	Annual SPAN Family Fun Day at the Freedom Feast Fair
Speaker(s):
Location:	Horse Park of NJ, Allentown, NJ Exit 11 of Route I-195
Contact(s):
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	$10 per person includes unlimited use of rides & attractions The 2009 midway will be even larger than last year! Consisting of over twice as many exhibits, amusement rides, food vendors, picnic grounds (if you wish to bring your own food), games of chance, and live entertainment, there will be lots of fun for all ages plus... • An amazing Shark Show by Haii Inc. Live Shark Experience • The excitement of RACING PIGS • Live agricultural exhibits and demonstrations SPECIAL EVENT Fishing Friendzy— is an educational, interactive fishing exhibit for campers dedicated to creating a fantastic experience while encouraging learning about the great outdoors—and you can actually catch fish! MIDWAY & Reithoffer Shows— an innovator when it comes to spectacular rides and AMUSEMENTS attractions, it is the largest midway in the world!

Date:	July 12 - 15, 2009
Time:
Sponsor:	Adoptive Resource Center (ARC) and Center For Family Connections (CFFC)
Topic:	24th Annual ARCheology Summer Intensives
Speaker(s):
Location:	Provincetown Inn Provincetown, Cape Cod, MA
Contact(s):	(617) 547-0909
Email:	LarisaK@kinnect.org
Web Site:
Notes:

Date:	July 15, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From The Heart
Topic:	Learn About Adoption: Information about our domestic, international and assisted reproduction programs.
Speaker(s):	Led by an AFTH social worker.
Location:	Dover DE Public Library
Contact(s):	(302) 658-8883
Email:	DEreception@afth.org
Web Site:	www.afth.org
Notes:	Free meeting! Join us to have all your questions about adoption answered!

Date:	July 15, 2009
Time:	1:00 PM - 3:00 PM
Sponsor:	The Ametz Adoption Program of Jewish Child Care Association (JCCA)
Topic:	Adoptive Family Meet & Greet
Speaker(s):
Location:	Mahopac, New York
Contact(s):	(212) 558-9949
Email:	www.jccany.org/ametz
Web Site:	www.jccany.org
Notes:	Share a laugh, engage in great conversation, ask questions, get answers! Strengthen family relationships and get to know your "neighbors" and folks from the surrounding area. There will be games, arts & crafts and activities for the youngsters. Ice cream and snacks will be served. And, it's all for free. Ametz is starting a new group in the greater Westchester/Putnam/Rockland area with parents and we hope you will join us for this first in a series. Held in the home of one of our local families, Ametz's professional social workers will offer the group support and education about related subjects and answer your questions. Can't make this date, no worries - just sign up to be notified about upcoming events! Please register by July 13th.

Date:	July 21, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From The Heart
Topic:	Learn About Adoption: Information about our domestic, international and assisted reproduction programs.
Speaker(s):	Led by an AFTH social worker.
Location:	AFTH Wilmington DE Office
Contact(s):	(302) 658-8883
Email:	DEreception@afth.org
Web Site:	www.afth.org
Notes:	Free meeting! Join us to have all your questions about adoption answered!

Date:	July 21, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From The Heart
Topic:	Discover Domestic Adoption! Free Information Meeting!
Speaker(s):	Led by an AFTH social worker.
Location:	AFTH Cherry Hill NJ Office
Contact(s):	(856) 665-5655
Email:	jenniferb@afth.org
Web Site:	www.afth.org
Notes:	Free meeting! Join us to have all your questions about adoption answered!

Date:	July 21, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From The Heart
Topic:	Discover Domestic Adoption! Free Information Meeting!
Speaker(s):	Led by an AFTH social worker.
Location:	AFTH Wynnewood Office
Contact(s):	(610) 642-7200
Email:	marthac@afth.org
Web Site:	www.afth.org
Notes:	Free meeting! Join us to have all your questions about adoption answered! Start building your family today!

Date:	July 24 -26, 2009
Time:	All weekend
Sponsor:
Topic:	2009 – Guatemala Adoptive Families Event. Full day of speakers, exhibitors for all ages and interest levels.
Speaker(s):	Various
Location:	Sheraton Parsippany Hotel, Parsippany, NJ
Contact(s):
Email:
Web Site:	http://www.gafe-network.org http://groups.yahoo.com/group/GAFE2009/
Notes:	A weekend of great events geared towards families who adopted from Guatemala.

Date:	July 25, 2009
Time:	10:00 Am - 2:00 PM
Sponsor:	New Jersey Self-Help Group Clearinghouse
Topic:	How to start an effective self-help support group.
Speaker(s):
Location:	Ewing Branch Library 61 Scotch Rd. Ewing, NJ 08628
Contact(s):	1-800-367-6274 or (973) 989-1122 (Mon-Fri 8:30 AM - 5:00 PM)
Email:	bwhite@sainclares.org
Web Site:	http://www.njgroups.org/
Notes:	The workshop is designed for anyone who is interested in starting, or who has recently started, a self-help group for any issue. Come have fun while learning new skills, exchanging ideas, and sharing techniques.

Date:	July 26, 2009 Rain date August 02, 2009
Time:	11:00 AM - 4:00 PM
Sponsor:	Monmouth / Ocean Adoption Support Group
Topic:
Speaker(s):
Location:
Contact(s):
Email:	If you are interested in attending, contact Amy at thebabyfat@optionline.net
Web Site:
Notes:	See former friends and make new friends at our Cheesequake State Park event on July 26th. We will be meeting at the Hooks Lake area of the park (please follow signs in the park to the Hooks Lake area). This area has a swimming lake with a lifeguard stand so bring your bathing suits. There are picnic tables in the area, as well as a basketball court, a children's' playground, a snack bar, and restroom facilities. Unfortunately the area didn't look shady so bring good sun block! Feel free to bring your own lunch or to buy something at the snack bar. There are picnic tables in the area, but it's a good idea to bring blankets to eat on because we don't have the right as a group to reserve all of the lunch tables and keep the general public out of this area. On weekends, the park charges people $10/car to enter the park so bring your friends and/or family (just let us know the headcount)!

Date:	July 27, 2009
Time:	7:15 PM - 9:15 PM
Sponsor:	CHATS
Topic:	Monthly meeting
Speaker(s):	Alison Larkin
Location:	Watchung Avenue Presbyterian Church North Plainfield.
Contact(s):
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	Springing from her internationally acclaimed one-woman show and her hilarious, poignant first novel, The English American, Anglo-American writer/comedian/actress Alison Larkin joins CHATS to share her adoption story and discuss her best-selling novel, which has now been optioned by ABC TV for a half-hour television series! Alis on also provides the voice to Mama Hedgehog in the chil dren’s series, The Wonder Pets, reads the audiobook Beck and the Great Berry Battle for Disney and Random House, sings Granny’s Soup in Elissa Schreiner’s new children’s album Grandma Rocks, and more! For further information on Alison Larkin

Date:	July 29, 2009
Time:	7:35 PM - 9:30 PM
Sponsor:	Concerned Persons for Adoption (CPFA)
Topic:	Adoptive Parents' Book Discussion Group
Speaker(s):
Location:	First Presbyterian Church of Whippany 494 Route 10 West, at Whippany Road, Whippany
Contact(s):
Email:	Cpfanj_pres@yahoo.com
Web Site:	www.cpfanj.org
Notes:	Please join us for a lively and thought provoking discussion of the book "The Language of Blood: A Memoir" by Jane Jeong Trenka. The discussion is free; light refreshments will be served.

AUGUST

Date:	August 5, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoption Options, a program of Lutheran Social Ministries of NJ
Topic:	Meet our counselor and learn about open infant and waiting child programs FREE - domestic adoption Information meeting
Speaker(s):	Kerry Murphy, Adoption Counselor
Location:	6 Terri Lane, Suite 300, Burlington, NJ 08016
Contact(s):	Terry Dingle
Email:	tdingle@lsmnj.org
Web Site:	www.lsmnjadoption.org
Notes:	RSVP

Date:	August 8, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From The Heart
Topic:	Learn About Adoption- Information meeting answering all your questions you may have about domestic and international adoptions.
Speaker(s):	An AFTH social worker
Location:	AFTH Cherry Hill Office
Contact(s):	(856) 665-5655
Email:	JenniferB@afth.org
Web Site:	www.afth.org
Notes:	We hope to see you there!

Date:	August 10, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM
Sponsor:	A Loving Choice Adoption Associates
Topic:	Steps to Domestic Agency Adoption
Speaker(s):	Agency Staff
Location:	25 Monroe Avenue Shrewsbury, NJ 07702
Contact(s):	Cathleen McNee (732) 224-0924
Email:	alovingchoice@comcast.net
Web Site:	www.alovingchoice.org
Notes:	This is an information meeting for those interested in learning more about domestic adoption utilizing the services of A Loving Choice. There is no charge for this meeting, but please call or email to register. Meetings are held on the second Monday of every month.

Date:	August 24, 2009
Time:	11:00 AM - 1:00 PM
Sponsor:	Ametz Adoption program / JCCA
Topic:	End-of-Summer ADOPTIVE FAMILY POT LUCK
Speaker(s):
Location:	Mohegan Lake, Westchester County, NY
Contact(s):	(212) 558-9949
Email:
Web Site:	www.jccany.org/potluck
Notes:	Swings and climbing equipment - Beach and Swimming - Basketball court and Ball field. Bring a dish to share, towels, chair, pails and shovels, balls and more. Meet local families, Kathy Brodsky, Marci Schwartz-Ruff, and other Ametz/JCCA staff.

Date:	August 20, 2009
Time:	12:30 PM - 3:30 PM
Sponsor:	New Jersey Self-Help Group Clearinghouse
Topic:	An Afternoon of Facilitation Tips and Techniques
Speaker(s):
Location:	Clifton Public Library, Allwood Branch 44 Lyall Road Clifton, NJ 07012
Contact(s):	1 (800) 367-6274 or (973) 989-1122
Email:	bwite@saintclares.org
Web Site:	http://www.njgroups.org/
Notes:

Date:	August 29 and 30, 2009
Time:	Saturday, 8:00 AM - 9:00 PM Sunday, 9:00 AM - 4:30 PM
Sponsor:
Topic:	Weekend of Solutions
Speaker(s):	Dr. Ronald Federici and Heather T. Forbes, LCSW
Location:	Marriot Bethesda 5151 Pooks Hill Road Bethesda, MD, 20814
Contact(s):	(407) 401-0999
Email:
Web Site:	http://www.weekendofsolutions.com/
Notes:	This two day intensive parent training will move you past the academics of brain and trauma research into real-life, effective parenting solutions. Dr. Federici and Ms. Forbes are nationally and internationally known professionals in this field. Yet, unlike other professionals you have trusted for advice, both Federici and Forbes are parents of internationally adopted children. They've both been in the trenches and in your shoes. They know the struggles, chaos, and pain children with trauma histories bring into a home environment. $397 Individuals, 497 couples.

SEPTEMBER

Date:	September 2, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoption Options, a program of Lutheran Social Ministries of NJ
Topic:	FREE domestic adoption information meeting. Our counselor will discuss domestic adoption issues, our programs and services, and answer any question you may have. Adoption Options provides compassionate, caring services for those involved in the adoption process.
Speaker(s):	Kerry Murphy
Location:	6 Terri Lane, Suite 300 Burlington, NJ 08016
Contact(s):	Terry Dingle
Email:	tdingle@lsmnj.org
Web Site:	www.lsmnjadoption.org
Notes:	Information meetings are held the first Wednesday of every month. Please RSVP.

Date:	September 9, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Domestic Adoption Law Night
Speaker(s):	Denise Bierly, Esq., licensed in Pennsylvania; and Donald Cofsky, Esq., licensed in New Jersey
Location:	2100 Arch Street Philadelphia, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky (267) 256-2053
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Join us to learn more about domestic adoption law in PA and NJ. Our presenters are well known in the field of adoption law and both are members of the American Academy of Adoption Attorneys. Registration required at least 48 prior to event. $25 for families unaffiliated with Open Arms.

Date:	September 12, 2009
Time:
Sponsor:	New Jersey Parent's Caucus
Topic:	Introduction to Professional Parent Advocacy Empowering the Parent Voice: Motivation & Assertiveness Conflict Resolution Skills & The Power of Persuasion Empowering vs. Enabling Professionalism & Communication Skills
Speaker(s):	Dr. Helene Robbins, NJPC Advisory Board; Sydney Rose, Youth, Special Education Advocate, PPAT Graduate, NJPC. Jill Seropian, Parent, NJPC Board Member, PPAT Graduate. Kathy Wright, Parent, Executive Director, NJPC; Consultant, National Technical Assistance Center for Children’s Mental Health, Georgetown University; Consulting Pool, National Cultural Competency Center, Georgetown University.
Location:	The Church of Jesus Christ the Lord 140 Lawrence Place Paterson, NJ 07501
Contact(s):	Jessica at (973) 989-8866
Email:	jessicaa@njparentcaucus.org
Web Site:
Notes:	NJPC is offering a FREE five-week Professional Parent Advocacy Training program for parents, grandparents, foster parents, adoptive parents, and other caregivers. Parents and caregivers attending the training are given the opportunity to strengthen their knowledge of the systems that serve their families, their rights and responsibilities within those systems, and the advocacy, professional, and collaborative skills needed to successfully negotiate those systems. Parents will become better able to advocate for themselves and their communities, resulting in increased access to appropriate care and treatment for all children. Professional Parent Advocacy is approved for foster, adoptive and kinship training credit. Lunch will be served and transportation stipends are available. Early registration is recommended.

Date:	September 15, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From The Heart
Topic:	Discover Domestic Adoption
Speaker(s):	An AFTH Social Worker
Location:	AFTH Cherry Hill Office
Contact(s):	(856) 665-5655
Email:	jenniferb@afth.org
Web Site:	www.afth.org
Notes:	Free information meeting- we hope to see you there!

Date:	September 16, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Domestic Infant Open Adoption Information Meeting
Speaker(s):
Location:	Lovett Library 6945 Germantown Avenue Philadelphia, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky (267) 256-2053
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Thinking about adoption? We welcome you to attend our FREE information meeting to learn about our program and meet the staff.

Date:	September 18, 2009
Time:	7:30 PM
Sponsor:	Monmouth / Ocean County Adoptive Family Support Group
Topic:	Adoption in the Schools
Speaker(s):	Christine Letizia
Location:	St Mary's Church, Colt Neck, NJ
Contact(s):	Danielle (732) 845-0791 or Liz (732) 743-9113
Email:
Web Site:	www.freewebs.com/mocafsg/
Notes:	We welcome back Christine Letizia from A Loving Choice Adoption Associates, to discuss Adoption/Foster Care in our schools. Always a great presentation!

Date:	September 19, 2009
Time:
Sponsor:	New Jersey Parent's Caucus
Topic:	Navigating the Special Education System & the IEP Process Developing a Transitional Plan Zero Tolerance & IDEA – Individuals with Disabilities Education Act NCLB – No Child Left Behind Act
Speaker(s):	Dr. Helene Robbins, NJPC Advisory Board; Sydney Rose, Youth, Special Education Advocate, PPAT Graduate, NJPC. Jill Seropian, Parent, NJPC Board Member, PPAT Graduate. Kathy Wright, Parent, Executive Director, NJPC; Consultant, National Technical Assistance Center for Children’s Mental Health, Georgetown University; Consulting Pool, National Cultural Competency Center, Georgetown University.
Location:	The Church of Jesus Christ the Lord 140 Lawrence Place Paterson, NJ 07501
Contact(s):	Jessica at (973) 989-8866
Email:	jessicaa@njparentcaucus.org
Web Site:
Notes:	NJPC is offering a FREE five-week Professional Parent Advocacy Training program for parents, grandparents, foster parents, adoptive parents, and other caregivers. Parents and caregivers attending the training are given the opportunity to strengthen their knowledge of the systems that serve their families, their rights and responsibilities within those systems, and the advocacy, professional, and collaborative skills needed to successfully negotiate those systems. Parents will become better able to advocate for themselves and their communities, resulting in increased access to appropriate care and treatment for all children. Professional Parent Advocacy is approved for foster, adoptive and kinship training credit. Lunch will be served and transportation stipends are available. Early registration is recommended.

Date:	September 20, 2009
Time:	12:00 PM - 3:00 PM
Sponsor:	Children's Aid and Family Services
Topic:	Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption Annual "*Meet & Greet" Event*
Speaker(s):	Various Activities
Location:	Knights of Columbus 79 Pascack Road Washington Township, NJ
Contact(s):	Please contact our Wendy's Wonderful Kids recruiter Kristen Brady at (201) 226-0300 x 225 or email Kristen at kbrady@cafsnj.org.
Email:	kbrady@cafsnj.org
Web Site:	www.cafsnj.org
Notes:	Click here to find out about Children’s Aid and Family Services and view profiles / videos of our waiting children: http://www.cafsnj.org/services/adoption/children.html

Date:	September 22, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM - 8:30 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From The Heart
Topic:	India Surrogacy Program- Free information meeting
Speaker(s):	Facilitators of Surrogacy Abroad Inc. India Surrogacy Program
Location:	3031 Hampstead Circle Wynnewood, Pa 19096
Contact(s):	Adoptions From The Heart
Email:	afthmarketing@afth.org
Web Site:
Notes:

Date:	September 24, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	The Hospital Experience: What to Expect
Speaker(s):	Meredith Rose, MSW, MPH
Location:	2100 Arch Street, Philadelphia, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky (267) 256-2053
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	It's difficult to imagine what your experience at the hospital will be like before you have even been chosen by a birthparent. Nonetheless, our work shows that there are several scenarios that we often see and experience together. Join us to discuss and to learn about how Open Arms will support both you and the birth family. Additionally, participants will hear from an adoptive mother who has three hospital experiences from which to reflect upon. Registration required at least 48 prior to event. $25 for families unaffiliated with Open Arms.

Date:	September 26, 2009
Time:	10:00 AM - 12:00 PM
Sponsor:
Topic:	We Are Here to Help You
Speaker(s):
Location:	First Baptist Church of Teaneck 1592 Teaneck Road, Teaneck, NJ 07666
Contact(s):	Rev. Marilyn M. Harris, Pastor (201) 837-317
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	Classes will meet every Saturday, Grades 1-12

Date:	September 26, 2009
Time:
Sponsor:	New Jersey Parent's Caucus
Topic:	Understanding Childhood Mental Health Challenges & the DSM IV How Knowledge of the Brain Influences Adult/Child Interaction
Speaker(s):	Dr. Helene Robbins, NJPC Advisory Board; Sydney Rose, Youth, Special Education Advocate, PPAT Graduate, NJPC. Jill Seropian, Parent, NJPC Board Member, PPAT Graduate. Kathy Wright, Parent, Executive Director, NJPC; Consultant, National Technical Assistance Center for Children’s Mental Health, Georgetown University; Consulting Pool, National Cultural Competency Center, Georgetown University.
Location:	The Church of Jesus Christ the Lord 140 Lawrence Place Paterson, NJ 07501
Contact(s):	Jessica at (973) 989-8866
Email:	jessicaa@njparentcaucus.org
Web Site:
Notes:	NJPC is offering a FREE five-week Professional Parent Advocacy Training program for parents, grandparents, foster parents, adoptive parents, and other caregivers. Parents and caregivers attending the training are given the opportunity to strengthen their knowledge of the systems that serve their families, their rights and responsibilities within those systems, and the advocacy, professional, and collaborative skills needed to successfully negotiate those systems. Parents will become better able to advocate for themselves and their communities, resulting in increased access to appropriate care and treatment for all children. Professional Parent Advocacy is approved for foster, adoptive and kinship training credit. Lunch will be served and transportation stipends are available. Early registration is recommended.

Date:	September 29, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Domestic Infant Open Adoption Information Meeting
Speaker(s):
Location:	1301 Springdale Road Cherry Hill, NJ
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky (267) 256-2053
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Thinking about adoption? We welcome you to attend our FREE information meeting to learn about our program and meet the staff.

OCTOBER

Date:	October 2009
Time:	5:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Family Connections, Inc
Topic:	Strengthening Families of Essex Program (SFOE)
Speaker(s):
Location:	Maple Avenue School in Newark (by Newark Beth Israel)
Contact(s):	Travis Wranitz, LAC, Coordinator (201) 259-3543
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	SFOE is a 14 week skills based program for families that have at least one child between the ages of 6-11 (5 and 12 Ok too). We usually meet from 530-800 one night a week. For the first 45 minutes to an hour we have dinner together. The parents and children then break up into their respective groups for an hour. Some topics that we cover in group include social skills, communication skills, managing stress, solving behavior problems, and building stronger relationships. After the groups, the families come back together for a family activity. This is usually something fun for the family to do together. This is also a good time for the family to practice something they learned in group. Families receive a $10 gift card for each session they attend as well as a tray of food to take home after session. We hold a graduation ceremony at the end of the cycle. Families that graduate receive certificates of completion and a nice family gift. We don't tell the families what the gift is, but in the past, we have sent families to the circus, Newark Baseball (with BBQ package) and to the movies. We have 2 group co-facilitators for each group as well as a babysitter for children 4 and under. To see SFP brochure please click here.

Date:	October 1, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Domestic Infant Open Adoption Information Meeting
Speaker(s):
Location:	Lawrence HQ Library 2751 Brunswick Pike Lawrenceville, NJ
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky (267) 256-2053
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Thinking about adoption? We welcome you to attend our FREE information meeting to learn about our program and meet the staff.

Date:	October 3, 2009
Time:
Sponsor:	New Jersey Parent's Caucus
Topic:	Understanding the Child Welfare System & Family Involvement in DYFS Strengthening the Juvenile Justice System through Family Involvement Cultural Competency & Diversity in the Child-Serving Community Collaborating with Agencies Dedicated to Children & Families
Speaker(s):	Dr. Helene Robbins, NJPC Advisory Board; Sydney Rose, Youth, Special Education Advocate, PPAT Graduate, NJPC. Jill Seropian, Parent, NJPC Board Member, PPAT Graduate. Kathy Wright, Parent, Executive Director, NJPC; Consultant, National Technical Assistance Center for Children’s Mental Health, Georgetown University; Consulting Pool, National Cultural Competency Center, Georgetown University.
Location:	The Church of Jesus Christ the Lord 140 Lawrence Place Paterson, NJ 07501
Contact(s):	Jessica at (973) 989-8866
Email:	jessicaa@njparentcaucus.org
Web Site:
Notes:	NJPC is offering a FREE five-week Professional Parent Advocacy Training program for parents, grandparents, foster parents, adoptive parents, and other caregivers. Parents and caregivers attending the training are given the opportunity to strengthen their knowledge of the systems that serve their families, their rights and responsibilities within those systems, and the advocacy, professional, and collaborative skills needed to successfully negotiate those systems. Parents will become better able to advocate for themselves and their communities, resulting in increased access to appropriate care and treatment for all children. Professional Parent Advocacy is approved for foster, adoptive and kinship training credit. Lunch will be served and transportation stipends are available. Early registration is recommended.

Date:	October 5, 2009
Time:	1:00 PM - 5:00 PM
Sponsor:	NJ Coalition for Adoption Reform and Education (NJCARE)
Topic:	Morristown Post-Adoption Support Group
Speaker(s):
Location:	Presbyterian Parish House 65 South Street Morristown, NJ
Contact(s):	Judy Foster
Email:	jfoster7@optonline.net
Web Site:
Notes:	Please join us for some spirited discussion and an update on legislation.

Date:	October 5, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM - 8:30 PM
Sponsor:	Family Support organization of Bergen County
Topic:	Find out about the Educational Representation Project
Speaker(s):	Rehana Rasool, ESQ & Mary O’Brien, ESQ Northeast New Jersey Legal Services
Location:	0-108 29th Street Fair Lawn, NJ 07410
Contact(s):	(201) 796-6209x102
Email:	lbfsobc@covad.net
Web Site:
Notes:	Find out about the Educational Representation Project (legal advice and representation regarding education issues to low-income residents of Bergen, Hudson and Passaic Counties). Advise and /or represent parents, grandparents, other caretakers who are involved with DYFS because of abuse or neglect accusations against them.

Date:	October 7, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoption Options, a program of Lutheran Social Ministries of NJ
Topic:	FREE domestic adoption information meeting. Our counselor will discuss domestic adoption issues, our programs and services, and answer any question you may have.
Speaker(s):	Kerry Murphy, MSW
Location:	6 Terri Lane, Suite 300, Burlington, NJ 08016
Contact(s):	Terry Dingle
Email:	tdingle@lsmnj.org
Web Site:	www.lsmnjadopton.org
Notes:	Adoption Options provides compassionate, caring services all parties involved in the adoption process. Information meetings are held the first Wednesday of every month. Please RSVP if you plan to attend.

Date:	October 9, 2009
Time:	9:30 AM - 2:00 PM
Sponsor:	Culturally Competent Mental Health NJ
Topic:	"Cultural Competency from Theory to Action"
Speaker(s):
Location:	United Way Building on the first floor at the Mental Health Association in NJ office at 60 So. Fullerton Ave. Suite 105 Montclair, NJ 07042
Contact(s):	Michelle Garrone (973) 571-4100 x163
Email:	mgarrone@mhanj.org
Web Site:
Notes:	This *free* course will explore theory and practice that will help mental health professionals become culturally competent and promote outstanding, culturally competent treatment to the diverse NJ population. You will learn to: 1. Identify racial and ethnic disparities in the provision of services to minorities, and the under-served population. 2. Learn how to implement a Cultural Competence Survey. 3. Learn how to assess the Cultural and Linguistic competence of their staff. 4. Learn about instruments to check the applicability and sustainability of the changes implemented. 5. Learn about SAMHSA Standards and how to implement the required SAMSHA standards. 6. Assess participants own cultural background, values, attitudes and experiences in order to further develop self-awareness. 7. Learn about Cross Cultural Communication and how to apply this in practice. 8. Learn about models and roles that enable the provision of Culturally Competent Services. 9. Learn the basic principles of reaching out and creating culturally competent materials to promote services.

Date:	October 10, 2009
Time:
Sponsor:	New Jersey Parent's Caucus
Topic:	Empowering the Parent Trainer-Train the Trainer
Speaker(s):	Dr. Helene Robbins, NJPC Advisory Board; Sydney Rose, Youth, Special Education Advocate, PPAT Graduate, NJPC. Jill Seropian, Parent, NJPC Board Member, PPAT Graduate. Kathy Wright, Parent, Executive Director, NJPC; Consultant, National Technical Assistance Center for Children’s Mental Health, Georgetown University; Consulting Pool, National Cultural Competency Center, Georgetown University.
Location:	The Church of Jesus Christ the Lord 140 Lawrence Place Paterson, NJ 07501
Contact(s):	Jessica at (973) 989-8866
Email:	jessicaa@njparentcaucus.org
Web Site:
Notes:	NJPC is offering a FREE five-week Professional Parent Advocacy Training program for parents, grandparents, foster parents, adoptive parents, and other caregivers. Parents and caregivers attending the training are given the opportunity to strengthen their knowledge of the systems that serve their families, their rights and responsibilities within those systems, and the advocacy, professional, and collaborative skills needed to successfully negotiate those systems. Parents will become better able to advocate for themselves and their communities, resulting in increased access to appropriate care and treatment for all children. Professional Parent Advocacy is approved for foster, adoptive and kinship training credit. Lunch will be served and transportation stipends are available. Early registration is recommended.

Date:	October 13, 2009
Time:
Sponsor:
Topic:	Adoptive Families' new book, You Can Adopt will be featured on The Martha Stewart Show on Tuesday, October 13, on NBC.
Speaker(s):
Location:
Contact(s):
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	Check your local listings for the time. Learn more about the book at adoptivefamilies.com/youcanadopt

Date:	October 14, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From The Heart
Topic:	Bringing Baby Home! A parenting education course designed for adoptive parents.
Speaker(s):	AFTH Adoption Professional
Location:	AFTH Cherry Hill Office
Contact(s):	(856) 665-5655
Email:	JenniferB@afth.org
Web Site:	www.afth.org
Notes:	$10/ person

Date:	October 14, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM
Sponsor:	JCCA
Topic:	How to Adopt Domestically and Internationally
Speaker(s):
Location:	New York City, Manhattan
Contact(s):	(212) 558-9949
Email:
Web Site:	www.jccany.org/ametz
Notes:	For those looking into adoption: In this time of economic worries and limited adoption options, Ametz rolls back the cost of attending out initial HOW TO ADOPT DOMESTICALLY AND INTERNATIONALLY MEETINGS. Come to these FREE sessions to learn the ins and outs, and possible options of domestic and international adoption, without committing to the process or JCCA.

Date:	October 14, 2009
Time:	7:30 PM - 9:30 PM
Sponsor:	Full Circle Triad Post-Adoption Group
Topic:	October meeting
Speaker(s):
Location:	Panera Bread Rt. 4 West ( KOHL's Shopping Center) Paramus, NJ
Contact(s):
Email:
Web Site:	www.fullcircletriadnj.com
Notes:	Please join us for an evening of spirited discussion, support, and sharing.

Date:	October 15, 2009
Time:	7:30 PM
Sponsor:	JCCA
Topic:	How to Adopt Domestically and Internationally
Speaker(s):
Location:	Rockland - Suffern, New York
Contact(s):	(212) 558-9949
Email:
Web Site:	www.jccany.org/ametz
Notes:	For those looking into adoption: In this time of economic worries and limited adoption options, Ametz rolls back the cost of attending out initial HOW TO ADOPT DOMESTICALLY AND INTERNATIONALLY MEETINGS. Come to these FREE sessions to learn the ins and outs, and possible options of domestic and international adoption, without committing to the process or JCCA.

Date:	October 15, 2009
Time:	7:30 PM - 9:30 PM
Sponsor:	Spence - Chapin
Topic:	Finding the Right Words: Talking to Kids About Adoption
Speaker(s):
Location:	Unitarian Church of Montclair 67 Church Street Montclair, NJ
Contact(s):	Kara (212) 360-0256
Email:	kstyles@spence-chapin.org
Web Site:	www.spence-chapin.org
Notes:	Advance Registration required. There is a program fee of $25.

Date:	October 17, 2009
Time:	8:45 AM - 2:00 PM
Sponsor:	Infertility and Adoption Counseling Center
Topic:	Crossing the Bridge from Infertility to Adoption
Speaker(s):	Joni S. Mantell, LCSW
Location:	Princeton Hyatt, 102 Carnegie Center Princeton, NJ 08540
Contact(s):	(609) 737- 8750
Email:	JMantellMSW@iaccenter.com
Web Site:	http://www.iaccenter.com
Notes:	This popular workshop is for people considering or waiting to adopt because it is a great way to jumpstart their emotional and practical understanding of both the adoption process and becoming a parent through adoption. Speakers include psychologists, adoptive parents, birth parents and adults who were adopted. We have early bird discounted rates available through October 1, 2009 and for the first time this workshop will be approved by NASW for 5 continuing education hours. Families and professionals may want to register today!

Date:	October 18, 2009
Time:	10:00 AM - 4:30 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Open Adoption Seminar
Speaker(s):	Meredith Rose, MSW, MPH
Location:	Lower Moreland Township Community Room 625 Red Lion Road Huntingdon Valley, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky (267) 256-2053
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Join us for a full day exploration of Open Adoption.. Topics to be presented include include preparing to adopt, the nuts and bolts of the adoption process, and the benefits of maintaining a life-long healthy open adoption. Interwoven throughout the day, birth and adoptive families will share their open adoption experience. Registration required at least 48 prior to event. $50 for families unaffiliated with Open Arms.

Date:	October 20, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From The Heart
Topic:	Domestic Adoption
Speaker(s):	An AFTH Social Worker
Location:	451 Woodland Avenue, Cherry Hill, NJ 08002
Contact(s):	(856) 665-5655
Email:	jenniferb@afth.org
Web Site:	www.afth.org
Notes:	Join us for a free information meeting and learn about our domestic adoption process, adoption myths vs. facts, financial assistance and the benefits of open adoption. Hope to see you there!

Date:	October 22, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:30 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Transracial Adoption: Becoming a Multi-Racial Family
Speaker(s):	Abby Ruder, MFT
Location:	2100 Arch Street Philadelphia, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky (267) 256-2053
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	This workshop will be an opportunity to explore and prepare for the experience of transracial adoption— its joys, challenges, and richness. Topics discussed will include: the unique parenting tasks in transracial adoption; building interracial family identity; supporting healthy racial identity development for children of color; issues of race and racism interracial families formed by adoption face; choosing diversity over convenience; creating cultural competence and building bridges to our children's heritage of origin. Registration required at least 48 prior to event. $25 for families unaffiliated with Open Arms.

Date:	October 24, 2009
Time:	10:00 AM - 12:30 PM
Sponsor:	Infertility and Adoption Counseling Center
Topic:	Baby Care for Adoptive Parents
Speaker(s):	Jennifer Gamper Meenan, RN, BSN, MSW, LCSW
Location:	IAC Center, 2 Tree Farm Road, Suite A200 Pennington NJ 08534
Contact(s):	(609) 737- 8750
Email:	JMantellMSW@iaccenter.com
Web Site:	http://www.iaccenter.com
Notes:	This workshop is an opportunity for pre-adoptive parents to learn about baby care in a comfortable setting. Some agencies will accept Certificates of Attendance for their clients to use this baby care class to fulfill a home study requirement.

Date:	October 29, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Domestic Infant Open Adoption Information Meeting
Speaker(s):
Location:	2100 Arch Street Philadelphia, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky (267) 256-2053
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Thinking about adoption? We welcome you to attend our FREE information meeting to learn about our program and meet the staff.

Date:	October 29, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM
Sponsor:	JCCA
Topic:	How to Adopt Domestically and Internationally
Speaker(s):
Location:	Manalapan, New Jersey
Contact(s):	(212) 558-9949
Email:
Web Site:	www.jccany.org/ametz
Notes:	For those looking into adoption: In this time of economic worries and limited adoption options, Ametz rolls back the cost of attending out initial HOW TO ADOPT DOMESTICALLY AND INTERNATIONALLY MEETINGS. Come to these FREE sessions to learn the ins and outs, and possible options of domestic and international adoption, without committing to the process or JCCA.

NOVEMBER

Date:	November 2, 9, 16, 23, 30, 2009
Time:	7:30 PM - 9:00 PM
Sponsor:	Children's Aid and Family Services
Topic:	As an adoptive person, have you always wished you could talk to other adoptees? An Adopted Persons Support Group
Speaker(s):
Location:	148 Prospect Street Ridgewood, NJ 07450
Contact(s):	(973) 762-5887 Gloria T. Smith, LCSW or Meryl Balaban
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	The group will focus on: How adoption has impacted your life, Common experiences and feelings, Search and Reunion, Sharing expectations vs. realities. The cost of the five week session is $75 To see the flyer please click here.

Date:	November 4, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:30 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Baby Care Basics
Speaker(s):	Susan Slear, RN, CCE, CHBE, IBCLC
Location:	2100 Arch Street Philadelphia, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky (267) 256-2053
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	This 2.5 hour workshop is designed to help build your confidence as a new parent by learning safe and comfortable ways to care for, diaper, swaddle and bathe your baby. We will also learn about newborn appearance and characteristics, choosing a pediatrician, crib and car seat safety. Registration required at least 48 prior to event. $25 for families unaffiliated with Open Arms.

Date:	November 5, 2009
Time:	3:00 PM - 6:00 PM
Sponsor:	Family Success Center
Topic:	Open House
Speaker(s):
Location:	44 Armory St Englewood, NJ 07631
Contact(s):	(201) 568-0817
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	Come and see the new location of Family Success Center! Lear about what programs, activities, parent-education workshops and events are offered. Enroll in any number of fun programs available.

Date:	November 6, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM
Sponsor:
Topic:	Journey of Love: An Annual Adoption Celebration, hosted by Nancy and Annabel Greene
Speaker(s):
Location:	Ridgewood Public Library
Contact(s):
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	We'll share stories, questions and joy. Treats and surprises. All invited!

Date:	November 9, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Domestic Infant Open Adoption Information Meeting
Speaker(s):
Location:	Lovett Library 6945 Germantown Avenue Philadelphia, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky (267) 256-2053
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Thinking about adoption? We welcome you to attend our FREE information meeting to learn about our program and meet the staff.

Date:	November 9, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM - 8:30 PM
Sponsor:	Family Support organization of Bergen County
Topic:	Increase Communication with Your Adolescent
Speaker(s):	Joan Badin, Ph.D. Bergen County Department of Human Services
Location:	0-108 29th Street Fair Lawn, NJ 07410
Contact(s):	(201) 796-6209 x 102
Email:	lbfsobc@covad.net
Web Site:
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Date:	November 12, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:30 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	The Effects of Substance Abuse During Pregnancy
Speaker(s):	Dr. Rachel Hachen and Dr. Susan Friedman- Pediatricians at CHOP
Location:	2100 Arch Street Philadelphia, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky (267) 256-2053
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	This workshop will provide an overview of the current understanding of the effects of drug use on developing fetuses during pregnancy. We will discuss the short term physical effects and the potential long term behavioral effects. Various groups of drugs will be discussed due to their specific properties and routes of ingestion, including prescription and illicit drugs. We will also review outcomes for children that have been exposed to drugs during pregnancy and how a positive change of environment can affect them. Registration required at least 48 prior to event. $25 for families unaffiliated with Open Arms.

Date:	November 12, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Domestic Infant Open Adoption Information Meeting
Speaker(s):
Location:	1301 Springdale Road Cherry Hill, NJ
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky (267) 256-2053
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Thinking about adoption? We welcome you to attend our FREE information meeting to learn about our program and meet the staff.

Date:	November 14, 2009
Time:	8:00 PM
Sponsor:	The Adoptive Parents Committee Long Island Chapter and The Ties Program Adoptive Family Homeland Journeys
Topic:	Traveling to Your Child's Land of Birth - A Journey Back, a Journey Forward.
Speaker(s):	Becca Piper, founder and director of The Ties Program
Location:	St. Judes Church 3606 Lufberry Avenue Wantagh, NY (Nassau County)
Contact(s):
Email:	Info@AdoptiveFamilyTravel.com
Web Site:
Notes:	A heritage journey is one of the most significant factors in the identity building process of internationally adoptive children. This workshop will look at the most frequently asked questions surrounding birth country travel. What age is the right age? What can we do to prepare (even from the time of placement)? What kinds of adoption exploration are possible when traveling? What is “adoptee loyalty” and how might it impact our family? What might it be like to meet birth family? Or not? How do kids react before, during and after the journey? Cost: $5 per person to APC (to cover room rental, etc.)

Date:	November 14, 2009
Time:	4:00 PM - 7:00 PM
Sponsor:	New Jersey Adult Adoptee Community (NJAAC)
Topic:	NJ Adopted Adults Born Internationally (Support Group)
Speaker(s):
Location:	Triumph Brewing Company 138 Nassau Street, Princeton, NJ
Contact(s):
Email:	contactus@njaac.org
Web Site:	http://www.njaac.org/
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Date:	November 15, 2009
Time:	1:00 PM - 4:00 PM
Sponsor:	Children's Aid and Family Services
Topic:	Come Celebrate National Adoption Awareness Month!
Speaker(s):
Location:	Riggs House 148 Prospect Street Ridgewood, NJ
Contact(s):	Debbie Capalbo (201) 445-7015 ext. 212
Email:
Web Site:	www.cafsnj.org
Notes:	If you are thinking about adopting a child, if you have adopted a child, if you are an adult adoptee, this celebration is for you! Children’s Aid and Family Services will host an Adoption Celebration day, to commemorate November as National Adoption Awareness Month. Join us and learn more about the support services available to adoptive families. Special guest Darryl McDaniels "DMC" of RUN-DMC shares his adoption journey.

Date:	November 17, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From The Heart
Topic:	Domestic Adoption Informational Meeting
Speaker(s):
Location:	Cherry Hill AFTH Office 41 Woodland Ave, Cherry Hill, NJ 08002
Contact(s):	Katherine Lafferty
Email:	KateL@afth.org
Web Site:	www.afth.org
Notes:	The meeting will cover the adoption process for our programs, adoption myths vs. facts, financial assistance, etc. Join us to learn more about adoption and find the program that is right for your family.

Date:	November 19, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:30 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Exploring Children's Developmental Understanding of Adoption
Speaker(s):	Abby Ruder, MFT
Location:	2100 Arch Street Philadelphia, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky (267) 256-2053
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	In this workshop we will anticipate your child’s questions about being adopted, what children need to know at different ages and stages about their origins and their stories. We’ll explore how children feel about adoption, what's on their minds and in their hearts. Our conversation will include building a healthy identity based on honoring your child’s dual heritage (birth and adoptive) and the unique emotional landscape of loss that is a normal part of adoption experience and integral to the search for self. Registration required at least 48 prior to event. $25 for families unaffiliated with Open Arms.

Date:	November 22, 2009
Time:	8:00 AM - 5:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptive Parents Committee, Inc.
Topic:	The 29th Annual APC Adoption Conference
Speaker(s):	Holly van Gulden, Adoption Counselor Co-author of "Real Parents, Real Children”
Location:	St. Francis College 180 Remsen Street, Brooklyn, NY 11201
Contact(s):	(212) 304-8479 NY (201) 920-0502 NJ
Email:
Web Site:	www.adoptiveparents.org
Notes:	Attendee fee includes over 85 Seminars & Workshops Dozens of adoption resources assembled in one place.

Date:

November 22, 2009 and November 24, 2009

Time:

Sundays at 9:30 AM and Tuesdays at 11:30 AM

Sponsor:

Topic:

Adoption Records

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Location:

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Notes:

New Jersey adults, who were adopted as children, are barred from access to their birth records. A bill to change that recently passed committee with a unanimous decision, but there is staunch opposition to the proposed legislation from an unlikely coalition of opponents: the A.C.L.U., the NJ State Bar Association, and Right to Life. History is in their favor as the bill has been voted down repeatedly since it was first introduced in 1980. Sandy King’s field piece profiles two adoptees who have been lobbying ever since. But we also hear from the director of NJ Right to Life who fears a rise in abortion rates if adoption files were opened. In the studio, Raymond Brown talks to if State Sen. Loretta Weinberg, Bar Association Representative Thomas Snyder, and Attorney Barry Evenchick. For more information, log onto http://www.njn.net/television/njnseries/dueprocess/2006season/1113.html

Date:	November 23, 2009
Time:	7:15 PM - 9:15 PM
Sponsor:	CHATS
Topic:	Book club/sharing meeting
Speaker(s):
Location:	Watchung Avenue Presbyterian Church North Plainfield
Contact(s):
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	Our book this month is "The Primal Wound" by Nancy Verrier. If you've read the book or just want to hear what others have to say, please join us for this last CHATS of 2009.

DECEMBER

Date:	December 2, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoption Options, a program of Lutheran Social Ministries of NJ
Topic:	FREE domestic adoption information meeting. Our counselor will discuss domestic adoption issues, our programs and services and answer any questions you many have. Adoption Options provides compassionate, caring services for those involved in the adoption process.
Speaker(s):	Kerry Murphy
Location:	Lutheran Social Ministries 6 Terri Lane, Suite 300 Burlington, NJ 08016
Contact(s):	Terry Dingle
Email:	tdingle@lsmnj.org
Web Site:	www.lsmnjadoption.org
Notes:	Information meetings are held the first Wednesday of every month. Please RSVP if you plan to attend

Date:	December 3, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 9:00 PM
Sponsor:	Saint Clare’s Health System
Topic:	Yes, Teens AND Their Parents Are Crazy
Speaker(s):	Michael Bradley, Ed.D., Keynote Speaker
Location:	Meadow Wood Manor 461 Route 10 East Randolph, NJ
Contact(s):	1-866-STCLARE (1-866-782-5273)
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	Dr. Michael Bradley will give parents and other adults real-world advice, strategies and methods they can use to achieve positive results. He will take attendees inside a teen’s head and help them understand why teens think and behave the way they do, showing attendees how to better communicate and relate to teens. Dr. Bradley will also help kids see the dilemmas of the teen years from their parents’ perspective, and to develop new strategies for resolving old conflicts. Participants are sure to enjoy this joint program designed to facilitate teen/parent communication, including Dr. Bradley’s funny, scary and empowering session, and the panels of parents and teens. Please join us for this important event. We can make a difference if we all work together! You MUST Pre-Register! Deadline for Registration is November 27, 2009.

Date:	December 3, 2009
Time:	7:30 PM - 9:30 PM
Sponsor:	Spence-Chapin Adoption Resource Center
Topic:	Preparing for a Visit to the Birth Country
Speaker(s):
Location:	Unitarian Church of Montclair 67 Church Street, Montclair, NJ
Contact(s):	Kara (212) 360-0259
Email:	ardworkshops@spence-chapin.org
Web Site:	www.spence-chapin.org
Notes:	A trip to the birth country brings up unexpected issues and emotions for both the child and the parent. This workshop will help parents explore children's potential fears, expectations, hopes and reactions to this trip as well as their own. There is a program fee of $25 per person.

Date:	December 4, 2009 and December 11, 2009
Time:	9:30 AM - 2:00 PM
Sponsor:	Culturally Competent Mental Health NJ
Topic:	Cultural Competency: From Theory to Action
Speaker(s):
Location:	United Way Building on the first floor at the Mental Health Association in NJ office 60 So. Fullerton Ave., Suite 105 Montclair, NJ 07042
Contact(s):	Betty Arrington (201) 653-3888 x126
Email:	barrington@iinj.org
Web Site:
Notes:	This *free* course explores theory and practice that helps mental health professionals become more culturally competent. It promotes how to achieve outstanding, culturally competent treatment to a diverse population in New Jersey.

Date:	December 5, 2009
Time:	10:00 AM - 2:00 PM
Sponsor:	New Jersey Self-Help Group Clearinghouse
Topic:	How to Start an Effective Self-Help Support Group
Speaker(s):
Location:	Galloway Branch Library 306 E. Jimmie Leeds Rd. Absecon, NJ 08201
Contact(s):	1 (800) 367-6274
Email:	bwhite@saintclares.org
Web Site:
Notes:	The workshop is free, however space is limited and pre registration is required.

Date:	December 5, 2009
Time:	1:00 PM - 5:00 PM
Sponsor:	NJ Coalition for Adoption Reform and Education (NJCARE)
Topic:	Morristown Post-Adoption Support Group
Speaker(s):
Location:	Presbyterian Parish House 65 South Street Morristown
Contact(s):
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	Please join us for some spirited discussion and an update on legislation.

Date:	December 7, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM - 8:30 PM
Sponsor:	Family Support organization of Bergen County
Topic:	Take Back Control: How to Help Your Child Manage Their Anger
Speaker(s):	Melissa Kleiwerda, LSW Anger Management Parent Group Facilitator Care Plus NJ, Inc
Location:	0-108 29th Street Fair Lawn, NJ 07410
Contact(s):	(201) 796-6209 x 102
Email:	lbfsobc@covad.net
Web Site:
Notes:

Date:	December 7, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Domestic Infant Open Adoption Information Meeting
Speaker(s):
Location:	2100 Arch Street Philadelphia, PA
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Thinking about adoption? We welcome you to attend our FREE information meeting to learn about our program and meet the staff. Registration required.

Date:	December 8, 2009
Time:	6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Sponsor:	Open Arms Adoption Network
Topic:	Domestic Infant Open Adoption Information Meeting
Speaker(s):
Location:	Katz JCC 1301 Springdale Road Cherry Hill, NJ
Contact(s):	Shlomit Twersky
Email:	info@OpenArmsAdoption.net
Web Site:	www.OpenArmsAdoption.net
Notes:	Thinking about adoption? We welcome you to attend our FREE information meeting to learn about our program and meet the staff. Registration required.

Date:	December 15, 2009
Time:	7:00 PM
Sponsor:	Adoptions From The Heart
Topic:	Discover Domestic Adoption !
Speaker(s):
Location:	Wynnewood, PA
Contact(s):	Martha Coulbourne
Email:	MarthaC@afth.org
Web Site:	www. afth.org
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Date:	December 16, 2009
Time:	12:00 Noon - 1:00 PM Central Time
Sponsor:	Adoption Learning Parents
Topic:	Overwhelmed for the Holidays
Speaker(s):
Location:	On your computer, click here to register
Contact(s):
Email:
Web Site:
Notes:	Please join us for a timely webinar discussion on helping adopted children and families celebrate the holidays without becoming overwhelmed. The session covers: understanding your child's capacity to cope, teaching them self-regulation skills, and finding ways to remember their birth family during this special time of the year. The session will be lead by Judy Stigger, LCSW, an adoption therapist at The Cradle and the Director of Professional Relations for Adoption Learning Partners. A professional with over 30 years' experience in the field, Judy is also an adoptive mom herself. Limited space so reserve your spot today.

Date:	December 18, 2009
Time:	6:00 PM - 8:30 PM
Sponsor:	Infertility and Adoption Counseling Center
Topic:	IAC Center Holiday Party and Annual Book Swap
Speaker(s):
Location:	IAC Center; 2 Tree Farm Road, Suite A200 Pennington, NJ, 08534
Contact(s):	Emily
Email:	emorgan@iaccenter.com
Web Site:
Notes:	This is a fun evening and a chance to meet families at a huge space downstairs at the Pennington, NJ office with different party event rooms including a soft space for the youngest kids; a dance space for tweens; a book swap room and some art activities and lots of good food and company for all. Meet people at different stages of the family building process and some IAC Center counselors. Spend some holiday time with your group if you are in one and come just to have fun.