
NJ ARCH: What's New
Archives
12/23/10
Institute Asks Companies, in
Their Holiday Advertising, to be Sensitive to Adoption Concerns
12/20/10
The Holiday Season can be a trigger for a child who has suffered
past traumas prior to adoption or current placement.
12/20/10
Parents' stress filters down to kids, not that Mom and Dad notice
12/15/10
New Jersey Foster Care Scholars
12/15/10
Cookies, Stockings
Lights and Love: Rise December 2010 Web Exclusive
12/15/10
Successful Older Child
Adoption: Lessons from the Field
12/15/10
Unpacking the “No” of
Permanency for Older Adolescents: Planning for Youth Transitioning from Foster
Care to Adulthood
12/15/10
Child Welfare/Education
Collaborations – State Examples
12/14/10
Mom2mom Services
12/08/10
Webinar
To Discuss the Effects of Childhood Trauma in Girls' Lives
12/08/10
The New Jersey Foster Care Scholars Program Celebrates Six
Years of Success!
12/02/10
12/02/10
Families across N.J. grow a bit larger on National
Adoption Day
12/02/10
Special Day for Families
Fulfilled Through Adoption
12/01/10
Report Examines Educational Experiences of
Children Entering Foster Care
12/01/10
SAVE THE DATE! - NYC Educational/Advocacy Event on
Achieving Equal Rights in Adoption
11/29/10
A Home for the
Holidays
11/29/10
Sensory Issues and the Holidays
11/29/10
Kid-Friendly Christmas Crafts
11/29/10
Celebrating the Holidays
11/18/10
Congressional Summer Internships for Current or Former
Foster Youth
1/18/10
Fostering Family Adoption Month Promotion
11/18/10
Essential
Skills for Working with LGBTQ Youth in Out of Home Care (Video)
11/18/10
LGBTQ Foster and Adoptive Parenting Information
Packet
11/18/10
New resources on
the federal adoption tax credit!
11/18/10
Consideration of
Foster Care and Subsidy payments as family income.
11/18/10
Going to AAC Conference? Take advantage of
reduced rate during November.
11/09/10
Adoptive Families On-Line Magazine
11/09/10
Adoption Month Ideas
11/09/2010
New Law
Aims for Educational Stability for Children in Foster Care
11/04/2010
Advocates for Children of New Jersey E-news
11/04/2010
Adoption Agency Organizes Gift Card Drive For Women in
Need
11/02/10
Tax
Credit Resources Updated
11/02/2010
Long Island attorney found guilty in $300K adoption scheme
11/02/2010
Let's Celebrate National Adoption Month Together!
10/19/2010
National Adoption Month 2010
10/19/2010
Welcome to National Adoption Day
10/19/2010
DCF's
Adoption Operations Director Honored as an Angel in Adoption
10/13/2010
Report Details Experiences
of Foster Youth in an Employment Training and Job Placement Program
10/13/2010
National Adoption Month
Website Now Available
10/11/2010
Florida
court strikes down gay adoption ban
10/06/2010
New NYS
Law Allows Unmarried Couples to Jointly Adopt
10/06/2010
The Adoption Tax Credit and the Affordable Care Act
10/05/2010
Adoption Cafe
10/05/2010
The reviews for the NJCTS Wednesday Webinar
“Childhood Bullying: Are Adults the Problem?” was outstanding
09/30/2010
New NYS Law Allows Unmarried Couples to Jointly
Adopt!
09/30/2010
Good Preschools May Prevent Problem Behaviors
Later
09/30/2010
New Census Data Shows Drop in Uninsured Children Rise in
Poverty
09/27/2010
Hard
Truths of Some Adoptions
09/27/2010
Victories for Families
09/23/2010
Congratulations to Rose Zeltser
09/22/2010
New law Gives Foster Children School Stability
09/20/10
HHS awards $39 million to states for increasing adoptions
09/13/2010
An
Adopted Linebacker With an Unlikely Story
09/08/2010
Free
Informational Opportunities Offer Ways to Build Your Family
08/23/2010
2010 Foster Youth Interns Release Policy Report
08/23/2010
Do Students have to pay taxes on their summer income?
08/23/2010
U.R.O.C.K.
A program for Teens Transitioning out of Foster Care
07/27/2010
We're home! Now what? Webinar
07/27/10
Graying Adoptees Still Searching for Their Identities
07/19/2010
Turrell Child Care &early Learning Center Fall Enrolment
07/19/2010
Report shows Misconceptions Stymie Equality for Adoptees
by Keeping Records Closed
07/14/2010
New Management and Supervision section in Child Welfare
Information Gateway
07/01/2010
Adoption Fact Sheets
06/29/2010
State Budget Restores $3 Million Budget Allocation to New
Jersey After 3
06/28/2010
Facebook Fuels Honesty, Unpredictability in Adoption
As Adoption Becomes
More Open, Social Media Present New Questions
06/24/2010
Educational
Scholarships offered by the University of Phoenix
06/16/2010
N.J. Assembly committee approves bill unsealing adoptees'
birth records
06/14/10
Edison
man fights for adoptees' rights in new film
06/03/2010
The Birds and
the Bees (via the Fertility Clinic)
06/02/2010
Adoption Records
05/24/2010
AdoptUSKids twitter party
05/18/10
Modern Love: Open Adoption: Not So Simple Math
05/13/10
Time for Prom and Graduation? Time to Talk with Your Teens
05/12/2010
Beyond Culture Camp: Promoting Healthy Identity in Adoption
05/10/2010
May is National Foster Care Month
05/10/2010
Harvard University Announcement: No tuition and No Student
Loans
05/06/2010
In Some Adoptions, Love Doesn't Conquer All
05/04/2010
May is National Foster Care Month!
05/03/2010
Presidential Proclamation - National Foster Care Month
05/01/2010
May is
National Foster Care Month...You Can Change a Lifetime
04/27/2010
Russia, Adoption Notice
04/14/2010
Anderson Cooper’s CNN’s
interview with Dr. Jane Aronson regarding the Russian Adoption
04/08/2010
Study Finds More Woes Following Foster Care
04/06/2010
After Haiti earthquake, spike in adoption requests
benefits other countries in need
04/01/2010
April is Child Abuse Prevention Month
03/23/2010
NJ Senate Approves Open Adoption Birth records Bill
03/08/2010
SCS for
S799/S1399 released to Senate for vote
03/08/2010
An only child finds his big family
03/04/2010
N.J. Senate panel approves bill unsealing adoptee birth
records
03/03/2010
Open
records bill for NJ adoptees advances in Legislature
02/27/2010
Fostering Connections to Success and Increasing Adoptions
Act
02/27/2010
The 2009 Federal Tax Guide for Foster Parents and Kinship
Parents
02/23/2010
Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute
(CCAI)
launches blog to provide you with more adoption and foster care resources!
02/23/2010
Children's Trust Fund Tax Check-off
02/08/2010
New
Resources from NACAC
02/04/2010
Haiti's Children Best Served By Care, Not Removal
02/03/2010
EITC Awareness Day is Friday, January 29, 2010:
Help Spread the
Word about the Earned Income Tax Credit
02/03/2010
A family in China made babies their business
02/03/2010
Mother and Child
01/25/2010
New Adoption Documentary "Off
and Running", opens at the IFC Center in New York City on January 29th
01/25/2010
NACAC has posted updated state adoption fact sheets
01/25/2010
Haiti quake, tough standards complicate adoption process
01/20/2010
Canada to fast-track
Haitian adoptions.
01/20/2010
UNICEF worries about Haitian children adoptions
01/20/2010
Quebec holding new Haitian adoption requests over child smuggling fear
01/20/2010
53 Haitian Orphans Are Airlifted
to U.S.
01/19/2010
Center For Family Connections It's Show Time
01/19/2010
Assessing Lesbian and Gay Prospective Foster and Adoptive
Families: A Focus on the Homestudy Process
01/19/2010
Hearst Training Introductory Webinar, March 18, 2010
01/13/2010
Help When It Is Needed Most
01/12/2010
Intercountry Adoption
12/22/2009
Deadline Approaches for Foster Youth Internship Program
12/21/2009
Significant Reduction in International Adoptions
12/21/2009
Lean Times, but No Raise in Adoptions
12/08/2009
Jane Aronson: The
Guardian Angel
12/02/2009
A Home for the
Holidays
11/30/2009
New Colombia Adoption Sibling
Registry launched
11/30/2009
December 2009 Adoption Month E-Magazine
11/24/2009
"Find My Family" premiers on ABC-TV
11/24/2009
Parents Matter: The Role of Parents in
Teens' Decisions about Sex
11/23/2009
Nia Vardalos,
the breakout star of the 2002 hit
My Big
Fat Greek Wedding,
has adopted a child.
11/23/2009
First-Ever National Data on Adopted Children and
Their Families
11/18/2009
Adoption Records November 22nd and 24th Show.
11/16/2009
National Adoption Awareness Month, 8 Ways to Celebrate
10/29/2009
Operation Medicine Cabinet
10/29/2009
DCF Newsletter October 09
10/28/2009
Professional Training Adopting Older Children
10/20/2009
A life spent
advocating fiercely for children
10/20/2009
How to Be an Adoption Advocate
10/15/2009
New Jersey’s 28th Annual “Let’s Talk Adoption”
Conference
10/15/2009
November is National Adoption Month.
10/15/2009
Adoptee aims to change rules for birth certificates
10/13/2009
Three
decades after adoption, DNA test reveals painful truth
10/01/2009
She Adopted a Child - Then Gave Him Up
09/30/2009
UMD Case Transracial Research
09/30/2009
AdoptUsKids: Interjurisdictional Placement Services
09/30/2009
Mental Health Needs of Foster Children and Children
At-Risk for Removal
09/22/2009
Co-workers at Waldoboro store discover they are brothers
09/17/2009
HHS Awards
$35 Million to States for Increasing Adoptions
09/17/2009
National Child Welfare Evaluation
Summit Materials Available Online
09/17/2009
Child Trends Research Brief:Examining Judges' Perspectives on Termination of Parental Rights and Adoption of
Foster Children
09/17/2009
Mission
Transition: A Valuable Tool for Foster Youth Aging Out of Care
09/15/2009
DCF PRESS RELEASE - New Jersey Launches New Campaign to
Support Foster Care and Prevent Child Abuse
09/14/2009
Freedom is not Free
09/08/2009
Man from EHC wants adoptees
to get access to medical history
08/03/2009
2009 Best Adoption-Friendly Workplaces
07/30/2009
Returning to her Roots Guatemala Connections
07/23/2009
Adoption Stories: Fact and Fiction
07/23/2009
The Benefits of and Barriers to Out-of-School
Programs for Youth
07/22/2009
Domestic vs. International Adoption: Are Celebrities
Overlooking American Children?
07/22/2009
Adoption - Records Advocates to protest in Phila
07/22/2009
New Resources on NYSCCC Website
07/20/2009
New Jersey Parents Caucus Presents 2nd Annual NJ Community
Outreach & Advocacy Tour
07/20/2009
07/16/2009
Safe
Haven Television Commercial Begins Statewide Run Ad reminding parents of law
will air through Labor Day
07/07/2009
Siblings find each other after 53 years
06/30/2009
Closely Supervised Foster Care Linked With Reduced Pregnancy
Rates For Delinquent Teens, Study Says
06/30/2009
State Practices for Assessing Health Needs, Facilitating
Service Delivery, and Monitoring Children’s Care
06/30/2009
Fragile Tanzanian Orphans Get Help After Mothers Die
06/29/2009
Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute (CCAI)
June/July Newsletter
06/29/2009
Bill on adoptees' access to
birth records to be heard
06/29/2009
Adoptee Rights Demonstration
06/11/2009
Happy to
be called the 'birth mother's husband'
06/10/2009
Application for Workforce Investment Act (WIA) Youth
Program for the year 2009
06/08/09
Ruling Open Up Doors to Past
06/01/2009
Raising Katie
What adopting a white girl taught a black family about race in the Obama era.
05/25/2009
Harvard Study Raises BPA Concerns
05/20/2009
Income Eligibility
Schedules for Publically Subsidized Child Care Assistance or Services 2009
05/19/2009
Suddenly, siblings
05/19/2009
05/06/2009
Create a Lifebook : Free Course 'til June 1st
05/05/2009
State-Level Differences in Child and Family Well-Being
04/24/2009
H.A.P.S. Achieved Full Hague Accreditation
04/20/2009
Youth Benefit From Strong
Families Regardless of Income
04/20/2009
The latest “Intercountry Adoption A- Z”
04/15/2009
Chinese Hunger for Sons Fuels Boy's Abductions
04/14/2009
NACAC offers Advocacy Training in Washington DC.
04/13/2009
Singing and Rapping for Their Rights as adoptees
04/13/2009
A life or death search for her family ties
04/07/2009
A different
mid-life crisis: Man learns he's adopted
04/01/09
Higher Education/ College
Scholarship Information from Foster and Adoptive Family Services.
03/26/2009
Allocation of Title IV-E stimulus funds may help forestall
cuts in foster care and adoption assistance that some states are currently
considering
03/19/2009
White House Internship Program
03/19/2009
Camp Excell: Programs Available in Monmouth and Bergen
County
03/11/209
CPFA Upcoming program and Discussion
03/12/09
The Interview of Anne Bauer, the author of "The Sound of
Hope: A true Story of an Adoptee's Quest for her Origins"
on WWOR-TV, Channel 9
03/03/09
Golden Bell Leadership Award
03/03/2009
Spain looks back at dark chapter of adoptions
02/26/2009
Panel: Adopting From Abroad? Get Hepatitis A Shot
02/24/2009
Summary and Section-by-Section Description of the
Fostering Connections to Success and Increasing Adoptions Act of 2008 (H.R.6893)
02/24/2009
Extended Families help Children avoid Foster Care
02/04/2009
Finding Family Roots is Relatively Easy
02/11/2009
Adoption Institute Annual Report
02/04/2009
Adopted Children and IQ
02/04/2009
Effects of Childhood Stress
02/02/2009
Childhood Stress Affects Health Years Later
01/30/2009
"There's No Place Like Home" Spring Gala
01/30/2009
Adoption Notice China
01/30/2009
Dear President Obama: Open Sealed Records
01/27/09
Free Depression Assessment
01/27/2009
The Heart Gallery of New Jersey
01/21/2009
Adoption Costs Piece on Today Show
01/21/2009
The Heart Gallery Newest Project
01/21/2009
Heart Gallery Reception at Johnson &Johnson
01/14/2009
Transcending Trauma
01/10/2009
Celebrating National Adoption Month: Resources for
Professionals
01/07/2009
Facts at a Glance
01/07/09
Russian Furor Over U.S. Adoptions Follows American’s
Acquittal in Boy’s Death
01/05/09
Federal Adoption Tax Credit for Special Needs
Adoptions Finalized in 2007
12/16/2008
Adoption week E-magazine
12/16/2008
Trends in International
Adoption - 2004 to 2008
12/08/2008
The English American by Alison Larkin
11/24/2008
Nebraska revises child Safe Haven Law
11/24/2008
Mothers seek Children Given up for Adoption
11/20/2008
Foreign Adoptions by Americans Drop Sharply
11/13/2008
DCF Plans Over 250 Adoptions to Commemorate
National Adoption Month
11/03/2008
November is National Adoption Month
10/30/2008
The new youth helpline
10/17/2008
Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute 2009 Foster
Youth Internship Program Application
10/14/2008
10/07/2008
Senate passes "Fostering Connections to Success and
Increasing Adoptions Act of 2008 (H.R.6893)
10/06/2008
Father drops off 9 children under 'haven' law
09/23/208
Senate Passes “Fostering
Connections to Success and Increasing Adoptions Act of 2008 (H.R. 6893)
09/04/2008
Adoption Institute E - Newsletter
09/04/08
Heart Gallery of New Jersey - Your Chance to Help a Foster
Child
08/19/2008
Father Involvement Benefits Infants' Cognitive Development
08/18/2008
In Adoptee Search for Roots, Loss and Gain Collide
08/18/2008
Only 4 Weeks Left to Submit Conference and Medical
Institute Proposal
08/18/2008
Interest in Olympics Rekindled by Adopted Girls
07/29/08
An Emotional Call for Change
07/23/2008
Where Did I Come From? One Adopted Woman's
Journey to Find Her Biological Mother
07/23/2008
Tips for Parents Kids in Cars
07/17/2008
Where did I come from?
One Adopted women's Journey to Find Her Biological Mother
07/15/2008
Mickey Duxbury, author of "Making Room in Our Hearts" on
speaking of
07/15/2008
Archeology of Adoption, August 27- September 24,
2008
07/09/2008
Teens Hope to Win Hearts of New Parents
07/07/2008
Speaking of Adoption" this Tues. on the web
06/17/2008
NASW Statement on Foster Care and Adoption
06/12/2008
Poem by adult adoptee expresses hope
06/12/2008
Desire to be adopted leads to law change
06/12/2008
06/11/2008
Little Angel Find Adoption Heavenly
06/11/2008
Flowchart for Hague cases
06/11/2008
Wendy's to Help Sponsor Foster Care
06/10/2008
Did you know...that
the majority of Americans are touched by adoption?
06/10/2008
Merrill Lynch Ranked Among Best U.S. Adoption-Friendly
Workplaces
06/09/2008
Joint Council Update: Guatemala
06/03/2008
Second
Annual Basketball Tournament
06/02/2008
An Evening with "The English American"
06/02/2008
The Heart Gallery Display will be at the Shiloh
Baptist Church, Trenton
05/29/2008
"Unlocking the Heart". Trailer on YouTube
05/27/2008
Spence-Chapin's Adoption Resource Center Presents Adoption
Forum for Teens
05/27/2008
De-emphasis on Race in Adoption is
Criticized
05/21/2008
"Adopted" The movie
05/21/2008
A Child's Right Campaign for Vietnam
05/21/2008
Adoptees Birthright Bill
05/20/2008
"Operation Babylift" available in "Speaking of Adoption" audio file
05/202008
New Child Welfare Information Gateway
05/15/2008
Finding the missing pieces to my family puzzle
05/15/08
Opportunity for Families
05/12/08
Division of Child Behavioral Child
Services Newsletter
05/14/2008
Heat warning
05/14/2008
Member of Run DMC supports foster, adopted kids
05/08/2008
State's adoption law protects privacy of birth
mothers, too
05/08/2008
14 ways for a Birth mother or Birth Father to Honor and
Remember a Placed Child
05/08/2008
Birth Mother Day 05/08
05/08/2008
Joint Council Update - Guatemala
05/06/2008
2008 InKAS Summer School
05/05/2008
05/05/2008
May is National Foster Care
Month...You Can Change a Lifetime!
04/21/2008
Measure would
aid those seeking biological parents
04/16/2008
St John's Adoption Conference call for papers
04/16/2008
"Then She Found Me" a new movie
04/04/2008
The Kinship Caregiver Support Act
03/25/2008
Measure would aid
those seeking biological parents
03/25/2008
Embassy of Kazakhstan Halts
Processing of Adoption Dossiers
03/25/2008
Oceans Apart, A voyage of International Adoption
03/25/2008
Adoption Eq Act letter to Congress
03/20/2008
New Voices: Alison Larkin Adopts Literary
life
03/19/2008
St. John's University 5th Biennial Adoption Conference
call for papers
03/13/2008
Guatemala, No Amnesty for Adoption Fraud
03/06/2008
The English American
03/04/2008
Hague Implementation
03/03/2008
English or American ?
02/28/08
Key official resigns her post at children and family
agency
02/25/2008
With Open Adoption, Anew Kind of Family
02/15/08
As adopptees seek roots, states unsealing records
02/11/08
Families Adopting in Vietnam Say they are Caught in Diplomatic Jam
02/11/08
Transracial adoption surveys
01/30/08
Heart Gallery of New Jersey Featured on CBS, The Early
Show
01/28/08
Listening to parents website
01/28/08
Senate panel approves giving adoptees access to
records
01/28/08
NJ
child welfare chief, Kevin Ryan, resigning
01/28/08
Leader of Child Agency in New Jersey Resigns
01/22/08
Invitation to Larkin's first book-signing event at Morris
Museum
01/17/08
Forever An Orphan
01/17/08
2007 SWR Foster Youth Poetry Contest
01/08/08
New book out by Alison Larkin entitled " The English
American"
01/07/08
The Adoption tax Credit: An Ethical Dilemma
12/19/07
When adoption goes wrong
12/06/07
FosterClub’s Guide for Young People in Foster
Care
12/05/07
A Normal Family
12/05/07
Blood ties and Acts of Love
12/03/07
A Home for the Holidays 2007
11/29/07
Interview with Rose Zelter of CAFS
11/28/07
South Korea and it's Children
11/28/07
The Administration for Children and Families names 15 US
agencies to receive the National Adoption Excellence Awards.
11/14/07
DCF Plans 200 Adoptions to Commemorate National Adoption
Month
11/12/07
Unseal Adoptees Birth Record
11/08/07
Observers Impact of Guatemalan Adoptions
10/29/07
Unknowns of
adoption
10/29/07
10/24/07
2008 Foster Youth Internship Program
10/162007
Guatemala Adoption update
10/09/07
Couple's Secret Has Surprising Outcome
Couple's Life Changes 25 Years After Placing Baby for Adoption
10/09/07
Guatemala seeks to slow exodus of babies to U.S.
10/02/07
College Cost Reduction and Access Act
08/27/07
Illegal Guatemalan Foster Care Home Raid
08/04/07
Summer Interns Experience Life in DC
07/31/07
Mystery-Free Adoption
07/23/07
National Public Radio has done a series of interviews and programs on various
issues in adoption.
07/23/07
International adoption not as
easy as stars make it look
06/18/07
Side by side
06/18/07
American Adoptive
Father Launches Campaign to Help Unwed Korean Moms
06/14/07
Surge in Adoptions Raises Concern in Ethiopia
06/12/07
In
adoptions, anonymity is still the policy
06/11/07
Information party
06/04/07
South Korea's troubled export: babies for adoption
05/31/07
Korean Government Working to Encourage Adoptions
05/30/07
DCF Commissioner Ryan Stresses Importance of Pool, Summer
Safety
05/03/07
Adopted and Searching for answers
05/01/07
The adoption Search
04/13/07
Actress Discusses a Childhood in Foster Care
04/02/07
Share your foster or adoption story with
us.
03/23/07
Being prepared: Knowing How to Find Help for Your Child
03/20/07
Baby
Boy # 3331: An Adoption Story
03/05/07
Adoptions
in Guatemala face US ban
02/06/07
Tax Information for Families with a Special Needs Child
01/31/2007
February is Black History Month
01/24/2007
Birth certificate bill on fast track
01/09/2007
Foreign
adoptions by Americans plunge
01/09/2007
Supporting Youth in Foster Care
01/03/2007
Listen online
for a Foster Care Discussion
12/19/2006
12/14/2006
Bill would help adoptees find birth parents
12/08/2006
Ocean County Library Display 2006
12/05/2006
Senate votes to open adoption records
12/05/2006
Watermelon Hill: Giving Birth In Secret
11/21/2006
Major new report on birthparents finds flowed stereotypes.
11/06/2006
Grand opening of InKAS' Guest House for Korean Adoptees
10/31/06
NJ Senate considers bill giving adoptees access to birth
records
10/31/2006
National Adoption Month, 2006, A Proclamation by the
President of the United States of America
10/23/2006
A son's quest, a secret and a house where hope lived
10/18/2006
Measure advances to let adoptees get a key to their past.
10/18/06
Adoptees seek birth certificates
10/18/2006
Concerned Persons for
Adoption Hosts 25th Annual “Let’s Talk Adoption Conference” at
Rutgers University, Piscataway, NJ
www.cpfanj.org
10/10/2006
NJ Family
Magazine: "Forming a Family"
09/01/2006
Breaking the
Biological Barrier.
08/21/2006
Twin girls were separated at birth.
08/18/2006
Transracial Adoption, NYT 7/17/06
07/20/2006
The International Soundex Reunion Registry
07/13/2006
For
late-discovery adoptees, pain and betrayal
06/23/2006
Child Welfare Information Gateway Opens
06/05/2006
Fall Mentorship
Program for Children 11-14.
06/02/2006
ABC News: Broadcast on 6/1/06 'Aging
Out' and Unprepared for Life
06/01/2006
Tune In and Watch The Discovery Channel's "American
Chopper" at 10 p.m. EST on June 5 &12!
05/09/2006
For adoptees, racial divide still wide
05/01/2006
Trans-racial adoption debate rages
04/28/06
About Foster Care Month
04/25/06
After
the Adoption, a New Child and the Blues
03/23/2006
Adopted in China, Seeking Identity in America.
03/16/2006
Kidsave International's Summer Miracles Program for the NY
Metro area for 2006.
03/16/2006
Child Abuse Prevention Event at Warren Hospital on April
10, 2006
03/14/06
03/09/06
Scholarships and Grants for Foster and
Adopted Youth.
03/07/06
Did you know you can receiveTax Credit and Assistance when adopting?
02/24/06
State Department Issues Final Rules on Intercountry
Adoption.
02/20/06
Lifebooks: Creating and telling your
child’s story.
02/16/06
NACAC's New tax Credit Flier for 2005 tax year.
02/09/06
Legal
loopholes open door for adoption abuse.
02/09/06
Bill Would
Clarify Rights of Fathers of Children Up For Adoption.
02/02/06
February marks the beginning of Black History
Month.
02/02/06
February is Black History Month.
01/31/06
DMC: My Adoption Journey
Air Times on VH-1
01/26/06
How Siblings Fare in Difficult Adoptions
01/06/06
January '06 Campaign Challenges Baby Boomers: "Share What
You Know. Mentor a Child!"
01/06/06
Reinventing Aging: Baby Boomers and civic engagement
12/23/05
Adoptions
fail in Romania
11/09/05
National Adoption Day is November 19, 2005
11/09/05
National Adoption Awareness Month Celebration Ideas:
11/09/05
National Adoption Awareness Month - November 2005; Answering the
Call: “You don’t have to be perfect to be a perfect parent”
11/08/05
George W. Bush's Presidential Proclamation on 2005 National Adoption Month.
10/28/05
Bridge of Hope is recruiting host families for Russian
born orphans, ages 7 to 10 for their first winter program in January of 2006.
10/27/05
50
Years of International Adoption.
10/21/05
The Idea of Adoption: An Inquiry into the History of Adult
Adoptee Access to Birth Records.
10/21/05
New free book resource for children available from
The U.S. Department of Education Office of Communications
and Outreach.
9/12/05
In Moscow, National Council For Adoption Conducts
High-Level Meetings with Russian Adoption Officials: Moratorium Avoided
8/25/05
CPFA's 24th Annual "Let's Talk Adoption" Conference
7/22/05
Trenton Backpack Challenge
6/27/05
Adoptions From Russia Face a Chill
6/14/05
Adoption on the Radio (Listen to a recorded radio
interview!)
5/26/05
Grand Opening of the Heart Gallery June 12
5/24/05
Asbury Press: Adoptee Efforts to Access Birth Records and
Biological Families
4/28/05
Children's Aid and Family Services, Inc. in an Adoption
Television Series:
4/5/05
New Jersey Law Will Recognize Foreign Adoption Decrees
3/21/05
NY Times Article: "Show Them Your Best 'Take Me Home'
Face"
3/21/05
Courier News Article: "Groups, Bill Aim to Give Adoptees
Access to Birth, Medical Histories"
3/15/05
"Listening to Families: Overcoming Barriers to Adopting
Children from Foster Care"
3/14/05
May is National Foster Care Month!!!
3/3/05
Free Online Show for Families!
2/28/05
Congress Considers Adoption Tax Relief
2/15/05
"Adoptees Deserve Access to Family Health Histories" by
Adam Pertman
2/1/05
Federal Adoption Law Reportedly Increases Legal Orphans
1/25/05
"Tragedy to Slavery" Experiences of Orphaned Children
after the Tsunami Disaster
1/6/05
December Issue of New Yorker Magazine: "The Mistress's
Daughter" A Search and Reunion Story
1/6/05
New Cumberland Public Library in PA to Host Korean
Cultural Events
12/28/04
NJ ARCH and Children's Aid and Family Services Outreach
for "A Home for the Holidays"
12/16/04
Children's Aid and Family Services, Inc. Receives the
"Wendy's Wonderful Kids" Grant from the DaveThomas Foundation
12/16/04
Louise Wise Services' Records to be Maintained by
Spence-Chapin
12/9/04
Star Ledger Article: Bill Widening Access to Birth Records
Clears Senate
By: Susan Livio
12/9/04
Council On Adoptable Children Publishes Report- Forging
Connections: Challenges and Opportunities
For Older Caregivers Raising Children
12/9/04
Helpful Links to Help Reduce Holiday Stress
12/9/04
Indianapolis Star Article: One Family, Two Worlds
11/17/04
NJ ARCH Posts Special Chat Room Transcript Page
11/16/04
President Bush Officially Proclaims November as National
Adoption Month
11/16/04
Evan B. Donaldson Foundation Reports on Adoption
Disruption
11/10/04
Reuters Report: Surgeon General Urges Individuals to Track
Family Medical History
11/9/04
Get Ready for "A Home for the Holidays" sponsored by the
Dave Thomas Foundation!
11/8/04
National Adoption Day: "Debunking the Myths - the Facts
About Foster Care Adoption"
11/4/04
The New NJ ARCH Newsletter is Now Available!
11/1/04
CPFA "Lets Talk Adoption" Conference
10/28/04
Adoption.com Article: Support Needed to Make Adoption
Affordable
10/12/04
Volunteer Expo Report
10/8/04
Center for Adoption Research Article: "A Return to
Orphanages?"
9/30/04
Association for Children of New Jersey (ACNJ) Releases
"City Kids Count New Jersey: Summary"
9/30/04
U.S. Census Bureau Completes First-Ever Profile of Adopted
Children
9/29/04
Wall Street Journal Cites Need for Adoptive Parents in the
U.S.
9/29/04
Important Facts Affecting Adoption: American Adoption
Congress Spreads Awareness of Upcoming
November National Adoption Month
9/23/04
The Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute Posts New
E-Newsletter
9/16/04
National Adoption Month Coming Soon!
9/13/04
State of New Jersey - Department of Human Services
Announces Reform Agenda in Child Welfare
8/30/04
Los Angeles Times Article: Chasing Glimpses of a Past
8/24/04
CPFA "Let's Talk Adoption" Conference
8/12/04
The New NJ ARCH Newsletter Is Now Available!
8/6/04
Free On-Line Adoption Courses Available Through Adoption
Learning Partners
7/27/04
More U.S. Birth Mothers Placing Their Children With
Canadian Families
7/27/04
Adoptive Families Magazine: Challenges in Opening Birth
Certificate Records to Adoptees
7/27/04
Children's Rights and AdoptUSKids
Planning a Guide to Match Children With Prospective Families
7/6/04
NJ ARCH Publishes a New "How to Adopt" Handbook
7/6/04
NJ ARCH Library Update
7/6/04
Finding Joy in Your Children
7/6/04
National Campaign Urges Americans to Adopt
7/6/04
International Adoption Statistics
6/21/04
Feature article in the Parent Paper: Celebrations
for adopted children
6/7/04
Embracing Family Offers Various Adoption Workshops
6/3/04
NY Times Article Touts New York City's Family-to-Family
Foster Care Model
5/26/04
Adoption Lawsuit May Force Change at Gladney
5/26/04
Open Records Bill Introduced to NJ Senate
5/10/04
Resource for Crisis Intervention Available Throughout New
Jersey
5/3/04
AdoptUSKids Announces Parent Support Group Mini-grants
4/26/04
U.S. Department of Health and Human Services Posts Data
for Child and Adolescent Well-Being
4/15/04
Annual Heritage Festival Hosted by CPFA
4/13/04
Adoption Institute Newsletter: April 2004
4/13/04
Congressional Foster Youth Internship Program
4/6/04
Harvard University's Tuition Announcement
4/6/04
Mississippi State University Conducts Survey of Foster
Parents and Kids
3/30/04
NJ ARCH Publishes an Adoption Handbook!
3/29/04
Foster and Adoptive Family Services Offers Scholarships
3/29/04
Included 'Fact' not Necessarily Useful Information
3/23/04
New Jersey Releases Plan to Reform Child Welfare System
3/1/04
NJ ARCH Posts its latest Newsletter
2/23/04
Federal Authorities Seize Birth
Certificates in Hudson County
2/23/04
Angel School (Adoptee's Network for Good
Education and Leadership):Korean Language Heritage Program
2/9/04
Wings of Dove: Russian Orphans Coming to New
Jersey
2/3/04
National Adoption Clearinghouse: "Adoption
Glossary of Terms"
2/2/04
The Importance of your
Child’s Heritage
12/23/10
Institute Asks Companies, in Their Holiday Advertising, to be Sensitive to
Adoption Concerns
The Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute, saying
its message is “especially pointed during the holiday season,” today called on
companies to show sensitivity to all types of diverse families when developing
their marketing campaigns.
to read the entire article e please click
here.
12/20/10
The Holiday Season can be a trigger for a child who has suffered
past traumas prior to adoption or current placement.
How to Assist
Your Child in a Crisis.
Children and teens often struggle with difficult challenges growing up in the 21st
century. Sometimes, these challenges appear too great, and a child or teen may
struggle with wishes to hurt oneself or others. For children who had early loss
and trauma, there is more likelihood of having periodic crises. When these
occur, it is important that the child or teen's parents are able to assist the
child to cope with the crisis.
To read the entire article please click
here.
12/20/10
Parents' stress filters down to kids, not that Mom and Dad notice
In a new survey reported by the
American Psychological Assn., children who say their parents are stressed
out also say they feel that way. Some said it made them feel sad, worried or
frustrated - feelings parents seem to be unaware of, according to the survey.
To read the entire article please click
here.
12/15/10
New Jersey Foster Care Scholars
New Jersey continues to make a commitment to
provide financial assistance to eligible foster, adoptive, and homeless youth
seeking a post-secondary education. Through the New Jersey Foster Care Scholars
Program, educational funding has been made available to help youth make a
successful transition to adulthood and self-sufficiency. To read more please
click here
12/15/10
Cookies, Stockings Lights and Love: Rise December
2010 Web Exclusive
“I hope my daughter will have good memories of our holiday traditions.”
In this December 2010 web exclusive from Rise Magazine, Sylvia Perez writes
about holiday experiences, both when her daughter was in foster care and when
she returned home from foster care, as well as her own childhood experiences.
Rise magazine is written by and for parents involved in the child welfare
system. Its mission is to help parents advocate for themselves and their
children.
http://www.risemagazine.org/featured_stories/Cookies_stockings_lights_and_love.html
12/15/10
Successful Older Child
Adoption: Lessons from the Field
This article from the Summer 2010 issue
of “Adoptalk” published by the Northern American Council on Adoptable Children (NACAC)
discusses proven strategies to increase adoptions of older youth. The article,
authored by Mary Boo, describes the results of conversations with leaders in
states that had particular success in increasing adoptions of older children and
teens. It lists key strategies that resulted in significantly increased
adoptions for the states and provides specific examples for each strategy,
highlighting successful experiences of individual states.
http://www.nacac.org/adoptalk/OlderChAdoptions.html
12/15/10
Unpacking the “No” of
Permanency for Older Adolescents: Planning for Youth Transitioning from Foster
Care to Adulthood
This PowerPoint presentation
was developed by Dr. Gerald Mallon, National Resource Center for Permanency and
Family Connections (NRCPFC) Executive Director. It covers statistics, permanency
definitions, compelling reasons, strategies which support permanency, the
concept of permanency for youth, various pathways to permanency, what youth say
they need, and more. (2010)
http://www.hunter.cuny.edu/socwork/nrcfcpp/info_services/youth-permanency.html#ppt
12/15/10
Child Welfare/Education
Collaborations – State Examples
The
Fostering Connections Act builds on prior law by adding a requirement that case
plans ensure the educational stability of the child in foster care and by also
requiring that Title IV-E state plans show that each child receiving a Title
IV-E foster care, adoption, or guardianship payment is a full-time school
student, or is incapable of attending school due to a documented medical
condition. NRCPFC compiled these documents as a tool for State peer-to-peer
sharing about successful education and child welfare collaborations to meet
these requirements. Some of the information was relayed directly to NRCPFC in
response to a survey of State Foster Care Managers and outreach by NRCPFC.
Other information was retrieved from the “Fostering Connections Implementation
State Survey” available on the National Association of Public Child Welfare
Administrators website (
http://www.napcwa.org/Legislative/fostering.asp).
Child Welfare/Education Collaborations
(Highlights): Highlights child
welfare/education collaborations in Delaware, Nebraska, New York, Texas,
Virginia, and Wisconsin. (2010)
http://www.hunter.cuny.edu/socwork/nrcfcpp/info_services/download/ChildWelfareandEducation2pgr.pdf
Child Welfare Education Collaborations
(Full Review): Provides information
on the status of efforts to meet the education requirements of Fostering
Connections in 35 States and the District of Columbia, providing information on
policies, practices, and approaches to collaborations between systems. (2010)
http://www.hunter.cuny.edu/socwork/nrcfcpp/info_services/download/ChildWelfare_and_Education.pdf
12/14/10
Mom2mom Services
UMDNJ’s UBHC and NJMS have partnered to provide a peer
support helpline. MOM2MOM is a 24/7 live answered resource for moms who have
children with developmental disabilities. The program is funded by a generous
grant for The Healthcare Foundation of New Jersey. With there support we are
able to provide this valuable resource. If you or someone you know could benefit
from this program, please pass on the information. The initial phase catchment
of the program is Essex and Union Counties. This is where our outreach efforts
are concentrated. All callers regardless of call origin will be receiving
service.
The number is; 1-877-914-MOM2 (6662)
Find us on the web at:
www.mom2momnow.webs.com
For MOM2MOM flier please click
here, for brochure please click
here
12/08/10
Webinar To Discuss
the Effects of Childhood Trauma in Girls' Lives
On December 14, 2010, at 2 p.m. E.T., the
U.S. Department of Health and Human Services' Office on Women's Health will
present a Webinar on the effects of trauma over girls' lifespans.
Lifecourse Effects of Trauma in the Lives of Girls: Findings from the Adverse
Childhood Experiences Study will explore the frequency of trauma in girls'
childhood and discuss how that trauma affects women's physical and mental health
and behavior. Participants will learn best practices in trauma-informed care and
identify ways to integrate these practices when providing services to trauma
victims.
Resources:
To learn more about this Webinar and register online, visit
https://services.choruscall.com/links/womenshealth.html.
12/08/10
The New Jersey
Foster Care Scholars Program Celebrates Six Years of Success!
The New Jersey Foster Care (NJFC)
Scholars Program closes its sixth successful year this month. Although the
program was signed into existence in 2003, its first sizable student population
occurred during the fall 2004 semester. Since then, 78 students have completed
degree or certificate programs as NJFC Scholars at accredited colleges,
universities, and trade/career schools. The 2008-2009 academic year resulted in
29 graduates, the most in any single year of the program. Foster & Adoptive
Family Services would like to congratulate those graduates and encourage its
current NJFC Scholars in the pursuit of their goals. For more information about
the NJFC Scholars Program, please call 1.800.222.0047 and ask for the
Scholarship Department or send an email:
scholarships@fafsonline.org; for more information log onto
http://www.fafsonline.org/Scholarship.html
12/02/10
Roslyn Lawyer
Gets 20 Years in Adoption Scam
When
the Rhombergs realized that there wasn't
enough space in their family car for a car seat
for a new baby, they pinched their pennies and
bought a minivan. Then, they drove that minivan,
packed with little hats, mittens and onesies,
across the country to Arizona, where their
adoption attorney, Kevin Cohen, had told them
their baby girl was being born. But there never
was a baby. And Tuesday, Cohen, who was
convicted in November of stealing more than
$300,000 from the Rhombergs and 13 other
families by pretending to arrange adoptions for
them, was sentenced to 10 to 20 years in prison.
Michael Rhomberg said he, his wife and their two
previously adopted daughters lost $45,000 to
Cohen in their quest for a third daughter, whom
they had already named Sylvia. But Rhomberg said
money was the least of it. "For us, Sylvia lived
and breathed in our hearts and dreams," Rhomberg
said, adding that the minivan, car seat and all
those tiny clothes still serve as a reminder of
what they lost. "Now, we understand what it
means when people say they feel like they got
punched in the stomach." Nassau County Judge
John Kase sentenced Cohen to the maximum for his
conviction on a 69-count indictment, including
grand larceny and scheme to defraud. During the
trial, Cohen, who represented himself, said he
suffers from multiple illnesses, including
bipolar disorder. He spoke briefly, saying he
shared his victims' "shock, disdain and
bewilderment" over his actions. "The whole truth
will prevail sooner or later," he said.
12/02/10
Families across N.J. grow a
bit larger on National Adoption Day
Eight-year-old Emma-Rose Hastrup
had a lifelong dream fulfilled yesterday. “I always wanted a sister because all
mom had before were boys,” she said. “I wanted a sister to play with.”A week
before Thanksgiving, the priceless gift of family was provided by
Emma-Rose’s parents, Laura and Wayne Hastrup, as the adoption of new daughter
Mily was finalized Friday, National Adoption Day, at the Union County
Courthouse. Two-year-old Mily, a developmentally disabled child, will join the
Hastrup’s three biological children. Mily’s need for a stable, permanent family
combined with the Hastrup’s experience and desire to do right made for a perfect
fit. The Hastrups have previously been foster parents to 16 children.
To read the entire article please click
here.
12/02/10
Special Day For Families Fulfilled
Through Adoption
Hope Crumbley says the moment
her foster children came into her home years ago they became her own. Yesterday
she celebrated the law finally catching up with what her heart has known all
along.
“We’re a family. We are unified
forever,” she said of the three children she adopted this year.
The Ewing resident was among
dozens of adults and children gathered at the Masonic Temple to celebrate
Adoption Day and honor families across the state whose adoptions were finalized
this year.
To read the entire article please click
here.
12/01/10
Report Examines Educational Experiences of
Children Entering Foster Care
A new report
from Chapin Hall examines how children's academic experiences are intertwined
with their family life and maltreatment experiences. Researchers focused on the
experiences of children at the point they became involved with the Illinois
Department of Children and Family Services and found that children who struggled
academically were on the same trajectory when they were first placed in
out-of-home care. The report raises issues for discussion concerning the role of
schools and the child welfare system in supporting the educational progress of
children before the peak of family crisis and after placement in out-of-home
care. Visit the Chapin Hall website to read the full report
Looking Back, Moving Forward.
12/01/10
SAVE THE DATE! - NYC Educational/Advocacy Event
on Achieving Equal Rights in Adoption
The
Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute will hold an exciting, unusual event on
Jan. 18, 2011
to heighten public, media and policymaker awareness about the need to restore
adopted adults’ right to access their original birth certificates. The event
will feature the official world premier of
“I’m Legit” by Darryl (DMC) McDaniels and Zara Philips, an exceptional and
moving music video that vividly brings the issue to life. The Adoption
Institute is committed to this cause, and will work collaboratively with
everyone who wants to make the event (and opening records!) a success. Anyone
with questions or input can contact Adam Pertman at
apertman@adoptioninstitute.org. The event is still in the planning stages
and more information will be available in the near future. In the meantime here
are the essentials.
WHO:
Evan B. Donaldson Adoption
Institute, Darryl McDaniels, prominent activists and scholars, surprise guests
WHAT:
Panel presentation, Q&A and discussion of next steps based on the Institute’s
“For the Records” reports
WHEN:
From
9:30 a.m. until noon on Tuesday, January 18, 2011; please note: light
refreshments will be served
11/29/10
A Home for the Holidays
Stay Tuned for the
next “A Home for the Holidays.” sponsored by Wendy’s International
and The Dave Thomas Foundation (DTF) for Adoption.
This special 12th
anniversary broadcast will be aired on Wednesday, December 22nd at
8pm on CBS. Following the success of the past 11 annual shows, this year's
special continues to tell touching stories about foster care adoption to raise
awareness of this important issue.
This broadcast is
presented in association with the DTF for Adoption and Children's Action
Network. The goal of the Dave Thomas Foundation is to increase the awareness of
the 115,000 children in the United States foster care system that are currently
free for adoption.
Many inspirational
stories of adoptive families will be featured as well as children waiting for
adoption.
For more information about this broadcast visit:
www.davethomasfoundation.org/Our-Programs/A-Home-for-the-Holidays
For adoption resources in Spanish, please log onto:
www.davethomasfoundation.org/Free-Adoption-Resources/Adoption-Guides/Una-guia-para-la-adopcion.
11/29/10
Sensory Issues and the Holidays
We
are just starting two months of what can be a nightmare of parents of a child
with sensory issues.
Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, Hanukah, and New Year’s are filled with
sensory issues. Bright lights, sounds, textures, colors, busy stores, and many
other things can cause your child with sensory issues to have meltdowns or
struggle this time of year.
To read the entire article please click
here.
11/29/2010
Kid-Friendly Christmas Crafts
The
holiday season is upon us again. This season is a time to spend with your loved
ones. And what better way to get your family involved this Christmas than to
have fun with some fantastic kid-friendly Christmas crafts. You have so many
options when choosing which Christmas crafts would be best for your family.
Below you'll find just a sampling of a few great ideas to consider as the
holidays come closer.
To read the entire article please click
here.
11/29/10
Celebrating the Holidays
The
upcoming holidays can be a time of magic, happiness, joy, and love. But for some
foster children, their experiences with this time of year are filled with
sadness, anger, confusion, and loneliness. But it doesn't have to be that way
this year. Decide that this holiday season you're going to make a difference in
your foster child's life through creating happy holiday memories. As this
holiday season progresses, here are some things to consider and keep in mind as
you help your foster child celebrate and create positive memories.
To read the entire article please click
here.
11/18/10
Congressional Summer
Internships for Current or Former Foster Youth
The Foster
Youth Internship Program of the Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute (CCAI)
is for young adults who spent at least 24 consecutive months in foster care at
any point in their life and who have completed at least 4 semesters of higher
education by May 31, 2011. CCAI places these interns in Congressional offices
in Washington, DC for a 9-week internship and provides housing, travel, and a
weekly stipend. Applications are accepted now until January 7, 2011. For more
information and to apply, visit
www.ccainstitute.org/fyiapply or
contact Emily Collins at
Emily@ccainstitute.org.
11/18/10
Fostering Family Adoption
Month Promotion
Fostering
Families Today magazine is conducting a giveaway-a-day in November for current
and new FFT subscribers and Facebook fans. Giveaways include adoption movies,
music CDs, books, subscriptions and more. Prizes will be given away daily
through
FFT's Facebook page. Offer ends
11/30/2011.
11/18/10
Essential Skills for Working
with LGBTQ Youth in Out of Home Care (Video)
This training video, developed by NYS OCFS promotes understanding, offers
concrete guidance to improve well-being and permanency for LGBTQ youth in out of
home care, and reviews standards, expectations, and policies that promote a
safe, respectful environment for LGBTQ youth in out of home placement. Dr. Gary
Mallon, NRCPFC Executive Director, provides perspectives of youth and adults on
LGBTQ issues, and practical guidance for staff working with this population. To
see the video please click
here.
11/18/10
LGBTQ
Foster and Adoptive Parenting Information Packet
This new NRCPFC information
packet provides information on Foster and Adoptive Parenting by LGBTQ
individuals and families. It includes a summary of issues, and reviews facts and
statistics, policy and legislation, and best practices and promising approaches
to work with LGBT foster and adoptive parents. (October 2010) To see please
click
here.
11/18/10
New resources on the federal
adoption tax credit!
We just posted the
latest information from NACAC about the 2010 refundable adoption tax credit.
Famiilies who adopted a special needs (subsidy eligible) child in the last five
years may be eligible for the tax credit, even if they incurred no expenses
related to the adoption. Be sure to read NACAC's excellent fact sheet on
claiming the tax credit for adoptions finalized between 2003 and 2009. View the
NACAC resources, and more, on our
Tax Benefits page.
11/18/10
Consideration of Foster Care and Subsidy payments as family income.
Though foster care and adoption
subsidy payments are not considered taxable income, government agencies,
financial institutions, and others processing applications for financial
assistance have different definitions of income that may include either or both.
NYSCCC has researched and posted current guidelines for the consideration of
foster care and adoption subsidy payments as income for federal & NYS financial
assistance programs. Visit our
financial supports pages for more
information and let us know if you have information about eligibility guidelines
for other programs.
11/18/10
Going to AAC Conference? Take advantage of reduced
rate during November.
If you are planning on going to the AAC
conference in Orlando next April, you might want to take advantage of the
reduced rate for membership during the month of November. Membership entitles
you to a reduced rate at the annual conference among other benefits.
Go to
www.americanadoptioncongress.org and click on Membership. The cost
for new members is $40 or $30 for seniors (62+). Alternatively, print
out the attached and mail it in.
11/09/10
Adoptive Families
On-Line Magazine
To view Adoptive Families On-Line Magazine
for National Adoption Month ideas, click
here
11/09/10
Adoption Month Ideas
To download a month of
National Adoption Month ideas, click here.
11/09/2010
New Law Aims for Educational
Stability for Children in Foster Care
On September 9, 2010, Governor Christie signed into law a
bill
to promote educational stability for children in foster care. The law, designed
to comply with the Federal Fostering Connections to Success and Increasing
Adoptions Act of 2008,
Pub.L.110-351,
will allow more children to remain in their current schools when placed in
foster care.
To read the entire article please click
here.
11/04/2010
Advocates for Children of New Jersey E-news
To read the newsletter please click
here.
11/04/2010
Wynnewood, PA
–
To honor National Adoption Month this November, a local, non-profit adoption
agency organizes a gift card drive to benefit women in need. Each year just
before the holiday season, Adoptions From The Heart (AFTH) makes donations to
women who have placed children through the agency’s domestic adoption program
and have been identified by social workers as needing extra financial
assistance. The identified birthmothers are often already parenting children at
home or don’t have a place to call home. This year the agency expects an even
greater need, so AFTH will be graciously accepting Target, Walmart, Acme and
Visa gift cards to assist birthmothers in purchasing groceries, clothing and
holiday gifts for their children. For many, this is the only way they can do
something special for their children during the holiday season.
“Last year, AFTH donated a total of $12,900 to 29 women who have made adoption
plans for their children and we are eagerly hoping to surpass that this year
with the gift card drive by making it easy—gift cards are a simple item to pick
up while you’re holiday shopping to help a woman in need,” said AFTH Executive
Director Maxine Chalker.
Gift cards ranging from $25 to $200 can be mailed to AFTH’s main office (30-31
Hampstead Circle, Wynnewood, PA 19096, Attn: Gift Card Drive) and please
indicate the gift card denomination.
For more information:
www.afth.org or call 610-642-7200
11/02/2010
Tax Credit Resources Updated
NACAC has updated information on
the U.S. federal adoption tax credit to reflect that the credit is now
refundable. Targeted to families who adopt from care, the resources cover
adoptions finalized in 2010 and those completed in earlier years.
We
encourage you to share this information with families who adopted from foster
care in recent years so they can take full advantage of the newly refundable
credit.
Visit
http://www.nacac.org and click on the tax credit links to access the updated
information.
11/02/2010
Long Island
attorney found guilty in $300K adoption scheme
MINEOLA, N.Y.
— A New York attorney who advertised himself as an adoption expert has been
convicted of stealing more than $300,000 from prospective parents for babies
that did not exist.
Kevin Cohen was convicted Monday in Nassau County Court of grand larceny,
forgery and other charges. He faces up to 92 years in prison. Prosecutors say
Cohen, a Roslyn attorney, scammed hopeful couples with fake sonograms and
fictitious records on forged stationery from hospitals and doctors. Thirteen
prospective parents testified against him at his three-week trial.
Cohen, who represented himself, says he suffers from multiple
illnesses including bipolar disorder and was under medicated at the time.
Copyright 2010 NYP Holdings, Inc. All rights reserved.
11/02/2010
Let's Celebrate
National Adoption Month Together!
Adoption Today magazine is doing a giveaway-a-day in November for
AT subscribers and Facebook fans. Giveaways include adoption movies, music CDs,
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10/19/2010
National Adoption Month 2010
November is National Adoption Month, a month set aside each year to raise
awareness about the adoption of children and youth from foster care. This year's
National Adoption Month initiative targets adoption professionals by focusing on
ways to recruit and retain parents for the 115,000 children and youth in foster
care waiting for adoptive families.
For more information, log onto:
http://www.childwelfare.gov/adoption/nam/
10/19/2010
Welcome to National Adoption Day
National Adoption Day is a national day of celebration of
adoptive families and an opportunity for courts to open their doors and finalize
the adoptions of children from foster care. Since 2000, more than 30,000
children have had their adoptions finalized on National Adoption Day. This year
on November 20, families, adoption advocates, policymakers, judges and
volunteers will come together and celebrate adoption in communities large and
small all across the nation. For more information, log onto
http://www.nationaladoptionday.org/
For information about NJ events, please log onto:
http://www.nationaladoptionday.org/events/2010-11-19/adoption-day---2010
10/19/2010
DCF's Adoption Operations
Director Honored as an Angel in Adoption
For her outstanding advocacy of adoption issues, Ellen
Kelly, Adoption Operations Director for the Division of Youth and Family
Services (DYFS) within the New Jersey Department of Children and Families (DCF),
has been selected by Congressman Rodney Frelinghuysen (NJ-11) as a 2010 Angel in
Adoption. The Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute (CCAI), which
orchestrates the Angels in Adoption program, honored Kelly, along with more than
190 Angels, at an awards ceremony and gala event in Washington, DC, October 6,
2010.
To read the entire announcement please click
here.
10/13/2010
Report Details Experiences of Foster Youth in an
Employment Training and Job Placement Program
This
second report on youth in foster care, employment, and Community Assistance
Programs (CAPs) documents focus groups with foster youth participating in CAPs,
a community-based employment training and job placement program for Cook County
foster youth. In particular, researchers wanted to know: why foster youth
participate in the program; what the program does to help foster youth become
employed; and, how foster youth would change the program to better address their
needs. The report, Experiences of Foster Youth in an Employment Training and Job
Placement Program, is authored by Amy Dworsky and Judy Havlicek and is available
on the Chapin Hall website.
http://chapinhall.org/research/report/employment-training-and-job-placement-program-foster-youth-making-transition-adultho?utm_source=ConstantContact&utm_medium=Email&utm_
campaign=October
10/13/2010
National Adoption Month Website Now Available
Child Welfare Information
Gateway, a service of the Children’s Bureau, Administration for Children and
Families, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, is pleased to announce
that the 2010 National Adoption Month website, created in partnership with
AdoptUsKids, is now available. November is National Adoption Month, a month set
aside each year to raise awareness about the adoption of children and youth from
foster care. This year's National Adoption Month initiative targets adoption
professionals by focusing on ways to recruit and retain parents for the 115,000
children and youth in foster care waiting for adoptive families. The 2010
National Adoption Month website is built around 5 themes to help adoption
professionals build capacity, raise awareness, and make lasting change:
Supporting and Retaining Families; Doing Diligent Recruitment; Working with
Diverse Populations; Doing Proactive Family Finding; and, Facilitating
Interjurisdictional Placements. For each theme, find resources and tools, State
and local examples, and ideas for things you can do today, this week, and this
month to honor National Adoption Month all year. This year's site also
provides a letter from ACYF Commissioner Bryan Samuels, information on how the
Children's Bureau supports adoption, a National Adoption Month poster, and
relevant resources and materials in Spanish. For these and many other useful
resources, bookmark the National Adoption Month website today.
www.childwelfare.gov/adoption/nam/index.cfm
10/11/2010
Florida Court Strikes Down Gay
Adoption Ban
There is no rational
reason to prohibit all homosexuals from adopting children, a Florida appeals
court said on Wednesday in a ruling that upheld a gay man's adoption of two
young boys.
Florida was the only remaining U.S. state to expressly ban adoption by gay men
and women, and state officials said after the court ruling the ban would no
longer be enforced. They have 30 days to decide whether to appeal to the Florida
Supreme Court.
To read the entire article please click
here.
10/06/2010
New NYS Law Allows Unmarried Couples to Jointly
Adopt
Chapter 509 of the
Laws of New York State was passed into law on September 17, 2010, allowing
unmarried couples (including same sex couples) to adopt jointly in New York
State. Visit the New York State Citizens’ Coalition for Children website to read
the text of the new legislation and the Governor's approval memo.
http://nysccc.org/adoption/legal-issues/new-adoption-legislation/
10/05/2010
The Adoption Tax Credit and the Affordable Care Act
On October 5, senior
administration officials and leading advocates will discuss the importance of
the Adoption Tax Credit, and the key improvements made to the credit under The
Affordable Care Act.
Join the live webcast of the discussion today at 12:30 PM EDT on
www.hhs.gov/live.
10/05/2010
Adoption Cafe
On Saturday, October 16th, the National Adoption Center
will be hosting our Adoption Café at the Enterprise Center, Burlington County
College in Mt Laurel, NJ from 10am-1pm. This event is for studied and unstudied
families and will have agencies from NJ, PA and DE presenting their waiting
children. We will also have information tables for support groups and
post-adoptive services.
To see the flier please click
here
10/05/2010
The reviews for
the NJCTS Wednesday Webinar “Childhood Bullying: Are Adults the Problem?”
was outstanding
The reviews for
the NJCTS Wednesday Webinar “Childhood Bullying: Are Adults the
Problem?” was outstanding. Dr. Stuart Green Founder of the NJ
Coalition for Bullying Prevention provided an excellent overview of this
subject and answered questions from families and professionals.
The NJCTS Webinar
chat board for this presentation will be available until October 6, 2010
you may visit
www.NJCTS.org to post any questions or review questions and answers
which have been posted on this topic. If you missed the webinar or
would like to listen again visit
www.NJCTS.org to hear the archived version.
Upcoming Wednesday
Webinar topics include: Navigating the Emergency Room Visit- How to
Effectively Communicate Information About Your Disorder in a
Crisis Situation. For more information, call (908) 575 7350.
09/30/2010
New NYS Law Allows Unmarried Couples to
Jointly Adopt!
Chapter
509 of the Laws of New York State was passed into law on 9/17/10 allowing
unmarried couples (including same sex couples) to adopt jointly in New York
State. View an
Albany Times Union article and visit the
NYSCCC website to read the text of the new legislation and the Governor's
approval memo.
09/30/2010
Good Preschools May Prevent Problem Behaviors Later
American children from low-income families
who are exposed to well-structured, attentive and stimulating preschool programs
between the ages of 2 and 4 years are less likely to develop behavioral problems
during their preteen years, new research says. The finding, reported in the
September/October issue of Child Development, appears to be particularly
strong for boys and black children, the study authors found.
To read the entire article please click
here.
09/30/2010
New Census Data Shows Drop in Uninsured Children, Rise in
Poverty
New Jersey followed national trends with a drop in uninsured
children and a rise in child poverty, according to new U.S. Census Bureau data
released today. The number of uninsured New Jersey children fell to 129,835 in
2009 from 147,720 in 2008, according to the Census Bureau’s American Community
Survey. “With more parents out of work and poverty increasing, the drop in
uninsured children suggests that efforts to enroll more children in NJ
FamilyCare are resulting in fewer uninsured children,” said Cecilia Zalkind,
Advocates for Children of New Jersey.
To read the entire article please click
here.
09/27/2010
Hard
Truths of Some Adoptions
A friend, an adoptive mother,
said to me recently, “I have faced the fact that my daughter is only mine
because I have more money than her birth mother.” That is a simple reality of
adoption, she says, and yet it is so rarely spoken aloud.
Another common reality of adoption, particularly of older children from certain
countries, is that almost overnight a child’s world changes completely — and
sometimes, for the luckier ones, that world was one where she loved and was
loved. That is one of the themes in the PBS documentary
“Wo Ai Ni,
Mommy (I love you, Mommy)”
(available
online until Nov.
1.)
It is also a lesson learned by KJ Dell’Antonia, who writes about family for
places like Slate’s XX Factor, Babble, Parents and Wondertime. As an adoptive
mother she watched the PBS film with recognition and chills. Her daughter
already had a family back in China, she writes, and money was just one of the
reasons the little girl is no longer theirs.
To read the entire article please click
here.
09/27/2010
Victories for Families
A state appeals
court in Florida toppled a monument to bigotry last week, declaring
unconstitutional a 33-year-old state law that prohibited gay people from
adopting children. The animus behind the ban is unmistakable. Its sponsor in the
Florida State Senate, Curtis Peterson, declared in 1977 that its purpose was to
send a message to the gay community that “we’re really tired of you” and “we
wish you’d go back into the closet.”
To read the entire article please click
here.
09/23/2010
Congratulations to Rose Zeltser
Congratulations to Rose Zeltser, VP of Professional Services for Children’s Aid
and Family Services on receiving the 2010 Peter M. Cicchino Lifetime Achievement
Award from the NJ Alliance for Children, Youth and Families.
To read the
entire Award please click
here.
09/22/2010
New Law Gives Foster Children School Stability
New Jersey's foster
children now have the right to stay in their current school when entering foster
care or changing placements, if remaining in that school is in the child's best
interest, under a bill recently signed into law by Governor Christie.
Previously, children entering a foster home attended school in the foster
parents' district. This new law is expected to provide these vulnerable children
with educational stability that can help them succeed in school. ACNJ will be
providing more information on the details of the new law and how caregivers and
others can advocate for the educational stability of children living in foster
care.
To read the law please click
here.
09/20/10
HHS awards $39 million to states for increasing adoptions
The U. S. Department of Health and Human Services today
awarded $39 million to 38 states and Puerto Rico for increasing the number of
children adopted from foster care. States use the funds from this adoption
incentive award to improve their child welfare programs.
"All children deserve loving, safe and permanent homes," said HHS Secretary
Kathleen Sebelius. "It is gratifying that most states continue to excel in
promoting the adoption of children from foster care. I sincerely thank every
adoptive family that has welcomed a child into their home."
States receive $4,000 for every child adopted beyond their best year’s total,
plus a payment of $8,000 for every child age 9 and older and $4,000 for every
special needs child adopted above the respective baselines. The year 2007 is the
baseline.
This year’s incentive award recipients completed more adoptions in 2009 than in
the 2007 baseline year.
"America’s communities benefit when children grow up in stable families," said
David A. Hansell, HHS acting assistant secretary for children and families.
"We’re very pleased that the adoption incentives program is helping states
improve their programs and place more children into homes that are theirs
forever."
States and territories receiving today’s funding are: Alabama, Alaska, Arizona,
Arkansas, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Hawaii, Idaho, Illinois,
Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Louisiana, Maine, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota,
Mississippi, Missouri, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Mexico, North
Carolina, Oklahoma, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South
Dakota, Texas, Utah, Virginia, West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming, and Puerto
Rico.
A list of each state’s adoption incentive award amount can be found at
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/news/press/2010/fy10_adoption_incentive_awards.htm
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09/13/2010
An
Adopted Linebacker With an Unlikely Story
Bryan Kehl leans back, smiles and says his dad has always been a "storyteller."
He
wraps exaggerated finger quotes around that last word to make it clear the
stories his father tells aren't always rigorously fact-checked.
Six of Gary and Nancy Kehl's nine children were adopted, including Bryan. As a
rule, there were never any distinctions made about whose genes came from where:
Everyone was to be treated equally. But there was always one exception—and it
always involved Bryan.
To read the entire story please click
here.
09/08/2010
Free
Informational Opportunities Offer Ways to Build Your Family
CHERRY HILL, NJ –
In our greatest efforts to educate your community on the services we offer to
those looking to build their family, we present several learning opportunities
this month:
Adoptions From The
Heart, a licensed, non-profit adoption agency, will hold a free information
meeting, Adoptions From the Heart Cherry Hill Office (451 Woodland Avenue,
Cherry Hill, NJ 08002) on September 21, 2010 at 7:00PM. The meeting will cover
the adoption process, adoption myths vs. facts, financial assistance, and more.
Join us to learn more about adoption and find the program that is right for your
family. FREE ONLINE
WEBINARS FOCUSED ON HEARTBEATS PROGRAM
The HEARTBEATS: India
Surrogacy Webinar on September 28, 2010 at 7 PM will provide an opportunity to
learn more about surrogacy in India and how this program makes it possible for
intended parents who are unable to carry a child, to have a child that is
biologically related to them. While maintaining the high quality of medical
care, surrogacy in India is considerably less expensive that surrogacy in the
U.S. Available in PA, NJ, DE, VA, CT, and NY and
proudly serving the LGBT community.
Register for
meetings on our calendar of events at
www.afth.org or call 856.665.5655
08/23/2010
2010 Foster youth Interns Release Policy Report
CCAI is proud to announce the release
of the 3rd annual policy recommendations report authored by the 2010
Foster Youth Internship Class. Nicole, Sam, Jeremy, Serena, LaTasha,
Markus, Wendy, Josh, and Victor spent their summer in DC reading reports
and analyzing legislation related to 3 major topics in child welfare:
Federal Financing, the Adoption and Safe Families Act, and the Chafee
Foster Care Independence Act. This report is their way to forever leave
their mark on federal policymakers.
To view the report, click
here
08/23/2010
Do Students have to pay taxes on their summer income?
Many students have a
summer job and may not realize they have to pay taxes on their summer
income. The
Internal Revenue Service (IRS) wants you to know about taxes on income
earned while working a summer job.
All employees fill out a W-4
- Employee's Withholding Allowance Certificate (.PDF document) when
starting a new job. This form is used by employers to determine the amount
of tax that will be withheld from your paycheck. You may use the IRS
Withholding Calculator to verify your withholding tax is correct.
Whether you are working as a waiter or a camp
counselor, you may receive tips as part of your summer income. All income
you receive from tips is taxable income and is therefore subject to
federal income tax.
Many students do odd jobs over the summer to make
extra cash. Earnings you receive from self-employment are subject to income
tax. These earnings include income from odd jobs like baby-sitting and lawn
mowing. If you have net earnings of $400 or more from
self-employment, you will also have to pay
self-employment tax. This tax pays for your benefits under the
Social Security Administration.
Food and lodging allowances paid to
Reserve Officers Training Corps (ROTC) students participating in
advanced training are not taxable. However, active duty pay received during
summer advanced camp is taxable.
Special rules apply to services you perform as a
newspaper carrier or distributor. You are a direct seller and treated as
self-employed for federal tax purposes if you meet the following conditions:
You are in the business of delivering newspapers.
All your pay for these services directly relates to
sales rather than to the number of hours worked.
You perform the delivery services under a written
contract that states you will not be treated as an employee for federal tax
purposes. Generally, newspaper carriers or distributors under age 18 are not
subject to self-employme
08/23/2010
U.R.O.C.K.
A program for Teens Transitioning out of Foster Care
You know as well as I do the challenges that face teens when they leave foster
care. Everyday, your organization works hard to ensure that teens have the tools
they need before they leave care. I can remember the how I struggled to find a
program that was not only educational, but also motivational and engaging for
teens. And after 13 years, I believe we have the perfect one-day program to do
just that! Our team came together to create a program that is unique,
educational, and motivational for teens in care. Below you will find more
information about the one-day program, as well as, how you can bring this
program to your agency. I'd be glad to work with you to create a one-day program
to pull in the teens from your program, and the other programs in your area. I
look forward to talking with you about this exciting program.
Adam Robe, MSW
To read more please click here.
07/27/2010
We're home! Now what? Webinar
Please join us for a webinar introducing adoption
professionals to
WE'RE HOME! NOW WHAT? How to Settle in and Thrive as a New Adoptive Family.
This webinar is for adoption professionals only. Judy Stigger and Barbara
Supergan will walk you through what families will learn in these courses and
will share practical tools to get this help into the hands of families who will
benefit the most.
What's more, you'll get a free NASW-approved CEU course enrollment just for
attending the webinar!
To register please click
here.
07/27/10
Graying Adoptees Still Searching for Their Identities
Carol Cook of Blairstown, N.J., grew up
thinking she was a WASP with Native American blood, a splash of ethnicity that
pleased her because she had majored in anthropology in college. But at 33, the
executive secretary and mother of two inadvertently discovered a secret her
entire family had held from her: Cook was adopted, born in a Catholic hospital
and was likely Italian. "I suspect the [secret] evolved and it became more
impossible to tell me," she said. "I had good parents. But suddenly I was not
the person I thought. I was a totally different nationality. I was floored." Now
she is 68 and a grandmother, but Cook's struggle to find her identity is
never-ending. In New Jersey -- and in all but eight states -- it's against the
law to for her to get her original birth certificate.
To read the entire article please click
here.
07/19/2010
Turrell Child Care &early Learning Center Fall Enrolment
To see the flier please click
here.
07/19/2010
Report shows Misconceptions Stymie Equality for Adoptees
by Keeping Records Closed
In its continuing effort to
improve law, policy and practice so that “all adopted people can achieve equal
treatment with their non-adopted peers,” the Evan B. Donaldson Adoption
Institute today released a major report recommending that every state enact
legislation restoring the right of all adult adoptees to access their own
original birth certificates (OBCs).
To read the entire article please click
here.
07/14/2010
New Management and Supervision section in Child Welfare
Information Gateway
Child Welfare Information Gateway has added an entirely new section to its
website: Management and Supervision. This new section provides the resources
that help child welfare managers and supervisors provide effective leadership
and build and maintain a skilled workforce. The new Management and Supervision
section, which can be found on the left navigation bar of the Information
Gateway website, addresses a vast array of topics relevant to the delivery of
effective child welfare services, which include: Administering and Managing
Child Welfare Agencies and Programs; Ethical Practice and Client Rights;
Evaluating Program, Practice, and Service Effectiveness; Disaster Preparedness
and Response; Funding; Information Systems and Data; Service Improvement;
Supervising Child Welfare Services; System Reform; Training; and, Workforce.
Access the resources of the Management and Supervision website section by
clicking the link below.
http://www.childwelfare.gov/management/
07/01/2010
Adoption Fact Sheets
NACAC produced the following adoption fact sheets to help inform adoption
community members and adoption advocates. The fact sheets, derived mostly from
2007 AFCARS data, have information about the number of waiting children, the
length of time children spend in care, the race of waiting and adopted children,
types of exits from foster care, Title IV-E payments, and more.
To review the entire publication please click
here.
06/29/2010
State Budget Restores $3 Million Budget Allocation to New
Jersey After 3
New Jersey Governor Chris
Christie signed the Fiscal Year 2011 state budget into law today, restoring
$3,000,000 to New Jersey After 3. New Jersey After 3 is a nonprofit organization
which supports a Statewide network of evidence-based afterschool programs that
expand learning time in public schools. The restoration of public investment in
New Jersey After 3 was one of a handful of items restored through the budget
deal between Governor Christie and the Legislature on June 21st, demonstrating
the widespread support of this innovative public/private partnership among State
leaders, and validating New Jersey After 3's position as a top priority for
children and families of the Garden State.
To read the entire article please click
here.
06/28/2010
Facebook Fuels
Honesty, Unpredictability in Adoption
As Adoption
Becomes More Open, Social Media Present New Questions
In private messages and on public pages, adopted children and
parents of children of given up to adoption are seeking out _ and finding _
estranged relatives. But experts say that while the phenomenon is moving
families toward more transparency about adoption, it is also raises new
questions.
"It has the rich promise of opportunity, but also absolutely has potential
pitfalls that we as a field have not thought through and figured out how to deal
with," said Adam Pertman, executive director of the Evan B. Donaldson Adoption
Institute.
The Internet age has enabled more people than ever before to locate their birth
parents or children once given up for adoption, he said, but social networking
sites like Facebook allow reunions to take place without the support systems and
third-party intermediaries traditionally available during that often vulnerable
moment.
"One of the ways we see this manifesting is people are finding each other
without any structures around them, without any guidance around them and often
without any rules," he said.
To read the entire article please click
here.
06/24/2010
Educational Scholarships offered by the University of Phoenix
In partnership with the National
Foster Parent Association, the University of Phoenix has offered 50 full-ride
scholarships to foster youth, foster care alumni or foster parents, under the
banner of the University's First Chance Scholarship program. The scholarship is
redeemable at any University of Phoenix campus, including the online program.
Foster Care Alumni of America has just agreed to partner with NFPA to promote
the scholarships to the alumni community and to assist in the selection of 25
alumni scholarship recipients.
The program is offered on a competitive basis. To access the guidelines and
application
click here, or visit the NFPA website at
www.nfpainc.org.
Time is of the essence! The deadline for applying is July 18, 2010.
Whether you are a first-time college student, someone working to complete their
undergraduate or advanced degree, or an established professional looking to
re-train in a new field, take a look at this opportunity or pass it on to
someone you know could benefit.
06/16/2010
N.J. Assembly committee approves bill unsealing adoptees' birth records
Lawmakers this evening advanced a bill that would allow adoptees
in New Jersey to access medical history and birth records.
The measure was approved by the Assembly Human Services Committee
by a 6-0 vote with four abstentions. It now advances to the full Assembly. It
has already passed the state Senate. To read the entire article please click
here.
06/14/10
Edison
man fights for adoptees' rights in new film
Joe DiGeronimo of
Edison was so close, yet so far.
His search for his birth
parents,
which began 30 years ago, culminated with his learning of his birth father's
identity just six months after he died and five years after his birth mother
died.
"That's the worst part," DiGeronimo said. "That's crazy to know that at least I
could have said hello."
DiGeronimo's search is depicted in the new documentary "For the Life of Me" from
filmmaker Jean Strauss. It will be shown 7 p.m. Sunday at Voorhees Hall on the
campus of Rutgers University in New Brunswick as part of the New Jersey
International
Film
Festival.
To read the
entire article please click
here.
06/03/2010
The Birds and the Bees (via the Fertility Clinic)
If you want to adopt a
child in the United States, you’ll face an array of bureaucratic roadblocks and
invasive interrogations. Adoption agencies will assess your finances, your
relationships, and your fitness as a potential guardian. The interests of the
child, not the desires of the would-be parent, will be treated as paramount
throughout.
If you want to procure sperm or eggs, the process is completely different. You
can shop for gametes the way you’d go shopping for a house or a car — buying ova
from an Ivy League undergraduate, or sperm from a 6-foot-8, athletic, blue-eyed
Dane. The person selling you the right to bear and rear their biological
offspring can do so anonymously, with no future strings attached at all.
To read the entire article please click
here.
06/02/2010
Adoption Records
Airs: Sunday,
May 30th at 9:30 a.m. and 6:30 p.m. & Tuesday, June 1st at
11:30 p.m.
Good news! You
will be able to watch the show on the Web the entire week after
it airs this coming Sunday morning... (through next Saturday
night). Thank you, NJN!
http://tinyurl.com/348wqrk
Adoption Records
New Jersey adults, who were
adopted as children, are barred from access to their birth records. A bill to
change that recently passed committee with a unanimous decision, but there is
staunch opposition to the proposed legislation from an unlikely coalition of
opponents: the A.C.L.U., the NJ State Bar Association, and Right to Life.
History is in their favor as the bill has been voted down repeatedly since it
was first introduced in 1980. Sandy King’s field piece profiles two adoptees who
have been lobbying ever since. But we also hear from the director of NJ Right
to Life who fears a rise in abortion rates if adoption files were opened. In
the studio, Raymond Brown talks to State Sen. Loretta Weinberg, Bar Association
Representative Thomas Snyder, and Attorney Barry Evenchick.
05/24/2010
AdoptUSKids twitter party
Join us for a live Q&A on Twitter!
We’ll be hosting a live
question-and-answer session with adoption experts and former foster youth on
Twitter from 2 to 3 p.m. (EST) on Thursday, May 27. This will be a safe and
open informational chat about the benefits of adoption with a focus on adoption
from foster care.
We welcome you to this online
community of concerned citizens and look forward to your questions about how you
can make the difference of a lifetime for these children.
05/18/10
Modern Love: Open Adoption: Not So Simple Math
We were taking a walk in the woods outside Boston, and
following behind him I was surprised by how much he moved like his father. We
spent that afternoon showing each other icicles and hollow trees, breaking
frozen patterns in the river ice, inching too close to the water to get a better
view of the bridge above.
When we arrived home, Ben said that the reason he wanted to go for a walk was to
spend time with me. It had been three months since I last saw him. I smiled
sheepishly and stepped into the living room, where the woman who had adopted him
six years earlier sat reading the newspaper.
To read the entire article please click
here.
05/13/2010
Time for Prom and Graduation? Time to Talk with Your Teens
Prom season is fast approaching, and for many teens, this time of year
offers a taste of new freedoms and the temptation to engage in risky behavior.
A new study of 11th and 12th grade students from across the country shows that
teens don't recognize the dangers of driving on prom and graduation night, even
though they recognize their peers may be more likely to drink on these
occasions. Nearly all of the students surveyed, 90 percent, reported that their
peers are more likely to drink on prom night and 79 percent reported the same
for graduation night. Despite believing that their peers are more likely to
drink during prom and graduation, only 29 percent reported that they believe
driving on prom night is dangerous, while 25 percent said the same for
graduation night.
The study surveyed over 2,500 students and was conducted by ORC Guideline for
Liberty Mutual and Students Against Destructive Decisions (SADD).
05/12/2010
Beyond Culture Camp: Promoting Healthy Identity in Adoption
Adam Pertman will provide an in-depth look into The Evan B. Donaldson
Adoption Institute's groundbreaking research on identity formation in
adoption. While Korean Americans are at the heart of this study, the
Institute's review of decades of literature and its examination of
trans-racial adoption from foster care indicate that the recent findings are
highly relevant to all trans-racial adoptive families.
Judy Stigger, LCSW, will then show you how you can begin to put the most
current, most authoritative data available into practice.
This webinar is designed for professionals working in the field, and offers
CEs for successful completion.
www.AdoptionLearningPartners.org/ce_information.cfm for details.
Audio for the webinar will be via telephone at the following toll number:
218-339-2409. You will receive call in information prior to the webinar.
To register please click
http://www.bluestreakwebinars.com/AccountManager/RegEv.aspx?PIID=EE53D88089
05/10/2010
May is National Foster Care Month
Proclamation issued by Governor Chris Christie. To see the proclamation please
click here.
05/10/2010
Harvard University Announcement: No tuition and No Student
Loans
Harvard University
announced over the weekend that,
from now on, undergraduate
students from low-income families will pay no tuition. In
making the announcement, Harvard’s president Lawrence H.
Summers said, “When only ten percent of the students in
elite higher education come from families in the lower half
of the income distribution, we are not doing enough. We are
not doing enough in bringing elite higher education to the
lower half of the income distribution.”
If you know of a family earning less then $60,000 a year
with an honor student graduating from high school soon,
Harvard University wants to pay the tuition. The prestigious
university recently announced that from now on undergraduate
students from low-income families can go to Harvard for
free… no tuition and no student loans!
To find out more about Harvard offering free tuition for
families making less than $60,000 a year, visit Harvard’s
financial aid website at:
http://www.fao.fas.harvard.edu/ or call the
school’s financial aid office at (617) 495-1581.
05/06/2010
In Some Adoptions, Love Doesn't Conquer All
At times, Kelly
Lytle Baehr wondered how they would all get through it. Two years ago, she and
her husband adopted three boys from Ukraine — two of them 8, the other 16 — and
brought them back to their home in Omaha. She knew assimilation into a family
life would not be easy; all had come from troubled backgrounds, including one
who had spent the first five years of his life in a prison orphanage back in
Ukraine, and had a mother who drank while she was pregnant.
She was often tested by the strains of raising these three new sons. The
youngest of them, Ian (born Igor) had rummaged in garbage dumps in Ukraine for
toys, with hub cabs and discarded car parts his only possessions. At the
Baehrs’s home in Nebraska he soon became a wild, uncontrollable kleptomaniac,
she said. The other 8-year-old, Erik, struggled to attach to her — kicking,
screaming, biting and yelling, “I hate you.” Only the oldest son, Viktor, seemed
to welcome his new life quickly, blending easily into the family and eventually
making the honor roll at his high school.
To read the entire article please click
here.
05/04/2010
May
is National Foster Care Month!
Every day, some
513,000 children and youth are living in foster care because their own parents
can't take care of them. We must address the needs of these children, who need a
stable and secure home until they can either return to their parents or
establish a lifelong connection to a nurturing adult.
National
Foster Care Month in May provides an
opportunity for people nationwide to get involved as foster parents, volunteers,
mentors, employers, or in other ways. It's also an opportunity to show our
appreciation for the dedication of the foster families who care for these
children and youth, and the social workers who support them.
Foster Care Month originated in 1988 when the
National Foster Parent
Association persuaded then-Senator Strom Thurmond to introduce a
resolution to proclaim May as National Foster Care Month. The first President
Bush issued an annual proclamation during each year of his presidency, providing
an impetus for state, county, and city proclamations. The main focus of the
early efforts was appreciation and recognition of the tremendous contributions
of foster parents nationwide.
The Foster Care Month partnership now comprises
14 national organizations.
CWLA invites you to recognize May as National Foster Care Month. Join us in
making this a time to recognize and celebrate those who make a difference in the
lives of children in the foster care system.
For more information on how to get involved in National Foster Care Month
activities, visit
www.fostercaremonth.org,
or check out the
Foster Care Month Toolkit
for ways you can show recognition for foster parents and social workers, tools
for reaching out to reporters, materials for working with businesses and elected
officials, fact sheets, and more.
05/03/2010
Presidential Proclamation - National Foster Care Month
Nearly a half-million children and youth are in foster care in America, all
entering the system through no fault of their own. During National Foster Care
Month, we recognize the promise of children and youth in foster care, as well as
former foster youth. We also celebrate the professionals and foster parents who
demonstrate the depth and kindness of the human heart. Children and youth in
foster care deserve the happiness and joy every child should experience through
family life and a safe, loving home. Families provide children with
unconditional love, stability, trust, and the support to grow into healthy,
productive adults. Unfortunately, too many foster youth reach the age at which
they must leave foster care and enter adulthood without the support of a
permanent family.
To read the entire proclamation please click
here.
05/01/2010
May
is National Foster Care Month...You Can Change a Lifetime
All
children — including the 463,000 American children and youth in foster care —
deserve a safe, happy life. Young people in foster care especially need
nurturing adults on their side because their own families are in crisis and
unable to care for them.
Each May, we salute the compassionate
people who make a difference by serving as foster parents, relative
caregivers, mentors, advocates, social workers, and volunteers. Thanks to these
unsung heroes, many formerly abused or neglected children and teens will safely
reunite with their parents, be cared for by relatives, or be adopted by loving
families.
But some children in foster care
are less fortunate. Most communities across the
country are urgently seeking more everyday people to help these youth overcome
their troubled childhoods and realize their full potential. No matter what their
age, every young person in foster care benefits from a meaningful connection to
a caring adult who becomes a supportive and lasting presence in his or her life.
Take a closer look at the number and diversity of people who
were once in foster care. It might surprise you. In fact, there are an estimated
12 million foster care alumni in the U.S. representing all walks of life.
Behind this statistic are countless stories of children who grew up to be
thriving adults while others struggled with life’s challenges all alone. The
difference between triumph and tragedy will become very clear as you read about
these
foster care alumni. Success stories come about when someone takes the
time to offer comfort, provide support, give advice, or simply share a milestone
moment with a youngster enduring a difficult family situation.
Now is the time to get involved. No matter how much time you have to
give, you have the power to do something positive that will
Change a Lifetime for a young person in foster care.
04/27/2010
Russia, Adoption Notice
We have received no official notification that adoptions of
Russian orphans by Americans have been suspended, but it is clear the recent
controversy has slowed down adoptions in some parts of the country.
To learn more please click
here.
04/14/2010
Anderson Cooper’s CNN’s interview
with Dr. Jane Aronson regarding the Russian Adoption
Anderson Cooper talks about the outrage over the 7-year-old
adopted boy sent back to Russia and other international adoption problems with
Dr. Jane Aronson, international adoption specialist and founder and CEO of
Worldwide Orphans Foundation and with legal analyst Lisa Bloom.
To watch the entire interview please click
here.
04/08/2010
Study Finds More Woes
Following Foster Care
Only half the
youths who had turned 18 and “aged out” of
foster care were
employed by their mid-20s. Six in 10 men had been convicted of a crime, and
three in four women, many of them with children of their own, were receiving
some form of public assistance. Only six in 100 had completed even a
community college
degree.
The dismal outlook for youths who are thrust into a shaky adulthood from the
foster care system — now numbering some 30,000 annually — has been documented
with new precision by a long-term study released Wednesday, the largest to
follow such children over many years.
To read the entire article please click
here.
04/06/2010
After Haiti earthquake, spike in adoption requests benefits other countries in
need
Adoption agencies
in New Jersey and the rest of the country received thousands of calls after the
Jan. 12 earthquake from people interested in bringing a Haitian child to the
United States. But agency officials knew it might be months or even years before
those children could be adopted.
So the officials suggested that prospective parents consider
another country filled with orphans needing a home. In most cases, that country
was Ethiopia.
To read the entire article please click
here.
04/01/2010
April is Child Abuse
Prevention Month
This Thursday, April 1,
marks the beginning of Child Abuse Prevention Month when organizations and
communities across the country will promote the importance of healthy child
development and child abuse prevention. As one of the more than 3.5 million
people who have chosen to support this mission and our organization, Prevent
Child Abuse America and our flagship program, Healthy Families America, we offer
our most sincere thanks for your commitment; we could not do our work without
you. With April around the corner, we would like to share the following preview
of messages to come over the next six weeks, highlighting the various ways you
can get involved.
Tomorrow (April 1) –
Launch of an exciting new month-long fundraising challenge to help make an
impact on families and children in communities nationwide.
Week of April 5 – Next
fundraising challenge message.
Week of
April 12 – Next installment of the fundraising campaign as well as
re-introduction of the pinwheel-themed Facebook gift benefiting Prevent Child
Abuse America, born from our national campaign, Pinwheels for Prevention®.
These are great to give as virtual birthday gifts or gifts at any time of year!
Week of
April 19 – Introduction of a new signature line of handcrafted pinwheel-themed
sterling silver jewelry as well as the next installment of the national
fundraising challenge.
Week of
April 26 – Final fundraising challenge message to make sure we end the campaign
strong!
Week of May
3 – Recap of all the great achievements you made possible in April!
Week of May 10 – Launch of a new groundbreaking
survey polling why members chose to join the Society Against Child Abuse, ways
you may have supported our mission and your thoughts on how social media can
positively impact real world social causes.
03/23/2010
NJ Senate Approves Open Adoption Birth records Bill
Adult adoptees moved a step closer to being able to get copies of
their original birth certificates and medical histories when the state Senate
voted today to open adoption records.
The bill, approved 27-10, includes protections
for biological parents who want to remain anonymous, but opponents in the Senate
said it does not go far enough and that parents’ privacy could still be invaded.
To read the entire article please click
here.
03/08/2010
SCS for
S799/S1399 released to Senate for vote
Trenton. SCS (Senate
Committee Substitute) for S799/S1399 was released from the Health, Human
Services and Sr. Citizens Committee yesterday afternoon, just two years and a
day after last session's bill passed on the Senate floor, 31-7. After hearing
more than two hours of testimony (in addition to the previous hours heard by all
but one (a new) member of the committee at previous hearings), the committee
made its decision. The bill is now released for posting on the Senate floor.
03/08/2010
Growing up, a suspicion constantly gnawed at Harold
Cogdell Jr. He'd never heard his mother, Jeanette, talk about her pregnancy, or
how much he weighed at birth - like his friends' mothers did.
She and his father, Harold Sr., were older than his friends' parents in Kinston,
where Harold Jr. was raised an only child 70 miles southeast of Raleigh. They
were reserved; he was outgoing.
And they didn't share the same physical features. Harold Jr.'s friends often
kidded that he looked like he came from Ahoskie, a town in northeast North
Carolina known for its large Native American community.
To read the entire article please click
here.
03/04/2010
N.J.
Senate panel approves bill unsealing adoptee birth records
Adopted adults
would gain access to their original birth certificates and family medical
history under a bill a Senate panel approved today.
The bill in one form or another has been before the Legislature
since the 1980-81 session. Religious leaders, anti-abortion activists and the
New Jersey chapter of the American Civil Liberties Union have successfully
lobbied against it, asking lawmakers to protect birth mothers, who believed they
had anonymity when they gave up their children. To read the entire article
please click
here.
03/03/2010
Open
records bill for NJ adoptees advances in Legislature
The state Senate
today approved a bill that would allow adults adopted as children to obtain
their original birth records, now sealed under New Jersey law.
For nearly three decades,
adoption rights advocates have tried to get this bill passed, arguing they have
a right to know their biological and cultural identities. Yet religious leaders,
anti-abortion activists and, more recently, the New Jersey chapter of the
American Civil Liberties Union have persuaded lawmakers to reject the bill to
protect the identity of birth mothers, who believed they had anonymity when they
gave up their children.
To read the entire article please click
here.
02/27/2010
Fostering Connections to Success and Increasing Adoptions
Act
When the Fostering
Connections Act was passed by Congress the National Foster Care Coalition formed
a committee to develop documents to help the foster care community better
understand all the provisions of the Act. By clicking on the link that follows
you will find a document that answers the frequently asked questions on the
provisions of this act that impacts youth and young adults. To access the FAQ
Report:
View the FAQ
Report:
CLICK HERE
http://www.nfpaonline.org/uploads/NFCC-FAQ-olderyouth-2009.pdf
02/27/2010
The 2009 Federal Tax Guide for Foster Parents and Kinship
Parents
The 2009 Federal Tax Guide for Foster Parents and Kinship Parents has arrived.
Please click here to download.
http://www.nfpaonline.org/uploads/2009_federal_tax_benefits(1).pdf
02/23/2010
Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute
(CCAI)
launches blog to provide you with more adoption and foster care resources!
CCAI is
thrilled to share the launch of our new blog with you! Updated weekly, our blog
will feature Executive Director Op-Eds, Current Event Responses and Positions,
CCAI Program and Project Updates, Upcoming Adoption Events, Responses to
Legislative Happenings, and Adoption Polls! Click
here to visit, and be sure to bookmark our blog
and check regularly for updates!
02/23/2010
Children's Trust Fund Tax Check-off
We need your help
spreading the word that New Jersey residents can help prevent child abuse
just by checking the box on Line 58 of their state income tax return. A
check on that line means support for the Children's Trust Fund, a fund that
supports prevention programs throughout our state. Tax Day is about seven
weeks away so we need to act NOW!
Each year, the Children's
Trust Fund supports innovative programs in New Jersey that strengthen
families and help prevent child maltreatment. The largest source of
donations to the Children's Trust Fund comes directly through the check-off
box at Line 58 of the New Jersey state income tax return. People can donate
any amount they choose.
Last year, approximately
$197,000 was donated to the Children's Trust Fund. While we are thankful
for those contributions, we know we can do better.
Every dollar we can invest
in child abuse prevention will benefit us immeasurably in the long run by
making better lives for children and their families.
To donate online anytime
of the year by visiting
www.nj.gov/dcf/home/sponsor.html
Remember:
A Person Who Cares Can
Prevent Child Abuse. Be a person who cares – Check Line 58 and urge others
to do likewise.
02/08/2010
New Resources from NACAC
We have recently uploaded two new resources to the NACAC web
site:
A series of
state-by-state adoption fact sheets (based primarily on 2007 AFCARS
data) — Designed to be a tool for local adoption advocates, each sheet
highlights the number of waiting children, number of children adopted, race and
ethnic background of waiting children, data on who adopted foster children, and
much more.
A
flyer for recruiters about our adoption subsidy program — Adoption
recruiters, parent group leaders, and other adoption professionals can use this
flyer to help inform prospective adopters about the support and information
NACAC can provide related to adoption assistance.
We encourage you to use these resources and to share them with others.
02/04/2010
Haiti's Children Best Served By Care, Not Removal
SAN DIEGO, February 3, 2010
– Concerned United Birthparents (CUB) urges the governments of Haiti and the
U.S. to stand strong against suggestions that the best way to help Haiti’s
children is by removing them from their families, culture and homeland.
A national non-profit of birthparents, adoptees and adoptive parents, CUB shares
the world’s concern for Haiti’s most vulnerable in the wake of the devastating
earthquake of January 12, 2010. But the 33-year-old non-profit says it has a
unique understanding of how important it is to reject quick-fix solutions when
it comes to a child’s life, especially in its time of greatest need.
To read the entire article please click
here.
02/03/2010
EITC Awareness
Day is Friday, January 29, 2010:
Help Spread the
Word about the Earned Income Tax Credit
One of the largest benefit
programs for working families is also one of the most overlooked tax credits.
It’s called the Earned Income Tax Credit and, as the name implies, it’s for
people who work for a living but don’t make a lot of money.
Rural residents, self-employed people such as farmers, childless workers and
grandparents raising grandchildren are among those who may be eligible but fail
to claim EITC.
The EITC can make life a little easier in these hard times. A married couple
with three children and an income ranging from $12,570 to $21,420 could be
eligible for the maximum tax credit of $5,657. Taxpayers making as much as
$48,279 could qualify for EITC and can get tax returns prepared for no charge at
a Volunteer Income Tax Assistance (VITA) site in their local community. In New
Jersey the 2-1-1 Hotline can help families locate VITA sites and other vital
services. For Newark area VITA site locations go to the Newark Asset Building
Coalition (NABC) website at
http://www.newarkassetbuild.org.
The Association for Children of New Jersey just released the Newark Kids Count
which shows that the number of Newark residents claiming the federal Earned
Income Tax Credit rose 5 percent from 2003 – 2007 and the number claiming the
state EITC rose 2 percent from 2004-2008. This is good news through the times of
economic downturn, but so many more children and families could benefit from the
credit.
02/03/2010
A family in China made babies their business
Reporting from Changning, China - The telephones
kept ringing with more orders and although Duan Yuelin kept raising his prices,
the demand was inexhaustible. Customers were so eager to buy more that they
would ply him with expensive gifts and dinners in fancy restaurants.
His family-run business was racking up sales of as much as $3,000 a month,
unimaginable riches for uneducated Chinese rice farmers from southern Hunan
province.
What merchandise was he selling? Babies. And the customers were government-run
orphanages that paid up to $600 each for newborn girls for adoption in the
United States and other Western countries.
To read the entire article please click
here.
02/03/2010
Mother and Child
This
private screening is about a 14 yr old that places her child for adoption. It
will be coming to movie theatres in the summertime.
Count Basie Theatre in Red Bank Tickets:
$7.00 per person
April 26, 2010 8pm
To learn more please visit
www.countbasietheatre.org
01/25/2010
New Adoption Documentary "Off and
Running", opens at the IFC Center in New York City on January 29th
With white Jewish lesbians for parents and two adopted
brothers - one mixed-race and one Korean - Brooklyn teen Avery grew up in a
unique and loving household. But when her curiosity about her African-American
roots grows, she decides to contact her birth mother. This choice propels Avery
into her own complicated exploration of race, identity, and family that
threatens to distance her from the parents she’s always known. She begins
staying away from home, starts skipping school, and risks losing her shot at the
college track career she had always dreamed of. But when Avery decides to pick
up the pieces of her life and make sense of her identity, the results are
inspiring. Off and Running follows Avery to the brink of adulthood, exploring
the strength of family bonds and the lengths people must go to become
themselves. See the
website and
trailer for more information.
01/25/2010
NACAC has posted updated state adoption fact sheets
NACAC
has posted updated state adoption fact sheets
on the NACAC web site. Here is a link to
New York State's. The fact sheet notes the need to recruit families for
older youth. A recent article by Rosemary Avery noted in a study of 1,143
recruited families that the likelihood of the prospective parent getting
licensed and having the teen placed with them was far greater (53% versus
4%) for those who knew the teen as opposed to those recruited from the
general public
01/25/2010
Haiti quake, tough standards complicate adoption process
Adoption agencies across
North Jersey have been inundated with calls from families who want to care for
the youngest victims of the Jan. 12 earthquake in Haiti.
But agency directors are responding cautiously — saying media images of
suffering children may be triggering an emotional reaction from some who have
not considered the complexities of adoption.
“That always happens after a huge national disaster and they show pictures of
children and show horrors,” said Jared Rolsky, executive director of New
Jersey-based Golden Cradle Adoption Services. The priority, he said, is to
protect the children and verify they are actually orphans.
To read the entire article please click
here.
01/20/2010
Canada to fast-track Haitian
adoptions.
The federal government is fast-tracking the adoption of up
to 100 Haitian children, Immigration Minister Jason Kenney announced Wednesday.
Kenney announced temporary resident permits will be issued and fees waived. The
government is contacting 100 families who are at different stages of adoption
procedures for Haitian children that were underway before last week's
devastating earthquake.
To read the entire article please click
here.
01/20/2010
UNICEF worries about Haitian
children adoptions
The United Nations
Children's Fund (UNICEF) said on Tuesday it is worried about some countries
decision of speeding up Haitian children adoptions after the earthquake, in
detriment of family reunification.
"We want to find the children's family at all cost and to achieve reunification.
Adoptions are the last alternative", explained the UNICEF spokeswoman Veronique
Taveau.
To read the entire article please click
here.
01/20/2010
Quebec holding new Haitian adoption requests over child smuggling fear
The Quebec government has put on hold all new adoption
applications for Haitian children as part of an international effort to prevent
a repeat of the child smuggling that occurred after the 2004 Indian Ocean
tsunami. On Monday, a United Nations agency urged caution with any new
adoptions, given that the events unfolding in Haiti make it impossible to verify
the personal and family situation of children.
To read the entire article please click
here.
01/20/2010
53 Haitian Orphans Are Airlifted
to U.S.
A group of 53 Haitian orphans landed in Pittsburgh on Tuesday
morning, the first wave to arrive after the United States loosened its policy on
visa requirements to expedite Americans’ adoptions of parentless children living
in the post-earthquake ruins.
But the new policy, announced late
Monday, affects only 900 children whom the Haitian government had already
identified as orphans, and whom adoption agencies had matched with couples in
the United States.
To read the entire article please click
here.
01/19/2010
Center For Family Connections It's Show Time
Tune in to WMBR at 88.1 FM
TONIGHT at 7pm to hear an interview with CEO and founder of Center For Family
Connections, Dr. Joyce Maguire Pavao!
This week's version of Emily Corwin's radio show, "The Neighborhood," will focus
on providing insight regarding issues around adoption. It will be composed of
several segments, featuring the perspectives of a variety of individuals,
including Dr. Pavao herself!
Find the show on MIT's radio station, WMBR, at 88.1FM or streaming online at
wmbr.org.
It will also be available as a podcast afterwards on Emily's website, www.neighborhoodradio.org.
01/19/2010
Assessing Lesbian and Gay Prospective Foster and Adoptive
Families: A Focus on the Homestudy Process
Foster care and adoption by gay men and lesbians is not a new
phenomenon. Children and youth have always been placed by states and public
agencies in homes with gay and lesbian parents. Some gay men and lesbians have
fostered or adopted children independently from private agencies or have made
private adoption arrangements with individual birth mothers; others have
fostered or adopted through the public system. Drawing on research literature,
practice wisdom from 34 years of child welfare experiences, and case examples,
this article offers child welfare professionals guidelines for competent
assessment with prospective foster or adoptive parents who identify as lesbian
or gay.
To read the entire article please click
here.
01/19/2010
Hearst Training Introductory Webinar, March 18, 2010
During this interactive webinar, the presenters will describe
The Healing Nature of Relationships©. This training program
creates a cross-team approach to care and provides a solid foundation in the
basics of child and personality development, psychopathology and systems theory.
Helping vulnerable children and teenagers heal from tragic pasts is difficult
and challenging work that demands patience, skill, knowledge, resilience, and
willingness to work together across various disciplines. Yet the perspective and
language of child care workers can be very different from the perspective and
language of clinical staff.
The Healing Nature of Relationships© bridges these differences by
creating a common language and fostering a true relationship-based team
environment dedicated to meeting these youngsters’ needs.
This curriculum was designed by staff at
Children’s Aid and
Family Services to provide affordable training to those that work with
severely traumatized children and adolescents in community-based therapeutic
settings. This new training program is being offered to Alliance members at a
specially discounted rate.
To learn more please click
here.
01/13/2010
Help When It Is Needed Most
It has been an extraordinary year of need for
residents in NJ. Last year, one in every four callers to 2-1-1 needed emergency
financial assistance. Today, one of every two
callers needs immediate financial relief. In 2009, 2-1-1 was able to respond to
373,000 requests for health, human service and preparedness information because
of you - the agencies and community organizations who provide much needed
services and support. In the spirit of the season, all the staff at 2-1-1 would
like to thank you and our state, local and United Way partners for believing in
providing the residents of NJ with an easy to remember number to call, 2-1-1,
when help is needed most.
To visit the 211 Homepage please click
here.
01/12/2010
Intercountry Adoption
Statistics from the
Intercounty Adoption, Office of Children’s Issues, US is not posted. These
include the number of children adopted internationally around the county as well
as by state. To view the numbers log onto http://adoption.state.gov/news/us_map.html
and select the state.
12/22/2009
Deadline Approaches for Foster Youth Internship
Program
The application deadline
for the 2010 Congressional Foster Youth Internship Program is fast
approaching, and is due on January 4th! What we are asking from
you is simple. You may know of someone who would be a perfect match for
this program.
To read the entire article
please click
here.
12/21/2009
Significant Reduction in International Adoptions
The number of foreign
children adopted by Americans plunged more than a quarter in the past year,
reaching the lowest level since 1996 and leading adoption advocates to urge
Congress to help reverse the trend.
Big declines were
recorded for all three countries that provided the most adopted children in
the previous fiscal year. In
China and Russia, government
officials have been trying to promote domestic adoptions, while in
Guatemala, a once-bustling but highly corrupt
international adoption industry was
shut down while reforms are implemented.
To read the entire article please click
here.
12/21/2009
Lean Times, but No Raise in Adoptions
Just over a year ago, when the economy first took a nose dive, snatching the
stability of countless families with it, the people who run
Spence-Chapin
Adoption Services, a New York-based adoption agency, prepared themselves
for an influx of pregnant women seeking their help.
To read the entire article please click
here.
12/08/2009
Jane Aronson: The Guardian Angel
She is a Woman
of the Year because:
“She has a heart the size of Texas and a drive like Tiger Woods, and she has
made a huge difference to countless children and their families.”
—Hugh Jackman, actor and longtime
supporter of Worldwide Orphans Foundation
To read the entire article please click
here.
12/02/2009
A Home for the Holidays
Broadcast set for Wednesday, December 23rd on CBS from 8:00 –
9:00 pm. “A Home for the Holidays” shares, through the eyes of a child,
the joy of having a family - not just for the holidays, but every day
and forever.
Each December, the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption and Children's
Action Network presents “A Home for the Holidays”, a CBS
network television special bringing together all-star talent to raise
awareness for foster care adoption.
In its 11th year, the
special will feature Faith Hill and include performances by Mary J Blige,
Reba McEntire, Skakira and Carrie Underwood.
Nia Vardolos (My Fat Greek Wedding) and Jenna Elfman are among the
celebrities who will present inspirational stories of extraordinary
families who share the joys found through foster care adoption.
Since 1999, this heartwarming holiday special has generated tens of
thousands of calls to the Foundation, from viewers moved to action after
hearing true stories of waiting children and families who adopted from
foster care.
To learn more about
the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption, log onto
www.davethomasfoundation.org or contact us at
www.njarch.org .
11/30/2009
New Colombia Adoption Sibling
Registry launched
New Colombia Adoption Sibling Registry
launched: The Colombia Adoption Sibling Registry is a database that
adoptees and adoptive families of Colombian born children can utilize when
searching for biological siblings who may also have been adopted. For
information, log onto
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ColombiaAdoptSibRegistry/
11/30/2009
December 2009 Adoption Month E-Magazine
To see an E-Magazine please click
here
11/24/2009
"Find My Family" premiers on ABC-TV
On Monday, November 23rd a ABC
premired a new reality show called “Find My Family”. This episode
featured birth parents searching and finding their birth daughter. For
a description of the show log onto http://abc.go.com/shows/find-my-family, and here is
a brief description of the episodes:
"Each episode is full of moving moments and tears of joy, when mothers, fathers,
daughters and sons who lost touch for decades are reunited. First we learn the
emotional back stories of each family in search of lost relatives. Then with
minimal information, the Find My Family
team begins the difficult and often frustrating process of sifting through
archives and tracking down records until they uncover the missing links. Host
Lisa Joyner reaches out to the newly-found family members to let them know that
someone from their biological family has been looking for them. Tim Green
narrates each story as it unfolds and meets with the people who originated the
search. When a family is reunited, they all meet at the
Find My Family 'Family Tree'."
11/24/2009
Parents Matter: The Role of Parents in Teens' Decisions about Sex.
Positive
parent-teen relationships, high parental awareness and monitoring of whom
their children are with, and family dinner routines are all linked to
delayed sex among teens, according to a new Child Trends research brief.
The brief,
Parents Matter: The Role of Parents in Teens' Decisions about Sex,
explores how parenting practices that occur before adolescents have had
sexual intercourse are associated with the probability of first sex by age
16.
Among the findings:
Better parent-adolescent relationships are associated with reduced risk of
early sexual experience among teen girls.
Teen girls who reported high relationship quality with both parents were
less likely to have sex at an early age (22%), compared with teen girls who
reported low relationship quality with both parents (37 percent).
This finding holds true for teen girls' relationships with their mothers and
fathers separately, but no significant association was found for teen boys
Teen
boys who eat dinner with their family every day have a lower probability of
having sex before age 16 (31%), compared with those who eat dinner with
their family four days a week or less (37%). No significant association was
found for teen girls on this measure.
Adolescents whose parents are more aware of whom they are with when not at
home are less likely to have sex by age 16. For example, only 22% of girls
who reported that their parents knew "everything" about whom they were with
when they were not home had first sex before age 16, compared with 43% who
reported their parents knew little or nothing.
"These findings highlight the importance of parents in adolescents' lives,"
said study co-author Jennifer Manlove, Ph.D. "Parents can be involved
beyond having the 'sex talk' with their adolescents - by fostering strong
relationships, developing family routines such as eating dinner together
regularly, and being aware of where their children are when they are not at
home."
This study is based on data from the National Longitudinal Survey of Youth,
sponsored and directed by the Bureau of Labor Statistics, U.S. Department of
Labor.
11/23/2009
Nia Vardalos, the breakout
star of the 2002 hit
My Big Fat Greek Wedding,
has adopted a child.
The little girl, whose name
has not been released, is the first for the 46-year-old actress and her
husband, Ian Gomez reports. Click here for details
http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20240711,00.html
11/23/2009
First-Ever National Data on Adopted Children and Their Families
Adoption USA: A Chartbook Based on the 2007 National Survey
of Adoptive Parents presents
findings from the first nationally representative survey of adoptive parents
in the United States. About two percent of U.S. children joined their
families through adoption. The Chartbook describes the characteristics,
adoption experiences, and well-being of these children and their families,
making comparisons between adopted children and the general population of
children in the United States and among children adopted through different
adoption types.
The Chartbook contains information on types of adoption, adoption by
relatives, contact with birth families, physical health and social and
emotional well-being of adopted children, and parenting. It is based on the
National Survey of Adoptive Parents, a collaborative effort of several
agencies within the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS).
Researchers from Child Trends conducted the analyses under contract to HHS.
11/18/2009
Adoption Records November 22nd and 24th Show.
New
Jersey adults, who were adopted as children, are barred from access to their
birth records. A bill to change that recently passed committee with a unanimous
decision, but there is staunch opposition to the proposed legislation from an
unlikely coalition of opponents: the A.C.L.U., the NJ State Bar Association, and
Right to Life. History is in their favor as the bill has been voted down
repeatedly since it was first introduced in 1980. Sandy King’s field piece
profiles two adoptees who have been lobbying ever since. But we also hear from
the director of NJ Right to Life who fears a rise in abortion rates if adoption
files were opened. In the studio, Raymond Brown talks to if State Sen. Loretta
Weinberg, Bar Association Representative Thomas Snyder, and Attorney Barry
Evenchick. For more information, log onto
http://www.njn.net/television/njnseries/dueprocess/2006season/1113.html
1/16/2009
National Adoption Awareness Month, 8 Ways
to Celebrate
November is National Adoption Awareness month. According to the North
American Council on Adoptable Children (NACAC), "The primary purpose of
Adoption Month is to raise awareness about adoption, adoptive families and
children who need adoptive homes. If done well, awareness-raising efforts
represent adoptive families in a positive manner."
There are many ways to promote adoption. Some take little
thought or planning, while others involve more, but it's often easier than
you think. Don't let November pass by without doing something to acknowledge
the importance of adoption in your life. The following are just a few ways
that you can make a difference.
To read the entire article please click
here.
10/29/2009
Operation Medicine Cabinet
On November
14, 2009 between the hours of 10am and 2pm Operation Medicine Cabinet is
taking place. This initiative is open to all residents in the state of New
Jersey and is to encourage residents to properly dispose of their unused,
unwanted and expired prescription medication. To read more please click
here.
10/29/2009
DCF Newsletter October 09
Click
here to view the Division
of Youth and Families (DCF) Spotlight newsletter that features articles such
as Home Visitation Programs to Support New Families and Prevent Child Abuse
and other items of interest.
10/28/2009
Professional Training Adopting Older Children
After careful analysis, it was reported that
“Internationally adopted children have disability rates similar to those
adopted domestically (11.7% vs 12.2%, respectively) and more than twice the
rate for all children in that age range (5.8%). The adjusted odds of
disability relative to domestic adoptees range from one half or less (China
and Korea) to twice as large or more (Romania, Bulgaria, other Eastern
Europe, and other Western Europe).”
To read the entire article please click
here.
10/20/2009
A life spent
advocating fiercely for children
It was her job to tell the little boy he
would have new parents, to introduce him to the family adopting him, and to
make him comfortable over a series of visits. But when she opened his case
file, her stomach sank. His biological parents had signed a consent form
placing him for adoption when he was 3 days old, and no one ever acted on
it. For eight years, he lived with a family that didn't want him. "So here I
am, driving this 8-year-old who, eight years ago as a baby, could have been
placed with a family but has to go through the trauma of leaving one family
and moving to another," she said. "That was heart-wrenching. How do you tell
a child, "Well, this is going to be better, it's a permanent family'?"
To read the entire article please click
here.
10/20/2009
How to Be an Adoption Advocate
As an attorney, I used to advocate for my clients. But
when I left work at the end of the day, my cases and my lawyering skills
stayed at the office. A few years ago, however—about the time Zack, my
oldest, entered preschool—I noticed that my professional skills had crossed
over into my dealings with friends, neighbors, and others in the community.
I was becoming an adoption advocate.
To read the entire article please click
here.
10/15/2009
New Jersey’s 28th
Annual “Let’s Talk Adoption” Conference
New Jersey’s 28th Annual
“Let’s Talk Adoption” Conference, Saturday, November 7th,
2009; Coordinated by Concerned Persons for Adoption, NJ Interagency
Adoption Council and Rutgers University School of Social Work: Institute
for Families; Continuing Education and Professional Development
Program. Keynote Performance by Alison Larkin “Why My Adoption is a
Laughing Matter: The English American talks about nature, nurture and
how her search for her American birth parents helped her find her
self”. Plus 36 workshops on pre- and post adoptive issues. For more
information, log onto
www.cpfanj.org.
10/15/2009
November is National Adoption Month.
November is National Adoption month, a month
set aside to raise awareness about the adoption of children and youth
from foster care. This year's theme,"You don't have to be perfect to be
a perfect parent," includes a more focused effort that reaches out to
the African American community and builds on the Ad Council's new
public service announcement (PSA) campaign of the Children’s Bureau,
the Adoption Exchange Association, and
AdoptUsKids.
For details, log onto
http://www.childwelfare.gov/adoption/nam/
10/15/2009
Adoptee aims to change rules for birth
certificates
Eric Roach is working to
change a South Dakota law so other adoptees won't have to work as hard, or
tell lies, to get their original birth certificates.
Roach, of Spearfish, was adopted as a 6-month-old infant in Iowa in 1955. At
age 40, he was denied access to his sealed adoption records and his original
birth certificate by an Iowa court.
"That's wrong," Roach said. "I can't have what other people get
automatically. Any biological child can go to the state of South Dakota and
request a copy of their birth certificate and, with the appropriate
documentation, they'll get it -- no questions asked. As an adoptee, if you
want a copy of your birth certificate -- hang on for the ride. The answer is
'No. You're adopted.' The laws ought to be equal across the board."
To read the entire article please click
here.
10/13/2009
Three Decades After Adoption, DNA Test Reveals Painful Truth
For Cockeysville
businessman Ron Ryba, the long walk from the parking lot to the stadium in
Philadelphia was a 29-year trail of memories.
He had come to meet the son he and his high school sweetheart had never
dared to look at when they gave him up for adoption nearly three decades
earlier. Now, the baby was a grown man. What would he say to him? What would
he look like?
To read the entire article please click
here.
10/012/2009
She
Adopted a Child — Then Gave Him Up
No decision she ever made or ever expects to
make was more agonizing or more controversial. After 18 months of pouring
her love and efforts into bonding with her adoptive son, Anita Tedaldi
realized it wasn’t working and gave the child to another family.
“I loved him and I cared deeply for him,” Tedaldi told TODAY’s Matt Lauer
Thursday in New York. “I tried to do the same exact thing I did with my
biological children, but over time it became clear that our family maybe
wasn’t a good match for him, that we were unable to meet some of his needs.”
To read the entire article please click
here.
09/30/2009
UMD Case Transracial Research
The University of Maryland Department of
Family Sciences and The Center for Adoption Support and Education are
working together to facilitate this important national study of transracial
adoptive families. Be part of cutting-edge research to help families like
yours!
If you're an adoptive parent of a teen,
this might be your opportunity to be part of a national, cutting-edge
research project that could lead to improved services and resources for
families like yours.
To see the UMD Case transracial research Flyer please click
here.
09/30/2009
AdoptUsKids: Interjurisdictional
Placement Services
AdoptUsKids
has the ICPC
Receiving and Sending State Checklists
available on the NRCRRFAP pages of the AdoptUsKids website. The checklists
provide an overview and generalized description of how ICPC might operate
for children and youth being placed across State lines with recruited,
general applicant families for the purpose of adoption. Not all steps in the
checklists will apply to all situations in every State, but they are a great
starting point for the interjurisdictional placement process.
Please click here for
the Receiving State Checklist.
Please click here for
the Sending State Checklist.
09/30/2009
Mental Health Needs of Foster
Children and Children At-Risk for Removal
A recent issue of Virginia Child
Protection Newsletter focused on the mental health needs of children
entering foster care and children at risk to enter care. The article
explored the range of mental health needs and ways to address those needs
using evidence-based practices. It will discuss ways to work with the
children as well as methods for parent and foster parent training.
Please click here for a copy of
newsletter.
09/22/2009
For weeks, Randy Joubert and
Gary Nisbet laughed off customers’ comments that the two furniture
deliverymen looked similar enough to be brothers. It wouldn’t be long before
fate would prove the old adage, the customer is always right. Joubert
said something in him clicked after yet another customer asked the same
question during a routine delivery in late August. Prefacing his line
of questioning with the statement, “Don’t think I’m weird,” Joubert asked
his co-worker a few pointed questions based on names and dates gleaned from
his own adoption records. Seconds later, Joubert realized that the man who
had been on the other end of countless couches, mattresses and recliners
since July wasn’t just a co-worker. Nisbet was the long-lost brother for
whom he had been searching.
To read the entire article please click
here.
09/17/2009
HHS Awards $35 Million to States for Increasing
Adoptions
The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) today
awarded $35 million to 38 states and Puerto Rico for increasing the number
of children adopted from foster care. States use the funds from the
adoption incentive award to enhance their programs for abused and neglected
children.
“Adopting a child from foster care is a wonderful way to enrich any family’s
life,” said HHS Secretary Kathleen Sebelius. “We congratulate the states
that performed so well this year and we thank the parents who are providing
loving and permanent homes.”
To read the entire article please click here.
09/17/2009
National Child Welfare Evaluation
Summit Materials Available Online
The Children’s Bureau hosted its first National Child Welfare Evaluation
Summit in May2009 in Washington, D.C. The purpose of the Summit was to
explore the current state of evaluation practice in the field of child
welfare and to promote cohesive, strategic, and sound approaches for
evaluating child welfare systems, programs, and practice. The materials
provided to the Children’s Bureau by presenters at the Summit are now
available to the public on the website of James Bell Associates, including
PowerPoint presentations, handouts, and resources. The documents are listed
in the order that they appear on the agenda.
To read the entire article please click below.
http://www.jbassoc.com/reports/summary.aspx
09/17/2009
Child Trends Research Brief:
Examining
Judges' Perspectives on Termination of Parental Rights and Adoption of
Foster Children
A new Child Trends research brief
explores the issues that judges consider when making decisions about
termination of parental rights and adoption of foster children. The brief,
The Timing of Termination of Parental Rights: A Balancing Act for Children’s
Best Interests,
is based on interviews with 20 judges from 18 states. The federal Adoption
and Safe Families Act of 1997 shortens the timeframe for terminating
parental rights (TPR) as a way to facilitate timely adoptions for children
in foster care who cannot be reunited with their birth parents. The
interviews suggest that while judges are concerned about terminating birth
parents' rights to a child before an adoptive family has been identified,
recent innovations in case practice have helped to address these concerns
and have made for a less divisive decision-making process. This research
brief also presents the study's implications for juvenile and family court
policy and practices: the advantages of judges and caseworkers exploring
children's views about TPR and adoption; ways for foster children to
maintain birth family connections to support their well-being while in
foster care and after adoption; the importance of judges having familiarity
with adoption recruitment efforts to inform their decisions; and the
importance of seeking consultation and guidance for judges on the
requirements of the Adoption and Safe Families Act.
To read the entire article please click
below.
http://www.childtrends.org/Files//Child_Trends-2009_09_09_RB_LegalOrphans.pdf
09/17/2009
Mission Transition: A Valuable Tool
for Foster Youth Aging Out of Care
Ohio State Bar Foundation in
collaboration with the state-wide Public Children Services Association of
Ohio and the members of the Overcoming Hurdles in Ohio Youth Advisory Board
developed this website to guide youth who are aging out of care. The site
provides tools and helpful links to education, finance, health, housing,
job, legal, parenting, responsible citizenship and other resources.
To visit the site please click below.
http://www.mymissiontransition.com/
09/15/2009
DCF PRESS RELEASE - New Jersey Launches New Campaign
to Support Foster Care and Prevent Child Abuse
The New Jersey
Department of Children and Families (DCF) and Casey Family Programs today
launched a new campaign – Raise Me Up – aimed at inspiring people to support
children in foster care to help prevent child abuse and neglect in
communities throughout the state. Raise Me Up campaign is an initiative of
Casey Family Programs, the largest national foundation with a sole mission
to advocate for children in foster care.
To read the entire article please click
here.
09/14/2009
Freedom is not Free
Jordan Brochu was a
remarkable young child, always full of questions and intrigued by everything
from Legos to the trees in his parents' woods. He played the violin, liked
Superman, read J.R.R. Tolkien novels and kept his Sunday school teachers on
their toes with all his creative energy. Those were some of the things
family and friends recalled about Brochu, a soldier from Oakland who died
Aug. 31 in combat in Afghanistan. The private first class, serving with
Company C, 1st Battalion, 17th Infantry out of Fort Lewis, Wash., was just
20.
His adoptive mother, Suzanne Brochu, stood before about 200 family members,
friends and military officials who packed the Faith Evangelical Free Church
for his funeral.
To read the entire article please click
here.
09/12/2009
A new Child Trends research
brief explores the issues that judges consider when making decisions about
termination of parental rights and adoption of foster children. The brief,
The Timing of Termination of Parental Rights: A Balancing Act for Children's
Best Interests, is based on interviews with
20 judges from 18 states.
The federal Adoption and Safe
Families Act of 1997 shortens the timeframe for terminating parental rights
(TPR) as a way to facilitate timely adoptions for children in foster care
who cannot be reunited with their birth parents. The interviews suggest that
while judges are concerned about terminating birth parents' rights to a
child before an adoptive family has been identified, recent innovations in
case practice have helped to address these concerns and have made for a less
divisive decision-making process.
This research brief also presents the study's implications for juvenile and
family court policy and practices: the advantages of judges and caseworkers
exploring children's views about TPR and adoption; ways for foster children
to maintain birth family connections to support their well-being while in
foster care and after adoption; the importance of judges having familiarity
with adoption recruitment efforts to inform their decisions; and the
importance of seeking consultation and guidance for judges on the
requirements of the Adoption and Safe Families Act.
09/08/2009
Man from EHC wants adoptees to get access to
medical history
It
took Dan Haines 37 years to find out who he was. Now, the 47-year-old Egg
Harbor City resident is fighting for the state Legislature to make it easier
for other adoptees to get the same sense of wholeness that Haines said
filled a lifelong void for him. Haines' search for his identity began when
he was 5 years old. "I never fit in. I didn't look a thing like my parents.
They had brown hair and brown eyes. I have blond hair and blue eyes. Things
like that started making me very inquisitive," Haines said. "Then one day my
mom sat me down and read me a book about being adopted. I told her that a
terrible mistake had been made and that we had to call someone because my
real family was out looking for me."
To read the entire article please click
here.
08/03/2009
2009 Best Adoption-Friendly Workplaces
2009 Best Adoption-Friendly Workplaces
(including, America's Top 100; Top Ten by Size Category; and Industry
Leaders). Published by 2009 by the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption
This chart lists the top 100
adoption-friendly workplaces in the United States for 2009. Information
is provided on the maximum financial assistance for adoption, maximum
weeks of paid leave, the type of industry, and the number of employees.
Additional charts list the top ten companies by size of the company, top
companies by industry, and the top ten adoption-friendly workplaces in
Ohio.
To see the entire report please
click here.
07/30/2009
Returning to her Roots Guatemala Connections
Chloe Cohen, 7, has a really big "how I
spent my summer vacation" story to tell her friends.
Visit-your-birthplace-and-meet-your-foster-family big. The Germantown
Friends School student returned this month with her adoptive mother, Amy,
from a nearly two-week trip to Guatemala.
Not that Chloe remembers her homeland: She left there as a 7-month-old when
the Cohen family of Mount Airy adopted her.
The point of the trip - and the group that organized it - was to connect her
and other foreign-born adoptees of U.S. parents to their birth countries.
Chloe seemed to get that point.
To read the entire article please click
here.
07/23/2009
Adoption Stories: Fact and Fiction
It’s a big week for adoption advocates—across the
nation and right here in Santa Barbara. Tomorrow afternoon, movie theatres
across the country will screen the R-rated horror show, “Orphan.” It’s one
of those awful modern-day takes on “The Bad Seed,” that perpetuates
dangerously misguided myths about adoption and offends the sensibilities of
anyone with any knowledge whatsoever about the blessings—and inherent
difficulties—of adoption. The movie’s original tag line was “It must be hard
to love an adopted child as much as your own,” which raised the hackles of
enlightened individuals who are particularly concerned about such
insensitive portrayals of such a delicate subject. A group called Orphans
Deserve Better pressured Warner Bros. to reconsider—and the studio not only
apologized, but changed the line to “There’s something wrong with Esther.”
To read the entire article please click
here.
07/23/2009
The Benefits of and Barriers to Out-of-School Programs for Youth
Research suggests that participation in out-of-school time programs and
activities can lessen the likelihood that youth will engage in negative
behaviors, such as using drugs and alcohol, dropping out of school, and
practicing unhealthy eating habits. Despite these benefits, millions of
youth still do not participate in these programs. Three new Child Trends
briefs explore the various reasons for nonparticipation.
To read the entire article please click
here.
07/22/2009
Domestic vs. International Adoption: Are Celebrities Overlooking American
Children?
A judge rejected
Madonna's bid to adopt a 3-year-old Malawian girl because the African
nation's laws require prospective parents to live in the country for at
least 18 months, the star's lawyer said Friday.
The process of adopting
a child from Africa involves significant wait time, international scrutiny
and significant cost. So it raises the question: Why doesn't Madonna — as
well as many other celebrities who have gone abroad to adopt — look a little
closer to home for her new family members?
Madonna's rep Liz
Rosenberg said she first met the young girl she wants to adopt, named Mercy,
on a visit last year, and the Material Girl been working toward adopting her
ever since.
Stars including Sheryl
Crow, Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman, Rosie O'Donnell and Calista Flockhart
have all adopted domestically. But, in addition to Madonna, celebrities
including Angelina Jolie, Mia Farrow, Julie Andrews and Meg Ryan have all
adopted children from foreign countries. And while last year saw a slight
decline, international adoptions overall have nearly tripled since 1992.
To read the entire article please click
here.
07/22/2009
Adoption - Records Advocates to protest in Phila
In the United States, Depression-era laws
created "amended birth certificates" that replaced the names of biological
parents with those of adoptive parents, symbolic of a time when adoption was
a shameful secret for all involved: for unwed mothers, scorned by society;
for adoptive parents, unable to conceive; for the children, bastards in a
society that prized marriage.
To read the entire article please click
here.
07/22/2009
New Resources on NYSCCC Website
To view new
resources on the New York State Citizens’ Coalition for Children, including
a Guide to Starting and Managing Parent Support Groups, click
here
07/20/2009
New Jersey Parents Caucus Presents 2nd Annual NJ
Community Outreach & Advocacy Tour
Calling All Parents
& Caregivers Who are Struggling with Finding Supports & Services for their
Children
NJPC is bringing
Services via our 25 Foot Community Outreach RV to Your Neighborhood!
Onsite Services
Include: Street Outreach, Registration for Parent Education Programs,
Information & Referral Services, Parent Advocacy, Man Talk Fatherhood
Initiative, NJ Youth Justice Initiative
Onsite NJPC Staff
Include: Community Based Parent Advocates, Masters of Social Work (MSW),
Licensed School Psychologist, Volunteers
Elizabeth – Broad St. & Dickerson St. - August 8, 10 to 5PM
Trenton
– Walnut Ave. – August 13, 12 to 5PM
Asbury
Park – Springwood & Borden Ave – August 19, 2 to 6PM
Atlantic
City – 1539 Adriatic Ave. - August 20, 1 to 6PM
Newark –
Bradley Court, 48 Munn Ave. – August 26, 2 to 7PM
Flyer
attached for your review. For more information, call (973) 989-8866
or email
info@njparentcaucus.org
www.newjerseyparentscaucus.org
07/20/2009
In the current economic and
political climate, knowing how to identify and select evidence-based
programs adds value to any organization seeking to improve outcomes for
children and youth. A new Child Trends brief,
Online Resources for Identifying Evidence-Based, Out-of-School Time
Programs: A User's Guide,
can help funders, administrators, and practitioners find evidence-based
programs that may be appropriate for their target populations and
communities. The
Guide provides an
overview of 22 resources -- 12 searchable online databases, two online
interactive summaries, and eight online documents -- that offer information
on a range of evidence-based intervention programs. It also includes
recommendations and questions to consider when searching for evidence-based
programs, and what level of evaluation evidence or rigor is available --
ranging from evidence-informed programs to experimentally-evaluated
programs.
See also:
Presentation
07/16/2009
Safe Haven Television
Commercial Begins Statewide Run Ad reminding parents of law will air through
Labor Day
The commercials reiterate
that, through the Safe Haven law, parents who choose not to use an adoption
agency and feel they can care for their newborn can relinquish the baby up
to 31-days-old at any hospital, police or fire station with no questions
asked.
To read the entire article please click
here.
07/07/2009
Siblings find each other after 53 years
Little Rickie Webb was barely out of diapers when his
entire world turned upside down. Up until then, he had a pretty idyllic
life. He lived with his seven older brothers and mom and dad on an Army base
in Northern California. His dad wasn’t home very much because he ran
transport missions for the military during World War II — before Rickie was
even born — up through the Korean War.
Rickie’s oldest brother, Larry, remembers
having the run of the grounds at Fort Ord and playing sports and going
fishing with their mom. Betty Webb was from Grass Valley, a small town north
and a little east of Sacramento, nestled in the foothills of the Sierras.
Larry says she was quite the outdoorswoman. She enjoyed deer hunting,
fishing and riding horses and instilled in him an appreciation for nature.
Overall, life was going pretty well for the young family.
To read the entire article please click
here
06/30/2009
Closely Supervised Foster Care Linked With Reduced Pregnancy Rates For
Delinquent Teens, Study Says
Teenage girls with a history of delinquency who were placed in
individualized foster care programs were less likely than their peers to
become pregnant, according to a
study in the June issue of the
Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology,
HealthDay/Forbes
reports. Teen girls in foster care have an elevated risk for pregnancy,
according to HealthDay/Forbes.
For example, an earlier survey of teens in three states found that nearly
half of girls in the foster care system reported a pregnancy by age 19,
according to David Kerr, an assistant professor of psychology at
Oregon State University and lead author of the new study.
To read the entire article please click
here.
06/30/2009
State Practices for Assessing Health Needs, Facilitating Service Delivery,
and Monitoring Children’s Care
Providing health care services for foster children, who
often have significant health care needs, can be challenging. The
Administration for Children and Families (ACF) oversees foster care, but
state child welfare agencies are responsible for ensuring that these
children receive health care services, which are often financed by Medicaid.
In light of concerns about the health care needs of foster children, GAO was
asked to study states’ efforts to improve foster children’s receipt of
health services. This report has four objectives. It describes specific
actions that some states have taken to (1) identify health care needs, (2)
ensure delivery of appropriate health services, and (3) document and monitor
the health care of children in foster care. It also describes the related
technical assistance ACF offers to states.
To read the entire article please click
here.
06/30/2009
Fragile
Tanzanian Orphans Get Help After Mothers Die
The Berega Orphanage, a cluster of neat stucco cottages
in this village of red dirt roads and maize plots, is a far cry from what
the name suggests. The 20 infants and toddlers here are not put up for
adoption, nor kept on indefinitely without hope of ever living with a
family.
Most of
their mothers died giving birth or soon after
— something that, in poor countries, leaves newborns at great risk of dying,
too. The children are here just temporarily, to get a start in life so they
can return to their villages and their extended families when they are 2 or
3 years old, well past the fragile days of infancy and big enough to digest
cow’s milk and eat regular food.
And, in an innovative program designed to meet the infants’
emotional as well as physical needs, many have teenage girls from their
extended families living with them at the orphanage.
To read the entire article please click
here.
06/29/2009
Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute (CCAI)
June/July Newsletter
To read the letter please click
here
06/29/2009
Bill on adoptees' access
to birth records to be heard
There are
at least eight states that currently allow open such information to
adoptees: Maine, New Hampshire, Alabama, Alaska, Delaware, Kansas, Oregon
and Tennessee. But under Rhode Island law, adoption records are sealed once
a child is adopted and can only be opened by a court.
To read the entire article please click
here.
06/29/2009
11 am July 21, 2009
Philadelphia, PA
For details on this Demonstration, log onto:
http://adopteerights.net/nulliusfilius/
.
For Details, please contact Theresa Hood at
babygirlm1963@yahoo.com
All Americans,
adopted or not, have a right to access government records about their
own lives. That’s why we are organizing an Adoptee Rights Demonstration,
a rally and protest in Philadelphia, PA, at 11 AM on July 21, 2009. This
rally will coincide with the opening day of the Legislative Summit of
the National Conference of State Legislators.
Adult adoptees in most of the advanced, industrialized nations of the
world have unrestricted access to their original birth records as a
matter of right. In contrast, adult adoptees in all but six states in
the U.S. are forbidden unrestricted access to their own original birth
certificates, due to archaic laws that are a legacy of a culture of
shame that stigmatized infertility, out-of-wedlock birth and adoption.
Adult adoptees and their supporters have worked diligently in different
states for decades to overturn these laws, but have been opposed by
well-funded lobbies representing certain adoption agencies and lawyers
who have a vested interest in keeping birth certificates sealed. Their
unsupported claims that access violates dubious privacy rights or will
increase abortions and decrease adoptions have been categorically
refuted by data from states with laws recognizing the rights of
adoptees, by studies such as the recently published paper from the Evan
B. Donaldson Adoption Institute, and by court decisions affirming the
constitutionality of access laws.
Please join us in Philadelphia as we fight to restore our dignity and
equality! If you can’t attend the demonstration, you can still help.
Participate in our
writing campaign to inform all state legislatures of the urgency of
unsealing our records to restore the equality of adoptees in the United
States. Help
spread the word about the protest on your blog, or to any groups or
mailing lists you belong to. And if you can afford it, your
donation would be greatly appreciated.
Make a difference, be a part of history and get involved today!
Adoptee Rights Demonstration 2009
Your Rights — Your Protest
06/11/2009
Happy to be called the 'birth mother's husband'
In all
of my 40 years of living, I've been called a lot of things. Over the past 10
years, however, I've had one title only a few people hold - the "birth
mother's husband." I was referred to as the "birth mother's husband" this
past April while attending a wedding for my wife Bobbi's "birth" daughter,
Chrystal Chartier-Wittenmyer. The reference normally comes whenever she
introduces my wife: "This is my birth mother...," and then me: "This is my
birth mother's..." You get the idea. To read the entire article please click
here.
06/10/2009
Application for Workforce Investment Act (WIA) Youth
Program for the year 2009
To print the application please click
here.
06/08/09
Ruling Open Up Doors to Past.
Bort has spent a lot of time
trying to get more than just the handful of adoption papers her parents
saved. It's more than just curiosity. She and her youngest son Cody have
osteogenesis imperfecta, which is caused by an error called a mutation on a
gene that affects the body's production of the collagen found in bones, and
other tissues. It is not caused by too little calcium or poor nutrition.
Bort wonders whether her adoption documents would reveal anything else.
To read the entire
article please click
here.
06/01/2009
Raising
Katie
What adopting a white girl taught a black family about race in the Obama
era.
Several pairs of
eyes follow the girl as she pedals around the playground in an affluent
suburb of Baltimore. But it isn't the redheaded fourth grader who seems to
have moms and dads of the jungle gym nervous on this recent Saturday
morning. It's the African-American man—six feet tall, bearded and wearing a
gray hooded sweatshirt—watching the girl's every move. Approaching from
behind, he grabs the back of her bicycle seat as she wobbles to a stop.
"Nice riding," he says, as the fair-skinned girl turns to him, beaming.
"Thanks, Daddy," she replies. The onlookers are clearly flummoxed.
to read the entire article please click
here.
05/25/2009
Bisphenol A, a chemical found in plastic water
bottles, leaches from the bottle and ends up in the urine of people who
drink from them, say researchers at the Harvard
School of Public Health.
The researchers found that
study participants who drank for a week
from polycarbonate bottles, the popular, hard-plastic drinking bottles and
baby bottles, showed a two-thirds increase in their urine of the chemical,
also known as BPA.
to read the entire article please click
here.
05/20/2009
Income Eligibility Schedules for Publically
Subsidized Child Care Assistance or Services 2009
To see the schedules please click
here.
05/19/2009
Suddenly, siblings
How would you like to welcome a
new sister or brother into your family -- at the age of 45? As laws change
and stigmas soften, more adults who were adopted are seeking and finding
their birth parents. The meeting of birth mother and newly found "child" is
often, if not always, joyous. For children born later who now must adjust to
having a new and older half-sibling, feelings can be more complicated. We
talked with several Twin Cities families about their experiences, and some
(nonscientific) patterns emerged.
To read the entire article please click
here.
05/19/2009
Susan
Thompson Underdahl is a clinical neuropsychologist in Grand Forks, N.D., who
recently wrote a chapter on adult sibling reunions for the book "Siblings in
Adoption and Foster Care." She has also written a young-adult novel on the
topic.
At age 25, Underdahl searched for and found her birth parents, who had
placed her for adoption when they were in high school, and they had since
married and had two boys and a girl, teenagers at the time.
"It was probably hardest on my sister," Underdahl said. "She wanted to be a
psychologist, too, and here I show up with my Ph.D. I think it messed with
her identity."
She said their relationship has been "up and down" in the 17 years since
then. Her advice for adoptees hoping to become part of a birth-parent
family:
to read the entire article please click
here.
05/13/2009
NRCFCPPP’s Complete Listing of
State Foster Care Contacts
The National
Resource Center for Family-Centered Practice and Permanency Planning has
compiled a complete listing of State foster care contacts (updated 5/09) as
part of the 2009 National Foster Care Month campaign. For each State and the
District of Columbia, the listing offers the appropriate organization/agency
name, telephone number (when available), and website for those seeking to
learn more about foster care or how to become a foster parent. Access the
document online at:
http://www.hunter.cuny.edu/socwork/nrcfcpp/info_services/fact-sheets.html
To access the PDF document directly, visit:
http://www.hunter.cuny.edu/socwork/nrcfcpp/downloads/fact-sheets/Foster Care
Contact List NFCM09.pdf
05/12/2009
"In Honor of Mothers" By Joyce Maguire Pavao
To see the poem please click
here
05/12/2009
Vaccine records of internationally adopted children may not reflect
protection against disease
U.S. families have adopted almost
250,000 foreign-born children in the last 15 years, according to background
information in the article. Many of these children were living in orphanages
or other institutional settings with few resources and are likely to have
incomplete immunization records or none at all. When valid written records
do exist, the American Academy of Pediatrics Committee on Infectious Disease
advises that they could be considered as evidence of previous vaccination.
However, there are reasons to suspect that these records may not accurately
reflect immunity, including "documentation inaccuracies, lack of vaccine
potency and impaired immune response, possibly due to stress or
malnutrition."
To read the entire article please click
here
05/06/2009
Create a Lifebook : Free Course 'til June 1st
Spring is
here! The season for new projects and fresh inspiration...a perfect time
to start a Lifebook
for your child, or to work on the one
you already have.
If you
like the idea but don't know where to start,
www.AdoptionLearningPartners.org
can help! The course covers some of the things that should be included
in a Lifebook, and provides templates you can print out and use.
For the
month of May, we are offering our course on
Lifebooks free
of charge. Beginning June 1, however, there will be a $30 fee. So
there's extra motivation to get started now! Click
here and
start today.
05/05/2009
State-Level Differences in Child and Family Well-Being
Research
studies based on national statistics for the United States as a whole have
documented differences in child and family well-being between children in
low-income and higher-income families and between children in single-parent
and two-parent families. However, researchers have not explored differences
in well-being in these families at the state level because of a general lack
of comparable state-level data.
Two new Child Trends research briefs examine child and family
well-being in two states by analyzing data from the National Survey of
Children's Health. In addition to supplying national-level data, this
survey offers select state-level data that is important to understanding the
health and well-being of children and families in a particular state.
1) Disparities in Health and Access to Insurance in
Washington State
A new Child Trends brief,
Children's Access to Health Insurance and Health Status in Washington State:
Influential Factors, finds that most children in Washington
State are healthy and are covered by health insurance, but children from
lower-income and lower-education households are disproportionately uninsured
and disproportionately rely on public insurance.
2) Differences in Child and Family Well-Being in Maryland
A second new Child Trends brief,
The Well-Being of Maryland Parents and Their Children: Differences by Income
Status and Family Structure, finds that most children and
their parents in Maryland are functioning well in most areas, but there are
significant differences in child and family well-being between children in
low-income and higher-income families and between children in single-parent
and two-parent families.
04/24/2009
H.A.P.S. Achieved Full Hague Accreditation
HAPS (Homestudies & Adoption Placement Services) is pleased
to announce that we have received our FULL Accreditation as an approved
Hague Adoption Service Provider (ASP).
To read the entire article please click
here
04/20/2009
Youth
Benefit From Strong Families Regardless of Income
When families make the news, it is often for negative reasons
such as violence or abuse. However, families are critical to the positive
development of children and youth, as well as to problems that may affect
development. A new Child Trends brief,
Exploring The Links Between Family Strengths and Adolescent Outcomes,
finds that family strengths are associated with significantly better
outcomes for adolescents in both lower-income and higher-income families.
Family strengths include emotional/subjective strengths (such as close and
caring parents); behavioral/concrete strengths (for example, parental
monitoring and parent involvement); and passive parenting strengths (for
instance, positive parental role modeling).
Among the findings:
- Adolescents who reported having close and caring parents
are significantly more likely to perform well in school. Higher parental
monitoring and parent involvement are also associated with better school
performance.
- These patterns were found in both lower- and higher-income families.
- Adolescents in families with higher parental monitoring are more likely to
avoid risky behaviors. Also, risky behaviors are significantly lower when
parents are more close and caring and more involved.
- These patterns were found for both lower- and higher-income
families.
Focusing on family strengths identifies what we value and
seek in families. It also clarifies the behaviors and supports families can
provide -- building close and caring relationships, monitoring, being
involved, and setting a good example. Moreover, it provides insights for
funders, policymakers and service providers on ways that the strengths of
families can be leveraged to improve services and, subsequently, outcomes
for youth.
This brief is based on data for adolescents ages 12-17 from the 2005 Every
Child Every Promise Study conducted by America's Promise Alliance.
04/20/2009
The latest “Intercountry
Adoption A- Z”
The latest “Intercountry Adoption A- Z” is now available form the State
Department. Please click
here
to download.
04/15/2009
Chinese Hunger for Sons Fuels Boy's Abductions
These and
thousands of other children stolen from the teeming industrial hubs of
China’s Pearl River Delta have never been recovered by their parents or by
the police. But anecdotal evidence suggests the children do not travel far.
Although some are sold to buyers in Singapore, Malaysia and Vietnam, most of
the boys are purchased domestically by families desperate for a male heir,
parents of abducted children and some law enforcement officials who have
investigated the matter say.
To read the entire article please click
here.
04/14/2009
NACAC offers Advocacy Training in Washington DC.
The North American
Council on Adoptable Children (NACAC) is organizing an advocacy training
in Washington D.C. from May 31 to June 2. NACAC has worked with the Pew
Charitable Trusts for the past four years and is part of a larger group
of organizations that helped promote the passing of the much needed
child welfare legislation: Fostering Connections to Success and
Increasing Adoptions Act.
NACAC continues outreach
to promote adoption advocacy and are working now to locate advocate
teams from various target states to come to this training. NACAC will
pay for travel, lodging, and food expenses for the team members who
attend the training.
One of our target states
is New Jersey. NACAC is looking for an advocate team that consists of:
*
a youth (currently 18 or older) who was adopted (at age 11 or older)
from foster care and can speak about the importance of having a
permanent family
* a parent who has
adopted a child/children from foster care with special needs and can
speak about the importance of post-adoption support
and services
* someone from an agency
or child welfare advocacy organization who can discuss the statewide
need for post-adoption services and
permanent families for
youth in foster care
NACAC has hosted two
advocacy trainings in DC in the past four years. Besides teaching about
local, statewide, and federal advocacy strategies NACAC goes into great
depth training people how to effectively share their personal stories to
advocate for change. The culminating activity on the last day of the
training is for each state's team to make legislative visits. Past
trainings have been powerful experiences for the attendees and we
believe the stories individuals shared with their legislators
contributed to the passing of the Fostering Connections Act.
Please click
here for the DC
Advocacy Training outline. For more information contact Janet Jerve
651-644-3036 ext. 13 or e-mail her at
janetjerve@nacac.org .
04/13/2009
Singing and Rapping for Their Rights as adoptees
Two musicians have written and recorded a
song they hope will revive a bill that would open private adoption records.
It has languished in the State Legislature for six years.
The song, by
Darryl McDaniels and
Zara H. Phillips, is called “I’m
Legit,” and it mixes the rap of Mr. McDaniels — also known as DMC of the
pioneering hip-hop group Run-DMC — with the rock of Ms. Phillips in support
of legislation that would give adult adoptees access to their original birth
records. Similar legislation is being considered in nine other states.
To read the entire article please click
here
04/13/2009
A life or
death search for her family ties
Carol Barbieri, a resident here, and her twin sister, Kathi,
were told they were adopted around the third grade by their parents. Not
having much interest in finding her birth parents, Barbieri said, “There was
a part of me, as some adoptees will tell you that had a chip on my shoulder
— ‘Well, she left me. Why should I look for her?”
That is until 1991, when Barbieri’s then 14-year-old son, Jonathan, now 31,
was diagnosed with Wolff-Parkinson-White Syndrome — a cardiac condition that
causes the disruption of the heart’s normal rhythm. During one of Jonathon’s
episodes, he presented with an excessive heart rate of 320 beats per minute.
When the cardiologist asked the Barbieris if there was a history of the
illness or sudden death on either side of the family, she recognized that
obtaining her husband’s medical history was as simple as making a phone call
to his mother. But, being adopted, Barbieri had no way of knowing — or any
easy means of finding out — about the health history of her biological
family.
To read the entire article please click
here
04/07/2009
A
different mid-life crisis: Man learns he's adopted
For 40 years, Patrick Callahan lived a relatively
uncomplicated life, believing among other things that he was the only son of
Eleanor and Arthur Callahan. His mother died in 1978. His father died in
1994. That's what he believed.
Only, Eleanor and Artie Callahan were not actually Patrick's
parents. They had raised him from the time he was five days old, but
technically they had never adopted him. An Essex County lawyer, operating
outside the law as an adoption broker, had arranged for the infant to be
handed over to Eleanor and Artie by orchestrating what amounted to a
black-market deal.
To read the entire article please click
here.
04/01/2009
Higher Education/ College Scholarship Information from Foster and
Adoptive Family Services.
Do you have a child going to college
that was previously in foster care in NJ?
Read the more detailed “Ask Our
Experts” article from the NJ ARCH “Under the ARCH” Newsletter published
March 2009. Click
here to read the entire explanation of FAFS higher education
scholarship information. Click
here (2nd
attachment) for the supplemental information referenced in the article.
If you need assistance, please contact our office at 877-4ARCHNJ and we
can print and send you the article(s) requested.
03/26/2009
Allocation of Title IV-E stimulus funds may help forestall cuts in foster
care and adoption assistance that some states are currently considering
On Monday, March 16, the
U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) released the first
allocation of Title IV-E funding under the American Recovery and
Reinvestment Act (ARRA). Under ARRA, Title IV-E foster care maintenance,
adoption assistance, and kinship guardianship assistance will benefit from
an increased federal match of 6.2% for all 50 states <http://www.cwla.org/advocacy/arrainstructions.pdf>
. The increased match, similar to the increased match for Medicaid, is
retroactive to October 1, 2008, and will last through December 31, 2010.
To read the entire article please click
here
03/19/2009
White House Internship Program
President
Obama today launched the White House Internship Program for his
administration and announced that applications are currently being accepted
for the summer of 2009. Those selected to participate in the program will
gain valuable job experience and an inside look at the life of
White
House staff while building leadership skills.
For more information please click
here
03/19/2009
Camp Excell: Programs Available in Monmouth and Bergen
County
Camp Excel
is a comprehensive program that includes academics to promote
growth and avoid regression over the summer months,
therapeutic activities to assist in making friends and keeping friends, sports
to develop skills and build self-esteem and recreational activities just for
fun! Throughout the day, staff members provide encouragement and guidance in
using appropriate social skills, giving children the opportunity to experience
in the moment learning, learning that stays with them! We recognized the
importance of family involvement and offer weekly Parent Groups to provide
parenting information and support.
We also offer siblings groups for brothers and sisters to express their feelings
regarding their special needs sibling.
For more information please click here
03/11/2009
CPFA Upcoming program and Discussion
Concerned Persons for Adoption
(CPFA) will hold its FREE seasonal program on Wednesday, March 25 at 7:45 P.M.
at the First Presbyterian
Church of Whippany. New member orientation is at 7:30 P.M. Programs are open to
anyone concerned with adoption and admission is free.
To see the entire announcement please click
here
03/12/2009
The Interview of Anne Bauer, the author of "The Sound of
Hope: A true Story of an Adoptee's Quest for her Origins"
on WWOR-TV, Channel 9
Anne Bauer, author of the new book,
‘The Sound of Hope: A True Story of an Adoptee’s Quest for Her
Origins’, will be interviewed
this Sunday, March 15th, at 12:30 PM, on
My9's Real Talk,
WWOR-TV, Channel
9, in the NY/NJ
metropolitan area. Honored with the coveted Editor’s Choice
Award, Publisher’s Choice Award and the prestigious Rising Star
Award, Anne was inspired to write a true account of her life as
an adopted individual in hopes of raising awareness of civil
rights of adoptees and instigating reform in the current laws
pertaining to adoptee records. She is a registered nurse and
Reiki energy healer and lives in northern New Jersey with her
husband and their three children. You may find out more about
her at
www.adopteesvoice.com.
Also being interviewed are Brenda
Mirly and Judy Foster. Brenda is Program Director for the New
Jersey Office of Spence-Chapin Services to Families and
Children. She is also a member of the Adoption Agency Council
of New Jersey. Brenda has over 15 years of experience in
providing adoption services. She is a LCSW, and has extensive
advanced training in marriage and family therapy.
Judy surrendered her daughter to
adoption in 1961 and was reunited with her 10 years ago. As the
NJ state representative to the American Adoption Congress and a
co-facilitator of the Morristown Post-Adoption Support Group,
Judy has worked diligently with her NJCARE colleagues to educate
legislators and the public about the myth of confidentiality
promised to birth parents and the need to restore adoptees'
civil right to know their heritage.
We expect that members of the
opposition will also be interviewed for this segment. For more
information about the bill, or to get involved in the
legislative effort, go to
www.nj-care.org.
03/03/2009
Golden Bell Leadership Award
Acknowledging outstanding performance of an individual or company who has
changed public perception or made a significant change affecting the
mental health of children or adults. Leadership nominees are sought in the
categories of: media, advocacy, children & corporate.
To see the announcement please click
here
03/03/2009
Spain looks back at dark
chapter of adoptions
The ordeal of Radas and others is now putting Spain under
pressure to take a closer look at a dark chapter of its past. Historians say
government archives show that the right-wing regime of Gen. Francisco Franco
waged a campaign to take away children of their enemies, Republican prisoners,
and sometimes stripped women of newborn babies. The goal was to educate the
children to shy from leftist thought, embrace Roman Catholicism and support the
regime.
To read the entire article please click
here
02/26/2009
Panel: Adopting From Abroad? Get Hepatitis A Shot
The
Advisory Committee on Immunization Practices, meeting in Atlanta, voted
Wednesday to recommend hepatitis A vaccinations for all close contacts of
children coming from countries where hepatitis A is relatively common. That
includes Guatemala, China, Russia and Ethiopia — four countries that are
currently the major sources of international adoptions. The committee makes
recommendations to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention
To read the entire article please click
here.
02/24/2009
Summary and Section-by-Section Description of the
Fostering Connections to Success and Increasing Adoptions Act of 2008 (H.R.6893)
To read the entire text please click
here.
02/24/2009
Extended Families help Children avoid Foster Care
Federal
and state policies give preference to relatives as foster parents to care for
children taken into state custody. Increasingly, however, states are using
relatives to care for abused and neglected children to avoid having to take
children into custody, according to a new Child Trends study.
To read the entire article please click
here.
02/04/2009
Finding Family Roots is Relatively Easy
If you're trying to track down your family history, the Social
Security Administration's Death Master File is a good place to start.
To read the entire article please click
here.
02/11/2009
Adoption Institute Annual Report
To read the entire 2008
report please click
here
02/04/2009
Adopted Children and IQ
From 5,003 files of adopted children, 65 deprived children,
defined as abused and or neglected during infancy, were strictly selected with
particular reference to two criteria: (i) They were adopted between 4 and
6 years of age, and (ii) they had an IQ <86 (mean 5 77, SD 5 6.3) before
adoption. The average IQs of adopted children in lower and higher socioeconomic
status (SES) families were 85 (SD 5 17) and 98 (SD 5 14.6), respectively, at
adolescence (mean age 5 13.5 years). The results show (i) a significant
gain in IQ dependent on the SES of the adoptive families (mean57.7 and mean 5
19.5 IQ points in low and high SES, respectively), (ii) IQs after
adoption are significantly correlated with IQs before adoption, and (iii)
during adolescence, verbal IQs are significantly lower than performance IQs.
T p read the entire article please click
here.
02/04/2009
Effects of Childhood Stress
Stress activates many of the body’s physical systems that
assist in coping. However, children experience different amounts and intensity
of stress owing to family difficulties, economic stress, and other factors, and
their capacities to cope depend crucially on the support of adults. "Allostatic
load" refers to the measurement of the cumulative wear and tear on the body that
results from experiencing stress. Research shows that high allostatic load in
childhood is associated with long-term vulnerability to poor health and mental
health outcomes, and that these effects begin early in life. As the term
implies, children carry a high burden of potential vulnerability when the
allostatic load is high. But are there factors, such as support from close
relationships, which can help to buffer children from the effects of stress on
allostatic load?
To read the entire article please click
here.
02/02/2009
Childhood Stress affects Health Years Later
Children who spent their first years in institutions
before being adopted by loving and affluent families still suffered long-term
damage to their immune systems as a result of early emotional stress, according
to a University of Wisconsin study posted Monday with the online
Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences. Even the health of children
adopted before the age of 3 who then spent more than a decade with their new
families were no better than the health of children who had spent their entire
childhoods in abusive families.
To read the entire article please click
here.
01/30/2009
"There's No Place Like Home" Spring Gala
On Friday, March 27, 2009, Children's Aid and Family
Services will hold its signature annual fundraising gala at Hackensack Golf Club
in Oradell, New Jersey. This year's theme will be "There's No Place Like Home,"
and will feature fun elements from the classic movie "The Wizard of Oz."
Most important, every net penny raised will be used to improve the lives of the
vulnerable children and families the agency serves.
The evening will include live and silent auctions featuring exciting items,
including a stay at a vacation home on Kiawah Island, the chance to be named as
a character in international bestselling author Harlan Coben's next novel, and
tickets to the Broadway smash "Wicked."
Unlike "The Wizard of Oz," this magical night is no dream. Tickets cost
$150 and you may register for the event online at
www.cafsnj.org. There are also opportunities for sponsorships and
commemorative journal ads. Call Eve Marsan, Marketing and Special Events
Manager, at 201.261.2800 x213 for more information.
01/30/2009
Adoption Notice China
The U.S. Dept of State
has just released the corrected version of the Adoption Notice for China. A
copy of the corrected release is below. It may also be found on
www.adoption.state.gov.
to read the entire text please click
here.
01/30/2009
Dear President Obama: Open Sealed Records
Today there are approximately six
million people in America who do not have the right to answer the question: Who
am I? Who was I at birth? The state took that right from them when they were
adopted as infants or toddlers. Only in eight states do they have the right to
their original birth certificates. An active movement of adoptee-rights
advocates is pressing for reform throughout the country, but the going is at a
snail’s pace. At this rate, millions of people will die before the laws are
changed, and changed they will be one day. Right is on our side.
To read the entire article please click
here
01/27/2009
Free Depression Assessment
Lyndhurst, NJ (January 26, 2009)
Can depression break your heart?
A broken heart may be hard to mend, but
studies show depression can take a real toll on your
cardiovascular health. Over
the past two decades, research has shown that people who are depressed are at
greater risk for developing heart disease than people who aren't, and
conversely, people with heart disease are more likely to be depressed.
To read the entire article please click here
01/27/2009
The Heart Gallery of New Jersey
The Heart Gallery of New
Jersey, Inc. is a unique not-for-profit corporation dedicated to raising
awareness about foster children available for adoption. Through the
volunteer efforts of some of the country's most prestigious photographers,
portraits are taken that help capture the individuality and spirit of each
foster child who is eligible to be adopted. These photographs are then
shared via the web and through gallery exhibits in the hope that potential
families will be moved to inquire about adoption. For more information log
onto
http://www.heartgallerynj.org/
01/21/2009
Adoption Costs Broadcast on Today Show
01/21/2009
The Heart Gallery Newest Project
The Heart Gallery's newest
project
Do 1 Thing launches on Valentines Day 2009.
More than 100 of the world's most recognized names in photography including
30 Pulitzer-prize winners are coming together to put a "face" on
homelessness while asking you to put a "face on activism.
Three out of every 10 homeless adults admit to a history in foster care and
with 25,000 youths aging out of foster care each year, thousands will
experience homelessness.
On the day Americans spend 14 billion dollars telling each other how much
they care, join us in Doing 1 Thing to help these vulnerable youth.

Stay up to date on the
project on our
Facebook Causes Page
01/21/2009
Heart Gallery Reception at Johnson &Johnson
You're invited
to the Heart Gallery reception at Johnson & Johnson on Thursday, January 22nd,
2009; log
onto
www.heartgallerynj.org for more information. The children featured in the
Heart Gallery are deserving of dignity and respect and, most importantly, a
possible ticket to a new life. It is our hope that these portraits will touch
prospective parents across the country and encourage them to adopt. Doesn't
everybody deserve a family? RSVP to Patty Hickey at
phickey1@its.jnj.com .
01/14/2009
Transcending Trauma
Some contend that before I was born, my
future was predetermined. My mother met my father in a mental institution where
she was being treated for schizophrenia. I was conceived at that institution. By
one year of age I would be in my first foster home placement.
My sister was born a year and a half later; she too would enter the foster care
system. We would be placed back with our birth mother several times a year, she
would have a mental breakdown and we would be thrust back into yet another
foster care placement.
To read the entire article please click
here
01/10/2009
Celebrating National Adoption Month: Resources for
Professionals
The following are resources
from the child Welfare Information Gateway that can assist professionals with
achieving permanency for children and youth in foster care.
To read more please visit
http://www.childwelfare.gov/adoption/nam/professionals.cfm
01/07/2009
Facts at a Glance
Since 1983, Child Trends has
produced Facts at a Glance, an annual newsletter highlighting national
data on teen pregnancy, childbearing, and sexual behavior. For the most recent
years, state-by-state and city-by-city comparisions are available. In some
years, an explanatory cover sheet gives more background information for the Facts
at a Glance in that year.
To read more please visit
http://www.childtrends.org/_listFAAG.cfm?LID=06C2494C-82B6-4FF8-8DCF0E98D39E016C
01/07/2009
Russian Furor Over U.S. Adoptions Follows American’s Acquittal in Boy’s Death
The grim case of a Washington-area toddler who died of heatstroke
after his father left him in a parked vehicle for nine hours is national news in
Russia, fodder for angry political commentary and kitchen-table discussion.
The boy, born Dmitri Yakovlev, was adopted from Russia, and his
death in July revived memories of a string of earlier abuse cases involving
Russian children adopted by American parents. But the real outcry came in
December, when his adoptive father, Miles Harrison, was acquitted of involuntary
manslaughter. To read the entire article please click
here
01/05/2009
Beginning in tax year 2003, families
adopting a child with special needs from foster care were allowed access to
the adoption tax credit without needing to document expenses. For tax year
2007, the tax credit is $11,390 per child and you have this year and up to
the next five additional years in which to use it. If you finalized your
adoption before 2007 and failed to claim the adoption tax credit, read our
other fact sheet
Amending Your Tax Return
(not complete). For the full article log onto: http://www.nacac.org/postadopt/taxcredit.html
12/16/2008
Adoption week E-magazine
To read please click
here
12/16/2008
Trends in International
Adoption - 2004 to 2008
International Adoption is just one of many ways in which parents can adopt a
child. Children from all over the globe are waiting for their forever families
and the statistics below show that Americans are responding to their plight.
To read the entire article please click
here
12/08/2008
The English
American by Alison Larkin
Alison Larkin will have a book signing
and reading at the Morristown & Morris Township Library on Sunday at 2 p.m. Her
best- selling novel, "The English American," is according to the Chicago Sun
Times "a funny, charming and poignant book - the kind that you can't resist
reading in a single day." "It's impossible to dislike this scatterbrained Brit,
who overstuffs her suitcase and then ties it together with nylon stockings..."
"But the book, based on Larkin's one-woman comedy show, has a serious heart. It
deals with both the bureaucratic difficulty of finding your birth parents and
the emotional difficulty of integrating them into your life. The English
American has a love story, too, with Pippa trying to figure out two very
different men..." So come to the library for a fun and funny afternoon with
Alison Larkin. Copies of her book will be available for purchase so bring your
holiday gift list with you. Light refreshment will be served.
The library is located at 1 Miller Road in Morristown, directly across the
street from the Community Theatre. Call (973) 538-6161.
11/24/2008
Nebraska revises child Safe Haven Law
The Legislature on Friday revised an unusual law permitting
parents to hand children up to age 18 over to state custody without prosecution,
instead limiting its reach to infants up to 30 days old.
The original law, enacted earlier this year, was intended to
protect newborns from being abandoned or killed by panicked young mothers. But
since Sept. 1, to the shock of officials and the public in
Nebraska, 35 older children, many from 10 to 17 years in age, have been
dropped off at hospitals. Most were left by desperate parents who said the
children were uncontrollable and violent and needed more counseling or
psychiatric services than they could find or pay for.
To read the entire article please click
here
11/24/2008
Mothers seek Children Given up for Adoption
In 1966 at the age of 20, Tina Caudill of Hazel Park found
herself pregnant and unmarried. While today she would be considered a single
mother, back then she was a disgrace to her family and community.
When her employer found out -- she was working as a secretary in
Detroit -- Caudill was forced to quit her job. She hid her pregnancy and the job
loss from her parents, telling them she had been transferred temporarily to St.
Louis, Mo.
To read the entire article please click
here
11/20/2008
Foreign Adoptions by Americans Drop Sharply
The number of foreign children adopted by Americans fell 12
percent in the past year, reaching the lowest level since 1999 as some countries
clamped down on the process and others battled with allegations of adoption
fraud.
To read the entire article please click
here
11/13/2008
DCF Plans Over 250 Adoptions to Commemorate
National Adoption Month
The Department of Children and Families (DCF)
will celebrate National Adoption Month this November by co-hosting 14 events to
honor adoptive families and finalize adoptions of approximately 260 children
currently in foster care.
The majority of this month’s events, stretching from Cape May to Essex County,
will be held over a three-day period, culminating on Saturday, November 15, with
the state’s largest National Adoption Day celebration held annually in Newark.
This year’s celebrations include many adoption finalizations for adolescents in
foster care, as well as many sibling groups being adopted together.
Please note that adoption court hearings are closed to the press, but each event
listed notes whether members of the press are invited to any scheduled family
celebrations and other receptions following the court hearings. If there is no
event, reporters or photographers may be connected with an adoptive family in
their area.
If the press is interested in covering one of these events or being connected
with a family, please call the DCF Press Office, 609-633-8507, for further
information.
National Adoption Day was initiated in 2000 by the Alliance for Children’s
Rights, with support from organizations including the Freddie Mac Foundation and
the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption.
For more information on adoption, call 1-800-NJ ADOPT (992-3678) or visit the
DYFS adoption Web site at
www.njadopt.org.
11/03/2008
November is National Adoption Month
November is National Adoption Month, a month set
aside to raise awareness about the adoption of children and youth from
foster care. This year's theme of adopting teens from foster care builds on
the Ad Council's new public service announcement (PSA) campaign of the
Children's Bureau, the Adoption Exchange Association, and The Collaboration
to
AdoptUsKids.
Click here for details on how to celebrate
http://www.childwelfare.gov/adoption/nam/
10/30/2008
The new youth helpline
The new youth helpline is available
24-hours-a-day, seven-days-a-week to children and young adults ages 10-24.
Youth can either call the helpline, 1-888-222-2228, or access the
interactive Web site
www.2NDFLOOR.org. Calls to the 2NDFLOOR youth helpline are anonymous
and confidential except in life-threatening situations.
To read more please click
here
10/17/2008
Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute 2009 Foster
Youth Internship Program Application
The Congressional Foster Youth Internship (FYI) Program provides talented
college students, who have spent their formative years in foster care, an
opportunity to intern in Congressional offices for the summer. These young
adults, who have beaten the odds and thrived in spite of difficult
circumstances, bring their unique perspectives and resilient spirits to serve in
the offices of the U.S. Congress.
To read the entire application form for the 2009 Congressional Foster Youth
Internship program please click
here
10/14/2008
Daunted by the stigma surrounding adoption here, Cho Joong-bae and Kim In-soon
delayed expanding their family for years. When they finally did six years ago,
Mr. Cho chose to tell his elderly parents that the child was the result of an
affair, rather than admit she was adopted.
“My parents later died believing that I’d had an affair,” said
Mr. Cho, 48, a civil engineer who has since adopted a second daughter.
Now, with South Korea becoming more accepting of adoptive
families, Mr. Cho and Ms. Kim feel they can be more open, with relatives and
nonrelatives alike. Ms. Kim, 49, attributed the change partly to the growth of
other nontraditional families, like those headed by single parents or including
foreign spouses. To read the entire article please click
here
10/07/2008
Senate passes "Fostering Connections to Success and
Increasing Adoptions Act of 2008 (H.R.6893)
The Senate has passed the
passed the Fostering Connections to Success and Increasing Adoptions Act of
2008 (HR6893). Passed by the House on September 17, the bill now awaits
signature by President Bush. Once signed, the legislation will (among other
things):
Reauthorize and update the adoption incentives program
Gradually de-link Title IV-E adoption assistance from income requirements so
that all children with special needs eventually have access to this federal
support
Provide for Title IV-E funding of kinship guardianship placements
Extend direct Title IV-E funding to tribal governments
Allow states to receive federal reimbursement for support provided to foster
youth up to age 21
Create a grant program to support kinship caregivers
Require reasonable efforts to keep siblings together
Require agencies to inform prospective adopters about the tax credit
A more detailed summary of it can be found here:
http://www.nacac.org/policy/HR6893_summary.pdf
10/06/2008
Father drops
off 9 children under 'haven' law
Child drop-offs
under Nebraska's safe haven law have until now been individual affairs involving
individual children.
But Wednesday evening at Creighton University Medical Center, a father dropped
off nine children, all his.
The children ranged in age from 1 to 17 years, said Officer Michael Pecha, an
Omaha police spokesman.
To read the entire article please click
here
09/23/208
Senate Passes “Fostering Connections to Success
and Increasing Adoptions Act of 2008 (H.R. 6893)
The Senate has passed the passed the
Fostering Connections to Success and Increasing Adoptions Act of 2008
(HR6893). Passed by the House on September 17, the bill now awaits
signature by President Bush. Once signed, the legislation will (among other
things):
Reauthorize and update the adoption incentives program
Gradually de-link Title IV-E adoption assistance from income requirements so
that all children with special needs eventually have access to this federal
support
Provide for Title IV-E funding of kinship guardianship placements
Extend direct Title IV-E funding to tribal governments
Allow states to receive federal reimbursement for support provided to foster
youth up to age 21
Create a grant program to support kinship caregivers
Require reasonable efforts to keep siblings together
Require agencies to inform prospective adopters about the tax credit
A more detailed summary of it can be found here:
http://www.nacac.org/policy/HR6893_summary.pdf
09/04/2008
Adoption Institute E - Newsletter
09/04/08
Heart Gallery of New Jersey - Your Chance to Help a Foster
Child
The Heart Gallery exhibit will be on display at Foundation
Baptist Church and open to the public
September 2008
The Fountain Baptist Church in Summit
116 Glenside Ave, Summit, NJ 07901
(908) 273 - 1199
08/19/2008
Father Involvement Benefits
Infants' Cognitive Development
Fathers' involvement in a wide range of
activities with their infant children is positively associated with infant
cognitive development, according to a
new Child Trends study published online in the
Journal of Family
Issues. The study, "Involvement among Resident Fathers
and Links to Infant Cognitive Outcomes," also shows that the benefits of father
involvement for infants' cognitive development are greater for male infants and
for infants with a disability.
The study is based on the Early Childhood Longitudinal Study - Birth Cohort, a
nationally representative survey of children born in 2001.
08/18/2008
In Adoptee Search for Roots, Loss and Gain Collide
Mr. Cellura is among a growing number of baby boomers who were
adopted when the process was veiled in secrecy and are now hiring professional
genealogists and harnessing the Internet to track down their birth families.
Their quest to find their roots has fueled a thriving business in searchers,
like the one Mr. Cellura hired after seeing her Web site, and driven a national
debate over whether to open adoption records without birth parents’ permission.
Eight states allow adoptees access to their birth records, and
legislation to do so is pending in five more, including New York and New Jersey.
But critics say such transparency violates the privacy of birth mothers who may
not want to be in touch with the offspring they gave up.
To read the entire article please click
here
08/18/2008
Only 4 Weeks Left to Submit Conference and Medical Institute Proposal
Are you interested in presenting at
the 2009 Annual Conference and Medical Institute or do you know someone who
would make a great workshop speaker? Visit our
Annual Conference page for more information and to download a copy of the
Call for Presentations.
Joint Council
looks forward to presenting an informative event that strengthens our focus on
global permanency for all children. We anticipate expanding next year’s
conference topics to address multiple permanency solutions, including
international adoption.
Proposals are due
by
September 5, 2008.
Please send Medical Institute and
Conference Proposals to
joeller@jcics.org
or by fax (703) 535-8049 or
to our office at Joint Council on International Children’s Services
117 South Saint Asaph Street,
Alexandria, VA 22314.
T o see call for presentations please click
here
08/18/2008
Interest in Olympics Rekindled by Adopted Girls
I am not a big fan of the Olympics. My interest waned back in the
'80s, when it was decided Michael Jordan, holder of a multimillion-dollar
contract with the Chicago Bulls, was an amateur and could join with other
similarly situated players and be able to run up 62-point margins of victory
over such hoops powerhouses as Yugoslavia.
This year, though, my interest has been renewed, not because the
professional-amateur charade has been overcome, but because of where the games
are being played.
My wife and I are the adoptive parents of three girls, all
abandoned as infants in China, adopted by us in 1998, 2002 and 2006 and brought
to live here in New Jersey.
To read the entire article please click
here
07/29/08
An
Emotional Call for Change
Adoptees from across the country rallied at the National Conference of State
Legislators in New Orleans Tuesday morning while some local adoptees called for
action here in New York State. They are calling on state lawmakers for help.
“Open the records,” said Emily Daszkiewicz. “Unseal these
records.”
Local adoptees and birth mothers joined together in the genealogy
section of the main library in Downtown Rochester this morning. It’s a place
many of them have done research to find their birth parents.
To
read the entire article please click
here
07/23/2008
Where Did I Come From? One Adopted Woman's
Journey to Find Her Biological Mother
Cynthia
Guditus was adopted in New York 43 years ago, but never chose to look for her
birth mother until two years ago. She says she had a happy childhood and dearly
loved her parents; the parents who raised her.
But when her son, Connor, was diagnosed with cancer at the age of 9, doctors
advised her it might be important for her to learn about her
own medical history. So for Connor's sake, the happily married mother of three
began to search.
To read the entire article please click
here
07/23/2008
Tips for Parents kids in cars
This site has lots of information about Kid
safety and cars.
http://kidsandcars.org/
It also has links to several technological gadgets to help prevent kids from
being accidentally left in a car.
To read the entire articles please click
here
and here
07/17/2008
Where did I come from?
One Adopted women's Journey to Find Her Biological Mother
Cynthia Guditus was
adopted in New York 43 years ago, but never chose to look for her birth mother
until two years ago. She says she had a happy childhood and dearly loved her
parents the parents who raised her.
But when her son, Connor, was diagnosed with cancer at the age of 9, doctors
advised her it might be important for her to learn about her own medical
history. So for Connor's sake, the happily married mother of three began to
search.
To read the entire article please click
here
07/15/2008
Mickey Duxbury, author of "Making Room in Our Hearts" on
speaking of
Next on
Speaking of Adoption,hosted by Donna Montalbano Listen via the live stream at
www.onworldwide.com My guest for Tuesday, July 15th is Micky Duxbury, an
adoptive parent, licensed marriage and family therapist.
Micky and I will be discussing the unique challenges, responsibilities and joys
of parenting adoptive children when you’re older.
Micky is also the author of Making Room in Our Hearts: Keeping Family Ties
through Open Adoption
For more about Micky, her book and how to order it, click on the "Required
Reading" page of
www.speakingofadoptionradio.com
An important reminder: you must watch this Monday night, July 14th, at 9 pm ET
the shocking documentary "China's Stolen Children" on HBO
07/15/2008
Archeology of Adoption, August 27- September 24,
2008
AHL
Foundation – a not-for- profit arts foundation - is proud to present Archaeology
of Adoption, an Exhibition for Korean Adoptee
Artists. AHL attempts to focus on artists who deal with relatively relegated
issues through their experience as Korean adoptees. This
exhibition addresses the issue of adoption, something the artists have taken for
granted, and shares it with audiences who may not have
thought about it. Moreover, adoption, in itself, jeopardizes all the social
constructs on memory, nostalgia, and on what composes a
family. The artists in this exhibition raise questions such as how one can trace
something that they never experienced or whether
nostalgia for a specific place could be strong to those who had spent a very
short time there.
To read the entire article please click
here
07/09/2008
Teens Hope to Win Hearts of New Parents
Moved from the maternity ward to his first
foster home 16 years ago, the soft-spoken, handsome young man is still holding
out hope that he'll be adopted.
"Why not?," he asked. "I'm a good speaker. Why not adopt me?"
But as one of New Jersey's "100 Waiting Children" who have been in foster care
the longest, Henry knows the deck is stacked against him.
To read the entire article please click
here
07/07/2008
Speaking of Adoption" this Tues. on the web
My guest
for Tuesday, July 8th is Elizabeth Brundage, author of Somebody Else's Daughter;
a psychological thriller of secrets, dark motives, and an adoption buried in the
past.
(Secrets, dark motives and lies, oh my! That's "adoption" all right!)
At the center of Elizabeth Brundage’s new novel lies an adoption under stressed
and tragic circumstances. Willa, brought up in elegant prosperity, is now a
student at the prestigious Pioneer School. But her biological father, a failing
writer and former drug addict, can’t
live with himself without seeing her again.
In this idyllic Berkshires landscape, Willa’s adoptive parents have fled a
mysterious past; a feminist sculptor initiates a reckless affair; teenagers live
in a world to which adults turn a blind eye; and the headmaster’s wife is busy
keeping her husband’s disastrous history and current indiscretions well hidden.
The culmination of these forces is the collision of two very different fathers—
biological and adoptive—and a villain whose ends and means slowly
unfold with the help, witting and unwitting, of all around him. Somebody Else’s
Daughter delivers an electric, suspenseful tale of richly conflicted characters
and the disturbed landscape of the
American psyche.
About the Author
Elizabeth Brundage is the author of The Doctor’s Wife and holds an MFA in
fiction from the Iowa Writers’ Workshop, where she received a James A. Michener
Fellowship. Before attending Iowa, she was a screenwriting fellow at the
American Film Institute in Los Angeles.
Her short fiction has been published in the Greensboro Review, Witness magazine,
and New Letters.
And you can still listen to my interview with Wendy Kramer of the Donor Sibling
Registry who is also making an upcoming appearance on the Oprah Show on July
11th!
Click on the following links to listen to a program from this website!
To listen to a live show, click on
www.onworldwide.com and click ON@WORK.
To listen to an archived show, go to
www.onworldwide.com and click ON DEMAND then on the show name.
Donna Montalbanohost of "Speaking of Adoption"
Tuesdays from 2 to 3 pm Eastern Time
1240 AM WOON Rhode Island
www.onworldwide.com
toll free studio line: 800-449-1240
www.speakingofadoptionradio.com
06/172008
NASW Statement
On Foster Care and Adoptions
The
National Association of Social Workers (NASW) supports a child welfare policy
designed to provide the best care for all children in need of foster care and
adoption services. Presently, there are more than 500,000 children in foster
care and a disproportionate number of these children are African-American.
Every child has the right to a permanent, continuous, and nurturing relationship
with adults who convey to the child an enduring sense of love and care.
Children should be able to perceive themselves as valued family members. The
paramount concern of social workers is the health and safety of the child and
determining the child’s best interest. NASW supports laws and policies that
facilitate the fostering and adoption of children through kinship care when
feasible, with adequate financial support so that children may remain within
their family of origin.
To read the entire statement please click
here
06/12/2008
Poem by adult adoptee expresses hope
A year ago today I had nobody to call mom,
Today I have a mom.
A year ago today I had nobody to call dad,
Today I have a dad.
To read the entire poem please click
here
06/12/2008
Desire to be adopted leads to law change
Dawn Hurtt welcomed Angel Cina into her heart, her home
and even her clothes closet. But state law prevented her from making the young
woman an official part of her family.
Hurtt, 42, a veteran of foster-parent and adoption circles, was undaunted. So
was Angel, then 18 and legally beyond adoption age, who wanted to put down roots
with Dawn and her husband, Gordon.
The two women are the impetus behind a new state law that allows adoption of
consenting adults up to age 21, even if there are no blood or foster-family
ties.
To read the entire article please click
here
06/12/2008
Guatemala's attorney general said Wednesday he has
annulled 15 pending adoptions to U.S. couples after finding evidence of fraud or
other irregularities.
Attorney General Baudilio Portillo suspended all of Guatemala's 2,286 pending
adoption cases in early May to investigate them. So far officials have looked
into 160 cases. Of those, 145 have been cleared to move forward and 15 have been
annulled.
To read the entire article please click
here
06/11/2008
Little Angel Find Adoption Heavenly
The official act took only a few minutes, but afterward Angel got
to sit with Superior Court Judge Terence Flynn and show him some photographs.
Flynn listened as mother and daughter showed off their memories of the past 14
months.
"She has changed so much over the past year," Brown explained to
Flynn, pointing to photos taken the day Angel arrived at Brown's home after
state officials were forced to remove the little girl from an abusive home.
To read the entire article please click
here
06/11/2008
Flowchart for Hague cases
The U.S. Department of State's Office of
Children's Issues has released a flowchart for Intercountry Adoption cases
under the Hague Convention. This document has been posted on the Joint
Council website, accessible both via our
homepage and our
Hague-specific webpage. We hope that this information will be useful to
adoption service providers, as well as potential adoptive parents.
06/11/2008
Wendy's to Help Sponsor Foster Care
This Father's
Day weekend - June 14th and 15th, for every Frosty that you buy .50 will go to
help children in foster care. Of course, this is at participating Wendy's.
Go treat yourself, your kids, and most especially dad to a Frosty this weekend
and at the same time help make a difference in a child's life.
06/10/2008
Did you
know...that the majority of Americans are touched by adoption?
Donna
Montalbano brings on the experts to discuss the issues affecting the "triad"
(adoptee, birth and adoptive parents)
open adoption
foreign adoption
foster care
kinship adoption
search and reunion
safe haven laws
adoptee access to original birth records
gay and lesbian adoption
Log onto
http://speakingofadoptionradio.com/ to hear interesting adoption
related topics.
06/10/2008
Merrill Lynch
Ranked Among Best U.S. Adoption-Friendly Workplaces
Merrill Lynch ranked
No. 24 on this year's list of the top 100 Adoption-Friendly Workplaces
in the United States, according to a survey by the Dave Thomas
Foundation for Adoption.
The Best Adoption-Friendly Workplaces in America list, announced on May
1, includes the top 100 organizations that provide exceptional support
to employees who adopt. Rankings are based on the amount of financial
assistance and paid leave provided. The foundation compiled the results
from survey data collected from 919 U.S. employers.
Merrill Lynch offers benefits that include as much as $5,000 per
adoption to cover "qualified adoption expenses" ($8,000 for a "special
needs" child); up to 13 weeks of paid leave for a primary caregiver and
one week for a non-primary caregiver. Details are available from the
Adoption Assistance Program and Paid Childcare Leave sections of the
Human Resources employee website.
Wendy's International, Inc., headquartered in Dublin, Ohio, was the 2008
winner. The foundation is not an affiliate of Wendy's, although the
nonprofit public charity was established by the founder of Wendy’s
Restaurants in 1992. Dave Thomas, an adoptee and adoption advocate, died
in 2002.
Citizens Financial Group, Inc., of Providence, Rhode Island, topped the
list among financial services companies for the second year in a row and
ranked No. 2 on both the top 100 list and among businesses with more
than 1,000 employees nationwide.
06/09/2008
Joint Council Update: Guatemala
Program International Relations
Initiative
Date June 6, 2008
Regarding Guatemala
Dear Colleagues,
In the past week, we have received a number
of inquiries regarding the status of the approved cases in the PGN. We will
continue to update our membership on the latest developments in Guatemala,
as well as our continuing advocacy work. Joint Council, along with our
Guatemalan representative, continues its daily efforts on behalf of the
Guatemalan children in need of permanency. We are pleased to announce that a
large number of Guatemalan children will soon be united with their families.
Release of Cases
Joint Council has learned that today,
Friday, June 6th, 2008, PGN will release approximately 230
adoption cases. At this time, there is no estimate of the number of cases
with previos, versus the number of cases without. Upon the release of cases
by PGN, Joint Council will be providing estimates of the number of cases
without previos. Joint Council extends its appreciation to PGN for its
release of these cases. We will continue to work with PGN and key
stakeholders in Guatemala on the review of the adoption procedure.
Sincerely,
Anna Rough
Child Advocacy Program Manager
The Joint Council on
International Children's Services
06/03/2008
Second
Annual Basketball Tournament
NJPC Youth Group 2nd
Annual Prospect Point Benefit Basketball Tournament - June 7, 2008
On June 7, 2008, the
New Jersey Parents Caucus' Statewide Youth Group will hold their 2nd
Annual Basketball Tournament Fundraiser. The Basketball
Tournament will be held in Lake Hopatcong, NJ between 12PM and
7PM. There are 2 Age Divisions- 12 to 16 & 17 and up and a $5
entry fee per person (including substitutes). Winners of their
respective divisions will get 1/4 of the proceeds from the
event! Refreshments and Barbeque items will be available For more
information on the Basketball Tournament or to sign up a team of 3,
please contact David Crosby at 973-294-8143 or Jordan Jett at
973-518-2499. To view information and pictures from last years
event, please visit
http://www.newjerseyparentscaucus.org/htmls/youthgroup.html.
To see an announcement please click
here
06/02/2008
An Evening with "The English American"
Don't
miss out on seeing Comedienne and Best Selling Author Alison Larkin at
BritsRock4Autism
An Evening with "The English American"
Saturday 7 June , 8pm - 10pm
Luna Stage 695 Bloomfield Avenue, Montclair NJ
Advance Tickets $30/ $40 door
Join Alison Larkin as she entertains and reads excerpts from her best selling
novel, The English American.
Advance Tickets are on sale NOW at
The London Food Company,
416 Bloomfield Avenue, Montclair NJ 07042.
Payments: Check (Cheque) , Cash or Money Orders or call 973 820 5795
A charity weekend of British music, comedy and soccer to raise money for
children with autism.
www.shopontheavenue.com/britsrock4autism
Press Kit and Media Information: Yomi Karade/ Louise Shallcross
email
britsrock4autism@gmail.com
Visit
www.britsrock4autism.com
A portion of the proceeds for the above events will go to Spectra Academy Inc, a
non-profit Montclair based organization that provides
programs for children with high functioning autism.
Visit
www.spectra-academy.org
06/02/2008
The Heart Gallery Display will be at the Shiloh Baptist Church, Trenton
The
children featured in the Heart Gallery are deserving of dignity and respect
and, most importantly, a possible ticket to a new life. It is our hope that
these portraits will touch prospective parents across the country and
encourage them to adopt. Doesn't everybody deserve a family? Please visit
this display at:
Shiloh Baptist Church
340 Rev. S. Howard Woodson, Jr. Way
Trenton, NJ 08618
For more information on the
Heart Gallery, log onto
www.heartgallerynj.org
05/29/2008
"Unlocking the Heart". Trailer on YouTube
I am happy to tell you that a 5 ½
minute trailer of the documentary UNLOCKING THE HEART OF ADOPTION is now up on
YouTube. You can watch it at:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UknFCgunhV8
The 56 minute documentary
UNLOCKING THE HEART OF ADOPTION bridges the gap between
birth and adoptive families through diverse personal stories of adoptees,
birthparents and adoptive parents in same race and transracial adoptions
interwoven with the filmmaker’s story as a birthmother revealing the enormous
complexities in their lives with fascinating historical background.
Recipient of the 2006 Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute’s Angels in
Adoption Award, UNLOCKING THE HEART OF ADOPTION is on the National Title IV-E
List of Recommended Child Welfare Films. This film is currently being used as
an educational tool by adoption agencies, and colleges and universities
worldwide.
05/27/2008
Spence-Chapin's Adoption Resource Center Presents Adoption
Forum for Teens
ADOPTION FORUMS FOR TEENS
410 East 92nd Street
(between 1st and York Avenues)
New
York City, NY
Dating and Relationships
Saturday, May 31, 2008
2:00 - 4:00 p.m.
A panel of young adult adoptees will candidly share how being adopted may
have impacted who they chose to date, who they chose as friends and how they
see themselves.
Search and Reunion
Saturday, June 7, 2008
2:00 - 4:00 p.m.
The choice to search for and maintain a relationship with a birth family is
a unique aspect of being adopted. Adult adoptees will discuss their
experiences with regard to search, why they searched or did not, and what
happens after one meets their birth family.
Advance registration is
required.
Program Fee: $30 per forum. To register,
please contact Eneida at 212-360-0287 or email:
arcworkshops@spence-chapin.org.
For online registration, visit:
http://www.spence-chapin.org/workshops.html
All discussions will be facilitated by Joy Lieberthal, LCSW, an adult
adoptee and Spence-Chapin social worker.
05/27/2008
De-emphasis
on Race in Adoption Is Criticized
Minority children in foster care are being
ill-served by a federal law that plays down race and culture in adoptions, a
report released on Tuesday said.
The report, based on an examination of the law’s impact over a
decade, said that minority children adopted into white households face special
challenges and that white parents need preparation and training for what might
lie ahead.
But it found that social workers and state agencies fear
litigation and stiff penalties under the law for even discussing race with
adopting couples. As a result, families often do not get the counseling they
need. It also found that states have ignored an aspect of the law that requires
diligent recruitment of black parents.
To read the entire article please click
here
05/27/2008
"Adopted" the movie
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Director Barb Lee and her production partner Nancy Kim Parsons had always wanted to explore the increasingly popular trend of international adoption in America, an issue they know particularly well as Korean adoptees themselves. With this deeply personal understanding, they set out to create a documentary that told the story of two families at different points along the adoption journey.
In the end, both Barb and Nancy hope to inform, educate, and challenge the viewer’s preconceived notions of not only adoption, but of family as a whole.
To begin “Adopted: The New American Family,” Barb and Nancy sought every expert’s advice and opinion. They attended conferences and organizations of adoptees and adopters. They interviewed therapists, pediatricians specializing in international children, adoption advocates, lawyers, and adoption activists (pro and con). They put as many of them on camera as they could.
To visit the website please click
here
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05/21/2008
A Child's Right Campaign for Vietnam
The U.S. Department of State has expressed
concerns related to corruptive practices associated with intercountry adoption
between the U.S. and Vietnam. In response to their concerns, the Department of
State will allow the functional closure of adoptions on September 1, 2008 and
thereby end one of the most basic of human rights: the right to a safe,
permanent and loving family.
To read A Child's Right Campaign - Recommendations, please click
here
To read A Child's Right Campaign - Latter to family and friends, please click
here
05/21/2008
Adoptees Birthright Bill
The Adoptees' Birthright Bill is assigned
to the Assembly Human Services Committee, where we have the support of
most of the members of that committee. The chair is a strong supporter,
a true champion of adoptees' rights to know the truth of our origins.
For a bill to be posted in committee, the
Speaker of the Assembly has to approve its being heard. The Speaker
also has the prerogative of deciding whether the bill is posted for a
vote by the full Assembly. Because of the huge number of bills filed,
the M.O. of the NJ Legislature is that bills allowed to be heard in
committee are generally expected to be released from committee to the
floor; and bills posted for a floor vote are expected to pass.
Since we have such strong support on the
committee, as well as in the Assembly at large, the major decision to be
made will be by Assemblyman Joe Roberts (D-Camden), Speaker of the
Assembly.
We would like Asm. Roberts to receive 100
letters either by email, hard copy or even handwritten, postmarked by
June 1, week from this coming Sunday. This deadline is critical because
of the legislative calendar which has one more meeting of the Human
Services Committee before the legislators break for the summer. There
are voting days between June 12 and the end of the month, which could
possibly allow the bill, if posted and released on the 12th, to move
forward.
Would you
please
make every effort to write a personal letter, no longer
than a single page
(however you send it), to
Assemblyman Joe Roberts,
Speaker of
the Assembly
Brooklawn Shopping Plaza,
Rt.
130 South & Browning Rd.
Please refer to the bill as the
Adoptees' Birthright Bill
rather than by number. There are several bills and what is likely
to come out is a "committee substitute" which will have elements of
each of the bills.
If you write your letter on the computer,
would you kindly send a copy of it to me at
pamhasegawa@gmail.com :-). Please email it to me AFTER emailing
it off to the Speaker if that is how you send your message. If you send
it by snail mail (which I think will have more impact just because so
much of today's communication is done electronically), please just
cut-and-paste or attach a copy of your letter to an email addressed to
me.
Many, many thanks, friends. And if you
have friends n the Camden region who are sympathetic to our cause,
please ask them to write as well.
05/20/2008
New Child Welfare Information Gateway
Formerly the National Clearinghouse on Child
Abuse and Neglect Information and the National Adoption Information
Clearinghouse, Child Welfare Information Gateway provides access to information
and resources to help protect children and strengthen families.
To visit the Child Welfare Information Gateway website please
click here
05/15/2008
Finding the missing pieces to my family puzzle
For 28 years my life had been a series of too
many questions filled with too many emotions. It was a continuous loop that
seemed to have no end, no beginning. Was she even living, and if so, did she
ever think about me the way I had thought about her? Too many times I would walk
through a mall, wondering if she was that woman over there. Or maybe she was the
one on the corner who sort of looked like me. During those years I often engaged
in soul-searching conversations with myself. One thing was constant: If I ever
found her, I knew I would never call her "mom." After all, my mom was the woman
who raised me from when I was 8 months old. She was the one who was there for me
every step of the way, from my first day of school to when I, myself, became a
mother.
To read the entire article please click
here
05/15/08
Opportunity for Families
As an active supporter of
international understanding, you help families bridge cultural divides in
order to provide loving homes for children from around the world. Youth For
Understanding joins in that work and helps provide students from over 60
countries the opportunity to live and learn while immersed in American
culture.
Youth For Understanding (YFU), one of the oldest and largest exchange
programs in the world, is seeking families who are willing to open their
homes and hearts to one of our international students for the 2008-2009
academic year. For families interested in adopting a child from another
country, hosting a foreign exchange student is an excellent introduction to
the culture from which that child may come.
All kinds of families make wonderful YFU host families, including singles,
parents with or without children, empty nesters, and members of the gay
community. Host families may choose to host as a welcome family for six
weeks, a semester, or a full school year.
f you are interested in this opportunity to further connect your families
with the international community, here are some options:
Ø
Offer information or make
an announcement at your next meeting or event.
Ø
Request hosting materials
to distribute to your families
Ø
List our website and
contact information in your newsletter or bulletin.
Ø
Forward an invitation to
your families to attend YFU events and orientations in your local area.
If you are interested, please call our office at 1-866-493-8872, Ext. 110 or
e-mail Theresa Nowak at
tnowak@yfu.org. We would be more than happy to answer any questions you
have and to provide you with more information. You can also visit our
website at
www.yfu-usa.org. Please help us by
passing this information on to the families that your organization serves.
Warm Regards,
Theresa Nowak
05/12/08
Division of Child Behavioral Child Services Newsletter
Welcome to the inaugural Division of Child Behavioral Health
Services (DCBHS) Newsletter. Look for this newsletter quarterly to provide
updates, helpful links, interesting data, and most importantly, the voice of
youth. We chose Children’s Mental Health Awareness Week to launch this endeavor.
Throughout the state, youth, families, and agencies are educating their larger
community about the challenges and successes of New Jersey youth with behavioral
health needs.
To see the entire newsletter please click
here
05/14/2008
Heat warning
Antipsychotic medications may impair the
body’s ability to regulate it’s own temperature. During hot and humid weather
individuals taking antipsychotic medications are at risk of developing excessive
body temperature, or hyperthermia, which can be fatal. Individuals with chronic
medical conditions are especially vulnerable e.g. heart and pulmonary disease,
diabetes and alcoholism, etc. Heat exhaustion is the most common heat-related
condition, which is most likely to occur in people who are involved in physical
activity outdoors during heat waves. Heat stroke is a more serious condition of
dehydration and salt depletion which can be life threatening.
To read the entire article please click
here
05/14/2008
Member of Run DMC supports foster, adopted kids
PARAMUS - A
rapper from the group Run DMC is giving his time to foster and adopted children
in New Jersey.
An adopted child himself, Darryl “DMC”
McDaniels has signed on to represent Children’s Aid and Family Services of
Paramus, an organization that supports foster and adopted children. McDaniels
says the experience helps him truly connect with kids. “For me, I was fortunate
to be adopted,” he says. “But my role for these kids is to represent them and
let them not feel alone.”
As the organization’s spokesman, McDaniels believes he can give a voice to
children who need the encouragement. “I tell them, ‘You can do anything that you
wanna do, don’t let your situation define you,’” he says.
McDaniels believes his fame can help get the message out. He says rap helps him
send the message straight to the children. McDaniels once did a song with
musician Sarah Mclaughlin about his journey through the adoption process—a song
that made Wafiq, a child at the organization, feel good.
For McDaniels, children like Wafiq are what make his time feel well-spent.
To see the entire video please click
here
05/08/2008
State's adoption law protects
privacy of birth mothers, too
I write to point out misstatements and misrepresentations by
individuals and groups who are trying to eliminate an important privacy for
birth mothers — a privacy that has been protected by law for decades. Those who
want to eliminate a mother's privacy claim that New Jersey's adoption law
protects only the adopted child. That claim is wrong. New Jersey's adoption law
protects all of the parties: the child, the birth mother and the adopting
parents.
To read the entire article please click
here
05/08/2008
14 ways for a Birth mother or Birth Father to Honor and
Remember a Placed Child
1. Journal about your experience as a birth mother or father.
Write about the adoption of your child. Consider sharing your story with a close
friend.
To read the entire article please click
here
05/08/2008
Birth Mother Day 05/08
For many years there was no choice – either a
birth mother was honored and recognized on Mother's Day, or not at all. In 1990,
a group of Seattle birth mothers sought to correct that oversight and created a
special day to honor those mothers who lost children to adoption. Birth Mother's
Day had a variety of purposes – to educate, honor and to help heal.
To read the entire article please click
here
05/08/2008
Joint Council Update - Guatemala
On April 16-19, 2008, Joint Council and its Guatemala Caucus
Co-chairs, including Bruce Mossberg of Bethany Christian Services, Chris Huber
of FTIA, and Margaret Orr of Small Miracles, traveled to Guatemala to assess the
current situation regarding permanency services, establish and strengthen
working relationships with key stakeholders, and offer assistance to the
government in developing their child protection and permanency services. The
delegation met with the Executive Director and Vice-Director of the Guatemala
Central Authority, the Director of Bienestar
Sociale, the Director of SOSEP, the U.S. Consul
General, John Lowell, and the U.S. Ambassador to Guatemala, James
Derham. Additional meetings were also held with
current service providers.
To read the entire article please click
here.
05/06/2008
2008 InKAS Summer School
InKAS is
holding a summer school program for overseas Korean adoptees to experience
and learn Korean Culture from 1st of August
(Fri) to 14th of August (Thu),
2008. It is our desire to aid in finding Overseas Korean adootees' birth
families and assist in understanding and experiencing the true Korean
Culture during their visit.
The program is mainly coordinated for overseas Korean adoptees to experience
Korean cuisine, custom, culture and language via opportunities of direct
participation and experiences of Korean Living.
To read the entire article please click
here.
05/05/2008
TRENTON -- Governor Jon S.
Corzine today signed an historic family leave insurance bill (A873
/
S786), propelling New Jersey to become only the third state in the nation to
enact a family leave program for workers caring for sick family members, newborn
and newly-adopted children. The state of California implemented its program in
2004 while the state of Washington passed legislation last year.
To read the entire article please click
here.
05/05/2008
May is National Foster Care Month...You Can Change a Lifetime!
All children
deserve a safe, happy life — including the 513,000 American children and youth
in foster care. Young people in foster care especially need nurturing adults on
their side because their own families are in crisis and unable to care for them.
Each May, we salute the compassionate
people who make a difference by serving as foster parents, relative
caregivers, mentors, advocates, social workers, and volunteers. Thanks to these
unsung heroes, many formerly abused or neglected children and teens will either
safely reunite with their parents, be cared for by relatives, or be adopted by
loving families.
But some children
in foster care are less fortunate.
Most communities across the country are urgently seeking more everyday people to
help these youth overcome their troubled childhoods and realize their full
potential. No matter what their age, every young person in foster care benefits
from a meaningful connection to a caring adult who becomes a supportive and
lasting presence in his or her life.
Take a closer look
at the number and diversity of people who were once in foster care. It might
surprise you. In fact, there are an estimated 12 million foster care alumni in
the U.S. representing all walks of life. Behind this startling statistic are
countless stories of children who grew up to be thriving adults while others
struggled with life’s challenges all alone. The difference between triumph and
tragedy will become very clear as you read about these
foster care alumni. Success stories come about when someone takes the
time to offer comfort, provide support, give advice, or simply share a milestone
moment with a youngster enduring a difficult family situation.
Now is the time to
get involved.
No matter how much time you have to give, you have the power to do something
positive that will
Change a Lifetime for a young person in foster care.
04/21/2008
Measure
would aid those seeking biological parents
More than 100,000 individuals
who were born and adopted in New Jersey do not have access to their medical
histories because they don't know who their birth parents area.
The New Jersey Senate passed a bill recently that would give adopted adults the
right to access their own birth records; the bill now heads to the Assembly for
a vote.
To read the entire article please click
here
04/16/2008
St John's Adoption Conference call for papers
We are pleased to announce our call for
papers.
We hereby invite professionals,
researchers, scholars, practitioners and graduate students to submit papers
and research manuscripts that address issues likely to affect adopted
adolescents in their journey toward their identity formation. The topics
should include comparison in identity formation between adoptive and
non-adoptive adolescents and all members of the triad, including the
biological and parents and biological and adoptive extended families, etc.
Thus topics such as,
* Challenges to identity formation in
international and transracial adoption
* Challenges to identity formation in
transracial adoption
* Identity formation in an open versus
closed adoption
* Differences in identity formation
challenges in foster care vs. adoptive family setting
* Identity formation in a gay and lesbian
context (whether the adolescent is adopted by a gay/lesbian parent or
whether the biological parents may be gay/lesbian).
* Issues of search and reunion and how
these issues impact on identity formation
* Discussions of specific factors in the
adoption experience likely to impact on the final resolution of the identity
formation
* Nature vs. nurture in the adopted self
identity
* Factors in early childhood experience
likely to impact on identity formation.
* Treatment and assessment issues
04/16/2008
"Then She Found Me" a new movie
THEN SHE FOUND ME, a new film starring Helen Hunt, Colin
Firth, Bette Midler and Matthew Broderick that deals with parenthood, life
choices as well as adoption opens in NY and LA on April 25th with a national
roll-out throughout May. Adapted from Elinor Lipman's novel of the same name,
the film marks Ms. Hunt's directorial debut.
THEN SHE FOUND ME, is a touching story of schoolteacher April Epner (Hunt) and
her very unlikely path towards personal fulfillment. Following the separation
from her husband (Matthew Broderick) and the death of her adopted mother, April
is contacted by her apparent birth month (Bette Midler), who turns out to be a
local talk show host Bernice Graves. As Bernice tries to become the mother to
April that she was never able to be, April seems to find solace in the arms of
the parent of one of her students (Colin Firth), only to find that the mystery
to life's questions cannot be solved by a simple revelation.
04/04/2008
The Kinship Caregiver Support Act
CALL WASHINGTON!
Ask your members of
Congress to sponsor
THE KINSHIP CAREGIVER SUPPORT ACT
Nearly 20,000 children
living in foster care with relatives could leave foster care and live
permanently with relatives if federal support was available to help with their
care, as is now available for many foster parents who adopt children. Currently,
relatives who become legal guardians to care for foster children permanently
cannot receive the continuing financial assistance they need to help provide for
the children they are raising.
The bipartisan Kinship Caregiver Support Act (S. 661/HR. 2188) would help
children currently living with relatives in foster care leave the system for
good through legal guardianships. It would also help relative caregivers find
other services and supports to help them care for these children. Congress
needs to hear that these children and families are a priority and deserve our
help and support.
It’s easy
and free to make the call…
CALL IN
LINE OPEN: April 1 - April 15
1-866-873-3025
Urge Members of Congress to co-sponsor
The Kinship Caregiver Support Act (S. 661/HR.
2188)
Simply follow the prompts, enter your ZIP code, and you will be connected
directly to the offices of your Members of Congress.
03/25/2008
Measure would aid those seeking biological
parents
More than 100,000 individuals who
were born and adopted in New Jersey do not have access to their medical
histories because they don't know who their birth parents are.
Rose Zeltser is senior vice president of Children's Aid and Family Services in
Paramus.
The New Jersey Senate passed a bill recently that would give adopted adults the
right to access their own birth records; the bill now
heads to the Assembly for a vote.
Without access to birth records, adoptees have no knowledge of their heredity or
medical histories. This lack of knowledge has a lasting
physical and emotional impact. Adoptees are denied the right to full knowledge
of their cultural and genetic identity, as well as the
potential health risks against which they otherwise could take preventative
medical or lifestyle choice measures.
To read the entire article please click
here
03/25/2008
Embassy of Kazakhstan Halts
Processing of Adoption Dossiers
The Department of State
has been informed that the Embassy of Kazakhstan is conducting a review of
current procedures regarding intercounty adoptions. Until completed, this
review will affect the processing of new adoption dossiers. Although initial
indications were that no new cases would be processed during the review, we
have learned that some new cases may have been accepted. We have offered to
assist the Embassy with its efforts to ensure that adoptions from Kazakhstan to
the United States are conducted in a transparent, serious and honest process.
It is not known at this time how long this review will require.
03/25/2008
Oceans Apart, A voyage of International Adoption
An almost fatal bout of small pox. A
sobbing farewell to her mother at Saigon's Tan Son Nhat International Airport. A
traumatic flight to the United States with adoptive parents. An abusive
childhood filled with neglect and emotional turmoil. Yet, despite these
agonizing upheavals, within the lonely child lives an unwavering quest for
survival.
Is
this the fictitious plot of a best-selling novel? "Certainly not," says Mary
Mustard Reed, author of Oceans Apart: A Voyage of International Adoption. "This
is the uncensored story of my fight to overcome and triumph as one of the first
Vietnamese children-if not the first-to be adopted in the USA in 1964.
To read the entire article please click
here
03/25/2008
Adoption Eq Act letter to Congress
Right now,
there are 114,000 U.S. foster children waiting for permanent loving
families through adoption. These waiting children tend to be older, brothers and
sisters who need to stay together, or children of color. Almost all of them have
significant special needs. The Adoption Equality Act would provide states with
resources to support the adoptions of more of these children. Promoting more
adoptions is an investment that can provide real savings. Research has shown
that the roughly 50,000 adoptions from foster care each year save from $1
billion to $6 billion in government expenses.
To read the entire article please click
here
03/20/2008
New Voices: Alison Larkin Adopts Literary life
By Carol Memmott, USA TODAY
The book
The English American
Simon & Schuster, 336 pp., $24
What it's about: A
debut novel about Pippa Dunn, 28, adopted as an infant by a British family, who
visits America to meet her birth parents.
Why it's notable: Larkin was adopted at birth in Washington, D.C., and
raised in England by her British parents.
Excerpt: "I came to America to meet the mother who gave me birth. … Two
months ago I thought I was English. But I'm not. I'm a redneck."
The author
Quick bio: Larkin,
44, lives in northern New Jersey with her husband, Jim, and their daughter,
Eliza, 5, and son, Toby, 7. Her autobiographical one-woman show, The English
American, has been featured at the London Comedy Festival.
On how the novel mirrors her life: "In terms of the emotional journey of
Pippa, very closely. In terms of the facts, it doesn't. I wanted to turn it into
the kind of fiction that I like to read."
The book's message: "I wanted to get everyone to understand why someone
from a really happy adoptive family might still need to find the truth about the
people she came from."
What's next: "I definitely feel another book coming, and I do
believe it's a sequel. I'm not quite done with Pippa Dunn."
03/19/2008
St. John's University 5th Biennial Adoption Conference
call for papers
We are
pleased to announce our call for papers.
We hereby invite
professionals, researchers, scholars, practitioners and graduate students to
submit papers and research manuscripts that address issues likely to affect
adopted adolescents in their journey toward their identity formation. The topics
should include comparison in identity formation between adoptive and
non-adoptive adolescents and all members of the triad, including the biological
and parents and biological and adoptive extended families, etc.
To read the entire article please click
here
03/13/2008
Guatemala, No Amnesty for Adoption Fraud
Guatemalan prosecutors have ruled out amnesty for birth
mothers who used false identities to surrender their babies to an agency where
46 children being adopted by U.S. families were seized in a raid last August.
The probe of the Casa Quivira agency turned up a slew of irregularities,
including at least five cases in which birth mothers were allegedly provided
with false identities to avoid having to obtain permission from family members
and a judge to give up their babies.
To read the entire article please click
here
03/06/2008
The English American
by Alison Larkin
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The English American
(Simon & Schuster, $24) takes us on a rollicking ride of reunion, as
seen through the eyes of an adoptee. The author, Alison Larkin, who has
a one-woman show of the same name, uses humor and pathos in equal
measure. You need only to turn the page to find something that will make
you laugh…or cry.
Above all, it is the
characters who stay with you. First, there is Pippa, the title
character, who was adopted at birth by a reserved English couple. You
will come to love her as she muddles her way through childhood;
discovers her American heritage, at age 15; and navigates the ups and
downs of a search and reunion. Her journey of self-discovery and
identity becomes our own. I still think about her, weeks after finishing
this book.
There is also Mum, her
adoptive mother, who embodies the ideal of British decorum, but infused
with warmth and understanding. Dad, on the other hand, is curmudgeonly
and protective, the voice of caution, who believes that some things are
better left alone. However, it is Billie—Pippa’s birthmother—who
provides the real tension in this tale. She is well-intentioned, even if
seriously misinformed. For the most part, she is a walking exemplar of
what not to do in a reunion. There are other characters, including
Pippa’s birthfather, and a couple of interesting subplots as well.
While Pippa’s story is
truly her own, she has something to teach all of us who are involved in
adoption. So, as you turn the pages, read, laugh, and learn.
Reviewed by Brenda
Romanchik, executive director of Insight: Open Adoption Resources and
Support. She is a birthmother in an open adoption.
Buy this book |
03/04/2008
Hague Implementation
Dear members of Joint
Council,
Tom DiFilipo, President &
CEO of Joint Council, the Joint Council Board of Directors, and the Joint
Council staff are proud to acknowledge our many member and affiliate
organizations who have been recognized as Hague Accredited by the U.S.
Department of State.
The Joint Council community
has been actively involved with the implementation of the Hague Convention
in the United States for over the past decade. We are especially proud that
a majority of the organizations who have already been Hague Accredited are
members and affiliates of Joint Council.
At the same time, we are
confident that even more members and affiliates of the Joint Council
community will be recognized in the coming weeks. The current published list
(which is available on the Department of State’s website at
http://www.travel.state.gov/family/adoption/convention/convention_4169.html#)
is a small reflection of the many organizations that will be Hague
Accredited in the near future.
The Hague Accreditation
process has been complicated and demanding, and many other in-process
organizations should expect to receive Hague Accreditation very soon.
All of our member and affiliate
organizations uphold Joint Council’s Standards of Practice and have
demonstrated a commitment to practices that are in the best interest of
children worldwide. Should any questions exist about a particular Joint
Council member or affiliate organization pursuing Hague Accreditation,
please do not hesitate to contact us at 703-535-8045.
While we are excited that
another stage of Hague implementation is complete, Joint Council will
continue our efforts to ensure that all qualified organizations are
recognized as Hague Accredited, and that the Hague is successfully and
comprehensively implemented in the United States.
Best regards,
Adam Schlicht
Child Advocacy Program Manager, Joint Council
03/03/2008
English or American ?
Larkin is sitting in the
second row of red seats inside the Bickford Theatre in Morristown on this
clear-sky Thursday morning. She is laughing – not crying – poking fun at the
trail that led her to a cozy seat in this 312-chair auditorium. She has an
upcoming performance here, a debut novel ("The English American," which hits
bookstores Tuesday) that Redbook and Vogue have included on their recommended
reading lists and at least two movie studios allegedly circling to secure
big-screen rights.
To read the entire article please click
here
02/28/08
Key official resigns her post at children and family
agency
A key official at the state Department of
Children and Families who was a leading candidate to run the agency resigned
yesterday, state officials confirmed. The unexpected departure of Molly
Armstrong, the department's director for policy and planning, leaves no clear
choice to lead a department that must prove to a federal court monitor it is
making progress improving its troubled child welfare system.
To read the entire article please click
here.
02/25/2008
With Open Adoption, Anew Kind of Family
While there are no national statistics, open adoption is
increasingly common, according to Harold Grotevant, a
University of Minnesota professor who is one of the leading experts in the
field. He’s been doing research with 35 adoption agencies for the last two
decades and says there has been a clear-cut swing from confidential to open
adoptions. Susan Caughman, editor of Adoptive Families magazine, started an Ask
the Experts column last year on open adoption, which, she says, now gets more
queries than any other column at the magazine
To read the entire article please click
here.
02/15/08
As adopptees seek roots, states unsealing records
For years, Benoit, 52, had wondered about the parents who had
put her up for adoption. That helped lead her to support a plan to give adult
adoptees access to their original birth certificates. After the bill passed,
Benoit learned the names of her birth parents and their hometown. She e-mailed a
colleague, Sen. Bruce Bryant, who represents that area and supported her bill,
and asked whether he knew them.
To read the entire article please click
here.
02/11/08
Families Adopting in Vietnam Say they are Caught in Diplomatic Jam
The State Department, which issued a warning
on adoptions in Vietnam last month, maintains that the lack of controls on “baby
finders” and unregulated payments — the average adoption cost is about $25,000
per family — are fostering baby buying. Six years ago, similar accusations led
Vietnam to tighten controls on foreign adoption. At the end of 2005, Vietnam and
the United States signed an adoption agreement, and nearly 1,100 Vietnamese
children have been adopted by Americans since. To read the entire article please
click
here.
02/11/08
Transracial adoption surveys
Researchers at Brigham Young University and the University of Utah are
interested in learning from black transracial adoptees and their white
adoptive parents in order to better understand:
--Identity formation of black children who grew up in white families
--Methods that parents used to socialize the children about their own race
--Racism they may have experienced in their lives
--Experiences that may have been important in the development of their
identity as a person of color
There are two surveys at
http://www.racialadoptionstudy.com,
one for adoptive parents and one for adoptees age 18 and older. Please share
widely and encourage the participation of black adult transracial adoptees and
their parents.
01/30/08
Heart Gallery of New Jersey Featured on CBS, The Early
Show
To watch Heart Gallery of New Jersey Featured on
National TV, CBS The Morning Show please click
here
01/28/08
Listening to parents website

Listening to Parents gives
voice to the experience of thousands of Americans who are interested in
adopting a child from foster care and
acts as a catalyst in making adoption programs more responsive to those
wanting to adopt a child from foster care.
To read entire article please click
here
01/28/08
Senate panel
approves giving adoptees access to records
The decades-old push to open up birth records for
adoptees renewed Thursday as a Senate panel, compelled by the personal story of
an iconic rapper, released a measure that would allow people to access their
original birth certificates.
To read the entire article please click
here
01/28/08
NJ child
welfare chief, Kevin Ryan, resigning
Kevin Ryan, commissioner of the state Department
of Children and Families, is expected to announce his resignation today, two
years after Gov. Jon Corzine tapped him to salvage the floundering effort to
reform New Jersey's child welfare system.
To read the entire article please click
here
01/28/08
Leader of Child Agency in New Jersey Resigns
After two years of leading court-ordered reforms to
New Jersey’s embattled child welfare system, the commissioner of the State
Department of Children and Families announced his resignation on Thursday
To read the entire article please click
here.
01/22/08
Invitation to Larkin's first book-signing event at Morris
Museum
Saturday, March
1, 2008, 3pm, on stage at The Bickford Theatre, Morris Museum.
Author/Comedienne Alison Larkin chats with
Eric Hafen, on stage at the Bickford Theatre, days before heading off on her
National book tour. Tickets are $30 and include a signed copy of “The
English American, a novel” coming from Simon & Schuster on March
4th. Profits will benefit the Bickford Theatre.
Springing
from her hit one-woman show, adopted Anglo-American comedienne, Alison
Larkin, draws further from her experience as an adopted English woman who
finds her birth parents – and a new homeland – in the United States and
weaves them into a hilarious, poignant compulsively readable work of
fiction. For more details go to
www.alisonlarkin.com
01/17/08
Forever An Orphan
At age 82, Austin publisher and librarian
William Roger Holman has fulfilled the challenge of his lifetime — sifting
through the secrets and the sorrows of his own story, an orphan's story set in
Oklahoma during the Great Depression, and then putting it down in writing. But
even now, Holman is not quite sure he really knows the boy in his own book.
To read the entire article please click
here
01/17/08
2007 SWR Foster Youth Poetry Contest
The human relations organization Soul
Water Rising announces its 2nd Annual Free International Poetry Contest for
current and former foster youth, ages 13 to 24. Here is an opportunity for youth
to give voice to their experiences and transform themselves and the child
welfare systems that have touched their lives. Creative self-expression can be
healing, empowering, and enriching. Prizes include cash, autographed books, and
winning poems posted on the Soul Water Rising Web site and published in an
anthology book. Submissions are by email and poet identifying information is
protected. The extended submission deadline is January 31, 2008. Downloadable
guidelines available at
www.soulwater.org/younglifedrumbeat.html. Questions:
drumbeat@soulwater.org.
01/08/08
New book out by Alison Larkin entitled " The English
American"
The English American
Alison Larkin
Simon & Schuster, Mar 2008, $24.00
ISBN: 9781416551591
Twenty-eight years old Pippa Dunn is English to her bone marrow; she believes
DNA would affirm that it is in her gene pool to make a proper cup of tea. So why
does she feel like an outsider in the West London home of her adoptive parents,
who she loves. She cherishes her sister too, but they are night and day.
However, Pippa discovers that her biological parents do not have Earl Grey
running through her arteries; instead her mom is an artsy Georgia peach and her
father is a politically astute DC business man. Pippa needs to meet Billie and
Walt, whom she fascinates as people who will understand her unlike her adoptive
prim and proper English family. When she meets them and gets to know them a bit,
Pippa is disappointed as the reality fails to live up to her fantasy.
THE ENGLISH AMERICAN is a terrific insightful “biographical fictionalized
account of the author’s one-woman show. The story line is superb when it focuses
on Pippa’s inner thoughts on identity and belonging as the nature vs. nurture
argument is debated inside her head. When the plot turns to a second chance
romance between Pippa and Nick, that failed seven years ago because she was not
ready; it loses some of its discernment because it diverts from the prime theme
and besides his hyperbolic drama queen performance seems inane. Still Pippa
makes for an insightful character who provides a strong focus between the DNA
and the loving home.
Harriet Klausner
01/07/08
The Adoption tax Credit: An Ethical Dilemma
Since 1997, many adoptive families have been able
to use the federal adoption tax credit. The credit, however, is due to end in
2010 and some legislators are already proposing to extend the credit
indefinitely. New evidence suggests that we must not renew the credit without
first ensuring that it furthers the goal of promoting and supporting adoptions
from foster care.
To read the entire article please click
here
12/19/07
When adoption goes wrong
Most Americans who adopt children from other countries find joy. But others
aren't prepared for the risks-and may find themselves overwhelmed. To read the
entire article please click
here
12/06/07
FosterClub’s
Guide for Young People in Foster Care
Lots of people talk about how
stressful the holidays can be. But we REALLY understand just how tough it can be
for young people in foster care. How do we know? Because we’ve been there. So
we’ve put together 10 tips for youth in foster care, developed by young people
who know first-hand what it’s like. To read the entire article please click
here
12/05/07
A Normal Family
Ten years ago, 58 percent of
Americans had a family member or close friend who
had adopted a child, were
adopted themselves, or had placed a child for adoption,
according to a national survey
by the Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute in
New York. By 2002, that figure
had risen to 63 percent. It’s surely higher now.
To read the entire article please click
here
12/05/07
Blood ties and Acts of Love
As an adopted person my context
for the way babies come into the world is through adoption, not birth. Of course
I understand birth, but that is not the way I came into my family. I did not
grow up knowing the people who gave birth to me. But I do not doubt the labor my
adoptive parents went through to get me. It consisted of mounds of paperwork and
home studies that stretched over two
years. I thank God pregnancy is
just 9 months.
To read the entire article please click
here
12/03/07
A Home for the Holidays 2007
To raise awareness and bring attention to their
plight, the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption, the Children’s Action Network,
and CBS Television will present the ninth annual CBS-TV special, A Home
for the Holidays, on Friday, December 21 at 8:00 p.m. A Home for
the Holidays is a nationally televised entertainment program designed to
raise awareness about foster care and adoption as well as enhance recruitment
efforts nationwide. Its key objective is to promote a positive image of foster
care and adoption and the children who wait.
To read the entire press release please click
here
11/29/07
Interview with Rose Zelter of CAFS
This holiday weekend, full of family
get-togethers, we're also celebrating national adoption month.
With us this morning is Rose Zeltser, the senior vice president of Children's
aid and Family Services in New Jersey.
She's joined by adoptive parent Maria Perdomo and her daughter, Carmen. The
Perdomos have five children, three of them adopted and have had seven foster
children over the last 10 years. This year, the Perdomos received the
prestigious "Angels in Adoption" award by the Congressional Coalition on
Adoption Institute. They were nominated for the award from Congressman Steve
Rothman.
To read the entire article please click
here
11/28/07
South Korea and it's Children
I was 24 when I first
returned to my birth country. Stepping onto the plane that would carry me back
to a country I had left 21 years before, I felt dizzy at the convergence of my
past and present. Once again I was the 3-year-old girl, traveling halfway around
the world to an unknown future in a foreign land — now a woman returning, a
foreigner again.
To read the entire article please click
here
11/28/07
The Administration for Children and Families names 15 US agencies to receive the
National Adoption Excellence Awards
The National
Adoption Excellence Awards presented by the Administration for Children and
Families recognizes outstanding accomplishments in achieving permanency for
America's children waiting in foster care. The Adoption Excellence Awards
honor States, local agencies, private organizations, courts, businesses,
individuals and families who are making key contributions to increasing the
number of children from the foster care system who are adopted or placed in
other permanent homes. The awards are presented in November, National
Adoption Month. The President's
Proclamation of National Adoption Month is also available.
To view the list of 2007 recipients,
including Children’s Aid and Family Services, log onto
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cb/current_initiatives/aeawards07.htm
11/14/07
DCF Plans 200 Adoptions to
Commemorate National Adoption Month
For Immediate Release:
November 13, 2007
CONTACT: (609) 633-8507
Kate Bernyk
Andy Williams
** MEDIA ADVISORY **
DCF Plans 200 Adoptions to Commemorate National
Adoption Month
The Department of Children and Families will celebrate
National Adoption Month this week by participating in nine events to honor
adoptive families and finalize adoptions of 200 children currently in foster
care. A 10th event, in Middlesex County, will be held later in the month. This
week’s events, stretching from Salem County to Hudson County, will be held over
a three-day period, culminating on Saturday, November 17, with the state’s
largest National Adoption Day celebration held annually in Newark. DCF’s
Division of Youth and Family Services (DYFS), the state’s largest adoption
agency, expects to have 200 adoptions ready to be finalized during this week’s
events, and approximately another dozen adoptions for the Middlesex County event
on Tuesday,
November 27. These adoptions will help DCF reach its target goal of 1400
adoptions by the end of this calendar year. A complete list of the scheduled
events is attached. Adoption court hearings are closed to the press, but family
celebrations and other
events following the court hearings may be open to the media and the general
public. Reporters or photographers interested in covering one of these events or
being connected with an adoptive family in their area should call the DCF Press
Office, 609-633-8507, for further information. National Adoption Day was
initiated in 2000 by the Alliance for Children’s Rights, with support from
organizations including the Freddie Mac Foundation and the Dave Thomas
Foundation for Adoption.
For more information on adoption, call 1-800-NJ ADOPT
(992-3678) or visit the DYFS adoption Web site at
www.njadopt.org .
11/12/07
Unseal Adoptees Birth Record
It's
among the most divisive questions in the realm of adoption: Should adult
adoptees have access to their birth records, and thus be able to learn the
identity of their birth parents?
In a comprehensive report being released Monday, a leading adoption institute
says the answer is "Yes" and urges the rest of America to follow the path of the
eight states that allow such access to all adults who were adopted.
To read the entire article please click
here
For the Record: Restoring the Legal Rights
for Adult Adoptees”
The Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute
today released the most comprehensive examination to date of one of the most
controversial, emotional issues in the modern adoption world: whether
adopted people, once they become adults, should have access to their
original birth information. This report suggests that all states change
their laws so that the answer is "yes. Click link to download the study:
http://www.adoptioninstitute.org/publications/2007_11_For_Records.pdf
11/08/07
Observers Impact of Guatemalan Adoptions
For
years, this predominantly Catholic Central American country has been known as an
epicenter of international adoptions. The proximity to the United States and
lack of red tape has made Guatemala the largest per capita source of adoptions
in the world.
Adoptions have helped finance the operations of many of the country's
orphanages, who say they provide a service for an estimated 370,000 orphans
otherwise ignored by the government in this impoverished country.
To read the
entire article please click
here
10/29/07
Unknowns of adoption
Many parents think that when
they adopt, a stable home and love is all a
child needs. But in reality, that's not always
enough. On the surface, Pinellas School Board member Nancy Bostock's decision to
give
up custody of her troubled son seemed like an
extreme case. However, child advocates say it happens more than you might think.
Adoptive parents faced with challenging children
and limited support services often reach the heart-wrenching conclusion to give
up custody of their kids.
To read the
entire article please click here
10/29/07
A few months ago, in an office near Guatemala City, a woman known
as a searcher spread out a large map across her coffee table. The map was dotted
with about 250 tiny, hand-drawn circles, each one representing a place where the
searcher had tracked down a birth mother who had placed a child for adoption.
Sometimes she found a birth mother after knocking on a few doors in Guatemala
City. In other cases, she traveled for three or four days to remote indigenous
areas in Guatemala or farther afield to Nicaragua, Honduras or El Salvador.
To read the entire article please click
here
10/25/07
Identical twins discover each other after 35 years
Bernstein, who grew up in Rye Brook,
always knew she was adopted. But she and her adoptive parents were never told
about her identical twin sister, who was placed with another family on Long
Island the year the girls were born.
To read the entire article please click
here
10/24/07
2008 Foster Youth Internship Program
The Congressional Coalition on Adoption
Institute is pleased to announce the 2008 Foster Youth Internship Program.
This prestigious program matches college students who have grown up in
foster care, with a Congressional office for a summer internship in
Washington, D.C.
To read the entire article please click
here
10/162007
Guatemala Adoption update
WASHINGTON – U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS)
will, effective October 15, 2007, place a ceiling on the number of initial
orphan petition submissions in Guatemala. Under the new procedures, USCIS will
accept only one initial application packet to adopt a child from Guatemala (Form
I-600, Petition to Classify Orphan as an Immediate Relative) per prospective
adoptive parent, attorney, or representative, per appointment.
To read the entire article please click
here
10/09/07
Couple's Secret Has
Surprising Outcome
Couple's Life Changes 25 Years After Placing Baby for Adoption
Until the summer of 2006, Laurie and Chuck Thompson
had shared a secret for a quarter of a century.
The secret dated back to their school days in 1980, when Laurie was a sophomore
at Fort LeBoeuf High School in Erie, Pa. She played saxophone in the school
band, and she had a horse named Lady that she rode and relied on for company
whenever she had a bad day.
To read the entire article please click
here
10/09/07
Guatemala seeks to slow exodus of
babies to U.S.
10/02/07
College Cost Reduction and Access Act
Earlier today, President Bush signed into law the College
Cost Reduction and Access Act (HR 2669), the bill that includes the Fostering
Adoption to Further Student Achievement Act amendment, making it possible for
teens in foster care to be adopted without losing access to college financial
aid. Under this new law, youth who are adopted after their 13th birthday will
not have to include their parents' income in the calculations for determining
their need for financial aid.
08/27/07
Illegal Guatemalan Foster Care Home Raid
Guatemalan police
found 46 children, some just 3 days old, in an illegal foster home in the
tourist city of Antigua on Saturday, the latest scandal for the country's
corruption-riddled adoption system.
To read entire article
please click
here
08/04/07
Summer Interns Experience
Life in DC
Twenty-two summer interns arrived in Washington, DC, in
late May to assume a variety of internships in government, nonprofit
associations, and the private sector. But unlike most of the college interns who
descend upon Washington on a regular basis, these 22 outstanding college
scholars also happen to be foster youth or former foster youth without permanent
families or homes. Selected by the Orphan Foundation of America (OFA) to
participate in the OFA's summer internship program, the 22 students recently
wrapped up 6 busy weeks in Washington that included their full-time internships,
as well as weekly workshops in professional development and leadership and
meetings with members of Congress and the media.
To read entire article
please click
here
07/31/07
Mystery-Free Adoption
LEGISLATORS in New York and six other
states, including New Jersey and Connecticut, are weighing whether to
give thousands of accurate birth certificates to their rightful owners,
adult adoptees who now have access only to falsified certificates.
Most of Americas six million adoptees are
members of what one calls a witness protection program we didnt ask to
be in. When their adoptions were made final, the birth certificates
bearing their names and those of their parents were sealed by the state,
and they were issued amended certificates portraying their adoptive
parents as having borne them. In some cases, adoptees dates and places
of birth were also falsified.
To read entire article
please click here
07/23/07
National Public Radio has done a series of interviews and
programs on various issues in adoption
07/23/07
International adoption not as easy as stars make it look.
When
celebrities such as Angelina Jolie and Madonna adopt children from
desperately poor countries, they send a powerful message about the
plight of these children and the need for inter-country adoption.
But they don't necessarily set a proper example. Although the number
of foreign adoptions by American citizens has doubled over the last
decade, from 11,340 to upwards of 22,000, most Americans do not have
the means or the access of a celebrity. For them, inter-country
adoptions can be a harrowing process.
To read entire article
please click
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06/18/07
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06/18/07
American Adoptive Father
Launches Campaign to Help Unwed Korean Moms
Just
one year ago, Dr. Richard Boas, the American father of an adopted Korean girl
named Esther, was financially helping other Americans so they could adopt
children from overseas. However, Boas' perspective radically changed after
visiting South Korea late last year. Now, he is an activist for the rights of
single and unwed mothers and their children. Moreover, he has become a staunch
supporter of domestic adoption within Korea.
To read entire article please click
here
06/14/07
Surge in Adoptions Raises Concern in Ethiopia
Ethiopia was not on Mark and Vera
Westrum-Ostrom's list when they first visited Children's Home Society & Family
Services here to explore an international adoption. Ukraine was first, because
of their family heritage, until the couple discovered that the adoption system
there was chaotic, with inaccurate information about orphans' health and
availability. Vietnam was second, after they saw videos of well-run orphanages.
But the wait would be at least a year and a half.
Then they learned about Ethiopia's model
centers for orphans, run by American agencies, with an efficient adoption system
that made it possible for them to file paperwork on Labor Day and claim
2-year-old Tariku, a boy with almond eyes and a halo of ringlets, at Christmas.
To read entire article please click
here
06/12/07
In adoptions, anonymity
is still the policy
If this bill could sing, it
would likely belt out "I'm Just a Bill," a song from the mid 1970s kids' TV show
"Schoolhouse Rock!" In the song, a tired bill slumped on the steps of Capitol
Hill laments its arduous journey on the way to becoming a law. Starting as early
as 1980, a proposed state law that gives adopted adults the right to access
their birth records has traveled – in various versions -- through both houses of
the Legislature, only to die along the way. But this year looked hopeful.
Last December the state Senate passed a version of the bill, in a 26-12 vote,
shifting its fate to the General Assembly, where it was scheduled to be heard by
the Human Services Committee on May 21. But it stalled there
To read entire article please click
here.
06/11/07
Information party
Have you ever thought about fostering or adopting a child?
What about being a mentor to a child? Charles Paragian and Daniel Sernekos, from
the documentary
“All Aboard Rosie's
Family Cruise" and founders of
Everybody’s Children Foundation, will be your hosts for an informative
evening about becoming a foster and/or adoptive parent.
To see the flier please click here
06/04/07
South Korea's
troubled export: babies for adoption
South Korea
marked its home-grown adoption day earlier this month with incentives to
encourage domestic adoption, telling citizens of the world's 12th largest
economy its orphanages should not be filled with abandoned children.
To read entire article please click
here
05/31/07
Korean Government Working to Encourage Adoptions
As part of its efforts to encourage adoptions in Korea, the government is
marking the second anniversary of Adoption Day on Friday. Those efforts haven't
produced tangible results yet since Koreans generally consider family lineage
very important.
To read entire article please click
here
05/30/07
DCF Commissioner Ryan Stresses
Importance of Pool, Summer Safety
“Drowning is a
leading cause of preventable child death every year,” said Commissioner
Ryan. “Memorial Day is approaching, and we’re getting into the season when
families will be at the shore or around swimming pools. We want to stress
the need to be vigilant with children around water.”
To read entire article please click
here
05/03/07
Adopted and Searching for Answers
Five people share their stories
about looking for-and finding-their biological family.
To read the entire article
please click here
05/01/07
The adoption Search
For some in their 40s, 50s and older, adoption searching has
been a Pandora's Box; for others, there is newfound peace with closure. When an
adoptee and the birth parent or other relatives reconnect and establish a
relationship after years of absence, the experience can be overwhelming. To read the entire article
please click here
04/13/07
Actress Discusses a Childhood in Foster Care

News & Notes,
April 10, 2007 · Actress and foster-care advocate
Victoria Rowell talks about her new memoir
The Women Who Raised Me. She pays tribute
to the many women who cared for her and inspired her to become a success.
To read and listen please follow the link below
04/02/07
Share your foster or adoption story with us.
By sharing your family
story with AdoptUsKids, you will help bring another family closer to the
wonderful experience of caring
for a child through
fostering and/or adoption. We will review your story and contact you if we have
any questions and would like to be able to share
your
story on the website. For more info please click
here.
03/23/07
Being prepared: Knowing How to Find Help for Your Child
Being Prepared: Knowing How to Find Help
for Your Child - Contributed by American Academy of Child and Adolescent
Psychiatry (AACAP) Parents are often concerned about their child's emotional
health or behavior but they don't know where to start to get help. The mental
health system can sometimes be complicated and difficult for parents to
understand. A child's emotional distress often causes disruption to both.
To
read the entire article please follow the link below.
http://e-magazine.adoption.com/articles/666/being-prepared-knowing-how-to-find-help-for-your-child.php
03/20/07
Baby Boy # 3331: An
Adoption Story
It has taken me almost 40 years to finally ask about you.
For years now, I've had all the papers my adoptive parents kept. The papers call
me simply "baby boy #3331." They came from the Elizabeth Lund Home for Unwed
Mothers, as you knew it then, in Burlington, Vermont.
To read the entire article
please click
here
03/05/07
Adoptions in Guatemala face US ban
The U.S. plans to bar adoptions from Guatemala unless government officials in
the Central American nation comply with an international agreement aimed at
protecting potential adoptees. Last year Guatemala climbed to second on the list
of countries providing children for adoption to the U.S.
To read the entire article
please click
here
02/06/07
Tax Information for Families with a Special Needs Child
According to parent attorney Mike O'Connor, "It's likely that 15-30 Percent of
families with a disabled child have one or more unclaimed tax
benefits." Did you know that "tuition costs for a special school that has a
Program designed to educate children with disabilities and amounts paid for a
child's tutoring by a teacher specially trained and qualified to deal with
severe disabilities may be deducted"? Did you know that "Special instruction or
training or therapy, such as sign language instruction, speech therapy, and
remedial reading instruction"
May be deductible? Did you know that related books and materials can qualify for
the medical expense deduction"? Did you know that "Parents who attend
conferences to obtain medical information concerning treatment for and care of
their child may deduct some
of the costs of attending a medical conference relating to a dependent's chronic
health condition"? n 2006 Tax Benefits for Parents of Children with
Disabilities, Mr. O'Connor provides a summary of the most significant federal
income tax
benefits. He advises you to print out this guide and provide your tax adviser
with a copy. We agree with this excellent advice!Download your copy of 2004 Tax
Benefits for Parents of Children with Disabilities by Mike O'Connor, Esq.
http://www.wrightslaw.com/info/tax.2006.benefits.oconnor.htm
More articles on dozens of special education law and advocacy topics.
http://www.wrightslaw.com/topics.htm
01/31/2007
February is Black History Month
February marks the beginning of
Black History Month - an annual celebration that has existed since 1926.
Much of the credit can go to Harvard Scholar, Dr. Carter G. Woodson, who was
determined to bring Black History into the public arena. Woodson devoted
his life to making "the world see the Negro as a participant rather than a
lay figure in history." Woodson organized the first "Negro History Week",
which took place during the second week of February. He chose this date to
coincide with the birthdays of Frederick Douglass and Abraham Lincoln- two
men who had a great impact in the black population. Over time, this
celebration evolved into the Black History Month we know today. If you have
a child of color in your adoptive or foster family, consider taking time to
celebrate this event with your family. Something as easy as visiting the
library, renting a movie, or visiting educational websites can go a long way
in helping your child understand more of their heritage, and possibly shape
their future.
For more information and to view video clips on Black History Month, log
onto
http://www.biography.com/black_history/index.jsp and/or
http://www.history.com/minisites/blackhistory/ and/or contact the NJ
ARCH Warm Line for a list of appropriate movies.
01/24/2007
Birth certificate bill on fast track
After languishing for decades, the legislation recently lurched onto the fast
track, the result of aggressive lobbying, a change in political leadership, and
a growing national uneasiness over the secrecy long surrounding adoption. Last
month, the bill passed the Senate 26-12. It moved to the Assembly with 18
bipartisan sponsors and the promise of nine more.
To read the entire article
please click
here
01/09/2007
Foreign adoptions by Americans plunge
After tripling
in the past 15 years, the number of foreign children adopted by Americans
dropped sharply in 2006, the result of multiple factors that have jolted
adoption advocates and prompted many would-be adoptive parents to reconsider
their options.
To read the entire article
please click
here
01/09/2007
Supporting Youth in Foster Care
http://www.meg.org/mentoring_month/about/foster_care.phpntorin
National Mentoring Month (NMM)
2007 spotlights the needs of young people in foster care. Spearheaded by the
Harvard Mentoring Project, MENTOR and the Corporation for National and Community
Service, National Mentoring Month serves to spread the message that introducing
a mentor into the life of a child in provides consistency, support, and
encouragement, engendering trust and confidence in the future.On any given day
in America over 518,000 children and youth are in foster care. Around 20,000
youth "age out" or transition from the foster care system. Many are only 18
years old. Yet, the system provides few services to help them through this
difficult transition.
National Outcomes:
Earned a high school diploma -
54%, obtained a Bachelor's degree or higher - 2%, became a parent - 84%, were
unemployed - 51%
had no health insurance - 30%,
had been homeless - 25%, were
receiving public assistance - 30%
One study found that 12-18
months after leaving foster care the incidence of incarceration and public
assistance was much higher for these youth than the general population.
How you can help:
Young people need supportive
adults in their lives. You can help a youth reach their full potential by
becoming a mentor. Young people who have a caring adult in their lives are more
likely to overcome the barriers that block their path to success.
Foster Care Mentoring Programs:
Programs have been established
throughout the United States to link youth in care with volunteers from the
community who want to become a mentor and make a difference in a young person's
life. The programs provide training for new volunteers, and ongoing staff
support is available to assist them.
Mentoring USA's Foster Care
Mentoring Program serves youth 7-18 years of age who are in care in the New York
City area. This program was the first mentoring program in the U.S. to
specifically address the needs of youth in care.
AFC Mentoring, based in Boston,
MA, provides one-on-one mentoring for youth in foster & adoptive care. The
program pairs the youth with adult volunteers, who become positive role models,
as well as friends to the youth. Some of these mentors have themselves been in
the foster care system.
For more information, visit:
www.fostercaremonth.org
01/03/2007
Listen Online for a Foster Care Discussion
Log on the WNYC website to listen online for a foster care discussion. Leonard Lopate talks with Betsy Krebs and
Paul Pitcoff to discuss their new book
Beyond the Foster Care System: The Future for Teens , and how
Getting Beyond the System® helps teens learn self-advocacy and prepare for the
future. This will air on Thursday, January 4th at 1:20 pm. For more
information log onto
http://www.wnyc.org/shows/lopate/episodes/2007/01/04
12/23/05
U.S. plea on adoption
fails in Romania.
BUCHAREST, Romania - Romania's prime minister on Thursday
rejected U.S. calls to allow adoptions by foreigners of about 1,000 Romanian
children. About 200 U.S. families and 800 European families had filed
paperwork to adopt Romanian children before 2004, when Romania enacted
legislation that effectively bans all foreign adoptions, except for close
relatives of the child. The United States has asked Romania to exempt about
1,000 children from that ban. "The Romanian legislation will not be changed, as
it accords with European and international law," Prime Minister Calin Popescu
Tariceanu said. Critics say the adoption ban has prevented many children from
finding homes with adoptive families abroad as they languish in foster care or
institutions. In addition, said Maura Harty, an official with the State
Department's Bureau of Consular Affairs, families in the U.S. and elsewhere have
been left in the dark about the fate of the children they were trying to adopt.
Source: Adoption Today:
http://www.adoption.com/includes/frame.php?url=http://www.sptimes.com/2005/12/23/Worldandnation/US_plea_on_adoption_f.shtml
11/09/05
National Adoption Day is November 19, 2005
National Adoption Day is a collective national effort to raise
awareness of the 118,000 children in foster care waiting to find permanent,
loving families. Now in its sixth year, National Adoption Day has made the
dreams of thousands of children come true by working with courts, judges,
attorneys, and advocates to finalize adoptions into permanent, loving families
and to celebrate adoption. For more information, log onto:
http://www.nationaladoptionday.org/2005/index.asp
11/09/05
National Adoption Awareness Month
Celebration Ideas:
There are
many ways that you, you family, agency, school and organizations can celebrate
National Adoption Awareness Month. Check out this link for great ideas in how
to celebrate this month:
http://naic.acf.hhs.gov/general/adoptmonth/activities_calendar.cfm
For a
downloadable calendar of ideas, please log onto
http://naic.acf.hhs.gov/general/adoptmonth/pdfs/activities_calendar.pdf
12/19/2006
China is tightening rules on foreign adoptions, barring parents
who are unmarried, over 50 or obese, but says it will try to increase the number
of children available to those who qualify, according to U.S. adoption agencies.
To read the entire article
please click
here
12/14/2006
Bill would help adoptees
find birth parents
Some adoptees are denied the right to
know their ethnic background, the medical backgrounds of their birth parents,
even whether they have siblings, she says.
Allen contends that adoptees
should have the right to that information.
To read the entire article
please click
here
12/08/2006
Ocean County Library Display 2006

The
Manchester Branch of the Ocean County Library created a lovely display to
celebrate National Adoption Awareness Month.
12/05/2006
Senate votes to open adoption records
Following a
brief debate over whether the privacy of biological mothers should trump the
right of adoptees, the Senate, in a 26-12 vote, passed a bill to open birth
records. State law has sealed these records since 1940. The measure still faces
a test in the Assembly.
To read the entire article
please click
here
12/05/2006
Watermelon Hill: Giving Birth
In Secret
Hundreds of girls were forced to give away
their babies during a time when society did not accept unwed mothers. Some of
the girls were sent to a place in St. Paul nicknamed "Watermelon Hill".
Linda Back McKay is a poet, writer and a mother who had little choice but to put
her baby up for adoption.
She was 19 years old, in the midst of the sexual revolution, the 60s. When she
told her parents she was pregnant, her father called her a name she said she
will never forget: whore. He told her she was unfit to keep her baby.
To read the entire article
please click
here
11/21/2006
Major new report on birthparents finds flowed stereotypes
This report, "Safeguarding the
Rights and Well-Being of Birthparents in the Adoption Process," represents the
most thorough, intensive and sophisticated effort to date to understand
contemporary infant adoption, particularly as it relates to the least-understood
and most-stigmatized participants in the process: the women and men usually
termed "birthparents."
To read the entire article
please click
here
11/06/2006
Grand opening of InKAS' Guest House for Korean Adoptees
InKAS,
with a grant from the Ministry of Health and Welfare, will run “My House” from
November 20, 2006 to provide moderate accommodations for international Korean
adoptees staying in Korea to learn the Korean language or to look for a job or
birthparents.
To find more
information
please click here
10/31/06
NJ
Senate considers bill giving adoptees access to birth records
The New Jersey Senate's Health, Human
Services and Senior Citizens Committee approved a bill (S1087/A2557) on Oct.
16 that would give future adopted adults 18 and over in that state access to
their original birth certificates. Birthparents who relinquished a child
prior to the law's enactment would be able to submit no-contact preference
forms within 12 months after the law took effect; however, they would still
be required to submit medical and cultural history information within 60
days of a request for an original birth certificate. According to an April
survey, three-quarters of New Jersey residents believe adopted people should
be allowed to obtain their birth certificates with identifying information.
The proposed legislation is pending approval from the Senate Budget and
Appropriations Committee before being considered before the full Senate. A
companion bill (A2557) was introduced in the state Assembly in February, but
no action has been taken. To read the bill, go to:
http://www.njleg.state.nj.us/Default.asp and search for S1087 in the
Bill number field; to read the survey, go to:
http://www.nj-care.org/
10/31/2006
National Adoption Month, 2006, A Proclamation by the President of the United
States of America
During National Adoption Month,
we encourage the adoption of young people in need, and we honor the adoptive and
foster families who have offered children a loving and supportive home.
To read the
entire proclamation
please click here
10/23/2006
A son's quest, a
secret and a house where hope lived
Larry Newman paced around his
apartment, trying to find just the right words before he made the call that
would change his life.
It was the last step in a long and emotional
journey to clear up the mysteries surrounding his birth, a journey that had
taken him from his home in Chatham to the windswept prairies of Canada to the
suburban streets of Huntington, Long Island.
To read the entire article
please click
here
10/18/2006
Measure
advances to let adoptees get a key to their past.
A Senate panel yesterday voted
to remove the blanket confidentiality surrounding an adopted person's past,
approving a bill that would allow adults to obtain their original birth
certificates.
To read the entire article
please click
here
10/18/06
Adoptees seek birth certificates
For the past 26 years there's been a push for legislation to allow all people
adopted in New Jersey to see their original birth certificates. Now, with
changing attitudes about family reunions and increasing evidence that a person's
medical history can help prevent and better manage some medical conditions,
adoptees think they may finally have a shot at changing the law.
To read the entire article please click
here.
10/10/2006
NJ Family Magazine: "Forming a
Family"
“Most
folks, when they think adoption, think infant adoption or international
adoption,” says Rose Zeltser of Children’s Aid and Family Services, a private
nonprofit agency in New Jersey. “They may be too frightened to come forward to
learn about adopting an older child. They may think it takes a very special
person to adopt an older child. No, it takes ordinary people with special
hearts.”
To read the entire article please click
here.
09/01/2006
Breaking the Biology Barrier
With
more than 100,000 Americans adopting each year, adoption benefits are becoming a
hot new perk in the panoply of workplace benefits.
Whether paid time off,
reimbursement for costs or both, the benefits help parents defray hefty adoption
fees and afford bonding time with new children. Just as important, recipients
say, the assistance sends the message that adoptive families are as valued and
worthy of support as biological families are.
To read the entire article please click
here.
08/21/2006
Twin girls were separated at birth.
A story of two Chinese girls separated by birth in China
and reunited in the USA. To read the entire article please click
here.
08/18/2006
Transracial
Adoption, NYT 7/17/06
In 2004, 26 percent of
black children adopted from foster care, about 4,200, were adopted transracially,
nearly all by whites. That is up from roughly 14 percent, or 2,200, in 1998,
according to a New York Times analysis of data from the National Data Archive on
Child Abuse and Neglect at
Cornell University and from the
Department of Health and Human Services.
07/20/2006
The International Soundex
Reunion Registry
A system for
matching people who want contact with family members. It's a mutual-consent
registry requiring registration by both parties. Registrations have been kept
since 1975, when the registry started.
Click here to view the whole
article.
To register and apply online please visit
www.isrr.net
07/13/2006
For late-discovery adoptees, pain and betrayal
They are fighting for access
to birth records, denied in Pa., N.J. and 43 other states.
A story of a LDA (Late Discovery Adoptee) published in
Philadelphia Enquirer, Jul. 11, 2006
Click here to view the whole article.
06/23/2006
Child Welfare Information
Gateway Opens
Child Welfare Information
Gateway consolidates and expands upon the services formerly provided by the
National Clearinghouse on Child Abuse and Neglect Information and the National
Adoption Information Clearinghouse to provide easy access to programs, research,
statistics, laws and policies, and training resources all in one place.
Click
here to visit Child Welfare Gateway Website.
06/05/2006
Fall
Mentorship Program for Children 11-14.
Spence-Chapin is starting a mentoring
program this fall for children age 11-14.
Since one of the best ways for our kids to understand their experience is by
being around adults who share their adoption status, we have organized a
group mentoring program. All our activities will take place in a group, with
each mentor ‘assigned’ two children.
Activities are scheduled for the first Saturday of every month from
September to May. The mentors are adult adoptees--domestic and
international--who have shared their adoption stories at various workshops
and home study groups throughout the last few years here at Spence-Chapin.
If your child is interested in participating in this pioneer program or you
want to learn more about our plans, please contact Joy Lieberthal at (212)
360-0231 or
jlieberthal@spence-chapin.org for more information. The deadline for
applications is August 1, 2006. Ask Joy about the Meet & Greet for families
and mentors in the Spence-Chapin Garden on August 26!
06/02/2006
ABC
News: Broadcast on 6/1/06 'Aging Out' and Unprepared for Life.
Those Who 'Age
Out' of Foster Care Are Dropped from the System June 1, 2006 - - After his
father left, Jesse Aliff was removed from the custody of his alcoholic mother
and became a ward of the state of Florida.
He spent four years in and out of group homes and juvenile detention facilities.
Last December, when Jesse turned 18, he was thrust into an adulthood for which
he was unprepared.
Click
here to view the full article.
06/01/2006
Tune In and Watch The Discovery Channel's "American Chopper" at 10 p.m. EST
on June 5 &12!
Wendy’s and the Teutuls of Orange County Choppers Team Up to Support Foster
Care Adoption
and
the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption
Don’t
miss this unique and entertaining two-part show!
“American
Chopper” is a reality show that stars the Teutul family, owners of Orange
County Choppers (OCC). Their popularity has led them to build custom themed
bikes for some of the biggest names in corporate America, such as Microsoft,
Lincoln, Coca-Cola – and Wendy’s, of course; as well as celebrities like
Billy Joel, Bill Murray and Jay Leno. They’ve even built choppers for the
New York Yankees and NASA!
Each hour-long
show focuses not only on the design and construction process of these unique
bikes, it also features lively and educational interaction among Paul, Sr.
(the father), and Paul, Jr. and Mikey (his sons) as they craft their
one-of-a-kind customized choppers.
On this show,
the family has focused their unique talents on creating a customized Wendy’s
chopper, which will be auctioned to benefit the Dave Thomas Foundation for
Adoption.
More important,
the two-part show features six waiting teens from the Orange County
Department of Social Services in Goshen, NY, and two recently adopted
brothers, who were chosen to pitch in on the set and help the Teutuls build
the Wendy’s chopper. The two-part segment will air on June 5 and 12 at 10
p.m. EST. (Check local listings for exact show time, and for reruns during
the week.)
With 119,000
foster care children available for adoption in the United States this
segment of OCC presents a unique way to raise national awareness about this
important issue and connect waiting children with potential adoptive
families!
Visit
www.davethomasfoundationforadoption.org
for
further information on foster care adoption.
05/09/2006
For adoptees, racial divide still wide
The Philadelphia Inquirer
By Jeff Gammage, IInquirer Staff Writer
Adoption today is a rainbow of color and country; thousands of multiracial
families are created in the United States each year by the arrival of children
from countries such as China, Guatemala, India and Liberia. Yet it's the
pairing of African American children and white parents that stokes the
transracial debate and sometimes provokes legal battles, most recently in
Chester County.
Click
here to view the full
article.
05/01/2006
Trans-racial adoption debate rages
BY LINI S.
KADABA AND BENJAMIN Y. LOWE
Knight Ridder
Newspapers
About
28 percent of children in the public welfare system end up in adoptive homes
where at least one parent is of a different race or ethnicity than the child,
according to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.
Federal law, which tried to
settle the issue more than a decade ago with the passage of the Multiethnic
Placement Act, says adoptions cannot routinely be delayed or denied on the basis
of race, ethnicity or religion. The act grew out of concern that minority
children, who are represented disproportionately, were languishing in the
foster-care system as they waited to be adopted by same-race families.
But the role of race in adoption
still simmers and at times boils over, as happened recently in Chester County.
Click
here to view the
full article
04/28/2006
About
Foster Care Month
Every
day, there are 518,000 children and youth living in foster care because their
own parents can't take care of them. We must address the needs of these
children, who need a stable and secure home until they can either return to
their parents or establish a lifelong connection to a nurturing adult.
National Foster Care Month in May provides an opportunity for people all across
the nation to get involved, whether as foster parents, volunteers, mentors,
employers or in other ways. It is also an opportunity to show our appreciation
for the dedication of the foster families who care for these children and youth
and the social workers who support them.
Click http://www.fostercaremonth.org/
About/ for more details.
04/25/2006
After the Adoption, a New
Child and the Blues
By LAURIE TARKAN, The NYTimes, April 25,2006
Many adoptive parents feel delirious with happiness when bringing home their
child. Yet for some, this joy can be short-lived and dissolve into what experts
call post-adoption depression. For some, it is simply a low mood, for others a
full-fledged plunge into despair. But most suffer secretly because of the shame
and guilt of not being entirely happy over something they had chosen and, in
many cases, worked so hard to get.
Click here to view the
full article.
03/16/2006
Adopted in China, Seeking Identity in America
By LYNETTE CLEMETSON, New York Times; March 23, 2006
Molly Easel desperately wants to quit the
Chinese dance group that her mother enrolled her in at age 5, because it sets
her apart from friends in her Virginia suburb. Her mother, though, insists that
Molly, now 15, will one day appreciate the connection to her culture.
Qiu Meng Fogarty, 13, prefers her Chinese name (pronounced cho mung) to Cecilia,
her English name. She volunteers in workshops for children in New York adopted
from China "so that they know it can all work out fine," she said.
Since 1991, when China loosened its adoption laws to address a growing number of
children abandoned because of a national one-child policy, American families
have adopted more than 55,000 Chinese children, almost all girls. Most of the
children are younger than 10, and an organized subculture has developed around
them, complete with play groups, tours of China and online support groups.
Click
here to view full article.
03/16/2006
Kidsave International's Summer Miracles Program for the NY
Metro area for 2006.
Millions of older children around the world
are growing up in orphanages and foster care. Many lose hope. They wait and wait
and wait for families, and no one ever comes. This is devastating to a child.
Children need families or a connection with a stable adult to grow and
thrive. Research has shown that a connected, caring relationship with an adult
is the most important factor in preventing a child from leading a life of
violence and helping that child become a productive member of society.
Orphans from Colombia are coming the New York Metropolitan area for about 6
weeks as part of Kidsave's unique program called Summer Miracles. Kidsave's
Summer Miracles Program gives older orphan children (ages 7 and up) the chance
to experience life in a family. Miraculously, during these trips, over 90% of
these children meet people who end up adopting them—quite often from families
other than those who host them. More than 1,300 former orphans now have
families because of Summer Miracles.
You can make an amazing difference in the life of a child by being a host,
volunteer, translator, or advocate.
Kidsave's Family Visit Model provides new hope to child welfare around the
world. It combines the best practices in social work and family recruiting to
create caring, connected relationships for children without parents. It is being
used by professionals in Los Angeles, California; Washington D.C.; Fairfax
Country, Virginia; Smolensk, Russia; St. Petersburg, Russia; Moscow, Russia;
Yuzhno-Sakalinsk, Russia; and Bogotá, Colombia. Kidsave is a 501(c)(3) public
charity.
If you would like to make a tangible difference in a child's life this summer by
hosting, advocating, volunteering, or making a donation, please
call us at (973) 519-1807, email us at
lisarasp@gmail.com and
mark@longviewschool.org or go to
www.kidsave.org
Please help make a miracle happen in a child's life.
03/16/2004
Child Abuse
Prevention Event at Warren Hospital on April 10, 2006.
To mark April as Child Abuse Prevention Month, Warren
County Foster and Adoptive Family services and Prevent Child Abuse New Jersey
has joined together to raise awarness about the problem of child abuse. Our
feature speaker, Dr. Janet Rosenweig has appeared
as an expert on child and
family issues on
The Today Show and Good Morning America. "Prevention can spare kids
pain and suffering, spare families pain and suffering, and it can spare the
government a lot of money it spends cleaning up the problem after the fact,”
said Rosenzweig, Executive Director of Prevent Child Abuse-NJ.
To get more information regarding that event please click
here.
03/14/06
Nearly 40% of American
adults, or 81.5 million people, have considered adopting a child. If just
one in 500 of these adults adopt, all of the 134,000 children in foster care
waiting for adoption would have permanent, loving families, according to the
new National Adoption Attitudes Survey. Among a number of other insights now
available to the adoption community, the survey revealed overwhelming
support for adoption, giving America’s waiting children new reason for hope.
To read the article please
click here.
03/09/06
Scholarships and
Grants for Foster and Adopted Youth.
Foster and Adoptive Family
Service private scholarships and grants are available! Any graduating high
school seniors (foster or adopted in NJ) that would like to apply for money for
college or for independent living assistance please apply. The deadline is April
7, 2006; all applications and additional documentation must be received by this
date for consideration.
For detailed information please click
here.
03/07/06
Did you know you can receive Tax Credit and
Assistance when adopting?
NACAC reviewed
related IRS publications and offers this interpretation of the issues.
Please understand that neither NACAC nor NJARCH is a tax expert and these
opinions should not be considered legal or financial advice. You should
consult you own tax advisor before filing.
To read the article
please click here.
02/24/06
State
Department Issues Final Rules on Intercountry Adoption.
Regulations to implement Hague Convention on Intercountry
Adoptions
The United States came a step closer to implementing the Hague
Convention on Intercountry Adoptions when it issued final rules February 15
relating to accreditation of adoption agencies.
The Hague Convention -- formally known as the Convention on
Protection of Children and Co-operation in Respect of Intercountry Adoption --
sets minimum international standards and procedures for adoptions that occur
between implementing countries to ensure greater protection from exploitation of
children, birth parents and adoptive parents.
To read the article please
click
here.
02/20/06
Lifebooks: Creating and telling your
child’s story.
Adoption Learning Parents is offering a new
course for adoptive parents on creating and maintaining a Lifebook
for
an adopted child.
The module
was developed in conjunction with professionals from the Illinois Department
of Children and Family Services and other adoption experts. The course will
help adoptive parents understand the importance and purpose of a Lifebook as
a lifelong project
as well as
identify its
key
components.
Parents and other users
will learn when and how to use it, and will be provided with the opportunity
to create pages that can be the start of a Lifebook.
For more information please follow the link
to
the
Adoption
Learning Partners home page or click
here.
02/16/06
NACAC's New tax Credit
Flier for 2005 tax year.
In the summer of 2001, the Federal Adoption Tax Credit was updated. The most
important update was to expand benefits to children with special needs adopted
from the U.S. foster care system. Originally families adopting from the foster
care system could claim the adoption tax credit, provided they had qualifying
expenses. Unfortunately, the IRS list of qualifying expenses was limited to the
cost of the adoption process, but not the day-to-day costs of raising a child
with special needs. So starting in tax year 2003, families adopting a child with
special needs from foster care, had access to this same tax credit without
needing to document expenses. For tax year 2004, the tax credit is $10,390 and
you have up to five years in which to use it.
Please follow a link in the flyer to the official IRS publication for additional
information.
In order to get a flier please
click here.
02/09/06
Legal
loopholes open door for adoption abuse.
Napa-based adoption firm Yunona USA is closed now. Its leader was reportedly
arrested in Russia last week, and the accusations that Yunona scammed more than
a dozen U.S. couples is now under investigation by Napa law enforcement
agencies.
But apparently little stands in the way of other adoption facilitators setting
up tomorrow and operating the same way Yunona did before its recent collapse.
Experts say loopholes in state, federal and international law make it difficult
to stop operations like Yunona, accused of having lured couples into spending
thousands of dollars to adopt foreign children who were never truly available
for adoption.
To read the article click
here.
02/09/06
Bill
Would Clarify Rights of Fathers of Children Up For Adoption
February
1st, 2006 @ 7:09am
SALT LAKE CITY (AP) -- A bill to clarify the
rights of fathers whose children are being put up for adoption has advanced to
the House floor.
Rep. Ann Hardy, who has an adopted daughter, said the state's current adoption
code doesn't adequately address the role of biological fathers. The bill would
require the office of vital records to send notice to a biological father and
allow him 10 days to assert rights to the child.
"I had a judge in the 2nd District say he had a case where an unmarried birth
father came back after five years to claim rights to the child," Hardy said.
"This sets timelines." The Bountiful Republican said the bill is not about
taking fathers out of the process.
"This protects all people involved," she said. "The biggest fear for adoptive
parents is that they will bond with the child and something is going to come
along and change that."
Larry Jenkins, an attorney and member of the Utah Adoption Council, said the
bill also aims to help biological fathers who live in another state. Nonresident
fathers would have 20 days after learning about the pregnancy to claim parental
rights. "Right now the way the law reads, he's got to hurry up and call a Utah
attorney and comply with Utah laws," Jenkins said. "I thinks there is some
question about whether that comports with due process or not." The bill
also removes the additional background checks required for nonresident adoptive
parents. "This discrimination is really unnecessary and sometimes causes
delay even though the nonresident's home state has already cleared them," she
said.
(Copyright 2006 by The Associated Press. All Rights
Reserved.)
02/02/06
February marks the beginning of
Black History Month.
February marks the beginning
of Black History Month - an annual celebration
that has existed since 1926. But what are the origins of Black History
Month?
Much of the credit can go to Harvard Scholar Dr. Carter G. Woodson, who was
determined to bring Black History into the mainstream public arena. Woodson
devoted his life to making "the world see the Negro as a participant rather
than as a lay figure in history."
In 1926 Woodson organized the first annual Negro History Week, which took
place during the second week of February. Woodson chose this date to
co-inside with the birthdays of Frederick Douglass and Abraham Lincoln - two
men who had greatly impacted the black population.
Over time, Negro History Week evolved into the Black History Month that we
know today - a four-week-long celebration of African American History.
http://www.historychannel.com/blackhistory/
02/02/06
February is Black History Month.
Americans have recognized black history annually since 1926, first as "Negro
History Week" and later as "Black History Month." What you might not know is
that black history had barely begun to be studied-or even documented-when
the tradition originated. Although blacks have been in America at least as
far back as colonial times, it was not until the 20th century that they
gained a respectable presence in the history books.
http://www.infoplease.com/spot/bhm1.html
01/31/06
DMC: My Adoption Journey
Air times on VH-1
Saturday, Feb. 25 @ 2/1c PM
Saturday, Feb. 25 @ 9/8c PM
Sunday, Feb. 26 @ 2/1c AM
In
1997, hip hop legend Darryl McDaniels should have been riding high. Run-DMC was
touring Europe after a remix put them back atop the charts, and money was
rolling in. Instead DMC found himself alone in a hotel room, contemplating
suicide. Coping with vocal troubles and creative differences with his group, he
found no joy in the spoils of the rap game. Poison, a bullet, a giant leap were
all options he considered. As he now recalls it, it was a song by Sarah
McLachlan, "Angel," that brought him back from the edge. "Fly away from here,
from this cold hotel room," she sang. "There's vultures and thieves at your back
and the storm keeps on twisting." The sadness in her voice captured an emptiness
D felt but could not explain - until a few years later.
In gathering information for his autobiography in 2000,
35-year-old D got a bombshell from the only mother he's ever known - she told
him he was adopted. The revelation left him stunned and confused. Amid that
emotional turmoil one thing became clear: Darryl wanted answers about his true
history. Beginning in October, VH1 documented D's search for his biological
roots, as well as his spiritual journey of self-discovery. At the start of
taping, all D knew was that, according to the parents who raised him, a
16-year-old named Bernada Lovelace, who hailed from the Dominican Republic, gave
him up for adoption in 1964. Video tape rolled as D consulted with experts,
researched old archives, and followed the winding trail wherever it led.
D's quest is not portrayed in a vacuum, but in the
context of his larger journey towards enlightenment. This includes a storied
career in which D put hip hop on the map as part of Run-DMC, and -- just as
important to him -- eventually transitioned from "B-boy to B-man." This growth
is reflected in his forthcoming album, Checks, Thugs and Rock n Roll. D focuses
on emotional struggles, political stands, and a heartfelt goodbye to Jam Master
Jay. The album pays tribute to the musical influences of DMC's youth, including
Bob Dylan, Jimi Hendrix and Harry Chapin.
01/26/06
How Siblings
Fare in Difficult Adoptions
By
Mavis Olesen, Ph.D. published in summer 2004 newsletter of North American
Council on Adoptable Children (NACAC).
When parents knowingly or unknowingly adopt a child with
extremely serious special needs, children (birth or adopted) who already live in
the home may be relegated to the background as the new adoptee’s behaviors and
problems escalate. As time goes on, children whose very challenging siblings
push them to the family’s margins may experience physical, mental, emotional,
social, and spiritual consequences - both negative and positive. Fortunately,
for these and other adoptive families, there are ways to protect siblings and
find peace amidst the chaos.
To read the article click
here.
01/06/06
January '06 Campaign
Challenges Baby Boomers: "Share What You Know. Mentor a Child!"
BOSTON, MA, October 24, 2005—Plans have been announced
for the 5th Annual National Mentoring Month (NMM) campaign scheduled for
January 2006. This nationwide drive to recruit volunteer mentors for young
people will target America's 77 million baby boomers with the message,
"Share What You Know. Mentor A Child." January 2006 will mark the milestone
60th birthday of the Baby Boomer Generation.
01/06/06
Reinventing
Aging: Baby Boomers and Civic Engagement,
What
Would You Call the New Stage of Life Between 60 and 80?
Boston, MA, December 8, 2005-With the Baby
Boomer Generation set to celebrate its milestone 60th birthday next month,
PARADE magazine has partnered with the Harvard School of Public Health and
MetLife Foundation to invite the general public to help name the new stage of
life that the oldest boomers are about to enter.
Thanks to advances in public health and medicine, the average 60-year-old today
can expect to live to the age of 83, and millions will continue well into their
90s. This longevity revolution has spawned a new, largely unrecognized stage of
life, nestled between middle-age and old-age, spanning the period from 60 to 80.
As Boomers enter their 60s, they will confront the questions "What's next?" and
"What do I want to do with the rest of my life?"
The cover story of PARADE's December 11 issue will invite readers to suggest new
language to substitute for such terms as "senior citizen," "elderly,"
and "old"-labels likely to be rejected by Boomers. Readers may also address
related questions, such as, "How would you define the meaning and purpose of
this stage of life?" and "What are your thoughts on society's expectations of
and attitudes towards its older citizens?" Some of the best ideas and comments
may be published in a future issue of PARADE, and will be posted on
www.ReinventingAging.org, the web
site of the Harvard School of Public Health-MetLife Foundation Initiative on
Retirement and Civic Engagement.
Information on how to submit ideas and comments is available at
www.PARADE.com.
Read the entire press release.
http://www.hsph.harvard.edu/chc/reinventingaging/press_release.html
11/09/05
National Adoption Awareness Month - November 2005; Answering the Call: “You
don’t have to be perfect to be a perfect parent”
There are currently 523,000 children in the public
child welfare system. Of these, almost 118,000 are waiting for an adoptive
family. Sadly, each year, approximately 19,000 children "age out" of the system
without ever being adopted.
The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services' Administration for Children
and Families has partnered with The Adoption Exchange Association, The
Collaboration to AdoptUsKids and The Advertising Council to develop a national
public service advertising campaign available in both Spanish and English to
raise awareness about the children who are waiting for a family. For more
information about National Adoption Awareness Month visit:
http://naic.acf.hhs.gov/general/adoptmonth/about_adopt_month.cfm
11/08/05
George Bush's Statement on National Adoption Month.
To read
Presidential Proclamation please click
here.
10/28/05
Bridge of Hope is recruiting host families for Russian
born orphans, ages 7 to 10 for their first winter program in
January of 2006.
Bridge of Hope, in our
10th year as a hosting program for older Russian orphans, is now recruiting host
families for our first winter
program in January 2006. We expect to have a small group of children, ages 7 -
10, here for approximately two weeks in the first half of
January, with specific dates to be confirmed. The application deadline is
November 4th.
We are open to hearing from host families living on the East Coast or possibly
in the mid-west. Host families will bear the costs of travel
to either NY or Washington, DC for a parent preparation workshop, as well as for
the children's arrival and departure. One host parent
will need to be home full-time during the hosting program. Host families must
have a current homestudy prior to the children's arrival.
Anyone interested in hosting during our winter program or summer 2006 should
contact our Bridge of Hope Director Patrice Gancie at pgancie@cradlehope.org or
at 301-587-4400, ext 205.
Linda Perilstein
Executive Director
Cradle of Hope Adoption Center
301-587-4400
10/27/05
50 years of International Adoption.
10/21/05
The Idea of Adoption: An Inquiry into the History of Adult Adoptee Access to
Birth Records.
While this article is not
new, in light of the fact that
A3237, The Adoptees'
Access-to-Original-Birth-Certificate Bill, is awaiting hearings in the
Assembly Committee on Family, Women and Children's Services we thought it
might be of interest to our visitors.
The Idea of Adoption: An
Inquiry into the History of Adult Adoptee Access to Birth Records,
by Elizabeth J. Samuels, summarizes the legal history relevant to the debate
about open records.
To read the article
click here
10/21/05
New free book resource for children available from
The U.S. Department of Education Office of Communications and Outreach.
The
U.S. Department of Education Office of Communications and Outreach has
produced a series of books for parents under the No Child Left Behind Act of
2001. The books are valuable tools for increasing your child’s interest in
learning, to develop and reinforce skills in reading and math and to provide
learning experiences in everyday household activities. Topics include:
Helping Your Child
Learn Mathematics, Helping Your Child Succeed in School, Helping Your Child
through Early Adolescence and many others. Copies of the
books are available on loan from the NJARCH library or can be ordered at no
cost by telephoning toll free: 1.877.433.7827. A complete list of the
various titles is available at:
http://www.edpubs.org/webstore/content/SearchResults.asp?FormName=Top&id=7
or you can contact the NJARCH warmline to obtain a list. The books can be
ordered by e-mail at
edpubs@inet.ed.gov or through the postal service at ED Pubs, Education
Publications Center, U.S. Department of Education, P.O. Box 1398, Jessup, MD
20794-1398.
To visit the website
click here
9/12/05
In Moscow,
National Council For Adoption Conducts High-Level Meetings with Russian Adoption
Officials: Moratorium Avoided
September 12, 2005, Alexandria, VA - On Friday,
September 9, the Russian Duma defeated an amendment to impose a moratorium on
adoptions of Russian orphans by American parents. The vote was a culmination of
months of advocacy by nationalistic opponents of intercountry adoption who
exploited the tragic deaths of Russian- born children reportedly at the hands of
their adoptive parents. "Russian orphans have won an important vote," said
National Council For Adoption President Thomas Atwood, in Moscow. "The Russian
Duma and other Russian adoption leaders have made it clear with this vote that
adoptions will move forward and the interests of innocent children should not be
made into a political football."
Leading up to the vote, a National Council For
Adoption delegation was in Moscow appealing directly to leaders at the highest
levels of the Russian child welfare system. In an unprecedented atmosphere of
cooperation, Russian and American adoption leaders agreed on many areas of
reform, discussed positive alternatives to a shutdown of adoptions, and
expressed a bilateral commitment to serving the needs of the estimated 700,000
children currently languishing in orphanages across the vast country.
"The adoption communities of both countries and
all who are sincerely
concerned about the future of Russian orphans
should be very encouraged by what we have accomplished here," commented Atwood
following the talks. "Now that the Duma has rejected a shutdown, we can work
together to achieve positive changes. We don't need to shut down all adoptions
in order to protect children better."
The most critical, and possibly most productive,
meeting was with Sergey Fridinsky, Deputy Prosecutor General of the Russian
Federation. Mr. Fridinsky communicated frankly with the NCFA delegation in
addressing the serious concerns of the Russian people regarding the tragic
deaths and current adoption processes. This meeting received extensive coverage
in the broadcast and print Russian media. The NCFA delegation met with officials
at the Ministry of Education, the arm of Russian government charged with
administering adoption procedures. NCFA briefed Ambassador William Burns and
Consul General James Pettit at the U.S. Embassy in Moscow. In all meetings, NCFA
advocated strategic ideas developed with the assistance of leaders within the
American adoption community.
NCFA and adoption leaders in America are deeply
concerned about the tragic deaths of these children, and have offered four
specific reform ideas: timely implementation of the Hague Convention on
Intercountry Adoption by both countries, ending the unregulated practice of
"independent" adoption in Russia, accelerating post-placement reporting, and
strengthening the screening and training of prospective adoptive parents. These
targeted reforms would improve child protection for Russian orphans, while
preserving the opportunity for thousands of others to find loving, permanent
families of their own through adoption in the future.
Atwood continued, "We could not be more
encouraged by the responses our reform ideas have received from Russian leaders,
and by their commitments to ongoing dialogue. Together, we have created a
tremendous opportunity for policy improvements. Now we must work together to
achieve them."
About National Council For Adoption (NCFA)
Since 1980, NCFA has been a leading voice among
national adoption and child welfare organizations. NCFA is a research,
education, and advocacy nonprofit that provides adoption information, promotes
ethical adoption practices, informs public policy and opinion about adoption
issues, and serves as a resource for women with unplanned pregnancies, adopted
persons and their families, those seeking to adopt, and adoption professionals.
8/25/05
CPFA's 24th Annual "Let's Talk Adoption" Conference
Save the date! If you
would like to attend CPFA's "Let's Talk Adoption" Conference on
November 5, 2005, you need to register. If you would like to get
information and register
by downloading a brochure, please click
here.
7/22/05
Trenton Backpack Challenge
www.njfostercare.org is sponsoring a fundraiser for foster children with a
backpack
challenge drive. Volunteers are being asked to donate a backpack full of
items foster
children have a need for. Backpack items are listed by age group. If
you would like to
donate a backpack and want more details, please click
here.
6/27/05
Adoptions From Russia Face a Chill
By Fred Weir, The
Christian Science Monitor
In this article, the author discusses the decline in adoptions from Russia in
the United States.
Speculation about the factors contributing to this change are discussed as approvals for
American parents have slowed by a third so far this year. Also included is
a breakdown of
the number of children internationally adopted by country in the past year.
To read the article please click
here.
6/14/05
Adoption on the Radio
(Listen to a recorded radio interview!)
In an interview by AARP, authors of the book
Journeys After Adoption discuss relevant
topics involving post-adoption experiences. The information is both
interesting and
helpful for all members of the adoption constellation. This is a 23-minute
interview. You
will need a media player on your computer to listen. Please click the
following link to
hear the interview:
http://www.aarp.org/fun/radio/pt_radio/journeys_after_adoption.html
5/26/05
Grand Opening of the "Heart Gallery" June 12
The Heart Gallery of New Jersey will open its
first full exhibit to the public on Sunday,
June 12, 2005 at the Liberty Science Center in Jersey City New Jersey. The
Heart
Gallery is a special exhibit working to help waiting children find the adoptive
families they deserve.
The exhibit in the Liberty Science Center will be displayed from June 12 until
June 19.
To see details about this exhibit, go to the Liberty Science Center website:
www.lsc.org
The Heart Gallery will have various exhibits across New Jersey in the following
months.
To see the dates and locations for these venues, go to our
events page.
For more information about the Heart Gallery, go to:
http://www.heartgallerynj.com
5/24/05
Asbury Press: Adoptee Efforts to Access Records and
Biological Families
Two articles recently released by the Asbury
Press discuss recent efforts of adoptees
in New Jersey to gain access to their birth records and also in locating their
biological
relatives. To see these articles, click on the titles below:
"Adoptees
Persevere in Efforts to Locate Biological Relatives"
"Adoptees Push
for Access in New Jersey to Birth Records"
4/28/05
Children's Aid and Family Services, Inc. in an Adoption Television Series:
Sunday, May
22 at 8 p.m. on Ch. 19, 62 & 894 (RNN-TV)
“Adoption with
Children's Aid and Family Service”
At any time, there are between 300 and
500 children in NJ who are living in foster homes, group homes and shelters, who
are legally
free and who are in need of caring adults/families to adopt them. These are
children of all
ages, but mainly children of color who are over the age of five years. These
children want the
same things all children want - they want to be loved. They want to feel safe
and secure.
They want to wake up and see the same faces and be a part of a family.
Hear the many heart warming stories of adoption thanks to
the efforts of
Children's Aid and
Family Service in Paramus and Hackensack,
NJ. Viewers will also meet several of the
children currently living in foster care awaiting a home with a loving family.
For more
information about CAFS Adoption program, call Shannon at 201-226-0300.
For more
information about this television series go to:
http://www.blondinthehood.com/schedule.html

4/5/05
New Jersey Law Will Recognize Foreign Adoption Decrees
The New Jersey state Senate
unanimously passed a bill (S285/A1992) on March 21 to
explicitly recognize foreign adoptions of children born abroad, providing the
same force
and effect that exists for any child adopted from another state. The bill had
already been
passed unanimously by the Assembly last October, and now awaits signature by the
Governor. It eliminates the need for adoptive parents to petition a court for
adoption in the
state if the foreign adoption can be verified as final and complete by the
federal
government – through the issuance of an IR-3 immigrant visa or a successor
immigrant
visa – and the adoptive parents are residents of New Jersey.
Workers at agencies that specialize in international adoption recommend that
families
readopt in NJ in spite of this Bill because the families may run into
difficulties if they move
out of state. Not all states recognize adoptions done abroad. It is
better to obtain a NJ
birth certificate.
To read the text
and history
of the bill, go to:
http://www.njleg.state.nj.us/bills/BillView.asp?BillNumber=S285
3/21/05
NY Times Article: Show Them Your Best 'Take Me Home' Face"
This article describes a new project in New Jersey
that is promoting the adoption of older
children and sibling groups who are waiting for adoptive families. The
children, currently
in the care of DYFS, are in need of good, safe homes, and are often left waiting
for a
family for a long time. This project has taken professional photos of over
300 waiting
children and attached their photos and a bio to a new website,
http://www.heartgallerynj.com/
in the hopes of helping to get them placed. To see the entire article,
click here.
3/21/05
Courier News Article: "Groups, Bill Aim to Give Adoptees
Access to Birth,
Medical Histories"
This article in the Courier News discusses
ongoing efforts to allow adoptees rights
to access and view their birth history records. Various groups are giving
their
support to this effort. To read the article and see a copy of the complete Bill,
please
click here.
3/15/05
"Listening to Families: Overcoming the Barriers to
Adopting Children from
Foster Care"
A special report from Jeff Katz, of the Evan
B. Donaldson Adoption Foundation, explores
adopting through foster care:
Abstract -
The vast majority of potential parents who are
recruited – well over 90 percent – do not
ultimately wind up adopting a child not because they don’t want to, but
apparently because
they decide not to deal with a system they perceive as too frustrating,
bureaucratic and just
plain unfriendly. This comprehensive study lays out detailed recommendations
for changing
the system and improving children’s prospects of finding permanent, loving
families.
To see the entire article, click
here.
3/14/05
May is National Foster Care Month!!!
For more information about events, activities, or
foster care in general, click on the
following links:
http://www.fostercaremonth.org/Home
http://event.netbriefings.com/event.nrcfcpp/Live/hunternrcfcppp6/
3/3/05
Free Online Show for Families!
Join Dr. Bryan via the Internet for a free show
discussing a number of events concerning
the family. Tune in every Thursday evening at 8:00 pm EST by going to:
www.voiceamerica.com. Each week
a special guest will join the discussion.
2/28/05
Congress Considers Adoption Tax Relief
By Keith Peters
The current adoption tax credit is set to expire in
2010. The federal government is now
reviewing proposals that would make the relief bill permanent. To see the
full article,
please click
here.
2/15/05
"Adoptees Deserve Access to Family Health Insurance" by Adam Pertman
Adam Pertman discusses new software that has
been created that allows families to
track medical information about families - parents and grandparents included.
As
Pertman points out, this does not help the millions of adoptees across the
country as
most states still prevent adoptees from obtaining birth certificates and other
documents.
To see this entire article from the Baltimore Sun, please click
here.
2/1/05
Federal Adoption Law Reportedly Increases Legal Orphans
According to an article in the
Pittsburgh
Post-Gazette,
the 1997 Adoption and Safe
Families Act (ASFA) has been successful in increasing the number of children
adopted
from foster care, in part by speeding up the termination of parental rights, but
it has also
resulted in an increase in the number of children who are legal orphans. The
story by Barbara
White Stack, "Federal Adoption Law Spurs Rise in Legal Orphans," published on
Dec. 26, 2004, found that in the years after ASFA was implemented, more children
had their
mothers' and/or fathers' parental rights terminated than were adopted. While the
average
annual increase in adoptions of foster children in the past six years has been
54%, the
average annual increase in the number of terminations has been 82%. As a result,
there
are now an estimated 117,395 children who are legally severed from their
parents, but
who have not been placed in an adoptive home and continue to live in
foster care or
group homes.
To read the full article, go to:
http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/04361/432140.stm
1/25/05
"Tragedy to Slavery" Experiences of Orphaned Children
after the Tsunami
Disaster
This article written by Juliette Terzieff for
Alternet recounts some unfortunate events
regarding orphaned children of the Tsunami disaster. Terzieff explains how
children
are easily ensnared in child-trafficking practices in the region. As a
result, to help curb
the trafficking, authorities have placed a temporary ban on the international
adoption
of children from the area. To see the complete article, click
here.
1/6/05
December 2004 Issue of New Yorker Magazine: "The
Mistress's Daughter"
A Search and Reunion Story
This is an interesting and personal account
of a search and reunion experience
written by A. M. Homes. If you are interested in reading this memoir,
click on the
following link:
http://www.newyorker.com/fact/content/?041220fa_fact5
1/6/05
The New Cumberland Public Library in PA to Host
Korean Cultural Events
During the months of February and March the
New Cumberland Public Library will
host a variety of Korean-related events to celebrate and raise awareness about
Korean culture. Activities will include folk tales, readings, martial arts
demonstrations
and special guest speakers. For more information about these events, click
here.
12/28/04
NJ ARCH and Children's Aid and Family Services Outreach
for
"A Home For the Holidays"
Helping to raise awareness about adoption and
the Dave Thomas Foundation event,
"A Home for the Holidays," representatives from both NJ ARCH and Children's Aid
and
Family Services set up tables in the Willowbrook Mall in Wayne, New Jersey on
Wednesday, December 22nd.
Resource Coordinator Dana Fried and Assistant Director Barbara Rall at the NJ
ARCH table

Path to Adoption Specialist Melissa Goring at
the Children's Aid and Family Services table

12/16/04
Children's Aid and Family Services, Inc. Receives the
"Wendy's Wonderful
Kids" Grant From the Dave Thomas Foundation
A new grant from the Dave Thomas Foundation
aimed at facilitating permanency plans
who are currently in care was awarded to Children's Aid and Family Services,
Inc.
A "recruitment adoption specialist" is needed to work with children and families
to
aid in placement permanency. For more information, go to the Children's
Aid and Family
Services website: www.cafsnj.org
12/16/04
Louis Wise Services' Records to be Maintained by
Spence-Chapin
The now defunct adoption agency, Louis Wise
Services, has come to an agreement with
Spence-Chapin to keep over 80 years worth of adoption records maintained and
accessible. All clients whose lives have been affected by Louis Wise will
continue to
have limited access to their records now that the well-known and established
Spence-
Chapin has agreed to house the records in their Manhattan office. To see
the article by
Adam Dickter about this process, click
here.
12/9/04
Star Ledger Article: Bill Widening Access to Birth Records
Clears Senate
By: Susan Livio
"Adults adopted as children, who want
to know their family history, took a step closer to
obtaining the right to obtain their original birth certificates under a bill the
Senate
approved yesterday"
To view the entire article, click
here.
12/9/04
Council On Adoptable Children Publishes Report-
Forging Connections: Challenges and Opportunities for Older Caregivers
Raising Children
This extensive report
covers many of the issues facing older caregivers today. It
includes current trends, helpful advice and a glossary. To view this
report, click here.
12/9/04
Helpful Links to Help Reduce Holiday Stress
The holidays are always a fun time of year, but they can be
sources of stress for lots of
folks. Below are some links to articles and other web links that can help
you reduce
holiday stress:
http://www.anxietysupport.org/cc11menu.htm
http://childparenting.about.com/cs/holidays/a/holidayplan.htm
http://www.keepkidshealthy.com/welcome/holiday_stress.html
http://betterkidcare.psu.edu/FTWT/ftwt0211Nov.pdf
12/9/04
Indianapolis Star Article: One Family Two Worlds
This interesting article in international
adoption provides great strategies and resources
for bridging cultural gaps in bi-, or multi-racial adoptive families. It
includes personal
stories from families and other resources such as web sites. To view the
article,
click here.
11/17/04
NJ ARCH Posts Special Chat Room Transcript Page
The NJ ARCH Chat Room occasionally hosts special guest
speakers on specific
adoption topics. The transcripts for these special chats are available for
your viewing
in case you miss the chat. To see these transcripts, please click
here.
11/16/04
President Bush Officially Proclaims November as National
Adoption Month
In a press release, President Bush signed an
official proclamation claiming November as
National Adoption Month. To read the short press release supporting
adoption
recognition, click
here.
11/16/04
Evan B. Donaldson Foundation Reports on Adoption
Disruption
The Evan B. Donaldson Foundation has
submitted a press release and executive summary
of their report "What's Working for Children: A Policy Study of Adoption
Stability and
Termination" This November 2004 report comments on the status of adoption
in the U.S. as
well as trends in adoption stability - important information for anyone
interested in adoption
issues.
Included below are the Press Release, Executive Summary and the Full Report.
To see any of these documents, click
on one of the links below:
Press Release:
Executive Summary:
Full Report:

11/10/04
Reuters Report: Surgeon General Warns Individuals to Track
Family Medical
History
This brief report announces that the Surgeon
General of the U.S. has been urging folks to
track their own family's medical history as a general precaution.
Officials have created a
computer-based program that helps people track and organize their family's
medical
history. For more information, click
here.
11/9/04
Get Ready for "A Home for the Holidays" sponsored by the Dave Thomas
Foundation!
It's that time of year again! The Dave
Thomas Foundation for Adoption is holding
their annual event in order to raise awareness about adoption and meet the needs
of children in waiting.
To find out more, click here:

11/8/04
National Adoption Day: "Debunking the Myths - The Facts
About Foster Care
Adoption"
In this brief piece on the National Adoption
Day website, there are eight common myths
about foster care adoption and their truth counterparts. The list is
important for anyone
interested in, or involved with foster care adoption. To see the list,
click
here.
11/4/04
The New NJ ARCH Newsletter is now available!
To see the Fall 2004 newsletter, click
here.
11/1/04
CPFA "Let's Talk Adoption"
Conference
Concerned Person's For Adoption is holding their
annual "Let's Talk Adoption"
Conference November 6, 2004. This training will include talks from
adoption professionals
and a variety of interactive workshops with Continuing Educational Credit Hours
available.
For more information about this training conference, please click
here.
You will need Acrobat Reader to view this document.
If you do not have Acrobat Reader,
you can download it free by going to:
http://www.adobe.com/products/acrobat/readstep2.html
10/28/04
Adoption.com Article: Support Needed to Make Adoption
Affordable
The Adoption Tax Relief Guarantee Act is
approaching expiration and will be put to a vote
in the U.S. Senate. Adoption.com is urging people to voice their support
to renew this Act
as it helps keep adoption costs down. To see the complete article, click
here.
10/12/04
Volunteer Expo Report
NJ ARCH had an outreach table at the
Volunteer Expo at the Livingston Mall on
Monday, October 11. Shannon Prescott, CAFS Outreach Worker and Natalie
Hamilton,
NJ ARCH Warm Line Worker manned the table for the day. In all, 5 people
expressed their
interest in doing volunteer work for CAFS and/or NJ ARCH. Several people
requested to
be put on the NJ ARCH Newsletter mailing list. Dozens of people were given
fliers,
newsletters, and other information about NJ ARCH and its services.

10/8/04
Center for Adoption Research Article: "A Return to
Orphanages?"
The Center for Adoption Research has posted
an article on their web site that discusses
what appears to be a new trend in establishing child care institutions that
greatly
resemble "orphanages." The article discusses the history of orphanages,
the ebb
and flow of their existence, the new proposals for reinstating orphanages, and
the
political and social implications of these changes. To see this article in
its entirety,
please click
here.
9/30/04
Association for Children of New Jersey (ACNJ) Releases
"City Kids Count
New Jersey: Summary"
ACNJ has completed an extensive research and
reporting study of the status of
children in New Jersey living in cities. The report covers areas such as;
demographics,
poverty, health, abuse and neglect, early care and education, and school-aged
children.
ACNJ discusses the plight of young people in New Jersey's cities, as well as
recounting the setbacks and improvements that have been made. If you would
like to
view the complete report, please click
here.
9/30/04
U.S. Census Bureau Completes First-Ever Profile of Adopted
Children
In a recent study, the U.S. Census Bureau
completed a nation-wide study in order to
profile exactly "who's who" among adopted children in America. General,
easily
understood statistics and other broad relationships and conditions of adopted
children are included. For a look at the essay and the included tables and
statistics,
please click
here.
9/29/04
Wall Street Journal Article Cites Need for Adoptive
Parents in the U.S.
This article in the Wall Street Journal gives an
account of a new phenomenon in the U.S.
in that there is now a growing need for adoptive parents as there are more
children who
need homes than there are parents available. This growing need has made
"open"
adoptions more common. To view the complete article, click
here.
9/29/04
Important Facts Affecting Adoption: American Adoption
Congress Spreads
the Awareness of Upcoming November National Adoption Month
The American Adoption Congress is distributing
fliers reminding folks about November
2004...National Adoption Month. Included in their flier are the following
important
"adoption facts:"
- Only six states in America provide original birth records to adult
adopted persons:
Alaska,
Kansas, Tennessee, Delaware, Alabama and Oregon.
- Adopted people deserve the choice to have full
knowledge of the biological
heritage, the same as non-adopted persons do.
- Access to original birth/adoption records is about "rights," while
reunions are about
relationships. Having one does not guarantee, nor substitute
for, the other.
- Adoption usually involves loss for all thee members of the adoption
triad: the
adopted child loses connection to the biological family; the birth
parents lose the
child they conceived; and the adoptive parents lose their ability
to create their own
genetic lineage.
- Adoption can be a very sensitive topic. While adoptions are
generally a joyous
experience for most families, it can also invoke emotional pain for
some people,
due to overwhelming emotions of loss, grief, injustice, anger or
other suffering.
No one should expect everyone else to feel exactly as they do about
adoption and
its related issues. Listen with an open heart and mind, and
educate yourself about
adoption issues that affect you and the people you care about.
9/23/04
The Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute Posts New E-Newsletter
This year's Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Newsletter is
now available online! This issue
includes articles, studies, and statistics covering the following categories:
laws, policies,
and practice, research, news, resources and an Institute update.
Some interesting
articles include information about New Jersey's child welfare law reforms, risks
to foster
children who AWOL, and the 50-year anniversary of Korean international adoption.
To view the August 2004 newsletter online, click
here.
To request a free subscription to future Evan B.
Donaldson Newsletters, click
here.
9/16/04
National Adoption Month
Coming Soon!
The National Adoption Information Clearinghouse has
adoption events planned for
November - National Adoption Month. NAIC has collaborated with AdoptUSKids
to coordinate these events and supply information about them. For more
information
please go to:
http://naic.acf.hhs.gov/general/adoptmonth/index.cfm
9/13/04
State of New Jersey - Department of Human Services Announces
Reform Agenda in Child Welfare
The Department of Human Services in New Jersey has
issued a plan titled:
"A New Beginning: The Future of Child Welfare in New Jersey." This short
document
outlines the State's key reform agendas for child welfare. To view this
list, please click
here.
8/30/04
Los
Angeles Times Article: Chasing Glimpses of a Past
By: Barbara Demick,
Times Staff Writer
An article in the LA Times conveys the growing, sometimes joyous, and sometimes
difficult trend of search and reunions among South Korean adoptees in the United
States. With some statistics, some poignant quotes, and interesting
stories,
Demick provides a peek into the lives of South Korean adoptees - a group
representing the largest number of foreign born adoptees in the U.S. To
request a
copy of this article, please click here.
8/12/04
The New NJ ARCH Newsletter is Now Available !
This issue contains
important information about adoption, foster care, book reviews,
question and answer by an adoption expert, a featured pre-adoptive child and
much
more.
If you would like to view or download the NJ ARCH Newsletter online,
please click here.
For a free paper-copy of the NJ ARCH Newsletter,
please submit a request to our
warmline @ warmline@njarch.org or call
us at 1.877.4ARCHNJ.
8/06/04
Free On-Line Adoption Courses
Available Through
Adoption Learning Partners
For a limited time, Adoption Learning Partners and NJ ARCH
are working together to offer
FREE on-line courses that focus on Adoption-related issues. These courses
include:
- Journey of Attachment
- With Eyes Wide Open: A Preparation Guide to
International Adoption
- Let's Talk Adoption: A Lifetime of Family Conversations
- Understanding the Adoption Tax Credit
- Conspicuous Families: A Bronze Metal Winner in
Excellence in E-learning, 2002.
Most of these courses are free through Adoption Learning
Partners.
The "With Eyes Wide Open" course requires a pre-payment. If you would like to
take this
course, please contact the NJ ARCH and we will make pre-payment arrangements.
The other courses are FREE for a limited time. If you
would like to receive a
"Certificate of Completion", contact NJ ARCH and we will pay the $25.00
certificate fee.
At the start of each course, please type: "NJ ARCH" as
the referral source.
Time is limited; to take advantage of this free course
offering, log onto Adoption
Learning Partners at
http://www.adoptionlearningpartners.org/
Please note: Those with dial-up may have difficulty
downloading the courses.
If you only have dial-up available, de-activate the "audio" option at the start
of
each course and try logging on during "off-peak" hours - early morning and late
night.
We recommend you locate a PC with high-speed connectivity (e.g.: a library, etc.)
to take full advantage of this training.
Questions? Contact the Warm Line at 877-4ARCHNJ.
7/27/04
More U.S. Birth Mothers Placing Children with Canadian Families
(Site
referenced with permission from author)
An article by Gabrielle Glaser from the Oregonian newspaper
reports on a growing trend
among U.S. birth mothers opting to place their infants with Canadian families.
According to the article, this is especially true among African American birth
mothers who
perceive that the more liberal and tolerant social climate in Canada will
provide a more
comfortable life for their children. The article also outlines the irony
of a steadily growing
number of U.S. families adopting children from overseas, while many U.S. born
children
are being placed outside of the U.S. for adoption. To view the complete
article please
click on the link:
http://e-magazine.adoption.com/articles/505/-more-us-birth-mothers-choose-to-place-their-infants-with-canadian-families.php
7/27/04
Adoptive Families Magazine:
Challenges in Opening Birth Certificate
Records to Adoptees
Currently, only five states in the U.S. have allowed adoptees complete access to
their birth
certificate records. This article outlines the challenges adoptees and
their families are
confronting in the face of these social and legal changes. To read this article
and to have
access to other links related to open adoption and birth records, please click
on the link:
http://www.adoptivefamilies.com/articles.php?aid=957
7/27/04
Children's Rights and AdoptUSKids Planning a Guide to Match
Children With Prospective Families
The Children's
Rights Organization has collaborated with AdoptUSKids in writing a guide
to help match children with families. Sarah Gerstenzang at Children's
Rights is urging
folks to pass along the following message:
"Children's Rights, under a contract with the Collaboration to AdoptUSKids,
is writing a guide on the
process of matching children with prospective adoptive families. A
valuable part of the information gathering
process will be telephone conference calls with adoptive parents (of non-infants
from the U. S. foster
care system), prospective adoptive parents (of non-infants from the U. S. foster
care system), youth or
young adults who have been adopted from foster care (and were old enough to
remember the adoption
process), and adoption professionals. I am seeking participants for the
adoptive parent, prospective adoptive
parent and youth telephone conference calls - these will be done as three
separate groups. The telephone
conference calls will hopefully be scheduled for the month of July and will take
approximately two hours.
Participants will be given a toll free telephone number. If you have an
interest in participating, please
contact Sarah Gerstenzang at
Sgerstenzang@childrensrights.org or (212) 683-2210 x301. Please
feel
free to forward this email to others who might be interested!"
7/6/04
NJ ARCH Publishes a New "How to Adopt" Handbook
The NJ ARCH Handbook: "How to Adopt in New
Jersey: A Roadmap to Family Building"
is now available in both electronic and hard-copy. This concise but
comprehensive
handbook walks you through the various stages of adoption from beginning to end.
Topics include: definition of adoption, decision-making about adoption, kinds of
adoption, selecting an agency, the home study process, surviving the wait, post-
placement issues, and long term expectations. This is a valuable tool for
anyone
in New Jersey planning to adopt.
To view and print an electronic, PDF version of this handbook, please click
here.
If you would like to request a
hard-copy of this handbook, please contact the
NJ ARCH Warm Line at 1.877.4ARCHNJ (1.877.427.2465) or
email us at warmline@njarch.org. Please
include your name, address and phone
number and we gladly send you a copy of the handbook.
7/6/04
NJ ARCH Library Update
As part of our effort to provide resources
and services to meet the needs of New Jersey's
adoption community, the NJ ARCH Library continues to grow. In recent
months many new
articles have been added to our list
in a number of categories including,
"General Adoption," "Special Needs," and "Adoption Support and Advice."
Click on the
link to our articles page to see the growing list.
The NJ ARCH Library has also grown by increasing its available books through
donations
and purchases. In the coming weeks, updated library lists will be
available with book reviews
as these books can be borrowed by contacting our
Warm Line.
7/6/04
Finding Joy In Your Children
Adoption.com has a great new article by
Gary Direnfeld, MSW, RSW, titled
"Finding Joy in Your Children." This short article reminds all parents the
value and
importance of remembering the good things about kids, and how happy they can
make you. With a sympathetic voice, Mr. Direnfeld offers suggestions on
how to keep
a positive attitude for you and for your children, even in the face of tough
times. For a look
at the article online, click
here.
7/6/04
National Campaign Urges Americans to Adopt
The U.S. Department of Health and Human
Services has announced their partnership with
the Collaboration to AdoptUSKids
in developing a public education campaign to
raise
adoption awareness. The Department cites that there are over 500,000
children in the U.S.
foster care system, with over 129,000 waiting to be adopted. To learn more
about this
campaign, please click
here.
7/6/04
International Adoption Statistics
According to newly released
U.S. State Department figures, the number of orphans
granted immigrant visas has increased each year since 1992. Last year,
21,616 visas
were awarded, up 1,517 from 2002.
China was the source of most U.S. adoption last year, sending almost 7,000
children to
the United States. China, Russia, Guatemala, and South Korea accounted for
about
three-quarters of last year's adoptions.
Changes made by the China Center of Adoption Affairs have kept the country at
the top
of international adoption. In 2003, the center abolished quotas that were
implemented to
limit the number of children adopted internationally.
6/21/04
Feature article in The Parent Paper:
Celebrations for adopted children
Recognizing the potentially
difficult topic of birthdays for adopted children and connections
between birth parents, adoptive parents and adoptive children, the Parent
Paper has
published an article with advice from a few adoption professionals. This
article has
contributions from NJ ARCH's own Barbara Rall and Kathy Russo. To download or
view
this great article, please click
here.
6/7/04
Embracing Family Offers Various Adoption
Workshops
The Embracing Family Agency
in Marlton, New Jersey has a variety of adoption-related
workshops available for anyone interested in adoption issues. Some of the
workshop
topics include: personal biases, influences of "self," power of oppression on
relationships,
family of origin influences, gossip, responding vs. reacting, attachment,
addiction, blended
families, family life cycles, grieving, parenthood, team building, behavior
management and
more. If you would like more detail or wish to get registration
information please click
here.
6/3/04
NY Times Article Touts New York's
Family-to-Family Foster Care Model
The New York Times has
published an article highlighting the benefits of New York City's
"Family-to-Family" foster care model. This model takes an active approach
to nurturing
open relationships between foster parents and birth parents. The program
has been in
effect for six years with over 28,000 participating families. The results
have generally been
successful in that foster parents often remain a source of continuing support
and
encouragement to birth families irrespective of reunion possibilities. To
see the complete
article please click
here.
5/26/04
Adoption Lawsuit May Force Change at Gladney
A staff writer from Star Telegram.com has
reported that The Gladney Center for Adoption
in Florida is involved in a law suit for withholding pertinent information about
an adopted
child's birth family from the child's adoptive parents. Doctors and the
adoptive parents
argue that the withheld information prevented the family from providing the
right care for
the adopted child's emotional and psychological needs. The article and the
suit highlight
an ongoing and sensitive topic in the adoption world - that of open records and
the rights
of birth families, adoptive parents, and adoptive children. This is an
important issue that
deserves attention from anyone connected to adoption.
If you would like to view the complete article, please click
here.
5/26/04
Open Records Bill Introduced to NJ Senate
The New Jersey Senate is reviewing an open
records bill for adoption. Below is a link
to view this bill. People are encouraged to write to their legislators if
they have any
opinions or views they wish to share, pro or con, about the bill.
To view the bill, click
here.
5/3/04
AdoptUSKids Announces Parent Support Group
Mini-grants
Grants are worth $4,000
each. Applications must be received by July 1, 2004 to be
eligible. Awards will be announced late August or early September with
projects
beginning October 1, 2004. Groups who received grants in the previous
funding
cycle are not eligible. For more information, contact Sylvia R. Franzmeier
at
281.353.7459 or at sylvia@airmail.net
For more information go to the AdoptUSKids website by
clicking below:

4/26/04
U.S. Department of Health and Human Services
Posts Data for Child and
Adolescent Well-Being
The Administration for
Children and Families has posted a report on child safety and well
being in the United States. This executive summary highlights the status
of children waiting to
be adopted including demographic information and caregiver data. The full
research report is
also available. To view the executive summary, please click on the link
below.
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/opre/
4/15/04
Annual Heritage Festival Hosted by CPFA
CPFA (Concerned Persons For Adoption) is hosting
their annual heritage
festival on
Saturday, April 24th from 12:00 pm - 3:00 pm. It will be held at the First
Presbyterian
Church in Whippany, NJ; 494 Route 10 West at Whippany Road. This event
focuses
on adoptive families, and will include food, music, and dance from countries
around
the world. For more information and to sign up go to:
http://www.cpfanj.org
4/13/04
The Adoption Institute Newsletter: April 2004
The Adoption Institute has
posted its electronic newsletter for 2004! This issue
contains articles on current adoption laws and policies, adoption research,
other news,
and a list of adoption resources. To view this newsletter online, click on
the link below:
http://www.adoptioninstitute.org/whowe/newsletter_april03.html
If you would like to submit a request for a paper copy of
this newsletter from the
Adoption Institute, click on the link below:
http://www.adoptioninstitute.org/mail.html
4/13/04
Congressional Foster Youth Internship Program
The FYI Program raises
awareness about children in foster care, and specifically, the
126,000 available for adoption. Members of Congress have formed a
coalition to
aid children in the foster care system. There is an internship program
available to
former foster youth who are now enrolled in college or graduate school who would
like to intern in congressional offices. For more information, go to:
www.ccainstitute.org
4/6/04
Mississippi State University Conducts Survey of
Foster Parents and Kids
Mississippi State
University is conducting a national survey of foster parents and kids.
The purpose of the survey is to assist in making recommendations to improve
services
for foster and adoptive families including RAD. If you would like to
participate in this
survey, go to:
www.msstate.edu/courses/mag10/survey
3/30/04
NJ ARCH Publishes an Adoption Handbook!
NJ ARCH has published a new
adoption handbook titled, "Now That You're a Family:
A Guide to Adoption Issues and Services." This useful 34-page booklet
includes
valuable information for adoptive families on subjects including life-long
adoption
issues, developmental concerns, birth children, services and resources, and
more.
This handbook is available free of charge online or in a hard copy format.
To view this handbook online, click here:

If you would prefer a printed hard copy, you may
request one from our Warm Line at:
warmline@njarch.org
3/29/04
Foster and Adoptive Family Services Offers
Scholarships
FAFS (Foster and Adoptive Family
Services) offers a series of
privately funded academic
scholarships and opportunity grants
for foster and adopted youth. These awards are in
place to assist foster and
adopted
youth in obtaining a higher education or in moving into
the next phase of their
lives.
The funding for these awards is made possible through the
generosity of
dedicated
benefactors and members.
To see more detailed information about these
scholarships, go to:
http://www.fafsonline.org/Scholarship.html
3/29/04
Included 'Fact' not Necessarily Useful
Information
The Evan B. Donaldson Director has posted an article calling attention to a
problem often
found in the world of adoption. Adam Pertman warns that newspapers and
magazine
articles frequently make sweeping assumptions and untrue conclusions about
families
and adoption issues, reminding people to be diligent about getting the right
information.
To see a copy of the article, please click here:

3/1/04
NJ ARCH posts its latest Newsletter
Want to see what's been going on at NJ ARCH?
Want to get some of the latest adoption-
related information? Check out the new NJ ARCH Newsletter available
online.
To see the full version of the newsletter, please click here:
If you would prefer a printed copy of the
newsletter, please contact the NJ ARCH
Warm Line at 1.877.4ARCHNJ or email us at
warmline@njarch.org
2/23/04
Federal Authorities Seize Birth Certificates in
Hudson County
A report by John Martins of
The Jersey Journal, during the week of February 16, 2004,
federal officials seized birth certificates in a county office, located in
Jersey City, New
Jersey. The officials also interviewed some of the staff at the office.
Records dating back
to 1902 were removed. Due to the nature of the investigation, authorities
did not disclose
the reason for the search. For more information on this story and how to
obtain vital
records, go to the url listed below:
http://www.nj.com/news/jjournal/index.ssf?/base/news-2/1077271894121791.xml
2/23/04
Angel School (Adoptee's Network for Good
Education and Leadership):
Korean Language Heritage Program
This course offered by the
New York Mission House is designed to teach Korean language
and culture/heritage and is specifically geared for adopted children. The
child must be in
Kindergarten or a higher grade level. Interested parents and siblings may
also attend.
Schedule: March 13 to June 19, 2004 (except April 10 and May 29).
Saturday mornings
from 10:00 am to 12:30 pm.
Location: 78 Mt. Vernon St. Ridgefield Park, New Jersey
Tuition: $175 per person, per semester - includes text and
materials
$125 for second family member, $100 for third, $50 for parents to participate in
cultural activity portion
Registration: $10 registration fee applied to tuition cost
Send form to: NJ Korean Language and Heritage Class, 1222 Anderson Ave.
Fort Lee, NJ 07024
OR register at the Opening Day Event on March 13, 2004
Download the registration application form here:

Contact:
angelnymission@hotmail.com for more details and information
2/9/04
Wings of Dove: Russian Orphans Coming to New
Jersey
The Wings of Dove non-profit organization is coordinating a two-week summer
program
for Russian orphans ages 6 and up. Wings of Dove seeks 6 families
interested in adoption
to be a part of this program. For more information, contact Amy Martinsen
at 732-229-0452.
The Russian orphanages that have coordinated with Wings of Dove are in
desperate
need of blankets. If you have any blankets you would like to donate,
contact Amy Martinsen
at 732-229-0452. These blankets will be hand-delivered to Russian children
in need. The
best sizes would be a crib blanket up to a twin size.
2/2/04
The Importance of your
Child’s Heritage
Have you adopted a child from a
foreign country?
Do you feel that once your child
comes home they are now “American”? They may indeed become “Americanized”
with time, but they still do have their birth country, their birth family’s
history and
heritage.
It’s important to your child as well as your
family to integrate portions of your
child’s ethnic
heritage into your family life. Research and attend events that expose
your child and family to that culture. Whether it’s a 3-hour festival, a weekend
at a
Heritage Camp or a week’s visit
to your child’s country of origin, integrate that
culture into yours. Remember, once you adopt a child from another country, your
family becomes part of that culture.
A special thought:
If you are about to travel to adopt a child
from another country, pick up 18 little
items from your child’s country. Give a toy or item to your child for each
birthday; what a wonderful way to remember and celebrate
their
roots!
Let us assist you in finding a cultural event:
visit the events page of the NJ ARCH
website to see the listing of events, Heritage Camps and even “Motherland
Tours”.
Celebrate your child’s history! Celebrate it as part of your family!
1/16/04
A Home for the Holidays is a huge success!
The televised, nationally broadcast, adoption event was
successful in raising adoption
awareness. In response to the show, 26 people in New Jersey contacted NJ
ARCH
expressing their interest in adopting waiting children. The NJ ARCH Warm
Line Staff
referred all 26 callers to appropriate adoption services in their area.
Thanks to all the
families and others who showed their support.