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101 Favorite Play Therapy Techniques

 

 Kaduson, Heidi

 

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Adoptees Come of Age

Living Within Two Families

Nydam, Ronald J.

 

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Describes distinct emotional & spiritual challenges & emphasizes importance of ongoing issues of adoption and relinquishment.

 

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Adopting and Advocating for the Special Needs Child

A Guide for parents and Professionals

Babb, Anne

 

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Adopting a Toddler

What Size Shoes Does She Wear?

Hoppenhauer, Denise Harris

2002

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All inclusive book covering all aspects of adopting and raising a toddler. Also covers naming your child, baby showers, and developmental milestones. Special section for international adoption and resources.

 

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Adopting in America

How to Adopt Within One Year

Hicks, Randall B.

1999

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Comprehensive outline and description of all possible avenues to adopting a child, including foster parent adoption. Gives practical help to navigate independent adoption, explains role of attorneys, working with birth parents, legal issues. Sample documents.

 

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Adopting the Older Child

 

 Jewett, Claudia

1978

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Full of practical wisdom and not outdated. Guides adoption caseworkers and prospective parents as they engage in the home study and placement process. Emphasizes preparation of child, involving foster parent, lifebooks, and strategies for problem behaviors.

 

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Adoption

Current Issues and Trends

Sachdev, Paul

 

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Adoption      

 

 Currie, Stephen

1997

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A commentary on the status of adoption in the 90s. Gives a brief history of the last 150 years and highlights of the field today, with current court decisions, the rights of fathers, closed records, etc.

 

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Adoption & Disruption

Rates , Risks, and Responses

Barth, Richard

 

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Adoption & Ethics Vol.1

 

Freundlich, Madelyn

 

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Adoption & Prenatal Alcohol & Drug Expos

Research, Policy, and Practice

Barth, R.; Freundlich, M.; Brodzinski, D.

 

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Book addresses many important issues re adoption & substance exposure in utero, including impact on children's early well being as well as on long term development. Illustrates the remedial effects of a positive postnatal environment

 

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Adoption and Foster Care

 

 Gay, Kathlyn

1990

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Book is dated, but for someone trying to understand adoption and for care today, it is an excellent description of the evolution of the system, the issues and problems that continue to plague child welfare efforts. B and W photos. Proper emphasis on permanency.

 

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Adoption and Healing

 

NZAEHT

 

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Adoption and the Jewish Family

Contemporary Perpsective

Rosenberg, Shelley Kapnek

 

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Adoption and the Schools

Resources for Parents and Teachers

Wood, Lansing

 2001

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TABLE OF CONTENTS: I Crib Notes/Adoption 101 2 Tot to Teen/Developmental Perspectives 3 "Can We Talk?" Parent-Teacher Communication
4 "I Can't Do It!" Problematic Assignments, Activities, and Occasions 5 In the Spotlight/Presentations for Schools and Classrooms
6 "Is That Your Mom?" Transcultural Considerations 7 "Help!" Special Educational Challenges 8 Better Late Than Never/The Older Child Enters School
9 Experts Speak/Personal Reflections on Adoption 10 "More, Please!" Additional Resource
NOTE: This book is a veritable plethora of information concerning adoption.

 

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Adoption Crisis

The Truth Behind Adoption and Foster Care

McKelvey, Carole A.

1994

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The author points out the many failures of the nation's foster care and adoption systems, and the consequent poor results for children in these systems. More complaints than solutions offered.

 

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Adoption Guide (2003-2004)

Practical Information for Successful Adoption

Klatzkin, Amy

2003

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Whether you're just beginning or considering a 2nd adoption, this up-to-date source of national listings for adoption attorneys, agency programs, and parent support groups, as well as recent trends in law etc. From publishers of Adoptive Families magazine.

 

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Adoption is a Family Affair

What Relatives and Friends Must Know

Johnston, Patricia Irwin

2001

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In a conversational tone, this book provides a wealth of information about the hows and whys of adoption to the relatives and friends of adoptive families. In no time at all, they will be experts and real supporters of adoption.

 

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Adoption Life Cycle, The

The Children and Their Families Through the Years

Rosenberg, Elinor

 

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Adoption Nation          

How the Adoption Revolution is Transforming America

Pertman, Adam

2000

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A chat about adoption in today's world, distinguishing it from the secretive environment of the unwed mother of yesterday. Good sections on the waiting children in U.S. foster care, the changing types of adoptive parents, and the global look of adoption.

 

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Adoption: Opposing Viewpoints

 

 Espejo, Roman

2002

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A series of scholarly essays written by various experts in the field of adoption. Each essay proposes a particular viewpoint, eg. "The Internet should be used to recruit families", while the essay following it stresses the opposite.  A great learning tool

 

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Adoption Reader, The

Birth Mothers, Adoptive Mothers and Adopted Daughters Tell Their Stories

\Wadia-Ells, Susan

 

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The Adoption Reader is a helpful hopeful and vital collection about growth and self understanding and a must read book anyone has been touched by the adoption experience.

 

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Adoption Wisdom

A Guide to the Issues and Feelings of Adoption

Russell, Marlou

1996

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Book examines the many issues of adoption.  Its purpose is to prepare those who are considering adoption; to validate the feelings of adoptive parents, birth parents, and adoptees; and to educate people about the lifelong impact of adoption.

 

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An Educator's Guide to Adoption

 

Institute For Adoption Information Inc.

 1999

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TEACHERS! THIS GUIDE: 1. Increases your understanding of how families are built by adoption. 2. Gives you tools to deal with awkward situations when questions are asked about adoption. 3. Provides research on adoptees' success in school and in life. 4. Helps you play an important role in increasing the acceptance of all families. 5. Provides resources for integrating these lessons into your normal curriculum. 6. Suggests positive adoption language that enhances the acceptance of adoption.

 

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Are Those Kids Yours?

American Families with Children from Other Countries

Register, Cheri

 

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Well written & researched, author uses her own experience and those of other families to explore international adoption, why it has become so prevalent, how children adjust, how racial issues are handled, & how children can stay in touch with their roots.

 

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Being Adopted

The Lifelong Search for Self

Brodzinski, D.,Schecter,M., Marantz, R.

1992

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A scholarly yet very readable book that uses the voices of adoptees to trace how adoption is experienced at each stage of development from infancy to late adulthood. Covers the important topics of self esteem, identity achievement, and intimacy.

 

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Beyond the Babylift

A Story of an Adoption

Purdy, Pamela Chatterton

 

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Blending of Foster & Adopted Children into the Family, The

 

Wagner, Heather

 

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Explores issues facing families confronting the challenges created by adoption and foster care, & identifies steps members of blended families can take to ensure that they have a strong foundation.

 

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Breastfeeding the Adopted Baby

 

 Peterson, Debra Stewart

1994

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Nursing a baby is a natural process and the first choice for many mothers. Without a pregnancy, more preparation is needed to breastfeed. Book gives all the practical information and emotional support that an adoptive mother needs to make her decision.

 

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Case for Transracial Adoption, The

 

Rita, Simon J.

 

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Rita Simon and her collaborators have been the leading empirical investigators of transracial adoption over the past quarter century. The Case for Transracial Adoption is a summary and continuation of that excellent work.

 

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Children Can't Wait

 

CWLA Press

 

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Children's Adjustment to Adoption

Developmental & Clinical Issues 

Brodzinsky, David

 

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A significant contribution to understanding the effects of adoption, Children's Adjustment to Adoption presents major issues that affect both the process and outcome of adoption for children and their parents.

 

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Child's Journey Through Placement, A

 

Fahlberg, Vera

 

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A must-have, very readable professional book about children: their stages of development, their bonding & attachment, their grief upon separation. Guide to minimize trauma as children move from foster to adoptive home. Great sections on managing behaviors.

 

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Clinical and Practice Issues in Adoption

Bridging the Gap Between Adoptee Placed as Infants and as Older Children

Gorza, Victor & Rosenberg, Karen F.

 

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Experts representing practitioners, researchers, advocates, and triad members compare adoptees placed as infants and adoptees placed as older children.

 

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Clinical Practice In Adoption

Psychology Practitioner

Winkler, Robin

 

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The author provide frameworks and skills necessary in work involving any client who is affected by adoption including adoptees adoptive parents birth parent and the entire extended adoptive family.

 

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Complete Adoption Book, The

Everything You need to Know to Adopt a Child

Beauvais-Godwin, L.

2000

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The authors, adoption professionals and the parents of 2 adopted daughters, have created a most comprehensive resource book. Every imaginable topic: the decision to adopt, the available avenues, the finances and legalities, etc. covered in surprising depth.

 

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Creative Arts Therapies Approaches in adoption and foster care

Contemporary Strategies for working with individuals and families

Betts, Donna J.

 

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Designing Rituals of Adoption for the Religious and Secular Community

 

 Mason, Mary

2002

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Guide for designing Welcoming ceremonies, Baptisms, Naming ceremonies, Entrustment ceremonies, Adoption anniversaries and finalizations. Contains Jewish, Christian (Eng and Span), and secular traditions and ceremonies. Suggested readings, prayers, music, etc.

 

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Encyclopedia of Adoption, The

Facts on File Library of Health & Living

Adamec, Christine

 

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This book provides a complete, single volume reference to social, legal, economic, psychological and political issues surrounding the adoption experience and it's unique terminology.

 

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Essential Adoption Handbook, The

 

 Alexander-Roberts, C.

1996

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A small encyclopedia explaining adoption alternatives in the 90's. Excellent, in-depth, and practical chapters on Adoptive Parent support groups, on the home study, on preparing a couple resume and birth mother letter. Lots of samples given.

 

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Facilitating Developmental Attachment

The Road to Emotional Recovery & Behavioral Change in Foster & Adopted Children

Hughes, Daniel A.

 

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Attachment disordered children & their families experience problems which most therapies fail to ameliorate. Dr. Hughes provides a comprehensive understanding of the issues & of the types of interventions that succeed in resolving them.

 

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Family of Adoption, The

 

Pavao, Joyce Maguire

 

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Identifies how adoption issues play out at every step along the way, from the birth parent's situation & decision, to the adoptive parent's motivation, to the child's adaptation at each step. Appears technical, but is actually a gem of a book.

 

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Family Matters

Secrecy and Disclosure in the History of Adoption

Carp, E. Wayne

1998

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Scholarly history of adoption in America, starting prior to the existence of adoption records, prior to adoption information being held secret, into the secrecy age, the emergence of adoption rights movement, and the era of more openness. Impressive bibliography.

 

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Getting Ready for Adoption

 

 McCoy, Theresa L.

1993

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Excellent workbook for adoption caseworkers to use with school age kids on their way to an adoption plan. It covers important questions a child has about what adoption might be like. A "fill in", "participate" together book for expressing hopes and worries.

 

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Growing Up Adopted

A Portrait of Adolescents & Their Families

Benson,P., Sharma,A.,& Roehlkepartain, E.

 

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The Largest Study Ever of Adoptive Families in the United States

 

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Happy Adoption Day!

 

 McCutcheon, John

1996

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This bright, cheerful book shows the joy and love of new parents as they watch their child grow and as they mark each year with a Happy Adoption Day celebration. Heartwarming verses reassure adopted children that they are wanted, loved, and very special.

 

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How it Feels to be Adopted

 

 

 Krementz, Jill

2001

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A new and more attractive publication of an older book. Each chapter tells the adoption story of a school age or teen adoptee from that child's point of view. Complete with lots of b/w photos, the children tell us what it means to them to be adopted.

 

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Identity Formation in the Adopted Adolescent

The Delaware Family Study

Stein, Leslie M. & Hoopes, Janet L.

 

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This book follows 50 children during their crucial high school years. Essential reading for social workers--particularly adoption workers--clinical psychologists, child psychiatrists, researchers, grad students, adoptive parent organizations, adoptees.

 

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Is Adoption for You?

 

 Adamec, Christine

1998

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All the facts, issues, choices, definitions and concerns that would assist one who is considering adopting a child. Covers all types of adoption, replacing the myths with solid information. Appendix of state by state agencies, support groups, web sites.

 

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Keys to Parenting an Adopted Child

 

 Lancaster, Kathy

1996

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Excellent and affordable basic primer to be read by everyone thinking of adopting a child. Simple, clear, insightful on all the important issues of adoption: nature vs. nurture, self identity and self esteem, confidentiality, preparing for placement, etc.

 

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Launching a Baby's Adoption

 

Johnston, Patricia Irwin

 

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Excellent book for all prospective adopters & birth parents to help them prepare for the "big event" of adopting a baby. Covers the before, during, and after of the placement, with an emphasis on baby's needs & development. Special section for professionals.

 

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Let's Celebrate Adoption!

 

 Spaulding for Children

 

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A Guide for the Jewish Community

 

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Launching a Baby's Adoption

 

 Johnston, Patricia Irwin

1997

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Excellent book for all prospective adopters and birth parents to help them prepare for the "big event" of adopting a baby. Covers the before, during, and after of the placement, with an emphasis on baby's needs and development. Special section for professionals.

 

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Life Among the Giants

A Child's eye view of the grown up world

Young, Leontine

 

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This book explains what it is like to be a child, not from an adults point of view , but from the level of brand new inexperienced people to whom the grown up world is confusing and frightening.

 

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Making Sense of Adoption

A Parent's Guide

Melina, Lois R.

 

1989

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A book of possible conversations adoptive parents might have with their child at various ages and stages of development. Topics include adoption and family issues. No secrets in adoption, but ego enhancing ways to approach hard topics and Ms Melina is an expert.

 

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On the Frontiers of Adoption

A Study of Special Needs Adoptive Families

Nelson, Katherine A.

1985

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A study of 177 families who adopted 257 special needs children, ages 8+. Good summary of prior research studies and excellent sections on preparation of adoptive parents, parent satisfaction, adoption dissolution, and adoptive recruitment.

 

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Orphan Trains

The Story of Charles L Bruce and the Children He Saved

O'Connor, Stephen

2001

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Excellent and thorough description of one agency's mid 19th century effort to solve the problem of 250,000 abandoned NYC children. Details the process and the pros and cons of sending orphans to permanent homes out west. Explains how that agency works today.

 

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Our Own      

Adopting and Parenting the Older Child

Maskew, Trish

 

1999

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Children adopted as preschoolers or older come with histories and fully formed personalities and feelings about what they have lost. But they also bring happiness, laughter, and resilience. Stories of these adoptions, backed by research are enlightening.

 

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Outsiders Within

Writing on Transracial Adoption

Trenka, Jane Jeong

 2006

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"Explores transracial adoption from adopted adults' perspectives using memoir, reflective/analytical essays, poetry, artwork, film critique, psychology, sociology, critical race, reproductive justice, more. Discusses reasons children become available for international adoption (war, poverty, structural inequities), ramifications of the colorblind ideal for adoptee (dealing with racism, cultural alienation, emotional isolation)"---- Provided by publisher.

 

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Pandora's Hope

 

 Patridge, Penny Callan Partride

 

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A book of poems and prose about being adopted

 

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Parenting the Hurt Child

Helping Adoptive Families Heal and Grow

 

Keck, Gregory and Kupecky, Regina

2002

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Some adoptees come to their new home with hurts from the past that can affect an entire family. With time, patience, and informed parenting, the child can heal, grow and develop beyond what seems possible now. Wise book, helps parents preserve their sanity.

 

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Parent Effectiveness Training

 

Gordon, Thomas

 

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A tested new way to raise responsible children.

 

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Perspectives on a Grafted Tree

Thoughts for Those Touched by Adoption

Johnston, Patricai Irwin

1983

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Written by adoptees, birth parents, adoptive family members, adoption professionals and others, a beautiful and moving illustrated poetry collection about adoption. Describes the blend of gain and loss, happiness sand pain, which are all part of the adoption experience.

 

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Prediction in Child Development

A Longitudinal Study of Adoptive and Non adoptive Families

 

Hoopes, Janet

 

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Primal Wound,The

Understanding the Adopted Child

Verier, Nancy

 

1993

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A book that is forceful and courageous in the way it approaches the subject of adoption. Using pre and perinatal psychology, attachment, bonding, and loss, it illuminates the effects that separation from their birthmother has on adopted children.

 

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Psychology of Adoption, The

 

Brodzinsky, David & Schechter, Marshall

 

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In this book, theoretical, empirical, clinical, and social policy issues offer new insights into the problems facing parents of adopted children, and especially the children themselves.

 

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Raising Other Peoples Kids

 

 Felker, Evelyn

 

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A guide for adults struggling in the role of parents to a child not born to them.

 

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Realities of Adoption, The

 

Smith, Jerome

 

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Not a how-to book. Written by a social worker/professor & adoptive parent. Covers the history of adoption, the concept of entitlement, the "telling", open adoption, stages of development in the adopted child, transracial adoption. Lots of insights.

 

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Relatives Raising Children

An Overview of Kinship Care

Crumbley, Joseph

 

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The rapid growth of kinship care has caught many child welfare agencies off guard. This book gives professionals, agencies, institutions, communities, and organizations the information they need to develop and provide services to kinship caregivers, kinship families, children, and parents. The authors discuss common clinical issues, suggest intervention strategies, examine kinship care's legal implications, and offer policy and program recommendations.

 

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Separation Anxiety in Children and Adolescents

An Individualized Approach to Assessment and Treatment

Eisen, Andrew

 2005

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A treatment manual for intervention with separation and related anxiety disorders.

 

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Searching for a Piece of My Soul

How to Find a Missing Family Member or Loved One

Kling, Tammy L.

1998

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The perfect search resource because fully half of the book is devoted to listing thousands of specific resources (web sites, State access organizations, sample documents, etc.) a searcher can use to find someone. Good practical advice given as well.

 

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Strangers and Kin

The American Way of Adoption

Melosh, Barbara

2002

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Details the history of adoption from the early 20th century when childless adults confronted orphanages reluctant to entrust their wards to the kindness of strangers. Poignant stories from case records capture the loss and joy that characterizes adoption.

 

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Supporting an Adoption

 

 Holmes, Pat

1986

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Written for friends and relatives of adoptive families, booklet explains how they can be sensitive and helpful to the prospective or current adoptive family. Includes a one page summary of how they can be supportive.

 

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Swings Hanging From Every Tree

Daily Inspirations and Reflections For Foster/Adoptive Parents

Stone, Susan

2001

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Contains words of advice, validation, blessing, and grace that we all need on a daily basis. This sensitive collection of inspirational experiences is from and for foster and adoptive parents to bring them confidence, a sense of calm, and a smile.

 

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Telling the Truth to Your Adopted or Foster Child

Making Sense of the Past

Keefer, Betsey E. and  Schooler, Jayne E.

2000

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Three principles guide this book: the needs of the adopted child; honest communication; and love and hope for the child's future as a well adjusted person.  Book equips parents with tools needed for a lifetime of communication about the pain of child's life.

 

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There Are Babies to Adopt

A Resource Guide to Prospective Adoptive Parents

Adamec, C. A.

 

2002

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Up to date comprehensive guide for anyone embarking on journey to adopt a baby. Covers all practical topics of independent, agency, and international adoption, the home study process, open adoption, and finances. Special emphasis on internet use. Great Appendix

 

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Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew

 

Eldridge, Sherrie

 

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Easy-to-follow book written by an adult adoptee, expresses adopted children's often unspoken concerns & emotions. A clear, prescriptive guide to assist parents in understanding their adopted child's grief and loss issues.

 

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Weaving a Family

Untangling Race and Adoption

Rothman, Barbara Katz

 2005

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"A bold and passionate autobiographical account of a white mother raising her adopted black daughter. Rothman is a loving mother and also a fine sociologist. The blend of these gives us an honest and insightful book. A must read."


 


 

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