Books for professionals on
Emotional Issues

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Subtitle

Year

Nichols, M.; and

Lacher, D. and

May, J.

Parenting With Stories

Creating a Foundation of Attachment for Parenting your Child

2002

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Highlights the differences between parenting with attachment and parenting without it. Practical exercises included to provide parents with tools to use stories to form attachment with their child. Stages of development chart and references. Spiral bound.

 

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Subtitle

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Jewett-Jarratt, Claudia

Helping Children Cope with Separation And Loss

 

1994

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Contains compassionate, step-by-step guidance for any concerned adult who wants to help a child talk about, cope with, and recover from a loss. Offers specific techniques for helping a child overcome sadness, anger, and anxiety.

 

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Subtitle

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Johnston, Patricai Irwin

Perspectives on a Grafted Tree

 

Thoughts for Those Touched by Adoption

1983

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Written by adoptees, birth parents, adoptive family members, adoption professionals and others, a beautiful and moving illustrated poetry collection about adoption. Describes the blend of gain and loss, happiness sand pain, which are all part of the adoption experience.

 

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Karen, Robert

Becoming Attached

 

 

1994

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Seminal work on attachment theory for a general audience. Starts with history of attachment, and continues to contemporary issues. An eye-opening presentation of the fierce debates that have transformed the way we think about human bonds.

 

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Title

Subtitle

Year

Levy, Terry and

Orlans, Michael

Attachment, Trauma, and Healing

Therapy for Children and Families

1998

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Examines causes of attachment disorder and provides an in-depth discussion of effective treatments, which include attachment-focused assessment and diagnosis, specialized education and training for caregivers, early intervention and prevention, etc.

 

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Year

Keck, Gregory and Kupecky, Regina

Parenting the Hurt Child

 

Helping Adoptive Families Heal and Grow

2002

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Some adoptees come to their new home with hurts from the past that can affect an entire family. With time, patience, and informed parenting, the child can heal, grow and develop beyond what seems possible now. Wise book, helps parents preserve their sanity.

 

Author

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Subtitle

Year

Ryan, Jane

Broken Spirits - Lost Souls

 

Loving Children with Attachment and Bonding Difficulty

2002

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Provides a wealth of information relating to the disorder and the hurt and pain that families experience living with disturbed children. The serious problem of Attachment Disorders affects families all over the world.

 

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Stone, Sherril

More Than Love

 

Adopting and Surviving Attachment Disorder Children

2001

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The hurt experienced by adoptive parents whose children are suffering from attachment disorder is real and should not be ignored. Book provides parents with early warning signs and symptoms and makes recommendations for diffusing difficult situations.

 

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Subtitle

Year

Tepper, T.; Hannon, L. and Sandstrom, D

International Adoption

Challenges and Opportunities

1999

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If adopting from abroad, it is important to recognize that your child may exhibit symptoms of attachment disorder, sensory or auditory integration problems, fetal alcohol syndrome, or language delays. Compiled by parents of post institutionalized children.

 

Author

Title

Subtitle

Year

Verier, Nancy

The Primal Wound

 

Understanding the Adopted Child

1993

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A book that is forceful and courageous in the way it approaches the subject of adoption. Using pre and perinatal psychology, attachment, bonding, and loss, it illuminates the effects that separation from their birthmother has on adopted children.

 

Author

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Subtitle

Year

Severson, Randolph

Can't You Sit Still?

Adoption and Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder

 

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Written specifically for adoptive parents, this book offers eloquent but practical advice about ADHD. In addition to providing concrete inventive advice about behavior management, medication, and diet, also provides a message of hope.

 

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Subtitle

Year

Glatz, Janet

Fostering or Adopting the Troubled Child

A Guide for Parents and Professionals

1998

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Highly recommended for prospective foster or adoptive parents of older children, as a companion to their preparation and training. Covers all the steps in the process of bringing a troubled child into one's home. Advice is practical and very wise.

 

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Subtitle

Year

Gray, Deborah D.

Attaching in Adoption

 

Practical Tools for Today's Parents

2002

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Written by a clinical Social Worker, takes a close look at how children and families adjust. Especially pertains to adopting older children who may have been abused/neglected. Encourages realistic expectations and offers excellent practical suggestions for bonding.

 

Author

Title

Subtitle

Year

Keck, Gregory and Kupecky, Regina

Adopting the Hurt Child

 

Hope for Families with Special Needs Kids

1995

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Adopting a "waiting child" today may mean dealing with the difficult emotional and behavioral problems that children develop when they have been deeply hurt. Using real stories of real families, book gives practical info and advice. Realistic yet hopeful.

 

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Subtitle

Year

McCreight, Brenda

Parenting Your Adopted Older Child

 

 

2002

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Excellent advice with lists of wise practical ideas to ease a child's adjustment and help him deal with the pain of loss. Whole chapters on dealing with behavior issues. Author really knows these kids. No glamorizing of the problems. A truly valuable book.

 

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Melina, Lois R.

Raising Adopted Children

 

Practical Reassuring Advice for Every Adoptive Parent

1998

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Parent's Guide to rearing children in an adoptive family. Drawing from child development, psychology, sociology, medicine, and experience, examines child's development at each age. Special topics: multi-racial, serious behaviors, single parents.

 

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Subtitle

Year

Delaney, Richard

Raising Cain

 

Caring for Troubled Youngsters, Repairing our System

1998

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Aptly describes the many behavioral and emotional problems that foster and adoptive parents face. Offers practical help in managing severely disturbed kids. Better at identifying problems than solving them.

 

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Subtitle

Year

Fahlberg, Vera

A Child's Journey Through Placement

 

 

1991

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A must-have, very readable professional book about children: their stages of development, their bonding and attachment, their grief upon separation. Guide to minimize trauma as children move from foster to adoptive home. Great sections on managing behaviors.

 

Author

Title

Subtitle

Year

Brisch, Karl Heinz

Treating Attachment Disorders

 

From Therapy to Therapy

1999

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Offers in-depth analysis of the many manifestations and intensities of attachment problems, from pre-conception, to post-birth and post-adoption. With comprehensive yet easy to understand text, this is a great resource for parents and professionals.

 

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Subtitle

Year

Cline, Foster and Helding, Cathy

Can This Child Be Saved?

Solutions for Adoptive and Foster Families

1999

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Some children have been severely and permanently damaged by their pasts, resulting in behavioral, psychiatric, emotional, and neurological disorders. Offers hope, help, encouragement, support, and concrete parenting techniques to struggling families

 

Author

Title

Subtitle

Year

Cline, Foster and Helding, Cathy

Adopted and Foster Child Assessment

 

1999

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Designed to be used by parents as a pre clinical assessment tool for identifying problems or predicting future ones in adopted or foster children who have been in the home for at least 6 months. Easily scored by non professionals

 

Author

Title

Subtitle

Year

Delaney, Richard

The Healing Power of the Family

Overview of Life with a Troubled Foster or Adopted Child

1998

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A non-technical approach to understanding and treating disturbed foster or adopted children. Describes most common behavioral problems, explains their powerful negative impact on parents, and gives examples of family-based interventions.

 

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Subtitle

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Barth, R.; Freundlich, M.; Brodzinski, D.

Adoption and Prenatal Alcohol and Drug Exposure

 

Research, Policy, and Practice

2000

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Book addresses many important issues re adoption and substance exposure in utero, including impact on children's early well being as well as on long term development. Illustrates the remedial effects of a positive postnatal environment.

 

Author

Title

Subtitle

Year

Fahlberg, Vera

Residential Treatment

A Tapestry of Many Therapies

 

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This book is long awaited contribution to the difficult and misunderstood field of residential treatment as an effective form of out of home therapy for the severely disturbed child. Modeled on the highly regarded 35 year work of forest heights lodge in evergreen, Colorado, this book offers hope and help to families and to professionals.

 

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Feiertag, Richard

Adoption of Children

 

 

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Studies of personality development consistently show that a stable and secure environment is a major determinant of ego strength and social competence in children. Such environment is best provided in a the parent - child relationship within a traditional family setting.

 

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Subtitle

Year

Hoopes, Janet

Prediction in Child Development

 

 

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A Longitudinal Study of Adoptive and Non adoptive Families

 

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Wasklick, Bruce

The Many Faces of Depression in Children & Adolescents

 

 

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