Books for professionals on
Birth Families

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Author

Title

Subtitle

Year

Romanchik, Brenda

A Birthparent's Book of Memories

 

1999

Notes

A keepsake that a birthparent can fill out for their child. Places to record a description of birthparent's childhood, family, friends, family traditions, a section on the adoption decision, and a place to recount memorable moments with the child.

 

Author

Title

Subtitle

Year

Roles, Patricia,

Saying Goodbye to Baby: Vol. I

 

Birthparent's Guide to Loss and Grief in Adoption

1991

Notes

We have not always recognized the right and need of birthparents to grieve. Until recently, they were told they would forget their child, get on with their lives, and have other children. Written for all birthmothers who share a common bond of unspoken loss.

 

Author

Title

Subtitle

Year

Wolch-March, Mary J.

A Birth Mother's Day Planner

 

 

1996

Notes

Birth Mother's Day grew out of the author's journey after losing her infant daughter to adoption. It's a day to honor and recall the motherhood experience by birthmothers. Book provides all the information needed to plan such a day - the 2nd Sat in May.

 

Author

Title

Subtitle

Year

Wilkinson,Dr. S and Fox, Nancy

After the Morning Calm

 

Reflections of Korean Adoptees

2002

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A collection of stories written by Korean adoptees about their adoption experience and the obstacles found along the way to accepting their new life in America. Told with passion and honesty. Includes search for birthparents and issues of the visit to Korea.

 

Author

Title

Subtitle

Year

Johnston, Patricia Irwin

Launching a Baby's Adoption

 

 

1997

Notes

Excellent book for all prospective adopters and birth parents to help them prepare for the "big event" of adopting a baby. Covers the before, during, and after of the placement, with an emphasis on baby's needs and development. Special section for professionals.

 

Author

Title

Subtitle

Year

Townshend, Rita and Perkins, Ann

Bitter Fruit

 

1990

Notes

In their own words, women tell their stories of discovering their pregnancy, making the difficult decision to abort, place for adoption, or keep to raise, and then struggling to live with their decision. Tender and honest, a sad but beautiful book.

 

Author

Title

Subtitle

Year

Handel,Nelson

Reaching Out

 

Guide to Writing a Terrific Dear Birth Mother Letter

2001

Notes

Provides tips for writing a letter that is unique, individual, and personal. Learn to tap into the personal material that will make your letter special and to speak your heart authentically, clearly, and with impact. Also available on CD-rom to read on PC.

 

Author

Title

Subtitle

Year

Gediman, J.S. and  Brown,L.P.

Birth Bond

Reunions Between Birth Parents and Adoptees-What Happens After

1991

Notes

Written from the perspective of the birth parent, book describes the experiences of many different birth parents who were reunited with the child they once placed for adoption. Their experiences and their post-reunion relationships all varied.

 

Author

Title

Subtitle

Year

Denton, Katherine

Search of a Lifetime

 

 

2000

Notes

A birth mother tells of her search for the child she gave up for adoption. Details how she used the Internet to find her lost child, and the struggle to open records. Story is emotional and sometimes controversial.

 

Author

Title

Subtitle

Year

Silber, Kathleen

Dear Birthmother, Thank You For Our Baby

 

1998

Notes

Seminal book on open adoption, has been updated to reflect current practices. Provides practical suggestions about beginning and maintaining an open adoption. Contains actual letters exchanged. Will help one to carefully consider the issues.


 

 

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