Books for 8 to 12 year olds on
Feelings and Emotions

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Double Dip Feelings

Stories to help Children Understand Emotions

 Cain, Barbara

 

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Learning to cope with ambivalence is not one of the greatest challenges in a child's emotional development. This book, a series of familiar situation illustrate the common yet uncomfortable experience of having two contrasting feelings at the same time.

 

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Everything You Need to Know About Being Adopted

 

 Kaminker, Laura

1999

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Speaking to pre-teen and teen adoptees, author explains adoption vocabulary and issues in understandable terms as she expresses the secret thoughts, feelings, and needs of adopted persons.  Black and white photos.

 

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Helping Your Angry Child

 

 Nemeth, Darylne

 

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An exercise book that helps families deal with anger.

 

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Her Own Song

 

 Howard, Ellen

1988

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Novel for pre-teens based on true story. Set in early 20th century, 11 yr old Millie has suffered being teased about being adopted.  Her hurt feelings have turned her away from teasing others who are different. Surprising turn of events occurs for Millie.

 

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Highs!

Over 150 Ways to Feel Really, Really Good…Without Alcohol or Other Drugs

Packer, Alex

 

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Getting high is fun. It's natural & healthy. It feels great to get a rush, to see the world a little differently to alter our consciousness and take a break from our every day lives.

 

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Is That Your Sister?

A True Story of Adoption

 Bunin, Sherry & Catherine

 

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The author wanted to tell about feelings of a child who was adopted a well as explain the process of adopting.

 

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Mad Isn't Bad

A Child's Book About

 AngerMundy, Michealene

 

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This book is about children having choices- just as caring adults have choices about what they teach children about anger. Through understanding what anger feels like and what triggers it, we can learn and teach healthy ways to handle it.

 

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Sad Isn't Bad

A Good Grief Guidebook for Kids Dealing with

 LossMundy, Michealene

 

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This book offers children of all ages a comforting, realistic look at loss-loaded with positive, life affirming helps for coping with loss as a child.

 

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Sometimes I Drive My Mom Crazy But I Know She's Crazy About Me

A Self Esteem book for ADHD Children

Shapiro, Lawrence E.

 

 

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This book is a heart warming and amusing story of a boy who has developed a sense of self worth by learning to deal with his problems through the help of the adults who care for and about him.

 

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The Long Journey Home

 

 Delaney, Richard

1997

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Children's book that facilitates the discussion of grief and loss along with a desire to search for biological links.


 

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Who Am I?

 

 Gianetti, Charlene

1993

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Book speaks in a very personal tone to pre-teens & teens about the adoption questions they may not have the courage to bring up: Reasons birth parents choose adoption; feeling different; researching roots, not wanting to hurt adoptive parents. Reassuring & wise.

 

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What My Sister Remembered

 

 Sachs, Marilyn

1992

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After their parents' sudden death eight years ago, Mollie and her older sister Beth were separated and adopted by two different families. Now Mollie is 11 and old enough to face some of the bitter feelings and jealousies that Beth will reveal to her. Fiction.

 

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When Mom And Dad Separate

Children Can Learn to Cope with Grief From Divorce


Heegaard, Marge

 

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A workbook that helps children to learn how to cope with grief due to divorce.

 

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When Someone Very Special Dies

Children can Learn to Cope With Grief


Heegaard, Marge

 

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A book about teaching children to learn how to cope with grief.

 

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When Something Terrible Happens

Children Can Learn to Cope With Grief


Heegaard, Marge

 

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A workbook for children to learn how to cope with grief.

 

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Who Is David?

 

 Nerlove, Evelyn

 

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This is the story of David, an adopted adolescent who, like thousands of other, faces the fears and questions adopted children have about their identities.

 

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